Me and ex were swinging for a number of years and I lo ed it trying to introduce my wife she seems to be into the fantasy of it but really nervous about the reality she not confident enough for a club visit any one any suggestions how can make fantasy into reality |
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By *CLM87Woman 30 weeks ago
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Firstly I would suggest starting a couples profile.
That way she can have a look around and see what she thinks... also looks less red flag than if you are asking from a singles profile.
Also a social first... she can talk to the guy and make sure she's feeling happy and doesn't get put in a room where she may feel she can't say stop or no.
I hope she enjoys it  |
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Give it some time. Anything that feels like pressure is really off-putting. It took at least a year from B planting the seed of the idea for me to even consider going anywhere. And even then we went to a club in Amsterdam because it felt less like real life.
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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"Judging by your status update you already have a plan ? Advertising which hotel you are going to be in, and advertising for a man to come chat her up ?
Well, what can possibly go wrong there  "
Sitcoms cannot compete. |
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"Judging by your status update you already have a plan ? Advertising which hotel you are going to be in, and advertising for a man to come chat her up ?
Well, what can possibly go wrong there
Sitcoms cannot compete."
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"Judging by your status update you already have a plan ? Advertising which hotel you are going to be in, and advertising for a man to come chat her up ?"
Advice - don't do your status!!
Couples profile and show her around, don't try to set her up without her consent.
Some people just aren't into it and that's ok.
Mrs |
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