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What kind of connections are you open to via Fab? Hook-ups? Friends with benefits / fuck buddies? Even something more serious?
Would you meet someone quickly after exchanging first messages with them for sex or do you need to take your time with messages and social meets before you'd consider getting intimate with someone? |
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"Also - do you only meet singles, or are you open to joining couples or groups? Or if you're a couple, do you meet singles or other couples? "
I don’t meet couples so just singles. Although do meet singles as a couple. |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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After doing the quick “hook up” thing in the past i find it doesn’t work well for me. I prefer to get to know them and build a connection. A semi regular thing with one person or couple would nice (whatever label that falls under)
We’re open to meeting both couples and singles. |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"What kind of connections are you open to via Fab? Hook-ups? Friends with benefits / fuck buddies? Even something more serious?
Would you meet someone quickly after exchanging first messages with them for sex or do you need to take your time with messages and social meets before you'd consider getting intimate with someone? "
Much prefer singles over couples. In my experience Couples can get very weird and pushy with boundaries.
I don't really like one of meets unless we weren't a match. And social meet to determine anything, I don't message too much on here. |
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By *mmaleiaWoman 38 weeks ago
Trowbridge |
I need to be attracted to somebody physically & mentally if meeting online I have to have a social before I decide, you’ll know by then if there’s chemistry, I can’t just fuck a cock, I’d get more pleasure out of my finger!
I’m personally looking for someone who wants to explore the whole package with me, clubs, extra partners, dogging, I’m not looking for a boyfriend. If I meet somebody at a club I have a connection with, I will just have a 1 off with them there & then |
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Friends first, then anything else is a bonus. I'm happy to see where the connection takes us, although not seeking anything serious, fwb would be nice 
I like to take my time getting to know people finding what makes them tick, what doesn't. I'm nosey like that  |
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By *WB85Man 38 weeks ago
Staffordshire |
I always spend time finding the right people....I.never rush into anything.
Initially it's only a social, never anything more.
I always look for a softer kind of lady / couple. I'm not a hard-core swinger.
My intention is always for regular meets / fwb scenario. I'm not into One night stands. |
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By *sWyldWoman 38 weeks ago
Edinburgh |
I want "the boyfriend experience" I suppose it's friends with extra benefits that I'd like. I get no satisfaction from the fuck and go scenario. I have tried it but it left me feeling a bit empty and cold. And quite honestly it wasn't worth shaving my legs for!
I want deep, passionate and intense sex with people who actually want to spend time with me out of the bedroom as well as in it.
I'm not afraid of feelings but I'm not sure my heart could cope with being broken again so the idea of going all in with someone isn't on my agenda right now.
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"Also - do you only meet singles, or are you open to joining couples or groups? Or if you're a couple, do you meet singles or other couples? "
Are they hot?
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At the moment nothing, I've no interest in meeting right now.
But when I've got my shit together and back to meeting then I need more than a quick hello let's fuck - I need someone I want to please and for that I need some chat, build up, a personality - I couldn't do quick meets.
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"I'm up for any kind of connections but I don't meet even for a social at the drop of a hat. Mainly because I need to plan my days/weeks and rarely have the insta meet kind of time  "
For a caramel egg video, you'd soon drop that...
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By *edeWoman 38 weeks ago
the abyss |
"I'm up for any kind of connections but I don't meet even for a social at the drop of a hat. Mainly because I need to plan my days/weeks and rarely have the insta meet kind of time
For a caramel egg video, you'd soon drop that...
Mr "
Ssshhhhh - don't tell everyone the unlock code   |
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"I'm up for any kind of connections but I don't meet even for a social at the drop of a hat. Mainly because I need to plan my days/weeks and rarely have the insta meet kind of time
For a caramel egg video, you'd soon drop that...
Mr
Ssshhhhh - don't tell everyone the unlock code "
To late, there goes Cede's knickers
Mr |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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No drama no nonsense please. Just be genuine and specific with your wants. Keep it real and let's get down and sticky. Plenty NSA discreet fun. Good communication and understanding anything can be possible. |
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By *edeWoman 38 weeks ago
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"I'm up for any kind of connections but I don't meet even for a social at the drop of a hat. Mainly because I need to plan my days/weeks and rarely have the insta meet kind of time
For a caramel egg video, you'd soon drop that...
Mr
Ssshhhhh - don't tell everyone the unlock code
To late, there goes Cede's knickers
Mr "
What makes you think I was wearing any in the first place?? |
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"I want "the boyfriend experience" I suppose it's friends with extra benefits that I'd like. I get no satisfaction from the fuck and go scenario. I have tried it but it left me feeling a bit empty and cold. And quite honestly it wasn't worth shaving my legs for!
I want deep, passionate and intense sex with people who actually want to spend time with me out of the bedroom as well as in it.
I'm not afraid of feelings but I'm not sure my heart could cope with being broken again so the idea of going all in with someone isn't on my agenda right now.
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Break ups are hard sadly. Took me ages to get over my break up. |
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Our options are pretty flexible. We meet couples and singles together or separately.
I tend to only experience attraction in person which is why we go to organised socials. If there's chemistry then I still prefer someone I'll stay friends with.
J |
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"I'm up for any kind of connections but I don't meet even for a social at the drop of a hat. Mainly because I need to plan my days/weeks and rarely have the insta meet kind of time
For a caramel egg video, you'd soon drop that...
Mr
Ssshhhhh - don't tell everyone the unlock code
To late, there goes Cede's knickers
Mr
What makes you think I was wearing any in the first place??"
The lack of flies |
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"I'm up for any kind of connections but I don't meet even for a social at the drop of a hat. Mainly because I need to plan my days/weeks and rarely have the insta meet kind of time
For a caramel egg video, you'd soon drop that...
Mr
Ssshhhhh - don't tell everyone the unlock code
To late, there goes Cede's knickers
Mr
What makes you think I was wearing any in the first place??
The lack of flies"
OMG Felix!
(that was pretty funny)
(but still!)
J |
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"I'm up for any kind of connections but I don't meet even for a social at the drop of a hat. Mainly because I need to plan my days/weeks and rarely have the insta meet kind of time
For a caramel egg video, you'd soon drop that...
Mr
Ssshhhhh - don't tell everyone the unlock code
To late, there goes Cede's knickers
Mr
What makes you think I was wearing any in the first place??
The lack of flies"
And the missing echo
Mr |
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"I'm up for any kind of connections but I don't meet even for a social at the drop of a hat. Mainly because I need to plan my days/weeks and rarely have the insta meet kind of time
For a caramel egg video, you'd soon drop that...
Mr
Ssshhhhh - don't tell everyone the unlock code
To late, there goes Cede's knickers
Mr
What makes you think I was wearing any in the first place??
The lack of flies
OMG Felix!
(that was pretty funny)
(but still!)
J"
I nearly didn’t post it! But I thought “Come on Felix, go out on a low…”
Sorry Cede xxx |
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Recreational sex in all it's forms.
Absolutely no interest in anything resembling a romantic relationship.
I would never feel comfortable introducing someone from FAB to vanilla friends or associates, just too scared they would out us, even by mistake.
Holiday, club, party and weekend away meets are what we tend to enjoy, find 121 from FAB not the best.
But, as always, each to their own.
Do like tha fact that parties etc we attend draw from a very broad church.
The drive home can be...aren't they lovely, hope we meet them or he/she again to what the fuck was that all about. |
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"What kind of connections are you open to via Fab? Hook-ups? Friends with benefits / fuck buddies? Even something more serious?
Would you meet someone quickly after exchanging first messages with them for sex or do you need to take your time with messages and social meets before you'd consider getting intimate with someone? "
What does it matter to you! |
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