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"But men, you can join in if you want, I guess. So. Do you have a G-spot? Is it quite easy to find? And as a sort of linked question (I think), have you squirted before?" I do .... I have had some lovely orgasms when it's been found by a gentleman.... but I am not a squirter | |||
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"No i dont, No (but I've found others) ((2 knuckles deep and a come hither motion)) Occasionally this has lead to squirting. But I'm not sure the two are intertwined. "Have you always found women to have them? 2 knuckles deep... I guess it depends on their positioning and your hand size. I'm not sure if they are but they could be - I've never for the latter and I don't think I have the former. | |||
"But men, you can join in if you want, I guess. So. Do you have a G-spot? Is it quite easy to find? And as a sort of linked question (I think), have you squirted before?" It took me 27 years for someone to find my G spot. And as of yet I have not involuntarily lost bladder function. Saphi | |||
"No i dont, No (but I've found others) ((2 knuckles deep and a come hither motion)) Occasionally this has lead to squirting. But I'm not sure the two are intertwined.
Have you always found women to have them? 2 knuckles deep... I guess it depends on their positioning and your hand size.
I'm not sure if they are but they could be - I've never for the latter and I don't think I have the former."I hate the come hither thing, it's squirmy and not in a good way. I wish people didn't look for it that way. Just do it with your damn cock. 
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"Yes, yes and yes. I don't know that it's necessarily easy for someone else to find but if they're getting it right I'll let them know. Not with exact words, more a keep going, don't stop type thing. J" ^^ this exactly x | |||
"No i dont, No (but I've found others) ((2 knuckles deep and a come hither motion)) Occasionally this has lead to squirting. But I'm not sure the two are intertwined.
Have you always found women to have them? 2 knuckles deep... I guess it depends on their positioning and your hand size.
I'm not sure if they are but they could be - I've never for the latter and I don't think I have the former."Wouldn't say ALWAYS found them. That's a bit too much for my ego to take. I think alot of it, depends alot on arousal, the more aroused the more blood flow, the better it is for all. As we all know, alot can affect arousal. Sleep, food, hydration. Attraction. "The moment" So I think it's all dependant for each and every single time | |||
"Yes, but never squirted but I’ve tried everything I could to. Disclaimer; please don’t message me asking if you can try " You’ll be gushing come teatime | |||
"No I don't think I have and no I haven't. " Have you ever tried to find it? A couple of months ago I received a very detailed voicenote from a friend who'd successfully found hers. Tried the same thing but nope. Zero. Legs akimbo and lube aplenty and I just ended up with bedding that needed to be washed rather than the earth shattering orgasm I wanted. I really like that I can ask all these questions somewhere.  | |||
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"Yes, but never squirted but I’ve tried everything I could to. Disclaimer; please don’t message me asking if you can try You’ll be gushing come teatime " In their wanks   | |||
"Yes, but never squirted but I’ve tried everything I could to. Disclaimer; please don’t message me asking if you can try You’ll be gushing come teatime In their wanks "Obviously | |||
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"But men, you can join in if you want, I guess. So. Do you have a G-spot? Is it quite easy to find? And as a sort of linked question (I think), have you squirted before? I do .... I have had some lovely orgasms when it's been found by a gentleman.... but I am not a squirter" Is there a particular technique that these lovely gentlemen employ or is it more stumbled across in the heat of the moment thing? | |||
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"It's just the back end of the clitoris, right. I have a good steel toy for poking and prodding at it." Oh I'm skipping but just seen this as posting another reply and needed to ask. Is it the Njoy? A lover gifted me one but nothing. Maybe I'm not poking and prodding myself properly. | |||
"Don't know. I have squirted, but I don't really like it. It doesn't bring me pleasure and it just feels like a badge of achievement for the guy. Which isn't what I'm looking for sexually. Mrs TMN x" It’s definitely a Boy Scout badge | |||
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"Yes, but never squirted but I’ve tried everything I could to. Disclaimer; please don’t message me asking if you can try " Disclaimer very much needed no doubt | |||
I am a squirter too and gspot orgasms definitely set that off for me. Xx | |||
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"It's just the back end of the clitoris, right. I have a good steel toy for poking and prodding at it. Oh I'm skipping but just seen this as posting another reply and needed to ask. Is it the Njoy? A lover gifted me one but nothing. Maybe I'm not poking and prodding myself properly." NJoy Pure Wand, yeh. There's a whole bunch of variation when it comes to the clitoris, it could well be that yours just doesn't reach that far back. Think about how different the front of it can be
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"Don't know. I have squirted, but I don't really like it. It doesn't bring me pleasure and it just feels like a badge of achievement for the guy. Which isn't what I'm looking for sexually. Mrs TMN x It’s definitely a Boy Scout badge " Dib dib dib dob dob dob | |||
"Yes, yes and yes. I don't know that it's necessarily easy for someone else to find but if they're getting it right I'll let them know. Not with exact words, more a keep going, don't stop type thing. J" Hi Julie! Glad you posted, I feel comfortable asking you questions in the unmasked autistic way I excel at. So, does it feel noticeably different? Does it lead to orgasm for you inevitably? Do you find particular *items* being more effective to find it? As in fingers, penis etc. | |||
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"But men, you can join in if you want, I guess. So. Do you have a G-spot? Is it quite easy to find? And as a sort of linked question (I think), have you squirted before? It took me 27 years for someone to find my G spot. And as of yet I have not involuntarily lost bladder function. Saphi" 27 years. Gosh. That's an awfully long time! What changed that made it click? As in, work for you? | |||
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"But men, you can join in if you want, I guess. So. Do you have a G-spot? Is it quite easy to find? And as a sort of linked question (I think), have you squirted before?" So...my own equivalent of a G-spot. It's there...it wanders in its location a little, and it equally wanders in how or whether it chooses to dance at the party. For my interactions with women - those who have wanted to explore, we've invariably found her G-spot. It tends to reveal itself more happily under arousal and trust. It can also have little friends in other regions that join in sometimes. Squirting. I'm not sure I set out with "Objective: Secure location and render to squirtblivion", but a lot of responding to cues, intuition, some sort of empathetic connection etc does help the overall pleasure and arousal, my female friends have reported that the G-spot has only been part of their body "building" to something big, and the overall thing has had squirting or gushing as an outcome, not an objective. It has also often left them touching an alternate state of consciousness, which I often like to build on and take them there again. A very, very thin line between "too much, stop" and "I can feel something more wanting to emerge". I do like to take them even further into that "beyond" place, because it is very much a different level of consciousness, and when they're there they can finally meet and talk with all my own invisible friends from the past, present, and future (part metaphor, part not). So at that point, my female friend understands me a little better. | |||
"Yes, but never squirted but I’ve tried everything I could to. Disclaimer; please don’t message me asking if you can try " Okay, message received. I won't. 
Being serious, I really hope people don't get those messages from this thread. I wanted a space to ask these questions but not in a Sexy Sex way. | |||
"Yes, yes and yes. I don't know that it's necessarily easy for someone else to find but if they're getting it right I'll let them know. Not with exact words, more a keep going, don't stop type thing. J Hi Julie! Glad you posted, I feel comfortable asking you questions in the unmasked autistic way I excel at. So, does it feel noticeably different? Does it lead to orgasm for you inevitably? Do you find particular *items* being more effective to find it? As in fingers, penis etc." I feel like porn or books give the impression that it's a magic spot that you just touch and boom - instant squirty orgasm. I think that's what I thought. As I said above, I dislike the come hither thing. It definitely finds my G spot but in an uncomfortable, squirmy, oversensitive way. I will not get turned on. So it's definitely not an inevitable thing. For me what works is being something with a gentle ridge (a cock is perfect and my tentacle works too) and the outstroke hits just right, way more than the instroke. (Are instroke and outstroke actual words, have I made them up to suit?) It needs to be a regular rhythm pulling far enough out each time. It will build and build until OMFG time. It does feel like a different orgasm for me, it's very intense but without the oversensitivity that can come with a clitoral orgasm. So it's an AGAIN! MORE! type thing.
I don't squirt/gush every time. It's more likely if there's clitoral stimulation at the same time.
Thank you for coming (fnar) to my G spot Ted Talk.
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"Yes, but never squirted but I’ve tried everything I could to. Disclaimer; please don’t message me asking if you can try Okay, message received. I won't.
Being serious, I really hope people don't get those messages from this thread. I wanted a space to ask these questions but not in a Sexy Sex way."Wasn’t aimed at you Meli but you know how it is on here.
I’m trying to find a toy I found it’s like a thrusting rabbit, but it doesn’t thrust, it has a coil that spins round under the silicone, it’s the only toy I’ve found that hits it right, I have loads of the curved 1s & they’ve never done anything, but I guess we’re all built differently | |||
"No I don't think I have and no I haven't. " same!! | |||
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"Don't know. I have squirted, but I don't really like it. It doesn't bring me pleasure and it just feels like a badge of achievement for the guy. Which isn't what I'm looking for sexually. Mrs TMN x" Yes, I think some people see squirting as being the best thing ever and a sign of their incredible sexual prowess. If it's not for you, it's not for you. | |||
"My understanding is every woman has a G-spot. Maybe not all women knows where it is. I did a learning session with a sex therapist who showed me on a diagram where it is. It seems unlikely to me that it wouldn't be there on a lot of women. " A sex therapist learning session sounds really quite cool! I'm not sure that because it's on a diagram it means it exists in a lot of women. Maybe it's tiny in some. I don't know. Clearly thinking out loud here. | |||
"No I don't think I have and no I haven't. Have you ever tried to find it? A couple of months ago I received a very detailed voicenote from a friend who'd successfully found hers. Tried the same thing but nope. Zero. Legs akimbo and lube aplenty and I just ended up with bedding that needed to be washed rather than the earth shattering orgasm I wanted. I really like that I can ask all these questions somewhere. "No I haven't. I've tried various dildo type things that are supposed to hit my g spot and found them extremely uncomfortable so I've never really bothered. I really like that these questions can be asked too. | |||
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"It's just the back end of the clitoris, right. I have a good steel toy for poking and prodding at it. Oh I'm skipping but just seen this as posting another reply and needed to ask. Is it the Njoy? A lover gifted me one but nothing. Maybe I'm not poking and prodding myself properly. NJoy Pure Wand, yeh. There's a whole bunch of variation when it comes to the clitoris, it could well be that yours just doesn't reach that far back. Think about how different the front of it can be
Maybe invite your friend around for some digging lessons "Ah I thought so! That's the one a lover gave. I might try it again tonight. That's a good point, the variation within anatomy. How deep it can go. I might ask someone. It feels a bit selfish though saying "Hey, fancy helping me find my g-spot?" | |||
"It's just the back end of the clitoris, right. I have a good steel toy for poking and prodding at it. Oh I'm skipping but just seen this as posting another reply and needed to ask. Is it the Njoy? A lover gifted me one but nothing. Maybe I'm not poking and prodding myself properly. NJoy Pure Wand, yeh. There's a whole bunch of variation when it comes to the clitoris, it could well be that yours just doesn't reach that far back. Think about how different the front of it can be
Maybe invite your friend around for some digging lessons
Ah I thought so! That's the one a lover gave. I might try it again tonight.
That's a good point, the variation within anatomy. How deep it can go.
I might ask someone. It feels a bit selfish though saying "Hey, fancy helping me find my g-spot?" "Ask away Meli. And watch your inbox explode | |||
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"I traveled on concord once and we flew so fast the forces created a G-Spot on my face " Haha | |||
I haven't looked back! Now I know what my body is capable of I have some degree of control iykwim. Now I know where my g spot is it can have dramatic squirting results including during penetration. For me it was having the right partner with the right experience. Please feel free to ask me any further questions if I can help x | |||
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"But men, you can join in if you want, I guess. So. Do you have a G-spot? Is it quite easy to find? And as a sort of linked question (I think), have you squirted before? So...my own equivalent of a G-spot. It's there...it wanders in its location a little, and it equally wanders in how or whether it chooses to dance at the party. For my interactions with women - those who have wanted to explore, we've invariably found her G-spot. It tends to reveal itself more happily under arousal and trust. It can also have little friends in other regions that join in sometimes. Squirting. I'm not sure I set out with "Objective: Secure location and render to squirtblivion", but a lot of responding to cues, intuition, some sort of empathetic connection etc does help the overall pleasure and arousal, my female friends have reported that the G-spot has only been part of their body "building" to something big, and the overall thing has had squirting or gushing as an outcome, not an objective. It has also often left them touching an alternate state of consciousness, which I often like to build on and take them there again. A very, very thin line between "too much, stop" and "I can feel something more wanting to emerge". I do like to take them even further into that "beyond" place, because it is very much a different level of consciousness, and when they're there they can finally meet and talk with all my own invisible friends from the past, present, and future (part metaphor, part not). So at that point, my female friend understands me a little better." What a brilliant detailed response, thank you. It's interesting reading about it from a male perspective in this style - I'm glad you posted. I think arousal and trust plays a rather big part in a person relaxing and thus any likelihood of stimulation in this manner is more likely to occur. I've heard about the "building sensation" before, I guess that's part of why I wondered if there was a correlation between G-spot stimulation and squirting/gushing. | |||
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"All women have one.its called a clitoras. I can find it no problem but men not so much . No never squirted and if I'm being honest I don't think I'd want to. " The clitoris isn't the G-spot, the G-spot is inside the vagina, the clit is outside P | |||
"All women have one.its called a clitoras. I can find it no problem but men not so much . No never squirted and if I'm being honest I don't think I'd want to. The clitoris isn't the G-spot, the G-spot is inside the vagina, the clit is outside P" Can't believe I've gotten to 55 and didn't know that Hahaha | |||
"Yes, yes and yes. I don't know that it's necessarily easy for someone else to find but if they're getting it right I'll let them know. Not with exact words, more a keep going, don't stop type thing. J Hi Julie! Glad you posted, I feel comfortable asking you questions in the unmasked autistic way I excel at. So, does it feel noticeably different? Does it lead to orgasm for you inevitably? Do you find particular *items* being more effective to find it? As in fingers, penis etc. I feel like porn or books give the impression that it's a magic spot that you just touch and boom - instant squirty orgasm. I think that's what I thought. As I said above, I dislike the come hither thing. It definitely finds my G spot but in an uncomfortable, squirmy, oversensitive way. I will not get turned on. So it's definitely not an inevitable thing. For me what works is being something with a gentle ridge (a cock is perfect and my tentacle works too) and the outstroke hits just right, way more than the instroke. (Are instroke and outstroke actual words, have I made them up to suit?) It needs to be a regular rhythm pulling far enough out each time. It will build and build until OMFG time. It does feel like a different orgasm for me, it's very intense but without the oversensitivity that can come with a clitoral orgasm. So it's an AGAIN! MORE! type thing.
I don't squirt/gush every time. It's more likely if there's clitoral stimulation at the same time.
Thank you for coming (fnar) to my G spot Ted Talk.
J"You're an absolute star J, thank you. Yes, in my head I thought it would be a couple of strokes of something that's noticeably pronounced? Felt? And then bam. Earth shattering orgasm. A regular rhythm and that pulling out stimulation makes a lot of sense. Such a star! If I have any more questions I'll just voicenote you. x | |||
"My understanding is every woman has a G-spot. Maybe not all women knows where it is. I did a learning session with a sex therapist who showed me on a diagram where it is. It seems unlikely to me that it wouldn't be there on a lot of women. " We need to see this diagram | |||
"But men, you can join in if you want, I guess. So. Do you have a G-spot? Is it quite easy to find? And as a sort of linked question (I think), have you squirted before? So...my own equivalent of a G-spot. It's there...it wanders in its location a little, and it equally wanders in how or whether it chooses to dance at the party. For my interactions with women - those who have wanted to explore, we've invariably found her G-spot. It tends to reveal itself more happily under arousal and trust. It can also have little friends in other regions that join in sometimes. Squirting. I'm not sure I set out with "Objective: Secure location and render to squirtblivion", but a lot of responding to cues, intuition, some sort of empathetic connection etc does help the overall pleasure and arousal, my female friends have reported that the G-spot has only been part of their body "building" to something big, and the overall thing has had squirting or gushing as an outcome, not an objective. It has also often left them touching an alternate state of consciousness, which I often like to build on and take them there again. A very, very thin line between "too much, stop" and "I can feel something more wanting to emerge". I do like to take them even further into that "beyond" place, because it is very much a different level of consciousness, and when they're there they can finally meet and talk with all my own invisible friends from the past, present, and future (part metaphor, part not). So at that point, my female friend understands me a little better. What a brilliant detailed response, thank you. It's interesting reading about it from a male perspective in this style - I'm glad you posted. I think arousal and trust plays a rather big part in a person relaxing and thus any likelihood of stimulation in this manner is more likely to occur. I've heard about the "building sensation" before, I guess that's part of why I wondered if there was a correlation between G-spot stimulation and squirting/gushing." Thanks Meli. Yes - G-spot and squirting correlate, but not strictly and absolutely from my/my friends' experience. Some women can have G-spot orgasms and/or squirt fairly easily - their confident mental presentation and physical make-up will do that. Generally, I think there's a lot more "finding confidence, experimenting, and giving yourself a break" for a lot of women, because culturally you're not (still) raised in the range of confidence-requiring issues men are. Hopefully your daughters and granddaughters will be able to have explosive orgasms and squirtfests whilst running their luxury socialist cooperatives this century. Yeah - it's supposed to sound wrong. That makes it right. Confidence, init xxxx | |||
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"It's just the back end of the clitoris, right. I have a good steel toy for poking and prodding at it. Oh I'm skipping but just seen this as posting another reply and needed to ask. Is it the Njoy? A lover gifted me one but nothing. Maybe I'm not poking and prodding myself properly. NJoy Pure Wand, yeh. There's a whole bunch of variation when it comes to the clitoris, it could well be that yours just doesn't reach that far back. Think about how different the front of it can be
Maybe invite your friend around for some digging lessons
Ah I thought so! That's the one a lover gave. I might try it again tonight.
That's a good point, the variation within anatomy. How deep it can go.
I might ask someone. It feels a bit selfish though saying "Hey, fancy helping me find my g-spot?"
Ask away Meli. And watch your inbox explode "So I was curious and rather than asking people directly and having them say 'pass, thanks for asking' I thought I'd do a general status. Turns out Fabbers are truly a giving bunch. | |||
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"No i dont, No (but I've found others) ((2 knuckles deep and a come hither motion)) Occasionally this has lead to squirting. But I'm not sure the two are intertwined.
Have you always found women to have them? 2 knuckles deep... I guess it depends on their positioning and your hand size.
I'm not sure if they are but they could be - I've never for the latter and I don't think I have the former."I don't know what would be worse , Jeremy Beadle trying to find it or the Hulk | |||
"Mind you, sometimes I tell people I'm a squirter just so they work harder, so I guess it all balances." I've missed your posts. This is the kind of chaos I strive for, definitely going to try this. | |||
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"But men, you can join in if you want, I guess. So. Do you have a G-spot? Is it quite easy to find? And as a sort of linked question (I think), have you squirted before?" G-spot - no, not really. Absolutely not easy to find/might not exist. And no. | |||
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" Mind you, sometimes I tell people I'm a squirter just so they work harder, so I guess it all balances." This is perfect | |||
"I haven't explored it much. I've never been able to make myself squirt, and kind of accepted it was something that was never going to happen with my body. But I fucked a guy a few weeks ago who said he knew exactly how to do it and I wished him luck in trying. Well, he made me squirt four times in 15 minutes. " Hey Lemmy  Yay to your squirty fucking!
Maybe that's the secret key to it. Wishing someone luck and thinking zero chance than bam. G-spot discovery/squirting* central.
* I might be tongue in cheek here. | |||
"But men, you can join in if you want, I guess. So. Do you have a G-spot? Is it quite easy to find? " Yes but only after a lot of practice and working out how everything feels. " And as a sort of linked question (I think), have you squirted before?" Yes but only ever on my own. Not sure why I haven’t with someone else involved. Maybe I’m just weird or complex | |||
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"All women have one.its called a clitoras. I can find it no problem but men not so much . No never squirted and if I'm being honest I don't think I'd want to. The clitoris isn't the G-spot, the G-spot is inside the vagina, the clit is outside P" Clitoras - the back side of the clitoris. What a beautiful language we have. The clit is actually quite big and is mostly inside - I can't share pictures here but looks at the pictures the vagina museum has
(Don't look too much because Wikipedia has a dissection  ) | |||
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"But men, you can join in if you want, I guess. So. Do you have a G-spot? Is it quite easy to find? And as a sort of linked question (I think), have you squirted before?" Yes He finds it easy enough so it seems
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