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Are you a swinger or do you just like sex
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By *mmaleiaWoman 25 weeks ago
East Northamptonshire |
"Dunno. Sounds hot, I’m in 
I’ve asked and thought that exact same question before, single people on here, just using it as a hook up site.? "
or just more understanding of ENM, I don’t want quick 1offs, but I don’t want a boyfriend either |
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By *dc1Man 25 weeks ago
essex and all over the south |
"With so many single men on here, I wonder if there are actually that many swingers or just people who fancy sex one on one with people.
Define swinger
Evie "
That is a good question.
I think a swinger is a person/ persons that make a connection before sex. Socials, drinks and chats at clubs, etc. The person that just wants sex is wambam see you latter person. But nobody should judge as some want exactly that. You could say are greedy girls club nights not swingers then. Cause they are. Its just what people want |
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"With so many single men on here, I wonder if there are actually that many swingers or just people who fancy sex one on one with people.
Define swinger
Evie
That is a good question.
I think a swinger is a person/ persons that make a connection before sex. Socials, drinks and chats at clubs, etc. The person that just wants sex is wambam see you latter person. But nobody should judge as some want exactly that. You could say are greedy girls club nights not swingers then. Cause they are. Its just what people want"
That means we’re not swingers! So what have we been doing since 2001? lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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"Dunno. Sounds hot, I’m in
I’ve asked and thought that exact same question before, single people on here, just using it as a hook up site.? or just more understanding of ENM, I don’t want quick 1offs, but I don’t want a boyfriend either"
Yeh. Maybe. I always explained it, that’s swinging appeals to me because I have a hippie vibe about me. That’s my view in a nutshell.
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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"I'm not a swinger.
And I barely like the sex.
I don't know why I'm here."
I'm probably not a swinger.
And I like the sexy sex.
I don't know why I'm here.
I might put this on my profile
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"I'm not a swinger.
And I barely like the sex.
I don't know why I'm here."
I do.
You’re here because you feel welcome, you like that people like me enjoy your sarcasm and you miss us everytime you leave. |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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"I'm not a swinger.
And I barely like the sex.
I don't know why I'm here.
I do.
You’re here because you feel welcome, you like that people like me enjoy your sarcasm and you miss us everytime you leave."
This is a little heart warming.
You are not my favourite this morning Sam.
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I am single but do like joining couples sometimes. I stay on this site for a the forums and b i tend to find more of the kind of people i like than on any other app. Plus they tend to understand with enm means here. |
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"I'm not a swinger.
And I barely like the sex.
I don't know why I'm here.
I do.
You’re here because you feel welcome, you like that people like me enjoy your sarcasm and you miss us everytime you leave.
This is a little heart warming.
You are not my favourite this morning Sam.
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You lie.
I’ve always been your favourite. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 25 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"With so many single men on here, I wonder if there are actually that many swingers or just people who fancy sex one on one with people. "
I've always struggled a little when anyone tries to define what swinging is.
Some couples still feel you can't be a single and swing without a partner. That could just be seen as wife swapping.
Some singles are literally just looking for one off hook ups. That could just be seen as casual sex.
Some people, couples and singles, have no interest in clubs or socials and just want pure anonymous physical interactions. Is that swinging or again just casual, sometimes extra marital sex?
Then there's the swinging/kink crossover. Is it more about fetishes than sex?
What about the ENM/poly community?
What about the doggers, the pure exhibitionists or voyeurs, the campers, those that just socialise but only ever physically interact with their own partners?
Who do you include in any definition of what a 'swinger' really is?
Because I'd honestly hate to have that job.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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"I'm not a swinger.
I am ENM. Poly.
Someone used the word libertine recently whilst we were talking. I quite like that."
In France swinging clubs are called libertine . I also like it. |
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I would say am a single bi swinger I like meeting couples and group fun and sometimes that doesn't even lead to full blown sex and that's ok I like to tease and please all the same..if there's sex happy days it's a bonus...but never expected I don't have a high sex drive ... |
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Don't understand swinging as such going to clubs and having sex with strangers . we only brought other women into our dynamic .because female wanted it .I don't need any other women when I got one .but Maya can't have sex now
So now i have another lover so I've got the best of both worlds .but have no desire for others . |
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Don't swingers have parties where the men throw car keys into a bowl and the ladies pick one at random? What, not since 1973? Well that's blown my chances of swapping the Ford E$cort for an E-Type Jag...
As a solo trans woman (non-op) I think that I'm excluded from any definition of swinging that accepts couples only.
Quick meets and one-offs with people I know very little about - yes, but not really my preference. I'd much rather get to know people so that if and when sex occurs there is a possibility of it being more than just physical grunt and groan. At the same time though, I'm certainly not looking for any exclusive attachments, I feel too old and battered by life...
I'm probably just complicated and hard work. |
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By *dc1Man 25 weeks ago
essex and all over the south |
"With so many single men on here, I wonder if there are actually that many swingers or just people who fancy sex one on one with people.
Define swinger
Evie
That is a good question.
I think a swinger is a person/ persons that make a connection before sex. Socials, drinks and chats at clubs, etc. The person that just wants sex is wambam see you latter person. But nobody should judge as some want exactly that. You could say are greedy girls club nights not swingers then. Cause they are. Its just what people want
That means we’re not swingers! So what have we been doing since 2001? lol "
I did say we are all different. |
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