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By (user no longer on site) OP 38 weeks ago
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Is it right? I got told because I don't really come on here that much I am a time waster, I have always said I am one of the nice guys, My messages are always different no copy and paste. I take time in writing them.
I understand the sort of website.We are all on but to get told I'm a time waster  harsh |
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"Is it right? I got told because I don't really come on here that much I am a time waster, I have always said I am one of the nice guys, My messages are always different no copy and paste. I take time in writing them.
I understand the sort of website.We are all on but to get told I'm a time waster harsh "
Ask them how many times and for how long each visit you need to become a non time waster.
It's an eye opener being on this site and to be fair the swinging scene does attract from a broad church.  |
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By *ornLordMan 38 weeks ago
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"Is it right? I got told because I don't really come on here that much I am a time waster, I have always said I am one of the nice guys, My messages are always different no copy and paste. I take time in writing them.
I understand the sort of website.We are all on but to get told I'm a time waster harsh "
I've started to regard time spent on crafting introductory messages as time wasted, so rare have been positive responses to these. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 38 weeks ago
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I've always said that I will never do a copy and paste message And I have said since day one even though we are on a swinging website just because my profile doesn't have any naked pictures Doesn't mean that I am a time waster Of course if somebody adds me personally and they want to see it then I will happily share it but not on the website.. Anybody can click on a picture and save it So i'm not prepared to put my picture out there for that to happen |
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"Is it right? I got told because I don't really come on here that much I am a time waster, I have always said I am one of the nice guys, My messages are always different no copy and paste. I take time in writing them.
I understand the sort of website.We are all on but to get told I'm a time waster harsh "
Sometimes people throw this out as a general insult, if the don't get the response they wanted or an immediate reply.
To me, a time waster is when you arrange a meet and they don't turn up. Not something we've had an issue with.
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"Is it right? I got told because I don't really come on here that much I am a time waster, I have always said I am one of the nice guys, My messages are always different no copy and paste. I take time in writing them.
I understand the sort of website.We are all on but to get told I'm a time waster harsh "
Fuckem, OP. Or not in this case haha.
People should be free to use fab as they wish to suit their own life, lifestyle, wants and needs, without being subjected to abuse from pricks.
There are, sadly, some who remain so jaded they assume everyone else is somehow doing it wrong.
You do you and bugger what everyone else thinks  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 38 weeks ago
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"Is it right? I got told because I don't really come on here that much I am a time waster, I have always said I am one of the nice guys, My messages are always different no copy and paste. I take time in writing them.
I understand the sort of website.We are all on but to get told I'm a time waster harsh
Sometimes people throw this out as a general insult, if the don't get the response they wanted or an immediate reply.
To me, a time waster is when you arrange a meet and they don't turn up. Not something we've had an issue with.
Nita "
I Have always said if people want to see any nudity of me then by all means they can have my whatsapp they can view it on there.. Just because I don't want to share it on this website does not make me a time waster |
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"Is it right? I got told because I don't really come on here that much I am a time waster, I have always said I am one of the nice guys, My messages are always different no copy and paste. I take time in writing them.
I understand the sort of website.We are all on but to get told I'm a time waster harsh "
I don't demand meet ups and I can understand why some are nervous, but my definition of a timewaster is someone who says they will meet and don't turn up.
Or someone who talks for days on end and just suddenly dissapears when it comes to the meet and totally ghost you. I tend to block them its easier. I'm wary now of people who have not been verified by other members much due to previous experience. |
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Whilst you may not be there are plenty who are and makes people very wary. I am just about yo block one of those myself and did another earlier this morning. Those people spoil the experience of others but people move on. No need for insults or anything. That is why all the tools are here so people can manage communication and intetest as they desire.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 38 weeks ago
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And I get that sometimes people are gonna get wary because of past experiences. But then to read profiles, they can clearly see that. IM not prepared to put something on here, which I don't want to. |
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Used to do proper messages, read the woman's profile, only wrote where I'm in the age bracket (which sort of fell off a cliff at 50), and be polite and just be myself. Got bugger all out of it though so gave up. Which I guess makes me a time waster too. |
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"And I get that sometimes people are gonna get wary because of past experiences. But then to read profiles, they can clearly see that. IM not prepared to put something on here, which I don't want to."
You dont have to put up anything you don't want to. If they dont like that then that's their problem. That's not a definition of a timewaster to me.  |
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