"Never thought about a wand. Recommended?"
Wand can be good, especially the mains operated ones. I am, however, very happy with my Marvellous Four collection from Satysfier, purchased through Amazon. It has one rechargeable power head and 4 interchangeable play heads- a wand, a clit sucker, a rabbit and a "banana", which can be used for either penetration or just on clit. |
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By *eliWoman 36 weeks ago
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I'd probably steer clear of a wand... I know some women, myself included, aren't particularly keen on the idea of using particular toys that have been used on others.
Perhaps something simpler. A paddle for impact play (without any writing). Or a blindfold. |
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What Meli said, no problems bringing my own toys but less keen on something intimate provided by the fella. Restraints/sex swing/blindold etc on the other hand, knock yourself out (maybe not literally, think there’s rules about that kind of thing  ) |
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"I'd probably steer clear of a wand... I know some women, myself included, aren't particularly keen on the idea of using particular toys that have been used on others.
Perhaps something simpler. A paddle for impact play (without any writing). Or a blindfold. "
I'd have said a flogger... But most are leather, and unless sanitised properly can retain bodily fluids?... I'm not so meh! That I'll flinch at a well used sex toy used then on me... But it's not that sexy is it? |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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The wand can really hit the spot in regards to cliteral stimulation. We like to use our mains powered ones during sex sometimes. Works great on guys too.
Of course not all women would be up for playing with a toy someone else has used even with thorough clealing. In any situation we share our wand we will put a condom on it. |
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I have quite a collection of toys, plugs, massagers etc. I do also have a wand, which I do use quite often on myself and is quite erotic! … I have also used it when playing with others before now too mmmm .. wonderful mutual fun.
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Another very different type of toy are vampire gloves or spikey gloves. They can be very sensual as the idea behind them is very similar to a pinwheel, but they are much more personal as you're touching the other person with your hand (wearing the glove) rather than just holding a handle of the Wartenburg pinwheel. They are not really meant for spanking but some people do use them for that. In that case, as they are made with leather, you should have a separate glove for each person. |
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All toys can be cleaned if you take the time and use the right chemicals. If you’re really worried just put a condom over a wand or dildo.
A wand is a must have and I prefer the power of a mains powered one, unless you spend silly money on a rechargeable model.
A wand can be effective on men as well as women. |
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"I have a still packed extra girthy dildo under the bed. I missed the window to return it and I can’t keep using it as a door stop  "
I bought one without checking the dimensions first around Christmas. 12.4 inches is not a suitable girth. I put some googly eyes on it and set it next to the TV to try and make it less intimidating over time, but it's still never been used  |
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