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Seriously, what’s wrong with my profile?
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I’ve followed all the tips… I have information, I’ve kept enough back to keep people interested, I have a photo, “friends only” photos, age parameters, I pay for premium, I message 3-8 people a week with personable messages… but even messaging somebody, they don’t even view my profile  I’ve paid for premium for 3 years and hardly had a single view! |
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By *ucka39Man 33 weeks ago
Newcastle |
Hiya op
Firstly being a site supporter isn't the gateway to getting loads of naughtiness but gives you the opportunity to explore the site a lot more with additional benefits
Too be honest your bio needs a little work, maybe browse others see how they've done there's for few tips to give you a little assistance
Remember people read a bio before even responding to a message or even sending a first message the bio needs to capture the attention of another  |
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By *ild_oatsMan 33 weeks ago
the land of saints & sinners |
You probably need more in your profile than you have put plus a few more pics
But remember men outnumber the women on this side by at least 1000 to 1
So make yourself interesting attend socials or clubs or start your own social….
Just don’t take it personally and don’t whinge…. |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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I don’t reply to profile pic with a dick, you’ve sent me it unsolicited just by messaging me (I’ll handle the hate for that) have one public if you must but not as profile pic. The name is pretty awful, sorry and the “single Pringle” comment a bit cheesy but that only my opinion |
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By *hoirCouple 33 weeks ago
Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds |
I actually don't see anything wrong with your profile per se, it just doesn't stand out much, kinda generic. On a single man profile it really needs to grab attention, show off your personality more, have interesting or different photos and so on
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"Also the fact you have been on Fab 3 years, means must have read this type of topic at least 47,593 times so you really should know the drill by now…. "
As I said, I’ve followed the guidelines and taken on board the “tips”… |
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OP, to be honest you really need to redux your profile. Inject some class into it with some clean but teasing pictures, add some more narrative that talks more about you in a p+sitive way, make it unique so that it doesn't resemble the usual humdrum text often found in some of the minimal male profiles on here.
Good luck and hopefully your situation will improve.  |
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By *ild_oatsMan 33 weeks ago
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"Also the fact you have been on Fab 3 years, means must have read this type of topic at least 47,593 times so you really should know the drill by now….
As I said, I’ve followed the guidelines and taken on board the “tips”… "
Like previous comments your profile is nothing special….. So clearly not followed the tips….
Unless you have a sense of entitlement |
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By *ornycougaWoman 33 weeks ago
NOT IN THE UK Wherever I lay my hat |
"Also the fact you have been on Fab 3 years, means must have read this type of topic at least 47,593 times so you really should know the drill by now….
As I said, I’ve followed the guidelines and taken on board the “tips”… "
Fella - we have looked at your profile and you clearly haven't |
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By *ornycougaWoman 33 weeks ago
NOT IN THE UK Wherever I lay my hat |
"Well this thread is a refreshing change.... More pics, newer pics, better pics, more text, better text. Look at your profile... Would you be tempted to fuck yourself?
I'd do me  "
We'd all do you PD  |
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"Well this thread is a refreshing change.... More pics, newer pics, better pics, more text, better text. Look at your profile... Would you be tempted to fuck yourself?
I'd do me
We'd all do you PD "
This is why I like you so much, always honest  |
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There's nothing wrong with your profile, OP. Nice photos.
And remember, many women look at profiles in ninja mode, so you'd not know whether you've been viewed by them.
You've had an in person verification, so you're doing something right.
Don't give up xx
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"There's nothing wrong with your profile, OP. Nice photos.
And remember, many women look at profiles in ninja mode, so you'd not know whether you've been viewed by them.
You've had an in person verification, so you're doing something right.
Don't give up xx
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Agreed. To be honest, before you commented his profile was a million miles from what you can now see (cock photos etc). This thread is now pretty much redundant. |
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"I would do them ^ both, but not at the same time. PD f¹rst.
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So I'm just sloppy seconds? Thanks a bloody lot
[Flounces off in a huff] "
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I'm saving/savouring the best until last, my pocket-sized nympho!  |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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"Also the fact you have been on Fab 3 years, means must have read this type of topic at least 47,593 times so you really should know the drill by now….
As I said, I’ve followed the guidelines and taken on board the “tips”… "
If you feel like you’ve done it all, I’m unsure on what it is you want us to tell you?
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" Agreed. To be honest, before you commented his profile was a million miles from what you can now see (cock photos etc). This thread is now pretty much redundant."
I took onboard what everyone was saying and without sharing too much private stuff, revamped it! |
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By *ornycougaWoman 33 weeks ago
NOT IN THE UK Wherever I lay my hat |
"I would do them ^ both, but not at the same time. PD f¹rst.
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So I'm just sloppy seconds? Thanks a bloody lot
[Flounces off in a huff]
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I'm saving/savouring the best until last, my pocket-sized nympho! "
Be still my beating foof  |
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There’s nothing wrong with your profile.
I did ok for a while (ironically, mostly during lockdown) but it’s all gone a bit flat now.
Just the luck of the draw, but £5 a month isn’t going to break me lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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" Agreed. To be honest, before you commented his profile was a million miles from what you can now see (cock photos etc). This thread is now pretty much redundant.
I took onboard what everyone was saying and without sharing too much private stuff, revamped it! "
Err this is the revamped one??
Maybe they don't like dogs? |
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There’s nothing wrong with your profile. Can I suggest it’s your expectation of the site that’s faulty ? Being on fab doesn’t mean automatically getting sex meets all the time. It means you’re (hopefully) on a site that is a community of like minded thinkers. That doesn’t mean dial a shag (though that can happen too). Men still outweigh women massively too so finding meets takes time and effort just like real life. Good to hear someone took on the tips though and good luck OP xxx |
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By *oxy jWoman 33 weeks ago
somerset |
you cant make people like you ...its a select or reject scene
asking for advice will not get you meets they give you advice yet they dont know you ...think about it if you dont know you or what you want then what hope do you have of chatting and meeting others ... its really really simple ''be you'' thats all you can do and then hope you stand out enough for someone to notice you ...thats the hard bit the numbers game the how few women couples there are to the zillions of men simple maths will tell you its going to be hard very hard for most |
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I’ve taken everything on board and changed my profile.
Thanks to everyone who commented- including the comment about the dog- but some people don’t like em and I’m an upfront sort of guy and he’s lived with me for 9 years… no woman is changing that!!!
Maybe things will change, maybe things won’t… we shall see!
Thanks guys! |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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Err this is the revamped one??
Maybe they don't like dogs?
Dogs?"
When he started the forum post his profile said “must like dogs” which I get as a dog owner if he wants to accommodate |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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Err this is the revamped one??
Maybe they don't like dogs?
Dogs?
When he started the forum post his profile said “must like dogs” which I get as a dog owner if he wants to accommodate "
It now says "can accommodate, but must be comfortable with a dog." (which i think is the best bit ) |
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Err this is the revamped one??
Maybe they don't like dogs?
Dogs?
When he started the forum post his profile said “must like dogs” which I get as a dog owner if he wants to accommodate "
It said “can accommodate but must be comfortable with a dog” that’s never changed. |
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By *ornycougaWoman 33 weeks ago
NOT IN THE UK Wherever I lay my hat |
"I’ve taken everything on board and changed my profile.
Thanks to everyone who commented- including the comment about the dog- but some people don’t like em and I’m an upfront sort of guy and he’s lived with me for 9 years… no woman is changing that!!!
Maybe things will change, maybe things won’t… we shall see!
Thanks guys! "
I was my usual sarcastic self on this thread but good on you OP.... that looks much better imho 
Happy hunting! |
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"I’ve taken everything on board and changed my profile.
Thanks to everyone who commented- including the comment about the dog- but some people don’t like em and I’m an upfront sort of guy and he’s lived with me for 9 years… no woman is changing that!!!
Maybe things will change, maybe things won’t… we shall see!
Thanks guys! "
Just join in and blether … here, chat … dunno folk say socials and clubs… meh just join in lol x |
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"I’ve taken everything on board and changed my profile.
Thanks to everyone who commented- including the comment about the dog- but some people don’t like em and I’m an upfront sort of guy and he’s lived with me for 9 years… no woman is changing that!!!
Maybe things will change, maybe things won’t… we shall see!
Thanks guys!
Just join in and blether … here, chat … dunno folk say socials and clubs… meh just join in lol x"
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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Err this is the revamped one??
Maybe they don't like dogs?
Dogs?
When he started the forum post his profile said “must like dogs” which I get as a dog owner if he wants to accommodate
It said “can accommodate but must be comfortable with a dog” that’s never changed."
Sorry it hasn’t changed, and defo leave it! The profile is much better OP, happy fabing |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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Err this is the revamped one??
Maybe they don't like dogs?
Dogs?
When he started the forum post his profile said “must like dogs” which I get as a dog owner if he wants to accommodate
It now says "can accommodate, but must be comfortable with a dog." (which i think is the best bit ) "
I agree, nice touch  |
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Unfortunately being on this site isn't a given mate. It's hard work to get interest especially as there are so many men on this site.
Profile seems fine, I've only seen it since you've changed a few bits. Someone will come along mate.
I've been on this site since I was 18, I've only grabbed the interest of a small handful of lovely fabbers. |
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"Unfortunately being on this site isn't a given mate. It's hard work to get interest especially as there are so many men on this site.
Profile seems fine, I've only seen it since you've changed a few bits. Someone will come along mate.
I've been on this site since I was 18, I've only grabbed the interest of a small handful of lovely fabbers. "
There was no “given”. Just wanted to increase the reply and message rate where, even if it’s off the cuff, I do t even get a profile view when it’s personable to someone and they’re local- just couldn’t work out why |
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"Unfortunately being on this site isn't a given mate. It's hard work to get interest especially as there are so many men on this site.
Profile seems fine, I've only seen it since you've changed a few bits. Someone will come along mate.
I've been on this site since I was 18, I've only grabbed the interest of a small handful of lovely fabbers.
There was no “given”. Just wanted to increase the reply and message rate where, even if it’s off the cuff, I do t even get a profile view when it’s personable to someone and they’re local- just couldn’t work out why "
Lucky if the message even gets opened haha |
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By *hoirCouple 33 weeks ago
Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds |
" Agreed. To be honest, before you commented his profile was a million miles from what you can now see (cock photos etc). This thread is now pretty much redundant.
I took onboard what everyone was saying and without sharing too much private stuff, revamped it! "
Much better photos! I actually love the cheeky grin
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"Well this thread is a refreshing change.... More pics, newer pics, better pics, more text, better text. Look at your profile... Would you be tempted to fuck yourself?
I'd do me "
I’m seeing it now post changes. It’s just a bit meh for me. Also, fab being a swingers site, your profile says you’re looking for females or FF couples only, in my head I’m wondering why you’re not just on a swipey app. If you got some kinks that are your reason for being here, hint at it.
PD here that I’ve quoted - now that is a profile!
That said, if you sent me a decent PM I would probably reply as you’ve got a cheeky face |
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"Well this thread is a refreshing change.... More pics, newer pics, better pics, more text, better text. Look at your profile... Would you be tempted to fuck yourself?
I'd do me
I’m seeing it now post changes. It’s just a bit meh for me. Also, fab being a swingers site, your profile says you’re looking for females or FF couples only, in my head I’m wondering why you’re not just on a swipey app. If you got some kinks that are your reason for being here, hint at it.
PD here that I’ve quoted - now that is a profile!
That said, if you sent me a decent PM I would probably reply as you’ve got a cheeky face "
I might pop my cheeky face in your box  |
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"Well this thread is a refreshing change.... More pics, newer pics, better pics, more text, better text. Look at your profile... Would you be tempted to fuck yourself?
I'd do me
I’m seeing it now post changes. It’s just a bit meh for me. Also, fab being a swingers site, your profile says you’re looking for females or FF couples only, in my head I’m wondering why you’re not just on a swipey app. If you got some kinks that are your reason for being here, hint at it.
PD here that I’ve quoted - now that is a profile!
That said, if you sent me a decent PM I would probably reply as you’ve got a cheeky face "
To be fair, I’m only interested in male bodies and no one has suggested I leave because of that. Being straight (like real straight, not fab straight) is a thing |
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"Well this thread is a refreshing change.... More pics, newer pics, better pics, more text, better text. Look at your profile... Would you be tempted to fuck yourself?
I'd do me
I’m seeing it now post changes. It’s just a bit meh for me. Also, fab being a swingers site, your profile says you’re looking for females or FF couples only, in my head I’m wondering why you’re not just on a swipey app. If you got some kinks that are your reason for being here, hint at it.
PD here that I’ve quoted - now that is a profile!
That said, if you sent me a decent PM I would probably reply as you’ve got a cheeky face
I might pop my cheeky face in your box "
It would be most welcome  |
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"Well this thread is a refreshing change.... More pics, newer pics, better pics, more text, better text. Look at your profile... Would you be tempted to fuck yourself?
I'd do me
I’m seeing it now post changes. It’s just a bit meh for me. Also, fab being a swingers site, your profile says you’re looking for females or FF couples only, in my head I’m wondering why you’re not just on a swipey app. If you got some kinks that are your reason for being here, hint at it.
PD here that I’ve quoted - now that is a profile!
That said, if you sent me a decent PM I would probably reply as you’ve got a cheeky face
To be fair, I’m only interested in male bodies and no one has suggested I leave because of that. Being straight (like real straight, not fab straight) is a thing "
I never said anyone had to leave, just that it raises the question in my mind. No hate intended x |
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"Well this thread is a refreshing change.... More pics, newer pics, better pics, more text, better text. Look at your profile... Would you be tempted to fuck yourself?
I'd do me
I’m seeing it now post changes. It’s just a bit meh for me. Also, fab being a swingers site, your profile says you’re looking for females or FF couples only, in my head I’m wondering why you’re not just on a swipey app. If you got some kinks that are your reason for being here, hint at it.
PD here that I’ve quoted - now that is a profile!
That said, if you sent me a decent PM I would probably reply as you’ve got a cheeky face
To be fair, I’m only interested in male bodies and no one has suggested I leave because of that. Being straight (like real straight, not fab straight) is a thing
I never said anyone had to leave, just that it raises the question in my mind. No hate intended x"
Ah sorry, my bad. Thanks for explainingxxx |
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Why assume that there's anything wrong with it? If you were getting it attracting the wrong people, then changes may help.
Plus, think of Site Supporter as being chosen for the features. It may help some to view you as more serious but it's not a magic bullet.
People have to want you and they'll get to view you and what you bring to the deal, from your messages and profile. Add visiting clubs and socials and you'll get to know more people. |
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" I never said anyone had to leave, just that it raises the question in my mind. No hate intended x"
Nobody ever thought you intended any hate- maybe you’re just sexy as hell and they all thought “damn!”
I’m on the other apps you mention, but long term stuff isn’t my thing atm.
You ask why I’m not looking for couples, like you, I’m straight- I don’t want to share a room with another hard cock- I’d rather mine was the only one- just my preference |
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" I never said anyone had to leave, just that it raises the question in my mind. No hate intended x
Nobody ever thought you intended any hate- maybe you’re just sexy as hell and they all thought “damn!”
I’m on the other apps you mention, but long term stuff isn’t my thing atm.
You ask why I’m not looking for couples, like you, I’m straight- I don’t want to share a room with another hard cock- I’d rather mine was the only one- just my preference "
Oh I’m not straight - lover of all human forms, but appreciate the explanation  . Go to a club, I’ll introduce you to some people who play solo x |
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" I never said anyone had to leave, just that it raises the question in my mind. No hate intended x
Nobody ever thought you intended any hate- maybe you’re just sexy as hell and they all thought “damn!”
I’m on the other apps you mention, but long term stuff isn’t my thing atm.
You ask why I’m not looking for couples, like you, I’m straight- I don’t want to share a room with another hard cock- I’d rather mine was the only one- just my preference
Oh I’m not straight - lover of all human forms, but appreciate the explanation . Go to a club, I’ll introduce you to some people who play solo x"
Genuinely love your support in this- thank you
Where do you normally go to? |
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" I never said anyone had to leave, just that it raises the question in my mind. No hate intended x
Nobody ever thought you intended any hate- maybe you’re just sexy as hell and they all thought “damn!”
I’m on the other apps you mention, but long term stuff isn’t my thing atm.
You ask why I’m not looking for couples, like you, I’m straight- I don’t want to share a room with another hard cock- I’d rather mine was the only one- just my preference
Oh I’m not straight - lover of all human forms, but appreciate the explanation . Go to a club, I’ll introduce you to some people who play solo x
Genuinely love your support in this- thank you
Where do you normally go to?"
Quest. Message me if you want to arrange x |
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By *oxy jWoman 33 weeks ago
somerset |
we have dogs we rescues bullys from the rspca ''the problem dogs'' that they wont let go to anyone ..from staffies to american bulldogs you will be surprise at how many people dont like dogs men more so ... but our dogs are so well behaved and simply wont bother anyone they dont know ...
so this house has always had dogs and always will as they are a big part of us im alway up ftont when chatting very early too no point in carrying on if they dont like dogs .... i think the biggest problem is not the dogs as such its the mess that some people live in there no excuse for a dirty house no matter how many pets you have ...
visted a online friend once who had pet rabbits oh boy the house stank and poop every where..
opps sorry of track but your right op your dog is part of you and gives you more joy the the odd meet ever will... |
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By *irtymCouple 33 weeks ago
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"I don’t reply to profile pic with a dick, you’ve sent me it unsolicited just by messaging me (I’ll handle the hate for that) have one public if you must but not as profile pic. The name is pretty awful, sorry and the “single Pringle” comment a bit cheesy but that only my opinion"
so would this be like saying you sending ass pics to everyone who commented then as your dp is of your ass just wondering as this makes no sense to me?
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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If I were a struggling straight male competing with the huge amount of other men for a much smaller pool of women and couples, I would study the profiles of successful single males on here for a start. You will soon start to see well written profiles, an effort with pictures including tasteful and unique backgrounds, poses, teasing pictures without showing everything. So many of these threads with great advice from said men and importantly direct from women - search the forums, carefully read and learn feedback given |
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"Unfortunately being on this site isn't a given mate. It's hard work to get interest especially as there are so many men on this site.
Profile seems fine, I've only seen it since you've changed a few bits. Someone will come along mate.
I've been on this site since I was 18, I've only grabbed the interest of a small handful of lovely fabbers.
There was no “given”. Just wanted to increase the reply and message rate where, even if it’s off the cuff, I do t even get a profile view when it’s personable to someone and they’re local- just couldn’t work out why "
Like it was pointed out earlier, you can't possibly know whether you get a profile view or not. A high percentage of women do not show up on viewed profile lists as they look in hidden mode. |
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"I’ve followed all the tips… I have information, I’ve kept enough back to keep people interested, I have a photo, “friends only” photos, age parameters, I pay for premium, I message 3-8 people a week with personable messages… but even messaging somebody, they don’t even view my profile I’ve paid for premium for 3 years and hardly had a single view!"
Most will look we just look in stealth mode, saves the hassle of messages asking if we like what we'd seen (obviously not or we'd have messaged.)
Anyway your bio is short, doesn't give much away about you at all, you like eating pussy great, not all women like receiving oral & that's the only thing you've put.
Mrs |
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Two things come to mind. Firstly as so many have said and you've been on here long enough to know, there are so many more men on here to women.
Secondly what are your expectations? Whilst your profile is just about ok; it's also very generic. In a way you seem like you've completed your profile by numbers. It's just a box tick exercise and may be people see through that. |
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By *r TriomanMan 33 weeks ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
From my experience, it makes little difference wether or not you have a decent profile text and/or pictures or if you can write an introductory message whorthy of a Nobel Prize for Literature, this is Fab, there's loads more men on here than there are women/MF Couples plus, there are other factors in play too; not all couples are couples, some are on here for the thrill of it and have no intention of meeting...
The best thing to do OP, is to (as I'm sure its been said already - I've not looked) go to clubs and socials. |
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By *an1978Woman 33 weeks ago
GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please) |
Did you know as a paying member you can change your username?
Have a think about it.
Also use your Tag line to describe and attract, rather than just "looking for fun"
And a add little more location detail.
As some never go beyond "last looked at me" so that's your first shot.
I also appreciate the mention of the dog, you'll find some dog lovers will see as a bonus, whereas I won't go into a home with a dog so appreciate the info up front.
But, at the end of the day, it really is a numbers game... hang in there!!
Definitely recommend socials to meet a number of people in a short time and saves a lot of leg work!
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"I’ve followed all the tips… I have information, I’ve kept enough back to keep people interested, I have a photo, “friends only” photos, age parameters, I pay for premium, I message 3-8 people a week with personable messages… but even messaging somebody, they don’t even view my profile I’ve paid for premium for 3 years and hardly had a single view!"
How do you know people have/n't viewed ?.its one of the reasons the viewed feature is worthless. some be ninjas  .
Who was it that said 'to do the same things over and over again a6nd expect a different result is insane"
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"I’ve followed all the tips… I have information, I’ve kept enough back to keep people interested, I have a photo, “friends only” photos, age parameters, I pay for premium, I message 3-8 people a week with personable messages… but even messaging somebody, they don’t even view my profile I’ve paid for premium for 3 years and hardly had a single view!"
Not sure your profile seems fine to me, patience is the key |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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"I’ve followed all the tips… I have information, I’ve kept enough back to keep people interested, I have a photo, “friends only” photos, age parameters, I pay for premium, I message 3-8 people a week with personable messages… but even messaging somebody, they don’t even view my profile I’ve paid for premium for 3 years and hardly had a single view!"
Nothing unique about your cheesy grin pics or profile description. Same as every other guy. |
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"I’ve followed all the tips… I have information, I’ve kept enough back to keep people interested, I have a photo, “friends only” photos, age parameters, I pay for premium, I message 3-8 people a week with personable messages… but even messaging somebody, they don’t even view my profile I’ve paid for premium for 3 years and hardly had a single view!
How do you know people have/n't viewed ?.its one of the reasons the viewed feature is worthless. some be ninjas .
Who was it that said 'to do the same things over and over again a6nd expect a different result is insane"
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I think it's attributed to Einstein that doing the same thing repeatedly expecting a different result is the definition of insanity. |
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Quick Google update is that it there is no evidence to suggest Einstein said this and want attributed to him until 20 years after his death.
Same Google search credits Rita Mae Brown a Civil Rights campaigner and feminist writer/researcher. |
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"Hiya op
Firstly being a site supporter isn't the gateway to getting loads of naughtiness
WTF!!!! What a wasted £5… I feel r0bbed"
Exsctly hardly splashing the cash (barely blowing a wad).
The whole argument of OP smacks of the single guys going to spas/ events etc and complaining they didn't even get a blowjob despite the high cover cost for singles.... entitlement and chattle methinks. |
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Oh yes and the mentioning of the dog, dog owners don't always realise their home stinks of dog a perfectly normal thing for a dog owner but to the sensitive noses of non dog owners that smell would put them off so great that you mentioned it |
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What you have to realise is that the ratio of men to women is off there is 1000 men to evert 100 females your chances are slim, you need to stand out and be yourself |
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By *orny-DJMan 33 weeks ago
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You are aware that most women and a lot of couples view in stealth mode, so you'll never know if they've looked at your profile - something that pretty much everyone you message will do before even thinking about reading whatever it is you've sent them.
If they don't like what they see, don't fancy you or just don't think you're for them, why should they bother to reply?
I'm afraid you're coming across as rather entitled and displaying the same attitude that many complain of single guys at clubs.
So you've paid your money, you assume you're owed something.
Perhaps you should think about what your expectations were on joining the site - and then drop them. |
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"..what kind of dog?
Only a lab-springer, but he’s the expert on that position
Some people aren’t a fan, so that’s who I include it "
No wonder you are not getting results. you are on the wrong site.
You should be on 'lab Springers'! |
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"Oh yes and the mentioning of the dog, dog owners don't always realise their home stinks of dog a perfectly normal thing for a dog owner but to the sensitive noses of non dog owners that smell would put them off so great that you mentioned it "
Also, dog hairs all over you clothing, when returning to the marital home, can take rather a lot of explaining! |
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"Who gives a toss what you pay
It's also a pretty desperate status. 'it's my birthday, will someone suck me off' "
Not particularly a typical birthday present either. What happened to chocolates and flowers or a bottle of champs |
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