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By (user no longer on site) OP 38 weeks ago
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Okay... So there's a woman who works on the reception desk where I work.
She seems to flirt a lot with me anytime we are on the same shift.
We've talked a fair bit and it's usually quite flirty, and on occasion it's seemed a bit steamy.
She informed me that she needs two fingers when she's being fingered because one isn't enough and more than 2 is too much.
She's also told me that she always has a completely shaved smooth pussy.
Both of these tidbits of info she offered up freely, I didn't ask her these questions outright, she just seemed to come out with them whilst talking and being a bit flirty.
I even joked about bending her over the desk once, and to my surprise, she just bent over the desk, and said "like this?" And wiggled her bum a bit.
I laughed it off and then another colleague came in so changed the subject to work stuff.
Now... Is she just being super flirty or does she actually want something to happen?
I'd really love to fuck her but
I'm confused really because she's married and has 2 young kids.
I'd appreciate anyone's 2 cents on this. Thanks.
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By *irthandgirthMan 38 weeks ago
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Stay well away.
So many red flags here.
Married with kids, and a colleague. As the old saying goes, don't shit where you eat.
If you do decide to go for it, be prepared to leave your job quickly if its found out and her relationship ends over it. You could end up a pariah at work. Even if you don't do anything, if someone sees you in a compromising position like you described it could be a disciplinary for unprofessional conduct.
I would (metaphorically) be backing away and politely closing down and flirtatious conversation. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 38 weeks ago
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"What are you confused about?
Evie "
Whether she wants something more to actually happen between us, or if she's just a very open, outrageous flirt, basically. |
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Never met a female colleague get that explicit chatting, even when they’ve had a few drinks.
Is she flirting ? In my opinion a definite Yes !
Should you have an affair with a married colleague, my opinion no, see other replies that I agree with.
Good luck with whatever you do. |
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Ask her out on a date…
maybe she’s just enjoying the attention and winding you up….
If she’s married…… are they poly or would she be cheating on her husband ?
And then if it doesn’t work out between the 2 of you your still guna have to see each other every day which is goin to be akward as shit
Lots of things to consider |
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By *irthandgirthMan 38 weeks ago
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"I bet it you asked 10 other guys in the office they'd all say she flirted with them.
Evie "
Agree. I think there are 3 possibilities.
1. She gets off on being the centre of attention
2. She enjoys being a prick tease.
3. She is a potential career ender. |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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I've been in a similar situation with two colleagues.
1st colleague, very flirty in emails and over the phone. I remained professional but teased a little, mostly just jokey stuff. She is married with kids. I'm actually glad I didn't pursue anything.
2nd colleague. We worked together years ago and became Facebook friends.
She is married and her hubby occasionally works away. She would often message me during the early hours asking if I was up.
I would see the message the next day and reply asking if she was OK but she wouldn't reply.
A couple of months ago. I received a number of messages( her being flirty( video calls, normal calls.
I replied again asking if she was OK and why she was calling me so late.
She replied but didn't give reasons why she called.
I called her bluff that night as same thing happened but left my phone on loud. I wrote her a meet story basically describing in detail what I would do to her and how powerful I could be.
At the end of the message I said " If you can't handle the above don't message or call me again at silly times "
Thankfully she's taken the hint  |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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Doesn't seem like there's anything to be confused about. She's literally telling you how she likes to be finger banged, op.
She's an adult. Maybe she has an open relationship with her partner. Maybe they're separated. Who knows. Ask her.
If you're in the same line of management as her then it seems risky, but from how you say it she might not even be in the same company. Problems generally arise with co-workers, but not if you're doing completely unrelated jobs. |
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"What are you confused about?
Evie
Whether she wants something more to actually happen between us, or if she's just a very open, outrageous flirt, basically. "
Oh. Not the moral dilemma of fucking a married woman then 
Evie |
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Enjoy it for what it is! Makes the work day go faster. Perhaps if she continues to steer the conversation that way, ask in a light hearted manner if her fella is up for sharing. Her answer should give you a little more indication of the way she sees this situation panning out. Good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 38 weeks ago
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"What are you confused about?
Evie
Whether she wants something more to actually happen between us, or if she's just a very open, outrageous flirt, basically.
Oh. Not the moral dilemma of fucking a married woman then
Evie "
Oh no, no moral dilemma about that Evie. I love fucking married women, just usually when it happens her husband is watching or helping out lol  |
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By *na64Woman 38 weeks ago
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"I bet it you asked 10 other guys in the office they'd all say she flirted with them.
Evie
Agree. I think there are 3 possibilities.
1. She gets off on being the centre of attention
2. She enjoys being a prick tease.
3. She is a potential career ender."
LOL, all of the above,
RUN! Run far run fast |
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I'd leave well alone anyway, her being married would a big enough reason.
Maybe she's flirty with all colleagues, I worked with a woman like that in the past. Always telling men about the 3sums she'd had in the past and what she did when she was a holiday rep etc and she actually lived with another woman. Some people just love attention.
There is no way of knowing if it's a come on or shes just very flirty, unless you observe her with other people or you ask her. |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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Unless she swings with her husband, then the 2nd To last sentence of her being married with children kind of would put a halt to it all for me..
All the circumstances point to it becoming a mexican soap opera from hell.
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You are a grown up and can do what you want but in our eyes the issue is : could your job be compromised if it goes wrong? Would her husband turn up at work to handle the situation if found out?!
If you are seriously interested you would need to ask her does her husband know she seeks attention elsewhere and if it just a bit of fun, likely answer is she likes the cheeky attention |
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