I actually believe that if you can master your own "randiness", you can gain much self-control.
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As a younger man, I was driven by desires. Now I am driven by needs. Completely different thing.
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I do not initiate or show desire with Mrs DS for example. She initiates with me, when she is in the mood. I am not submissive. I just choose to be in complete control of my desires, and not express them like I used to when I was younger. I turn on the desire after the initiation, not before.
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