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By *luttTV/TS 40 weeks ago
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If you’re a man meeting with someone you see as a woman, then that’s a straight encounter - even though that man may well be bi anyway.
If you’re meeting someone who’s in a sort of “halfway-house” area (eg a CD), then the answer is “it’s complicated” or more usefully “who cares, just have fun”. |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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Is the person you're meeting a man? It's bi
Is the person you're meeting a woman? It's straight.
I never really understood the whole "Oh he's wearing his wifes socks so if we fuck its straight!".
If a man fucks someone that looks like a man, sounds like a man and acts like a man then it definitely ain't straight imo. I know that will offend a shit ton of people but its just my opinion. |
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By * F 2018Couple 40 weeks ago
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"Ive had a message tonight from a straight guy that wants to suck my cock. Not really straight is he. Just thinks it will get him further on fab. Lol"
Perhaps he's curious hubbys straight but if we were playing as a 4 or a 3 and he touched played with the others cock doesn't mean he's bi |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"Ive had a message tonight from a straight guy that wants to suck my cock. Not really straight is he. Just thinks it will get him further on fab. Lol
Perhaps he's curious hubbys straight but if we were playing as a 4 or a 3 and he touched played with the others cock doesn't mean he's bi "
If your husband is playing with another man's cock then he isn't 100% straight. But hey, what does it matter |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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I've always been tempted to set my profile as "bi" to out the sort of woman that cares about this sort of thing..
..but then I'd have gaping bumholes in my _ocal feed. |
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By *dc1Man 40 weeks ago
essex and all over the south |
"A lot of bisexual men on here claim that they're straight when they're clearly not. You're bisexual if you're fucking someone that is not a woman. "
I dont fuck men. But enjoy there nakid company with sucking and wanking. So i cant agree. Still bi
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"I've always been tempted to set my profile as "bi" to out the sort of woman that cares about this sort of thing..
..but then I'd have gaping bumholes in my _ocal feed."
Wow what a bigoted thing to say from the one that is always lecturing everyone else  |
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"A lot of bisexual men on here claim that they're straight when they're clearly not. You're bisexual if you're fucking someone that is not a woman. "
I only fuck people who aren’t women but I’m straight  x |
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By *dc1Man 40 weeks ago
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"Ive had a message tonight from a straight guy that wants to suck my cock. Not really straight is he. Just thinks it will get him further on fab. Lol
Perhaps he's curious hubbys straight but if we were playing as a 4 or a 3 and he touched played with the others cock doesn't mean he's bi
If your husband is playing with another man's cock then he isn't 100% straight. But hey, what does it matter "
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"A lot of bisexual men on here claim that they're straight when they're clearly not. You're bisexual if you're fucking someone that is not a woman. "
Yes Fab is the only place I have ever seen so many men sincerely believe they are straight despite liking cock.
I am referring to those who post on the forums, rather than men who know they are bi and just hide it on their profiles.
Life is too short to live in denial and delusion, just embrace what you are. That does not mean you have to shout it from roof tops, but at least accept what you are |
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By *luttTV/TS 40 weeks ago
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"I've always been tempted to set my profile as "bi" to out the sort of woman that cares about this sort of thing..
..but then I'd have gaping bumholes in my _ocal feed."
Who you get in your feed is set by your “looking for”, not your orientation x |
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"I've always been tempted to set my profile as "bi" to out the sort of woman that cares about this sort of thing..
..but then I'd have gaping bumholes in my _ocal feed."
This is such an utterly ridiculous statement. I mean, where to start??
How would this any of these women out in any way whatsoever? Would you know because of the sudden shortfall in the many females that generally contact you on here (as evidenced by your veris…oh…)?
And if that fantasy scenario *was* real how would you then ID them from fantasy shortfall? Or was it just brainless, casually homophobic baaantz? |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"I've always been tempted to set my profile as "bi" to out the sort of woman that cares about this sort of thing..
..but then I'd have gaping bumholes in my _ocal feed.
This is such an utterly ridiculous statement. I mean, where to start??
How would this any of these women out in any way whatsoever? Would you know because of the sudden shortfall in the many females that generally contact you on here (as evidenced by your veris…oh…)?
And if that fantasy scenario *was* real how would you then ID them from fantasy shortfall? Or was it just brainless, casually homophobic baaantz? "
What the fuck are you on about?
If I set my profile to bi, it would out women who care if their partners are bi or not. Because I find it gross when women say "no bi men" or "no men that fuck TV/TS", or whatever else.
I don't consider myself bisexual - I'm only attracted to women (generally). But I don't limit myself to cis women, which these women find distasteful, for reasons I personally consider homophobic.
How in the peppermint fuck would that make ME homophobic? |
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"I've always been tempted to set my profile as "bi" to out the sort of woman that cares about this sort of thing..
..but then I'd have gaping bumholes in my _ocal feed.
This is such an utterly ridiculous statement. I mean, where to start??
How would this any of these women out in any way whatsoever? Would you know because of the sudden shortfall in the many females that generally contact you on here (as evidenced by your veris…oh…)?
And if that fantasy scenario *was* real how would you then ID them from fantasy shortfall? Or was it just brainless, casually homophobic baaantz?
What the fuck are you on about?
If I set my profile to bi, it would out women who care if their partners are bi or not. Because I find it gross when women say "no bi men" or "no men that fuck TV/TS", or whatever else.
I don't consider myself bisexual - I'm only attracted to women (generally). But I don't limit myself to cis women, which these women find distasteful, for reasons I personally consider homophobic.
How in the peppermint fuck would that make ME homophobic?"
Ah just as I thought. Out them
so he could label them homophobic. How predictable |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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Why does the forum not show when I write
W e e d out
It's not stopping me from saying it, you can see it when you quote my messages, but it just says "out" when in the message. |
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"I've always been tempted to set my profile as "bi" to out the sort of woman that cares about this sort of thing..
..but then I'd have gaping bumholes in my _ocal feed.
This is such an utterly ridiculous statement. I mean, where to start??
How would this any of these women out in any way whatsoever? Would you know because of the sudden shortfall in the many females that generally contact you on here (as evidenced by your veris…oh…)?
And if that fantasy scenario *was* real how would you then ID them from fantasy shortfall? Or was it just brainless, casually homophobic baaantz?
What the fuck are you on about?
If I set my profile to bi, it would out women who care if their partners are bi or not. Because I find it gross when women say "no bi men" or "no men that fuck TV/TS", or whatever else.
I don't consider myself bisexual - I'm only attracted to women (generally). But I don't limit myself to cis women, which these women find distasteful, for reasons I personally consider homophobic.
How in the peppermint fuck would that make ME homophobic?"
The term ‘gaping bum hole’ being part of your vocabulary |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"How in the peppermint fuck would that make ME homophobic?
The term ‘gaping bum hole’ being part of your vocabulary"
You didn't mention that at all in your post, you called me homophobic for suggesting I should change my orientation to bisexual, clearly not understanding the context of the thread (which is that the op would consider me bisexual).
"gaping bum hole" is a description of photos I have seen a lot when I've had men in my _ocal feed (e.g. with couples profiles). I just switched now to see and counted three of them. Is that observation homophobic? |
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"How in the peppermint fuck would that make ME homophobic?
The term ‘gaping bum hole’ being part of your vocabulary
You didn't mention that at all in your post, you called me homophobic for suggesting I should change my orientation to bisexual, clearly not understanding the context of the thread (which is that the op would consider me bisexual).
"gaping bum hole" is a description of photos I have seen a lot when I've had men in my _ocal feed (e.g. with couples profiles). I just switched now to see and counted three of them. Is that observation homophobic?"
You do realise all of Fab is reading this if they so choose and you’re painting a not so wonderful description of yourself with adolescent rhetoric!?!
Oh and before you bother with a homophobic reply, I’ve blocked you, the same fate all homophobes should suffer!  |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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Loads of 'straight' guys on here that will eagerly meet a TV or cd, but won't meet a man... surely a tv/cd IS a man. It boggles my head to be fair. And there's no way am I gonna Don a pair of tights and frilly knickers for anyone lol |
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By *ocalMan 40 weeks ago
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If you meet someone, and end up bending them over to fuck them in their arse hole, and there is a a pair of bollox and a cock swinging beneath that said hole you are about to fuck, then you are definitely Bi, regardless of whether the owner of that hole is wearing makeup or not.
But on the other hand if you meet someone, and they end up bending you over and fucking you in the arse then as long as they have lipstick on then you are safe to still call yourself straight  |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"How in the peppermint fuck would that make ME homophobic?
The term ‘gaping bum hole’ being part of your vocabulary
You didn't mention that at all in your post, you called me homophobic for suggesting I should change my orientation to bisexual, clearly not understanding the context of the thread (which is that the op would consider me bisexual).
"gaping bum hole" is a description of photos I have seen a lot when I've had men in my _ocal feed (e.g. with couples profiles). I just switched now to see and counted three of them. Is that observation homophobic?
You do realise all of Fab is reading this if they so choose and you’re painting a not so wonderful description of yourself with adolescent rhetoric!?!
Oh and before you bother with a homophobic reply, I’ve blocked you, the same fate all homophobes should suffer! "
I agree he is homophobic and a massive hypocrite. I have seen him relentlessly pursue and paint anyone and everyone as bigots on these boards for a variety of social issues he has took upon himself to champion.
It really does not take much to remove the veil from the ‘holier than thou’ on here, scratch a little below the surface, then one of their own prejudices comes to the surface….. |
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"Serious question and not meaning to offend anyone.
If a "straight" guy and there's plenty on here that do, meet with a ts/tv are they not really bi ?"
I try to think of it like this, if a woman meets or hooks with another woman once, does that make her bi or just experimenting? Many a straight woman kiss and more throughout life and identify as straight. Just cos a guy does the same once, shouldn’t he also still be able to identify as straight? Sexuality isn’t based off of what you’ve tried but your general over all preferences, attractions and turn on’s. I do think there is an imbalance between what guys and woman can explore tbh. With woman being more insecure about a guy that’s been with TV or guy then how most guys are with woman that’s been with another woman before. It is said to see but particularly when it comes to blokes, the world just ready to be open minded enough yet to accept that one doesn’t translate to the other and guys shouldn’t have to say they are bi or gay for ever more for having a meet with a TV of CD for that matter x |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"Serious question and not meaning to offend anyone.
If a "straight" guy and there's plenty on here that do, meet with a ts/tv are they not really bi ?
I try to think of it like this, if a woman meets or hooks with another woman once, does that make her bi or just experimenting? Many a straight woman kiss and more throughout life and identify as straight. Just cos a guy does the same once, shouldn’t he also still be able to identify as straight? Sexuality isn’t based off of what you’ve tried but your general over all preferences, attractions and turn on’s. I do think there is an imbalance between what guys and woman can explore tbh. With woman being more insecure about a guy that’s been with TV or guy then how most guys are with woman that’s been with another woman before. It is said to see but particularly when it comes to blokes, the world just ready to be open minded enough yet to accept that one doesn’t translate to the other and guys shouldn’t have to say they are bi or gay for ever more for having a meet with a TV of CD for that matter x"
She was not asking about a one-off meet and never doing it again. If a guy literally had a one-off experience and it was not for him, never done again, never fantasised about a biological male or cock again, including CDs/ TVs, then I would accept it was a straight man experimenting. But with a vast number, it never stops, so they are in denial bi or even fully gay |
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By *dc1Man 40 weeks ago
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"Loads of 'straight' guys on here that will eagerly meet a TV or cd, but won't meet a man... surely a tv/cd IS a man. It boggles my head to be fair. And there's no way am I gonna Don a pair of tights and frilly knickers for anyone lol"
Dont knock it till you tryed it. Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"Serious question and not meaning to offend anyone.
If a "straight" guy and there's plenty on here that do, meet with a ts/tv are they not really bi ?"
I dunno, ask them!
My label of someone doesn’t matter one bit.
I know, I fancy a few profiles on here from TVs, simply because they are hot good looking women.
There are some that I don’t fancy when I see it’s a guy dressed as a woman on a man’s profile.
I’m attracted to a woman who looks like a woman dresses like a woman and would probably fuck me like a woman (okay, she’s got a dick, I will address that thought another time haha).
If that makes me bi, or bi curious,… then whatever. Live and let live.
I don’t fancy ducks |
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By *dc1Man 40 weeks ago
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"Serious question and not meaning to offend anyone.
If a "straight" guy and there's plenty on here that do, meet with a ts/tv are they not really bi ?
I try to think of it like this, if a woman meets or hooks with another woman once, does that make her bi or just experimenting? Many a straight woman kiss and more throughout life and identify as straight. Just cos a guy does the same once, shouldn’t he also still be able to identify as straight? Sexuality isn’t based off of what you’ve tried but your general over all preferences, attractions and turn on’s. I do think there is an imbalance between what guys and woman can explore tbh. With woman being more insecure about a guy that’s been with TV or guy then how most guys are with woman that’s been with another woman before. It is said to see but particularly when it comes to blokes, the world just ready to be open minded enough yet to accept that one doesn’t translate to the other and guys shouldn’t have to say they are bi or gay for ever more for having a meet with a TV of CD for that matter x
She was not asking about a one-off meet and never doing it again. If a guy literally had a one-off experience and it was not for him, never done again, never fantasised about a biological male or cock again, including CDs/ TVs, then I would accept it was a straight man experimenting. But with a vast number, it never stops, so they are in denial bi or even fully gay "
Some of us love cock. We love both and happy to say it. I am lol. |
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By *ythenMan 40 weeks ago
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"A lot of bisexual men on here claim that they're straight when they're clearly not. You're bisexual if you're fucking someone that is not a woman.
Yes Fab is the only place I have ever seen so many men sincerely believe they are straight despite liking cock.
I am referring to those who post on the forums, rather than men who know they are bi and just hide it on their profiles.
Life is too short to live in denial and delusion, just embrace what you are. That does not mean you have to shout it from roof tops, but at least accept what you are "
Well said !! |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"Serious question and not meaning to offend anyone.
If a "straight" guy and there's plenty on here that do, meet with a ts/tv are they not really bi ?"
Definitely bi. Whether they’d like to admit it or not. |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"Serious question and not meaning to offend anyone.
If a "straight" guy and there's plenty on here that do, meet with a ts/tv are they not really bi ?
Definitely bi. Whether they’d like to admit it or not. "
Transcurious?? Is that a thing?
Just thought I’d throw another label out there.  |
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"Serious question and not meaning to offend anyone.
If a "straight" guy and there's plenty on here that do, meet with a ts/tv are they not really bi ?
Definitely bi. Whether they’d like to admit it or not.
Transcurious?? Is that a thing?
Just thought I’d throw another label out there. "
A TV/ CD is not trans mate  |
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By *AYENCouple 40 weeks ago
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"I'm not bi but I've been sucked off by plenty of guys that are. "
You're putting your cock in another man's mouth, getting hard from it, and getting off on it - no shame, nothing to be embarrassed about, but you are at the very least bisexual, just accept it. K. |
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"I'm not bi but I've been sucked off by plenty of guys that are.
You're putting your cock in another man's mouth, getting hard from it, and getting off on it - no shame, nothing to be embarrassed about, but you are at the very least bisexual, just accept it. K."
I thought it was a joke no? Surely it was a joke  |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"Serious question and not meaning to offend anyone.
If a "straight" guy and there's plenty on here that do, meet with a ts/tv are they not really bi ?
Definitely bi. Whether they’d like to admit it or not.
Transcurious?? Is that a thing?
Just thought I’d throw another label out there.
A TV/ CD is not trans mate "
Probably. |
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Not the trans point but overall people can and do have sex with others without any sexual attraction to them. The partner is perhaps something akin to an accessory or toy. Attraction is needed, romantic or sexual, to determine sexual orientation.
Many people talk about situational sexual engagement, they do something in the moment, without attraction to the partner.
I think we're too hung up wanting to label human personality etc, when we're often too incredibly complex. |
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Androsexual attraction to masculinity regardless of gender.
Gynsexual attraction to femininity regardless of gender.
Could be true or just more labels, either way humans are complex beings, even on Fab. |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"Not the trans point but overall people can and do have sex with others without any sexual attraction to them. The partner is perhaps something akin to an accessory or toy. Attraction is needed, romantic or sexual, to determine sexual orientation."
Yeh, this is basically where I'm at. I don't actually find myself super attracted to anyone in particular, anyway, until there's some sort of act or scene attached to them. But those scenes involve feminine.. well, things. But, things that consent to being things.
Would I fuck a man? Sure, but either he needs to be presented as very feminine or I need to be attracted to the scene otherwise. They would be reasonably specific scenarios. In practice I almost never fuck men.
Does that make me bi? Only in the sense that I don't rule out ever putting my penis in a man. Which seems like a ridiculous definition of bisexuality.
Does it make me straight? Actually I only really feel I describe myself as straight because it's the closest to my sexuality you find in most drop-down boxes. I don't really feel like I fit in that box, but it aligns with the answers to most other questions people are really asking when they ask that.
I guess I fit somewhere in the cracks |
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But surely to be bisexual or bi-curious there has to be an attraction, sexually, romantically or emotionally to more than one sex?
What if there's no attraction, it's just about enjoying sex? Is there a label for that? |
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"To me, straight is a man who only engages in intercourse with a woman. That's yer lot. "
The amount of “I like being pegged by my wife/girlfriend, am I bi? threads there have been I’m not sure a lot know the meaning of the words anyway  |
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I was totally straight till the night I was kissing Tracey’s neck as she was sucking a cock , somehow she directed it into my mouth and encouraged me to suck , if I’m honest it was one of the best nights I have ever had , he rimmed me as I fucked Tracey
I had never been rimmed before, but boy did I cum like never before . |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"My point is that there has to be an attraction to another sex.
If that attraction does not exist, but some sort of sexual encounter happens is there a description for that? "
Maybe think of it this way. Does a vegan who eats meat still qualify as a vegan whatever their excuse for eating it? If it was just a genuine one-off sample to make sure, then maybe so. But if a second try comes…. |
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"My point is that there has to be an attraction to another sex.
If that attraction does not exist, but some sort of sexual encounter happens is there a description for that?
Maybe think of it this way. Does a vegan who eats meat still qualify as a vegan whatever their excuse for eating it? If it was just a genuine one-off sample to make sure, then maybe so. But if a second try comes…."
I'm not sure that that correlates. |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"My point is that there has to be an attraction to another sex.
If that attraction does not exist, but some sort of sexual encounter happens is there a description for that?
Maybe think of it this way. Does a vegan who eats meat still qualify as a vegan whatever their excuse for eating it? If it was just a genuine one-off sample to make sure, then maybe so. But if a second try comes….
I'm not sure that that correlates. "
It does. If a vegan knowingly eats meat despite claiming they do not like the taste, is not attracted to meat yet still eats it. Are they still a vegan? |
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By *glyBettyTV/TS 40 weeks ago
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"My point is that there has to be an attraction to another sex.
If that attraction does not exist, but some sort of sexual encounter happens is there a description for that?
Maybe think of it this way. Does a vegan who eats meat still qualify as a vegan whatever their excuse for eating it? If it was just a genuine one-off sample to make sure, then maybe so. But if a second try comes….
I'm not sure that that correlates.
It does. If a vegan knowingly eats meat despite claiming they do not like the taste, is not attracted to meat yet still eats it. Are they still a vegan?"
What about if a non-vegan also likes eating Quorn burgers, because they're (apparently) close enough to meat for them to enjoy? |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"My point is that there has to be an attraction to another sex.
If that attraction does not exist, but some sort of sexual encounter happens is there a description for that?
Maybe think of it this way. Does a vegan who eats meat still qualify as a vegan whatever their excuse for eating it? If it was just a genuine one-off sample to make sure, then maybe so. But if a second try comes….
I'm not sure that that correlates.
It does. If a vegan knowingly eats meat despite claiming they do not like the taste, is not attracted to meat yet still eats it. Are they still a vegan?"
What if they are eating meat free chicken nuggets that look like chicken, and taste like chicken… but isn’t chicken. …
To the outside world watching, that don’t look vegan u til you ask them. |
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"A lot of bisexual men on here claim that they're straight when they're clearly not. You're bisexual if you're fucking someone that is not a woman.
I only fuck people who aren’t women but I’m straight x"
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"A lot of bisexual men on here claim that they're straight when they're clearly not. You're bisexual if you're fucking someone that is not a woman.
I only fuck people who aren’t women but I’m straight x"
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"A lot of bisexual men on here claim that they're straight when they're clearly not. You're bisexual if you're fucking someone that is not a woman.
I only fuck people who aren’t women but I’m straight x"
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By *irthandgirthMan 40 weeks ago
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"Serious question and not meaning to offend anyone.
If a "straight" guy and there's plenty on here that do, meet with a ts/tv are they not really bi ?
I dunno, ask them!
My label of someone doesn’t matter one bit.
I know, I fancy a few profiles on here from TVs, simply because they are hot good looking women.
There are some that I don’t fancy when I see it’s a guy dressed as a woman on a man’s profile.
I’m attracted to a woman who looks like a woman dresses like a woman and would probably fuck me like a woman (okay, she’s got a dick, I will address that thought another time haha).
If that makes me bi, or bi curious,… then whatever. Live and let live.
I don’t fancy ducks "
There are some amazing looking trans ladies on here, and I can definitely appreciate their beauty. This doesn't mean that I would be turned on by them or want to have sex with them in reality. |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"My point is that there has to be an attraction to another sex.
If that attraction does not exist, but some sort of sexual encounter happens is there a description for that?
Maybe think of it this way. Does a vegan who eats meat still qualify as a vegan whatever their excuse for eating it? If it was just a genuine one-off sample to make sure, then maybe so. But if a second try comes….
I'm not sure that that correlates.
It does. If a vegan knowingly eats meat despite claiming they do not like the taste, is not attracted to meat yet still eats it. Are they still a vegan?
What about if a non-vegan also likes eating Quorn burgers, because they're (apparently) close enough to meat for them to enjoy?"
I would say if they yearn for the taste of meat, they are not fully vegan |
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"Serious question and not meaning to offend anyone.
If a "straight" guy and there's plenty on here that do, meet with a ts/tv are they not really bi ?"
That seems to me like an obvious conclusion.
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"Serious question and not meaning to offend anyone.
If a "straight" guy and there's plenty on here that do, meet with a ts/tv are they not really bi ?
That seems to me like an obvious conclusion.
Cal"
It depends. Many sex workers, including porn stars, have sex with people who they're not attracted to. This would especially be the case for man on man sex, whereas men can perceive trans as women, thus are attracted to them as women |
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"Yes,if a "straight" guy meets someone with a dick then they are bi, sticking a horn on a horse doesn't make it a unicorn. "
Sticking antlers on it makes it a reindeer though. All the kids in the village believed that when we did it at Xmas |
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"Serious question and not meaning to offend anyone.
If a "straight" guy and there's plenty on here that do, meet with a ts/tv are they not really bi ?
I dunno, ask them!
My label of someone doesn’t matter one bit.
I know, I fancy a few profiles on here from TVs, simply because they are hot good looking women.
There are some that I don’t fancy when I see it’s a guy dressed as a woman on a man’s profile.
I’m attracted to a woman who looks like a woman dresses like a woman and would probably fuck me like a woman (okay, she’s got a dick, I will address that thought another time haha).
If that makes me bi, or bi curious,… then whatever. Live and let live.
I don’t fancy ducks
There are some amazing looking trans ladies on here, and I can definitely appreciate their beauty. This doesn't mean that I would be turned on by them or want to have sex with them in reality."
There are some amazingly good looking women on here, and it doesn’t mean every single one of them can turn me on.
I don’t think saying I wouldn’t or would find a trans woman/woman/man attractive proves my sexual orientation.
I love exploring these conversations.
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To me at this point I don’t understand some men again, it’s clearly started on my profile that I’m straight but it’s shocking to get messages from lad who’s profile says straight and they keep trying to lure me with their messages. I’m straight but I find bbc very attractive and I will like to give it a go. Man that makes you a bi, they all should be proud of whatever sexuality they are. A lot of them will keep sending winks and fabbing picture. Just so confused ?? |
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No because they might also like other varieties of people too. Sexuality can be fluid and people can be attracted to all sorts of people but it doesn’t mean they have to put a label on themselves. |
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And there’s so much stigma and discrimination thrown about at bisexual men in this lifestyle yet bisexual women are accepted with open arms it’s no wonder bisexual men are scared to be open about it. |
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"And there’s so much stigma and discrimination thrown about at bisexual men in this lifestyle yet bisexual women are accepted with open arms it’s no wonder bisexual men are scared to be open about it. "
Although that is true nothing will change if people hide away in large numbers |
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"And there’s so much stigma and discrimination thrown about at bisexual men in this lifestyle yet bisexual women are accepted with open arms it’s no wonder bisexual men are scared to be open about it. "
Thats because we all grew up watching bi women and their outstanding acting in Swedish erotica vhs grainy porn, so it became normal. |
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"But surely to be bisexual or bi-curious there has to be an attraction, sexually, romantically or emotionally to more than one sex?
What if there's no attraction, it's just about enjoying sex? Is there a label for that? "
I've seen many men say on forum posts that they don't fancy other men, but are attracted to their cocks, so regularly play with them.
To me that makes them at least bi curious.
To me you're straight if you only want to play with people of the opposite sex.
Some ladies on here also claim to be straight when they're clearly not too. |
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"A lot of bisexual men on here claim that they're straight when they're clearly not. You're bisexual if you're fucking someone that is not a woman. "
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"A lot of bisexual men on here claim that they're straight when they're clearly not. You're bisexual if you're fucking someone that is not a woman.
Funny that as a bi couple we find many straight guys say they bi try to get a meet with the female "
Tell them they'd be expected to play with your man first |
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"Are they attracted to the cock, or enjoying the current experience? Are they attracted to the man the cock is attached to?
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I'm not sure, you could try looking at all the bi men threads and see if one of them expands on it a bit. |
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"I've always been tempted to set my profile as "bi" to out the sort of woman that cares about this sort of thing..
..but then I'd have gaping bumholes in my _ocal feed."
Typical response from a straight bigot who thinks just because a guy is binge will jump on any fella |
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"A lot of bisexual men on here claim that they're straight when they're clearly not. You're bisexual if you're fucking someone that is not a woman.
Funny that as a bi couple we find many straight guys say they bi try to get a meet with the female
Tell them they'd be expected to play with your man first "
That’s the exact rule and we only meet in clubs at bi events |
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"Are they attracted to the cock, or enjoying the current experience? Are they attracted to the man the cock is attached to?
I'm not sure, you could try looking at all the bi men threads and see if one of them expands on it a bit. "
I'm just trying to find out why the attraction part seems to be overlooked - if you are male and suck a cock, or whatever, you must be bi-something regardless whether there is attraction or not.
Which then makes me wonder how many people feel obliged to identify as bi due to comments they see or receive on here. |
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"Serious question and not meaning to offend anyone.
If a "straight" guy and there's plenty on here that do, meet with a ts/tv are they not really bi ?"
Yes, they are. |
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"Are they attracted to the cock, or enjoying the current experience? Are they attracted to the man the cock is attached to?
I'm not sure, you could try looking at all the bi men threads and see if one of them expands on it a bit.
I'm just trying to find out why the attraction part seems to be overlooked - if you are male and suck a cock, or whatever, you must be bi-something regardless whether there is attraction or not.
Which then makes me wonder how many people feel obliged to identify as bi due to comments they see or receive on here. "
I think the big thing for me and some others is not liking people who are dishonest.
If you regularly play with others of the same sex and write straight, that's not correct. Many couples would delete mail from men who have straight on profile, but claim to be bi in messages. Be honest about who you are and your real intentions when you meet.
I'm straight and half a couple, we've spoken to couples and the lady has listed herself as straight. I make it clear I'm straight so no ff play, yet some. Still try and say well will she kiss my Mrs or soft play.
I always say well is she not straight anyway and they'll usually claim she plays with other women when the mood takes her.
So in other words she's not straight.
It just wastes people's time when people aren't truthful.
I think its more likely more men say they're straight when they're not, rather than the other way round.
Many couples and women won't meet bi men, yet it's expected all women are at least a bit bi. |
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I think the big thing for me and some others is not liking people who are dishonest.
If you regularly play with others of the same sex and write straight, that's not correct. Many couples would delete mail from men who have straight on profile, but claim to be bi in messages. Be honest about who you are and your real intentions when you meet.
I'm straight and half a couple, we've spoken to couples and the lady has listed herself as straight. I make it clear I'm straight so no ff play, yet some. Still try and say well will she kiss my Mrs or soft play.
I always say well is she not straight anyway and they'll usually claim she plays with other women when the mood takes her.
So in other words she's not straight.
It just wastes people's time when people aren't truthful.
I think its more likely more men say they're straight when they're not, rather than the other way round.
Many couples and women won't meet bi men, yet it's expected all women are at least a bit bi. "
Ok, so someone who is not attracted to the same sex, but has had a sexual encounter with someone of the same sex is what?
And why is it expected that women are a little bit bi?
Yes, people need to be honest in what sexual activities in which they will partake, but only they can decide which label to attribute to themselves.
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Ok, so someone who is not attracted to the same sex, but has had a sexual encounter with someone of the same sex is what?
Desperate, if not bi
Mr
Cut and dried for you then. "
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I think the big thing for me and some others is not liking people who are dishonest.
If you regularly play with others of the same sex and write straight, that's not correct. Many couples would delete mail from men who have straight on profile, but claim to be bi in messages. Be honest about who you are and your real intentions when you meet.
I'm straight and half a couple, we've spoken to couples and the lady has listed herself as straight. I make it clear I'm straight so no ff play, yet some. Still try and say well will she kiss my Mrs or soft play.
I always say well is she not straight anyway and they'll usually claim she plays with other women when the mood takes her.
So in other words she's not straight.
It just wastes people's time when people aren't truthful.
I think its more likely more men say they're straight when they're not, rather than the other way round.
Many couples and women won't meet bi men, yet it's expected all women are at least a bit bi.
Ok, so someone who is not attracted to the same sex, but has had a sexual encounter with someone of the same sex is what?
And why is it expected that women are a little bit bi?
Yes, people need to be honest in what sexual activities in which they will partake, but only they can decide which label to attribute to themselves.
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It depends if they enjoy it and want to keep doing it or not. If it's regular they're still at least bi curious I think.
There's obviously something they're attracted to in that sex.
I had a look on Google and it says people can still be bisexual and have a higher attraction to one sex than the other,so it's complex.
As for all women being bi, that's what many seem to assume, in my experience on here. It's encouraged that women play bi, as its so many men's fantasy to watch 2 women together. |
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Anyone else over this repetitive debate?
My eyes just roll when I see these threads.
So many people wanting to slap labels, perspectives and opinions on a subject which has a massive spectrum
No one answer is right
No one opinion is correct
No one objective is final
Fluidity and acceptance is all that's needed
Be who ever the fuck you want to be
Label yourself or don't
Anyone who disagrees with you is not the person you're looking to meet
Be yourself, your unique, awesome, wonderful self and the right people will come your way
S xxx |
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"Anyone else over this repetitive debate?
My eyes just roll when I see these threads.
So many people wanting to slap labels, perspectives and opinions on a subject which has a massive spectrum
No one answer is right
No one opinion is correct
No one objective is final
Fluidity and acceptance is all that's needed
Be who ever the fuck you want to be
Label yourself or don't
Anyone who disagrees with you is not the person you're looking to meet
Be yourself, your unique, awesome, wonderful self and the right people will come your way
S xxx "
Exactly! That was what I was trying to explore. There are so many nuances, and too much labelling and pigeon-holing. |
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I would consider me as bi curious, as I am happy doing oral to the same sex but never anal. I have meet couples at my house and clubs that his wife can watch me and her husband play together and watch or join in. |
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"Anyone else over this repetitive debate?
My eyes just roll when I see these threads.
So many people wanting to slap labels, perspectives and opinions on a subject which has a massive spectrum
No one answer is right
No one opinion is correct
No one objective is final
Fluidity and acceptance is all that's needed
Be who ever the fuck you want to be
Label yourself or don't
Anyone who disagrees with you is not the person you're looking to meet
Be yourself, your unique, awesome, wonderful self and the right people will come your way
S xxx
Exactly! That was what I was trying to explore. There are so many nuances, and too much labelling and pigeon-holing. "
The only place labelling and pigeon holing has is if you allow it into your life.
It's OK to not conform or allow yourself to be blocked into certain criteria.
Every single one of us on here is different and unique, own that shit, find the people who match you, trust me they are out there.
Don't argue about your sexuality, it is individual and special to us all.
Be who you are meant to be not what a socialistic induced template expects you to be
S xxx |
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By *ags73Man 40 weeks ago
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"Anyone else over this repetitive debate?
My eyes just roll when I see these threads.
So many people wanting to slap labels, perspectives and opinions on a subject which has a massive spectrum
No one answer is right
No one opinion is correct
No one objective is final
Fluidity and acceptance is all that's needed
Be who ever the fuck you want to be
Label yourself or don't
Anyone who disagrees with you is not the person you're looking to meet
Be yourself, your unique, awesome, wonderful self and the right people will come your way
S xxx
Exactly! That was what I was trying to explore. There are so many nuances, and too much labelling and pigeon-holing.
The only place labelling and pigeon holing has is if you allow it into your life.
It's OK to not conform or allow yourself to be blocked into certain criteria.
Every single one of us on here is different and unique, own that shit, find the people who match you, trust me they are out there.
Don't argue about your sexuality, it is individual and special to us all.
Be who you are meant to be not what a socialistic induced template expects you to be
S xxx"
In very general terms, if you can’t figure who or what you are, then you’ll have a bit of bother saying no to what you don’t want or saying yes to what you do.
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"Anyone else over this repetitive debate?
My eyes just roll when I see these threads.
So many people wanting to slap labels, perspectives and opinions on a subject which has a massive spectrum
No one answer is right
No one opinion is correct
No one objective is final
Fluidity and acceptance is all that's needed
Be who ever the fuck you want to be
Label yourself or don't
Anyone who disagrees with you is not the person you're looking to meet
Be yourself, your unique, awesome, wonderful self and the right people will come your way
S xxx
Exactly! That was what I was trying to explore. There are so many nuances, and too much labelling and pigeon-holing.
The only place labelling and pigeon holing has is if you allow it into your life.
It's OK to not conform or allow yourself to be blocked into certain criteria.
Every single one of us on here is different and unique, own that shit, find the people who match you, trust me they are out there.
Don't argue about your sexuality, it is individual and special to us all.
Be who you are meant to be not what a socialistic induced template expects you to be
S xxx
In very general terms, if you can’t figure who or what you are, then you’ll have a bit of bother saying no to what you don’t want or saying yes to what you do.
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I don't think that labelling yourself allows you the freedom to know what you do or don't want.
The debate here isn't what we know we want but more how should it be labelled.
I think many people have figured out 'what they are' but haven't found the relevant 'box' to tick
S xxx |
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"Anyone else over this repetitive debate?
My eyes just roll when I see these threads.
So many people wanting to slap labels, perspectives and opinions on a subject which has a massive spectrum
No one answer is right
No one opinion is correct
No one objective is final
Fluidity and acceptance is all that's needed
Be who ever the fuck you want to be
Label yourself or don't
Anyone who disagrees with you is not the person you're looking to meet
Be yourself, your unique, awesome, wonderful self and the right people will come your way
S xxx
Exactly! That was what I was trying to explore. There are so many nuances, and too much labelling and pigeon-holing.
The only place labelling and pigeon holing has is if you allow it into your life.
It's OK to not conform or allow yourself to be blocked into certain criteria.
Every single one of us on here is different and unique, own that shit, find the people who match you, trust me they are out there.
Don't argue about your sexuality, it is individual and special to us all.
Be who you are meant to be not what a socialistic induced template expects you to be
S xxx
In very general terms, if you can’t figure who or what you are, then you’ll have a bit of bother saying no to what you don’t want or saying yes to what you do.
I don't think that labelling yourself allows you the freedom to know what you do or don't want.
The debate here isn't what we know we want but more how should it be labelled.
I think many people have figured out 'what they are' but haven't found the relevant 'box' to tick
S xxx"
I think it takes a bit of learning to know what the labels are to be fair.
So called ‘fab straight’ could be bi-curious or hetro flexible depending what you read or who you ask. |
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"Anyone else over this repetitive debate?
My eyes just roll when I see these threads.
So many people wanting to slap labels, perspectives and opinions on a subject which has a massive spectrum
No one answer is right
No one opinion is correct
No one objective is final
Fluidity and acceptance is all that's needed
Be who ever the fuck you want to be
Label yourself or don't
Anyone who disagrees with you is not the person you're looking to meet
Be yourself, your unique, awesome, wonderful self and the right people will come your way
S xxx
Exactly! That was what I was trying to explore. There are so many nuances, and too much labelling and pigeon-holing.
The only place labelling and pigeon holing has is if you allow it into your life.
It's OK to not conform or allow yourself to be blocked into certain criteria.
Every single one of us on here is different and unique, own that shit, find the people who match you, trust me they are out there.
Don't argue about your sexuality, it is individual and special to us all.
Be who you are meant to be not what a socialistic induced template expects you to be
S xxx
In very general terms, if you can’t figure who or what you are, then you’ll have a bit of bother saying no to what you don’t want or saying yes to what you do.
I don't think that labelling yourself allows you the freedom to know what you do or don't want.
The debate here isn't what we know we want but more how should it be labelled.
I think many people have figured out 'what they are' but haven't found the relevant 'box' to tick
S xxx
I think it takes a bit of learning to know what the labels are to be fair.
So called ‘fab straight’ could be bi-curious or hetro flexible depending what you read or who you ask."
It could be many things - that's my point.
Labels are labels - if you don't know where you ' belong ' then don't feel the need to label
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"Anyone else over this repetitive debate?
My eyes just roll when I see these threads.
So many people wanting to slap labels, perspectives and opinions on a subject which has a massive spectrum
No one answer is right
No one opinion is correct
No one objective is final
Fluidity and acceptance is all that's needed
Be who ever the fuck you want to be
Label yourself or don't
Anyone who disagrees with you is not the person you're looking to meet
Be yourself, your unique, awesome, wonderful self and the right people will come your way
S xxx
Exactly! That was what I was trying to explore. There are so many nuances, and too much labelling and pigeon-holing.
The only place labelling and pigeon holing has is if you allow it into your life.
It's OK to not conform or allow yourself to be blocked into certain criteria.
Every single one of us on here is different and unique, own that shit, find the people who match you, trust me they are out there.
Don't argue about your sexuality, it is individual and special to us all.
Be who you are meant to be not what a socialistic induced template expects you to be
S xxx
In very general terms, if you can’t figure who or what you are, then you’ll have a bit of bother saying no to what you don’t want or saying yes to what you do.
I don't think that labelling yourself allows you the freedom to know what you do or don't want.
The debate here isn't what we know we want but more how should it be labelled.
I think many people have figured out 'what they are' but haven't found the relevant 'box' to tick
S xxx
I think it takes a bit of learning to know what the labels are to be fair.
So called ‘fab straight’ could be bi-curious or hetro flexible depending what you read or who you ask.
It could be many things - that's my point.
Labels are labels - if you don't know where you ' belong ' then don't feel the need to label
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I think people do though or try to figure it out in some way and there’s so many sort of things out there that they may or may not be.
Not sure how many people say ‘I have no label’ though and somewhat ironically there’s also probably a label for that.
I don’t think there’s escaping what a person thinks they are and what others see them as. |
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"Anyone else over this repetitive debate?
My eyes just roll when I see these threads.
So many people wanting to slap labels, perspectives and opinions on a subject which has a massive spectrum
No one answer is right
No one opinion is correct
No one objective is final
Fluidity and acceptance is all that's needed
Be who ever the fuck you want to be
Label yourself or don't
Anyone who disagrees with you is not the person you're looking to meet
Be yourself, your unique, awesome, wonderful self and the right people will come your way
S xxx
Exactly! That was what I was trying to explore. There are so many nuances, and too much labelling and pigeon-holing.
The only place labelling and pigeon holing has is if you allow it into your life.
It's OK to not conform or allow yourself to be blocked into certain criteria.
Every single one of us on here is different and unique, own that shit, find the people who match you, trust me they are out there.
Don't argue about your sexuality, it is individual and special to us all.
Be who you are meant to be not what a socialistic induced template expects you to be
S xxx
In very general terms, if you can’t figure who or what you are, then you’ll have a bit of bother saying no to what you don’t want or saying yes to what you do.
I don't think that labelling yourself allows you the freedom to know what you do or don't want.
The debate here isn't what we know we want but more how should it be labelled.
I think many people have figured out 'what they are' but haven't found the relevant 'box' to tick
S xxx
I think it takes a bit of learning to know what the labels are to be fair.
So called ‘fab straight’ could be bi-curious or hetro flexible depending what you read or who you ask.
It could be many things - that's my point.
Labels are labels - if you don't know where you ' belong ' then don't feel the need to label
I think people do though or try to figure it out in some way and there’s so many sort of things out there that they may or may not be.
Not sure how many people say ‘I have no label’ though and somewhat ironically there’s also probably a label for that.
I don’t think there’s escaping what a person thinks they are and what others see them as. "
Haha you're probably right that there is a label for not thinking you have a label
I think my issue is the need for other people to label you when you yourself don't know truly where on the spectrum you lie
Fab isn't the best, as we all know, for providing an array of terms for sexuality.
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By *ags73Man 40 weeks ago
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"Anyone else over this repetitive debate?
My eyes just roll when I see these threads.
So many people wanting to slap labels, perspectives and opinions on a subject which has a massive spectrum
No one answer is right
No one opinion is correct
No one objective is final
Fluidity and acceptance is all that's needed
Be who ever the fuck you want to be
Label yourself or don't
Anyone who disagrees with you is not the person you're looking to meet
Be yourself, your unique, awesome, wonderful self and the right people will come your way
S xxx
Exactly! That was what I was trying to explore. There are so many nuances, and too much labelling and pigeon-holing.
The only place labelling and pigeon holing has is if you allow it into your life.
It's OK to not conform or allow yourself to be blocked into certain criteria.
Every single one of us on here is different and unique, own that shit, find the people who match you, trust me they are out there.
Don't argue about your sexuality, it is individual and special to us all.
Be who you are meant to be not what a socialistic induced template expects you to be
S xxx
In very general terms, if you can’t figure who or what you are, then you’ll have a bit of bother saying no to what you don’t want or saying yes to what you do.
I don't think that labelling yourself allows you the freedom to know what you do or don't want.
The debate here isn't what we know we want but more how should it be labelled.
I think many people have figured out 'what they are' but haven't found the relevant 'box' to tick
S xxx
I think it takes a bit of learning to know what the labels are to be fair.
So called ‘fab straight’ could be bi-curious or hetro flexible depending what you read or who you ask.
It could be many things - that's my point.
Labels are labels - if you don't know where you ' belong ' then don't feel the need to label
I think people do though or try to figure it out in some way and there’s so many sort of things out there that they may or may not be.
Not sure how many people say ‘I have no label’ though and somewhat ironically there’s also probably a label for that.
I don’t think there’s escaping what a person thinks they are and what others see them as.
Haha you're probably right that there is a label for not thinking you have a label
I think my issue is the need for other people to label you when you yourself don't know truly where on the spectrum you lie
Fab isn't the best, as we all know, for providing an array of terms for sexuality.
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I wasn’t being facetious just making the point that a person can think that they don’t have a label but the way society and groups of people work is to sort of classify and identify anyways.
I think as we’ve seen above it’s certainly a debate on where men are in terms of straight curious or completely bisexual and there’s either a black and white CV sort of ‘you’re this’ or a more flexible interpretation but I have a feeling different age groups or generations have a different take on that.
I’m now over 50 and for me to think, ‘oh I’ll try that’ is more than a bit of a thought to be honest.
Although I see the ones like ‘my wife guided a cock into my mouth’ that’s a real suck it and see situation and honestly don’t think that’s for me.
But until you’re in that situation say in a two man one woman threesome, who knows? Whether someone goes looking for it is a different thing more premeditated and thought out.
Each to their own I guess.
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"Anyone else over this repetitive debate?
My eyes just roll when I see these threads.
So many people wanting to slap labels, perspectives and opinions on a subject which has a massive spectrum
No one answer is right
No one opinion is correct
No one objective is final
Fluidity and acceptance is all that's needed
Be who ever the fuck you want to be
Label yourself or don't
Anyone who disagrees with you is not the person you're looking to meet
Be yourself, your unique, awesome, wonderful self and the right people will come your way
S xxx "
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In my logic and I apologise in advance to those whom disagree.....if a man meets a person and that person has a penis....they're bi.
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"It works the other way too
Plenty of gay guys on here making out they're straight (or bi-curious) to attract the 'straight hunter' gays out there "
All of what you stated above makes me cringe, sad cases |
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"I've always been tempted to set my profile as "bi" to out the sort of woman that cares about this sort of thing..
..but then I'd have gaping bumholes in my _ocal feed.
This is such an utterly ridiculous statement. I mean, where to start??
How would this any of these women out in any way whatsoever? Would you know because of the sudden shortfall in the many females that generally contact you on here (as evidenced by your veris…oh…)?
And if that fantasy scenario *was* real how would you then ID them from fantasy shortfall? Or was it just brainless, casually homophobic baaantz?
What the fuck are you on about?
If I set my profile to bi, it would out women who care if their partners are bi or not. Because I find it gross when women say "no bi men" or "no men that fuck TV/TS", or whatever else.
I don't consider myself bisexual - I'm only attracted to women (generally). But I don't limit myself to cis women, which these women find distasteful, for reasons I personally consider homophobic.
How in the peppermint fuck would that make ME homophobic?
Ah just as I thought. Out them
so he could label them homophobic. How predictable "
Dunno about the beef you two may have with the predictable comment, but he's right,they would be homophobic. |
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For what it’s worth here’s my take and probably get flack for it but hey Ho..
Many guys, not all, but many will fuck anything that has a warm wet hole.. go to any swingers club on a singles night and you will no this
So a straight guy would probably fuck a tv or get a blow job, even from a guy, men who have sex from men they call it I think..
To be bisexual I think there need to be some attraction other than getting their cock sucked..
We love meeting genuine bi men who are attracted to both sexes, sadly most are just looking for a way to get to the female..
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"I've always been tempted to set my profile as "bi" to out the sort of woman that cares about this sort of thing..
..but then I'd have gaping bumholes in my _ocal feed.
This is such an utterly ridiculous statement. I mean, where to start??
How would this any of these women out in any way whatsoever? Would you know because of the sudden shortfall in the many females that generally contact you on here (as evidenced by your veris…oh…)?
And if that fantasy scenario *was* real how would you then ID them from fantasy shortfall? Or was it just brainless, casually homophobic baaantz?
What the fuck are you on about?
If I set my profile to bi, it would out women who care if their partners are bi or not. Because I find it gross when women say "no bi men" or "no men that fuck TV/TS", or whatever else.
I don't consider myself bisexual - I'm only attracted to women (generally). But I don't limit myself to cis women, which these women find distasteful, for reasons I personally consider homophobic.
How in the peppermint fuck would that make ME homophobic?
Ah just as I thought. Out them
so he could label them homophobic. How predictable
Dunno about the beef you two may have with the predictable comment, but he's right,they would be homophobic. "
The women who he says find bi men distasteful etc then yeah maybe that could be seen as homophobic but that’s not what he said originally. “Out the sort of women who care if their partner is bi”. That absolutely does not automatically make those women homophobic! And I’m not even going to argue that with you. It doesn’t. |
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"Serious question and not meaning to offend anyone.
If a "straight" guy and there's plenty on here that do, meet with a ts/tv are they not really bi ?
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I’d bum your straight arse hole OP  "
I'm bi- curious !!! |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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"The women who he says find bi men distasteful etc then yeah maybe that could be seen as homophobic but that’s not what he said originally. “Out the sort of women who care if their partner is bi”. That absolutely does not automatically make those women homophobic! And I’m not even going to argue that with you. It doesn’t. "
Women meeting 1:1 with men for hookups, insisting that the men they're meeting don't fuck guys? Yeh, it sort-of is. Same with not wanting to meet guys that fuck trans women being transphobic - like, literally, what does it have to do with them. It's just prejudice-driven disgust.
You can fuck whoever you like, I'm not proposing equal opportunities legislation for hookups or relationships or anything else.
But.. yeh, it's homophobic, and I don't want to spend time with these people, because they gross me out. |
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"Serious question and not meaning to offend anyone.
If a "straight" guy and there's plenty on here that do, meet with a ts/tv are they not really bi ?"
A man in a dress, is still a man, so yes, a man meeting that person for sex, is bi at the very least |
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Just to say… sexually we don’t play with TV..
BUT in our experience they are the nicest people ever on the scene and we love socialising and chatting in clubs with them.. try it might open your narrow minds.. |
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"Serious question and not meaning to offend anyone.
If a "straight" guy and there's plenty on here that do, meet with a ts/tv are they not really bi ?"
Definitely.
Though some just cannot seem to accept or admit that they are.
I really do not see the issue myself. |
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"The women who he says find bi men distasteful etc then yeah maybe that could be seen as homophobic but that’s not what he said originally. “Out the sort of women who care if their partner is bi”. That absolutely does not automatically make those women homophobic! And I’m not even going to argue that with you. It doesn’t.
Women meeting 1:1 with men for hookups, insisting that the men they're meeting don't fuck guys? Yeh, it sort-of is. Same with not wanting to meet guys that fuck trans women being transphobic - like, literally, what does it have to do with them. It's just prejudice-driven disgust.
You can fuck whoever you like, I'm not proposing equal opportunities legislation for hookups or relationships or anything else.
But.. yeh, it's homophobic, and I don't want to spend time with these people, because they gross me out."
This is really how I feel too.
I'm fine with people meeting and being who they want and enjoying life but don't try to make people fit in with what you think is the way to be.
I've seen profiles which are really quite nasty about how they talk about bi or trans people and meets...yet I can look at their veris and see that they've met ' straight men or couples that I know have had bi or trans/ TV meets too.
It's none of our business really who anyone meets as far as I'm concerned.
Just treat others and ourselves with the respect that we should.
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A lot of people seem to be unaware that lots of people have sex with others without sexual attraction - I'm thinking more about men who have sex with men. As undoubtedly men having sex with trans women have attraction. |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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"Fully anonymous wooden gloryhole here
manchester city centre
next to deansgate Met stop & train station
easy to park
open for hung or very hung
read my verifications & message if want draining "
Wonder if the ladies will notice all the so called straight men on your veris |
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"Fully anonymous wooden gloryhole here
manchester city centre
next to deansgate Met stop & train station
easy to park
open for hung or very hung
read my verifications & message if want draining
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Wonder if the ladies will notice all the so called straight men on your veris "
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Most of them |
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"Serious question and not meaning to offend anyone.
If a "straight" guy and there's plenty on here that do, meet with a ts/tv are they not really bi ?"
I think it depends really. If someone has a one off bisexual experience or gay/ lesbian experience then no. Like wise if they’ve had more then one experience and decided ultimately it wasn’t for them, then I’d say no again. Heck they may in the past been in a bisexual/gay or lesbian relationship in the past and their preferences change after the relationship ended to only been interested in hetro relationships, so again no. So all in all it’s not there to give others what they would consider the most accurate label based off their on personal standards.
I think the problem is that sexuality is missed used on here by some, as something to use to try and define others instead of it being just for the individual on how they define and want to express themselves. To many people use it in a way of judging others and that a shame really as it shows there still a lot of insecurity around people exploring their sexuality as part their sex life, likewise for having a past. What funny is in the real world the people that are against meeting anyone that has experimented, probably has meet and hooked up with others that have on evening out etc and are completely unaware as we don’t walk around in the real world with our sexual history on display lol.
Personally I don’t think Verification should show the name, gender or link to their profile. It should simply say a verified anonymous single or verified anonymous couple followed by their verification to stop people miss using verification for anything other to confirm the person is genuine and safe to meet with x |
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By *ophie_GTV/TS 35 weeks ago
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"Serious question and not meaning to offend anyone.
If a "straight" guy and there's plenty on here that do, meet with a ts/tv are they not really bi ?"
If a woman meets with a TV/TS does that make them Bi?
What the hell does it matter who meets who, as long as everyone has an enjoyable time. |
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