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Do you take ages to fancy someone
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By *rHotNotts OP Man 30 weeks ago
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I can think of at least two occasions where someone I go absolutely wild with desire for but I barely noticed them at first or even disliked them , constantly argued/ fought with them in real life in one example then thinking she’s totally gorgeous .
Once I didn’t realise how great she was until our last day working together  then she spent several years in the wank bank of girls I never asked out
What’s occurring ? Anyone else have this ?
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Like a typical bloke, I tend to not pay attention because I assume women wouldn’t be interested. Then when they *are* interested in me I get a bit surprised and it takes me a while to switch tack and realise that yes, I totally would. |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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"I never really thought about it , lol"
Same.
Though thinking about it, im fairly sure I either just fancy someone straight off or not.
I cant think of anyone ive disliked then fancied down the line.
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It's incredibly rare for me to be remotely attracted to anyone based purely on aesthetics or a short conversation.
It happens occasionally. But most times I start to feel the draw as I get to know them and see those flashes of chemistry. |
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By *eliWoman 30 weeks ago
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Yep. It's very very rare I fancy someone immediately. A handful of times in my life. Normally I have to be talking to/know them for some time/have a certain level of friendship.
And then there's a moment where I realise one day that actually I rather fancy this person. And then I think 'how did I not notice them before?'. I don't think I fancy people the right way.  |
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"Yep. It's very very rare I fancy someone immediately. A handful of times in my life. Normally I have to be talking to/know them for some time/have a certain level of friendship.
And then there's a moment where I realise one day that actually I rather fancy this person. And then I think 'how did I not notice them before?'. I don't think I fancy people the right way. "
This ...although sometimes I do think straight away.. oh I so would lol |
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Yes it takes me ages. It's rare I have a strong like or dislike for someone till I've got to know them also. I tend to have little interest in people who make snap judgments about others.
There's only been a few instances where I have experienced early attraction and they have had a very direct energy about them. I've still felt a strong desire to get to know them. |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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Initial yes I find them attractive but that can go either way from there as I get to know them.cam be physically attractive but an unpleasant personality etc. |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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No.fab is for cold meets get it over with release that pent up tension.
Fancying anyone got to be nuts..depends what kind of fancy you want. Fancy pants of them for sex yes.
But not for relationship fancying fab is a cold place
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