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They go silent when you ask for.
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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"Do you send first? It’s you asking…
I always send 1st."
I’d sadly take it as not attracted to you enough to return if you’ve sent one. If it’s from a verified real account that is, I’d never send a face pic to someone who was just photo verified, too many fakes |
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I sometimes don’t bother if I’m not actually going to be meeting them.
Just in case I win the lotto. I don’t want Dave in Scunthorpe choking on his tea when he sees me on This Morning with my cheque and then blabbing his chops off! |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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"I sometimes don’t bother if I’m not actually going to be meeting them.
Just in case I win the lotto. I don’t want Dave in Scunthorpe choking on his tea when he sees me on This Morning with my cheque and then blabbing his chops off!"
Haha, best forum post of the day!! ( ) |
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We don't send face pics unless we want to. If someone messages out of the blue with a face pic attached, that's their choice. We've not asked for it and we won't necessarily be replying, or attaching our own faces, unless we deem it appropriate. |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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"Do you send first? It’s you asking…
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I've never sent a first in over 3? years."
Same (second profile) genuinely intrigued to know if OP is just sending face pics with first message then asking to get one in return or he means, after chatting a few hours, days etc then asking for one and not receiving |
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"Do you send first? It’s you asking…
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I've never sent a first in over 3? years.
Same (second profile) genuinely intrigued to know if OP is just sending face pics with first message then asking to get one in return or he means, after chatting a few hours, days etc then asking for one and not receiving "
I think he means with first message if I recall another thread correctly |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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"Do you send first? It’s you asking…
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I've never sent a first in over 3? years.
Same (second profile) genuinely intrigued to know if OP is just sending face pics with first message then asking to get one in return or he means, after chatting a few hours, days etc then asking for one and not receiving
I think he means with first message if I recall another thread correctly "
Oh really? Haven’t followed his green arrow, in that case no way would I return a face pic! My mug is only being shown to people I genuinely know I’m meeting for a social first  |
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"Do you send first? It’s you asking…
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I've never sent a first in over 3? years.
Same (second profile) genuinely intrigued to know if OP is just sending face pics with first message then asking to get one in return or he means, after chatting a few hours, days etc then asking for one and not receiving
I think he means with first message if I recall another thread correctly
Oh really? Haven’t followed his green arrow, in that case no way would I return a face pic! My mug is only being shown to people I genuinely know I’m meeting for a social first "
Just from recalling another discussion on showing face/sending face pic but that’s my memory sort of thing.
I think I’d either do it if asked or say if a chat was going okay. I’m sort of unsure around just sending |
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You can ask for what you want but there's potentially no correlation between what you're asking for and their lack of interest.
You will find many dead ends when engagingz just because most people are not mutually compatible with most other people. Expect that and you're being realistic |
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The amount of times we have sent ours after being ask to and then don't get nothing back so H put on our profile don't ask to see ours if your not sending one first lol and we still get ask to send them first lol x J |
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If you've sent one & asked and they've gone silent they aren't attracted enough to send one back.
I'd you've asked without sending one then that's why.
I wouldn't send my face to someone I wasn't attracted to, there's zero point.
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I always find that strange. If you ask girst, you show first surely.
