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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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It could make an unhappy situation become dangerous. You don't know how either party will react & behave within the marriage. I would not.
If I knew the husband I'd be a friend to him, see what's going on and support him to be better. Or same for the wife. If either wanted to leave, I would support them with that too. It's their decision to stay or leave though and I would respect that, support them either way. That's it. |
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By *ythenMan 26 weeks ago
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"Would you send flowers to somebody anonymously if they were married and the hub is never around or shows any interest in his wife? "
Definitely not .. putting that person in potential very tricky situation |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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Yeah think it’s probably not the best idea as can cause problems for the person you’re sending them but also may fuck up the husband if he finds out that way. Just cause he’s not giving attention doesn’t mean he doesn’t love her, sometimes people just get in a rhythm of being comfortable with their long term partner and forget/don’t put as much effort into mixing things up. |
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"Would you send flowers to somebody anonymously if they were married and the hub is never around or shows any interest in his wife? "
No, definitely not. Doesn’t matter what the situation is. If they are with someone else then for me personally, I see it as I have no business trying to pursue or seduce them. Not a home wrecker of any kind, there a plenty of single people out there and they’re relationship will go it own natural course without others trying to prey off it  |
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