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By (user no longer on site) OP 25 weeks ago
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Why do people feel the need to send vile messages and think that its okay.
Like you dont know me and you never will.
Yes im chubby but im working on it.
Im not made for speed but i am made for comfort.
Any ladies or couples out there tgat like a chubby guy |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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"Why do people feel the need to send vile messages and think that its okay.
Like you dont know me and you never will.
Yes im chubby but im working on it.
Im not made for speed but i am made for comfort.
Any ladies or couples out there tgat like a chubby guy "
Because some people are arseholes.
Not sure the sympathy vote is the correct way to approach people on here though. Not trying to be mean, just being honest with you. |
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"There are a lot of gobshites on here - sadly there’s not a filter to stop them expressing their opinions - keep working & focussing on you and your journey - there’s also a lot of really great people on here too who you will come across in the forums and elsewhere - just pretend your block button actually stabs the shitty ones in the face…   "
Haha im so going to start thinking of my block button as a sword!! |
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I don't know why people go out of their way to send a rude message to an inbox. Would have taken zero time and effort just to skim past the profile.
Even if you had messaged them first, not sure what insulting you added to their day.
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By (user no longer on site) OP 25 weeks ago
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"I don't know why people go out of their way to send a rude message to an inbox. Would have taken zero time and effort just to skim past the profile.
Even if you had messaged them first, not sure what insulting you added to their day.
For me why do they care im fat
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"I don't know why people go out of their way to send a rude message to an inbox. Would have taken zero time and effort just to skim past the profile.
Even if you had messaged them first, not sure what insulting you added to their day.
For me why do they care im fat
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Not a clue to be fair.
Not making excuses but if their profile stated gym bunnies only/ fit toned only and you hedged your bets and messaged them anyway. Doesn't excuse rudeness. They could have just ignored or blocked you.
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"I have reported and blocked, its just annoying like what do they actually get out of it. Im thick skinned but not everyone is "
Quite often people who insult others have poor self esteem and it makes them feel better. Often though they genuinely have no concept of a real person at the other end of their messages, the internet allows them to depersonalise everything. |
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Report them straight away. Screenshot their messages, because if they block you after you read the message. The message will disappear.
Unfortunately you'll get these armchair abusers on every site. We say be better people than them. |
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"Report them straight away. Screenshot their messages, because if they block you after you read the message. The message will disappear.
Unfortunately you'll get these armchair abusers on every site. We say be better people than them."
Messages don't disappear if they block you. They do if the person deletes their profile |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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I don't react to people like this, I actually feel sorry for them. Only people in pain want to wish pain on others so I'm sure they are getting punished one way or another. It's silly to say just ignore it as words do hurt but just remember it's not a personal attack, it's deflection of what is inside them. |
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I tend to agree with the thinking. People with shallow, narrow minded, hurtful things to say. Often, have some big demons themselves.
It doesn't make it right or OK.
They should probably take a long hard look in the mirror, focusing on the thing they don't like about themselves. More often than not. They don't look deep enough.
Chin up OP. They'll forever, be hate filled, arrogant, and bitter.
You on the other hand can choose to rise above them |
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"I don't react to people like this, I actually feel sorry for them. Only people in pain want to wish pain on others so I'm sure they are getting punished one way or another. It's silly to say just ignore it as words do hurt but just remember it's not a personal attack, it's deflection of what is inside them."
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"Why do people feel the need to send vile messages and think that its okay.
Like you dont know me and you never will.
Yes im chubby but im working on it.
Im not made for speed but i am made for comfort.
Any ladies or couples out there tgat like a chubby guy "
OP are these people cold messaging you or replying to message you’ve sent them? |
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