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By *r_reus OP Man 33 weeks ago
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I've seen many, but never contributed to such threads (apart from kissing), as the impression I often get as I read the replies is that for the most part, women have no interest in hearing about them, and even find men who speak openly about these things a turn off.
I don't know if it's something men aren't expected to do, or if the women who actually are interested would prefer to discover such things for themselves, perhaps save up the intimacy.
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By *eliWoman 33 weeks ago
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I like men who can discuss their sexual quirks openly. In a pervy way I love reading the descriptions that some men put in to their answers.
Like if a man talks about his love of giving oral. How he likes to receive it.
I think swingers chat is generally filled with men so women are more likely to get fapped over, men ignored. In the lounge there have been quite a few threads where men have commented on their interests and women have replied with  or  |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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I have no issue with men discussing these things but unless you are meeting on mutual ground for a certain kink, some things should be discussed once some kind of relationship is formed rather than in the first message. |
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"....the impression I often get as I read the replies is that for the most part, women have no interest in hearing about them, and even find men who speak openly about these things a turn off.
Thoughts?"
I think the OP is onto something.
That thread I once did about having my prostate milked, dressed as Margaret Thatcher, covered in lady-piss and spreadeagled on the altar at St Paul's Cathedral - not one comment.
The be-vagina'd are a tough audience, for sure. |
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Just because women don’t always comment, does not mean that we have no interest in hearing/reading about them in the forum.
I very much enjoy hearing what people enjoy. If it’s not to my taste then I can simply stop reading.
But fab being as it is, I’m massively reluctant to comment. As soon as I said ooh “that” sounds fun. My inbox would be full of men saying they love that act & would love to do such with me. What are you doing later etc…..
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"Just because women don’t always comment, does not mean that we have no interest in hearing/reading about them in the forum.
I very much enjoy hearing what people enjoy. If it’s not to my taste then I can simply stop reading.
But fab being as it is, I’m massively reluctant to comment. As soon as I said ooh “that” sounds fun. My inbox would be full of men saying they love that act & would love to do such with me. What are you doing later etc…..
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Ahhhh...I get it now Misty.
I think?
So what you're saying is every woman wants to be involved with my prostate/Thatcher/piss/St Paul's thing, but they have to protect their box from too much battering?
Makes sense now I think about it x |
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"Just because women don’t always comment, does not mean that we have no interest in hearing/reading about them in the forum.
I very much enjoy hearing what people enjoy. If it’s not to my taste then I can simply stop reading.
But fab being as it is, I’m massively reluctant to comment. As soon as I said ooh “that” sounds fun. My inbox would be full of men saying they love that act & would love to do such with me. What are you doing later etc…..
Ahhhh...I get it now Misty.
I think?
So what you're saying is every woman wants to be involved with my prostate/Thatcher/piss/St Paul's thing, but they have to protect their box from too much battering?
Makes sense now I think about it x"
Precisely because then we’d miss out on the real
deal “st Paul saviour” in a sea of yellow fakery
“Oooh I like that too”. - do ye fuck!! |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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I get this is a swingers site and people can openly discuss their sexual quirks and kinks and what not. But a lot does put me off, not because of what it is, more the way it's presented. It seems done to gain attention at times, guys on the forums are very savvy to what women want to hear so they'll say exactly that.
For me, every guy doesn't need to know what I like unless I actually plan on doing it with you. But I'm boring like that.
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For me, every guy doesn't need to know what I like unless I actually plan on doing it with you. But I'm boring like that.
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Agreed. And I also don’t do every “thing” with every partner. Some people are more suited/good at some things. And the vibe is different.
So just because I do *that* with him doesn’t mean I’ll do it with you… |
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"I get this is a swingers site and people can openly discuss their sexual quirks and kinks and what not. But a lot does put me off, not because of what it is, more the way it's presented. It seems done to gain attention at times, guys on the forums are very savvy to what women want to hear so they'll say exactly that.
For me, every guy doesn't need to know what I like unless I actually plan on doing it with you. But I'm boring like that.
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Same here. In person is a better thing and far more likely to be a turn on.
In the forum/ messages it's a meh.
Either it's " I'll do you rotten" or excruciatingly detailed description. |
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