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By (user no longer on site) OP 43 weeks ago
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Just received a message that said
"8th or 9th May. You free".
Never spoke to this person before. No face pic. No name. Nothing.
Does this kinda lazy approach ever work?
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By *irthandgirthMan 43 weeks ago
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"Just received a message that said
"8th or 9th May. You free".
Never spoke to this person before. No face pic. No name. Nothing.
Does this kinda lazy approach ever work?
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I had one that was 'are you free this afternoon, my missus has just agreed to a 3sum and I might never get another chance' |
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By *irthandgirthMan 43 weeks ago
Camberley occasionally doncaster |
"I don’t think it works but it is amusing.
I remember that one guy who wanted me to meet him in his hotel room but I would need to hurry up as his checking out was at 12. He messaged me around 10.  "
I'm sure you were there for the 1055-1123 slot |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 43 weeks ago
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It just baffles me. I get it is a swingers site, but the amount of men that think that it's as simple as time and date, go.
They keep doing it, so assume either they really are stupid and don't learn. Or there is women out there somewhere who do it lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 43 weeks ago
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"I don't think it does and it's genuinely lazy and a bit brazen to just flat out ask without getting to know them. That being said... Are you, OP?  "
Ah thanks for the concern. Yes, I am ok. I have my safe space all set up and ready lol. |
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"Just received a message that said
"8th or 9th May. You free".
Never spoke to this person before. No face pic. No name. Nothing.
Does this kinda lazy approach ever work?
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They don't even work on me and I'm a man. |
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"Just received a message that said
"8th or 9th May. You free".
Never spoke to this person before. No face pic. No name. Nothing.
Does this kinda lazy approach ever work?
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Go for it OP call their bluff and say "as it happens yes I am free"  |
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"I don’t think it works but it is amusing.
I remember that one guy who wanted me to meet him in his hotel room but I would need to hurry up as his checking out was at 12. He messaged me around 10.
I'm sure you were there for the 1055-1123 slot "
As I always am
I’m not sure though he is still waiting for my response or not. |
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"I don't think it does and it's genuinely lazy and a bit brazen to just flat out ask without getting to know them. That being said... Are you, OP?
Ah thanks for the concern. Yes, I am ok. I have my safe space all set up and ready lol. "
Was smooth until it backfired |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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"Just received a message that said
"8th or 9th May. You free".
Never spoke to this person before. No face pic. No name. Nothing.
Does this kinda lazy approach ever work?
I had one that was 'are you free this afternoon, my missus has just agreed to a 3sum and I might never get another chance'"
How was it? |
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"I don't think it does and it's genuinely lazy and a bit brazen to just flat out ask without getting to know them. That being said... Are you, OP?
Ah thanks for the concern. Yes, I am ok. I have my safe space all set up and ready lol.
Was smooth until it backfired "
Yeah...I saw that too. OP/OK derailed an otherwise perfect comment I think x |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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"I don't think it does and it's genuinely lazy and a bit brazen to just flat out ask without getting to know them. That being said... Are you, OP?
Ah thanks for the concern. Yes, I am ok. I have my safe space all set up and ready lol. "
I'm glad you're ok, that's far more wholesome than my poor flirting attempt   |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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"I don't think it does and it's genuinely lazy and a bit brazen to just flat out ask without getting to know them. That being said... Are you, OP?
Ah thanks for the concern. Yes, I am ok. I have my safe space all set up and ready lol.
Was smooth until it backfired
Yeah...I saw that too. OP/OK derailed an otherwise perfect comment I think x "
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"I don't think it does and it's genuinely lazy and a bit brazen to just flat out ask without getting to know them. That being said... Are you, OP?
Ah thanks for the concern. Yes, I am ok. I have my safe space all set up and ready lol.
Was smooth until it backfired
Yeah...I saw that too. OP/OK derailed an otherwise perfect comment I think x
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We saw it Joe. We saw it, and it was marvellous  |
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By *irthandgirthMan 43 weeks ago
Camberley occasionally doncaster |
"Just received a message that said
"8th or 9th May. You free".
Never spoke to this person before. No face pic. No name. Nothing.
Does this kinda lazy approach ever work?
I had one that was 'are you free this afternoon, my missus has just agreed to a 3sum and I might never get another chance'
How was it?"
I marked the message unread.. |
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By *irthandgirthMan 43 weeks ago
Camberley occasionally doncaster |
"I don’t think it works but it is amusing.
I remember that one guy who wanted me to meet him in his hotel room but I would need to hurry up as his checking out was at 12. He messaged me around 10.
I'm sure you were there for the 1055-1123 slot
As I always am
I’m not sure though he is still waiting for my response or not. "
Well if you can get to Hampshire for 1pm I will throw in some lunch  |
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"Just received a message that said
"8th or 9th May. You free".
Never spoke to this person before. No face pic. No name. Nothing.
Does this kinda lazy approach ever work?
Go for it OP call their bluff and say "as it happens yes I am free" "
^^^^^  yes this!! |
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"Anyone free for tea, cake and a boobie grope at 9:48am and 20 seconds on Sunday the 14th?
Which cake is it?
It can be any cake, except coffee and walnut "
Damn...I'd consider joining the Ghey Collective for coffee and walnut... |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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Not all messages but mine was ASAP where do guys get off...
50% of fab guys that desperate still in 2024. Poor souls. My filter has seen more and hidden my profile. Tired of
Meet now ASAP as first message where is the sense |
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"It just baffles me. I get it is a swingers site, but the amount of men that think that it's as simple as time and date, go.
They keep doing it, so assume either they really are stupid and don't learn. Or there is women out there somewhere who do it lol"
Not just men couples are just as bad! |
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"I don’t think it works but it is amusing.
I remember that one guy who wanted me to meet him in his hotel room but I would need to hurry up as his checking out was at 12. He messaged me around 10.
I'm sure you were there for the 1055-1123 slot
As I always am
I’m not sure though he is still waiting for my response or not.
Well if you can get to Hampshire for 1pm I will throw in some lunch "
What are you cooking? |
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By *mmaleiaWoman 43 weeks ago
Trowbridge |
"I don’t think it works but it is amusing.
I remember that one guy who wanted me to meet him in his hotel room but I would need to hurry up as his checking out was at 12. He messaged me around 10.
I'm sure you were there for the 1055-1123 slot
As I always am
I’m not sure though he is still waiting for my response or not.
Well if you can get to Hampshire for 1pm I will throw in some lunch
What are you cooking?"
. Something mouth watering, his dishes always sound amazing |
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"I don’t think it works but it is amusing.
I remember that one guy who wanted me to meet him in his hotel room but I would need to hurry up as his checking out was at 12. He messaged me around 10.
I'm sure you were there for the 1055-1123 slot
As I always am
I’m not sure though he is still waiting for my response or not.
Well if you can get to Hampshire for 1pm I will throw in some lunch
What are you cooking?. Something mouth watering, his dishes always sound amazing "
I shall be on my way then. |
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"...Does this kinda lazy approach ever work?"
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If a person posts an "Add a Meet" from the "Meets & Events" section in their profile, then potentially yes.
Through direct messaging? Most probably not. |
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By *irthandgirthMan 43 weeks ago
Camberley occasionally doncaster |
"I don’t think it works but it is amusing.
I remember that one guy who wanted me to meet him in his hotel room but I would need to hurry up as his checking out was at 12. He messaged me around 10.
I'm sure you were there for the 1055-1123 slot
As I always am
I’m not sure though he is still waiting for my response or not.
Well if you can get to Hampshire for 1pm I will throw in some lunch
What are you cooking?"
I made a quick chicken Nasi Goreng. I still have some |
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"It just baffles me. I get it is a swingers site, but the amount of men that think that it's as simple as time and date, go.
They keep doing it, so assume either they really are stupid and don't learn. Or there is women out there somewhere who do it lol
Not just men couples are just as bad!"
Can confirm this too
On my couple profile we had one couple ask Jack to get me up out of bed because they were horny.
It was after midnight and he'd been chatting to them earlier that day. |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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"Anyone free for tea, cake and a boobie grope at 9:48am and 20 seconds on Sunday the 14th?
Which cake is it?
It can be any cake, except coffee and walnut "
Lemon drizzle? |
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"Just received a message that said
"8th or 9th May. You free".
Never spoke to this person before. No face pic. No name. Nothing.
Does this kinda lazy approach ever work?
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I've had similar, short notice invites, usually at around 1 in the morning, when the wife has had enough to drink to finally agree to a threesome....  |
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By *TG3Man 43 weeks ago
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"Just received a message that said
"8th or 9th May. You free".
Never spoke to this person before. No face pic. No name. Nothing.
Does this kinda lazy approach ever work?
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lol hey he's got your attention one way or the other |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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I would never have the nerve to send something like that especially if you had never spoke to the person before. that said I did jokingly use the line grab ya coat luv you've pulled in a club once and that to my astonishment worked  |
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I would say it's the long shot. However I guess a lot also depends on the profile and verifications.
However it must work sometimes especially if in addition the dates, photos, profile and verifications look good to the person being asked. Because although people all do this differently we are here to fulfil our desires and open to opportunities that look promising.
In principle I dont see a problem with opening about particular dates. In a way when people have busy lives it can be handy to have a particular date time frame to work around. Being a working single parent I understand this. And totally understand finding a free window in the calendar and trying to sort something for that. Although even then I think it's very rarely a case of just go on then. Although it can be handy to have a date to work around I think most people still want to sus people out more prior to committing. And obviously durring that process something down the line may be said to put them off.
So yes not impossible I don't think.
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