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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Four years ago on the 25th of March 2009 I lost my big brother Jamie!
He was my best friend aswell as my big bro, I still miss him so much and will never get over losing him!!!
Not dealing with the anniversary very well!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Four years ago on the 25th of March 2009 I lost my big brother Jamie!
He was my best friend aswell as my big bro, I still miss him so much and will never get over losing him!!!
Not dealing with the anniversary very well!!!!!"
Just think of all the happy times you had together . he will be in your heart for ever he will always be with you . Huge hugs to you sweetie xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Four years ago on the 25th of March 2009 I lost my big brother Jamie!
He was my best friend aswell as my big bro, I still miss him so much and will never get over losing him!!!
Not dealing with the anniversary very well!!!!!"
Hugs and take care xx  |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
Hull |
I know what you are going through and fully understand how you are feeling right now!
I lost a dear friend 2 years ago in May, but it was on my birthday, so each year is more poignant than before and people do say that time heals. Maybe for some it does, but we are all different and react in different ways.
I get round it by concentrating on all the happy times we had, the great memories when she made me smile, when we worked together and how much good she brought into everyone's lives around her including her family. You can never forget these good aspects, but take comfort from them.
Hugs down the line from this part of the UK. |
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By *quirrelMan
over a year ago
East Manchester |
I can understand your pain and wish you well, but, would your brother really want you to be sad?
It was a tragedy that he died so young so you being morose and sad would probably upset him. Death does not change our relationships with those that pass away, it only changes our obligations to them.
Be happy for having known him and celebrate his life by remembering him with a happy heart not a sad one. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"I can understand your pain and wish you well, but, would your brother really want you to be sad?
It was a tragedy that he died so young so you being morose and sad would probably upset him. Death does not change our relationships with those that pass away, it only changes our obligations to them.
Be happy for having known him and celebrate his life by remembering him with a happy heart not a sad one."
A lovely and sensitive post!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So not dealing with it well at all, I though it would get easier but I was so wrong!!!! Thank u for all your lovely comments, this is not a attention seeking post, I just feel so much pain and don't know how to deal with it xxx very d*unk which I know doesn't help but the only way I feel I can cope xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"it never gets easier either i lost my sister 2006 she was 19 yrs old so no how your feeling sending you hugs xxx"
Bless ya Hun xxx they say time heals but I don't think it does xxx |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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Am so sorry to hear your struggling. I jave only had one death that I struggled to deal with but not when death has happened far too soon.
Just get through the day the best you can and I hope you manage to find a smile in the coming weeks to break out from the hurt.
Sending warm hugs xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sorry to read that, it will always be difficult but try to deal with it proactively. I have a friend around your age who lost his best friend years ago and he gets very depressed every anniversary. So he spends the whole month around the anniversary going out and doing the things they used to do together with other friends to celebrate his life; living for two if you will. I hope you feel better soon! |
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"will never get over losing him!!!
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One should never try and get over losing a loved one, coming to terms with their loss, should help with the grieving process.
Trust you're feeling better today  |
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