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By *inkycatWoman 43 weeks ago
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Absolutely not! I hate how I look having had 4 kids. But I also know that I wouldn’t want my size 8 self and not have these amazing humans. I disguise it as much as I can - experience helps with that!! |
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My wife was a little bit like that and she hated her body. She has stretch marks on her belly. Her boobs are a little bit saggy. But I really do love her body. When we first met a guy who joined us for sex she was so nervous and didn't want to get naked in front of him but when she did she felt so alive because he even said that she has a nice body |
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"Please agree with me that a lady who has had a kid or kids has the most naturally beautiful looking body "
I can't agree because women who haven't had children have naturally beautiful bodies too. |
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"I'm not saying that I'm just highlighting the fact that I find mum bodies sexy. All women are sexy and beautiful but I just wanted to say that I love my wife mum body "
She'll probably appreciate it more if you don't refer to her body as a mum body |
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It's such a huge adjustment to make. No amount of talking / antenatal classes prepare you for coping with the new person in the mirror. 19 months on I still struggle with it.
When something is so etched in your mind it's really hard to see past the changes and agree with statement like that. That's been my experience anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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"Please agree with me that a lady who has had a kid or kids has the most naturally beautiful looking body "
Who is she? No, I’m not agreeing with you.
Actually some women who havnt had kids can looked natural beautiful in my opinion.
Lots of woman have gorgeous bodies by not doing much, just as much as those that work hard at the gym can look super hot.
I genuinely am in the camp where not one type of woman looks better than the other.
Good morning.
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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"These kinda threads although I'm sure well meant, are a little vomit inducing.
I always assume it’s very specifically aimed at a person. Like a homage "
Well then tell the person not the forum. |
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"Yeah I have to agree I think a woman looks good and doesn’t have to hide anything good man "
Sadly it doesn't matter how much we tell them they are beautiful
Once they get in to their heads that they are no longer beautiful
Its a mountain to climb .but
Keep telling them . |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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"These kinda threads although I'm sure well meant, are a little vomit inducing.
I always assume it’s very specifically aimed at a person. Like a homage
Well then tell the person not the forum. "
I didn’t start the thread. Tell him, not me. haha.
I normally do.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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Surely all mums have a mum bod? I'm not even sure what that is to be honest.
I get the sentiment though op and it sounds like it comes from a good place.
Woman can be strange creatures when it comes to our bodies. Living under the pressures of the media to look a certain way causes all sorts of issues for us (guys too, I know).
Therefore its probably best just to say that you appreciate women of all shapes and sizes. |
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"I don't totally agree. I hate my mum body, stretch marks and flabby tummy look ugly on me.
Other ladies look beautiful but I hate my own."
You have Zero things to be concerned about. Embrace yourself and just be you. |
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"I don't totally agree. I hate my mum body, stretch marks and flabby tummy look ugly on me.
Other ladies look beautiful but I hate my own.
You have Zero things to be concerned about. Embrace yourself and just be you. "
Thank you. I've tried for nearly 50 years to love what I have, just doesn't happen. My operation scar is so ugly, but this year I'm going to try and be brave and wear a bikini on holiday for the very 1st time. I feel incredibly nervous about it  |
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"My wife is 58 in 2 weeks time. She's given birth to and raised 3 kids. Has she got wobbly bits, yes. Had she got a yummy, yes. Do I think she looks absolutely feckin Gorgeous, dam right I do.....!"
Tummy, bloody smartphone, where's my Nokia! |
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"I don't totally agree. I hate my mum body, stretch marks and flabby tummy look ugly on me.
Other ladies look beautiful but I hate my own.
You have Zero things to be concerned about. Embrace yourself and just be you.
Thank you. I've tried for nearly 50 years to love what I have, just doesn't happen. My operation scar is so ugly, but this year I'm going to try and be brave and wear a bikini on holiday for the very 1st time. I feel incredibly nervous about it "
Your only obstacle is you. Be yourself and live within your comfort zone. If you want to push your boundaries then do it, if you don't then don't. If far more important to he happy than it is to put yourself in uncomfortable situations and feel bad. Bottom line, be happy first. Honestly you are hot |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"I don't totally agree. I hate my mum body, stretch marks and flabby tummy look ugly on me.
Other ladies look beautiful but I hate my own.
You have Zero things to be concerned about. Embrace yourself and just be you.
Thank you. I've tried for nearly 50 years to love what I have, just doesn't happen. My operation scar is so ugly, but this year I'm going to try and be brave and wear a bikini on holiday for the very 1st time. I feel incredibly nervous about it
Your only obstacle is you. Be yourself and live within your comfort zone. If you want to push your boundaries then do it, if you don't then don't. If far more important to he happy than it is to put yourself in uncomfortable situations and feel bad. Bottom line, be happy first. Honestly you are hot "
Very true and thank you for your kind words. |
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"I don't totally agree. I hate my mum body, stretch marks and flabby tummy look ugly on me.
Other ladies look beautiful but I hate my own.
You have Zero things to be concerned about. Embrace yourself and just be you.
Thank you. I've tried for nearly 50 years to love what I have, just doesn't happen. My operation scar is so ugly, but this year I'm going to try and be brave and wear a bikini on holiday for the very 1st time. I feel incredibly nervous about it
Your only obstacle is you. Be yourself and live within your comfort zone. If you want to push your boundaries then do it, if you don't then don't. If far more important to he happy than it is to put yourself in uncomfortable situations and feel bad. Bottom line, be happy first. Honestly you are hot
Very true and thank you for your kind words. "
Have a great day and a better tomorrow |
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