Or in Fab, or actually in real life…
Since it’s categorised on the site and in profiles/preferences.
Would one class a person who ‘vapes’ as a smoker given the residual smell of tobacco is not the same and doesn’t linger.
Or the person who is addicted to chewing nicotine gum, or applies nicotine patches for fun and thrills, as a smoker.
Is it the fact said person indulges in substance abuse that is of curiosity or a turn on/turn off…
Or is it the lingering smell and physical effects burning tobacco has on a person that is a determining factor of whether ‘smoking’ influences your decision to engage in conversation with a person.
Just asking, as I don’t smoke personally (anything), but I’m not attracted to/nor find smokers unattractive…. Though I have found those who smoke tend to have different personalities and life beliefs to some degree than none smokers interestingly enough.
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"Or in Fab, or actually in real life…
Since it’s categorised on the site and in profiles/preferences.
Would one class a person who ‘vapes’ as a smoker given the residual smell of tobacco is not the same and doesn’t linger.
Or the person who is addicted to chewing nicotine gum, or applies nicotine patches for fun and thrills, as a smoker.
Is it the fact said person indulges in substance abuse that is of curiosity or a turn on/turn off…
Or is it the lingering smell and physical effects burning tobacco has on a person that is a determining factor of whether ‘smoking’ influences your decision to engage in conversation with a person.
Just asking, as I don’t smoke personally (anything), but I’m not attracted to/nor find smokers unattractive…. Though I have found those who smoke tend to have different personalities and life beliefs to some degree than none smokers interestingly enough.
Thoughts? "
From experience smoking preference goes out the window when fabsters also have a preference for big cock. |
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By *irthandgirthMan 35 weeks ago
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"Smoking... Cigarettes or anything similar.
The smell and taste makes me feel physically sick.
Vaping is tolerable. "
I split from my last partner partly because she started "secretly" smoking (she didn't smoke around me as she knew I hated it)
She got pissed off when I called her out on it. Even after she brushed her teeth etc, I could still taste/smell it when we kissed. |
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" I have found those who smoke tend to have different personalities and life beliefs to some degree than none smokers interestingly enough.
Thoughts?
Please can you elaborate on this ?"
Yeah sure, and take this with a pinch of salt as it’s only from my experience and personal biases etc
But I’ve found smokers generally less uptight, more easy going and even slightly more reckless and impulsive than non smokers. Whether it be in tiny doses or entire values/beliefs I have found it noticeable (unless I’m projecting my own thoughts and perceptions here even I don’t know).
Whereas non smokers and those who actively object to others smoking, whether it be tobacco or vaping, I’ve found to be less tolerant, more uptight, slightly more rigid and hold more guilty/self-criticism and engage less in impulsive or reckless activities.
Personally I don’t smoke, although I have absolutely no issues with anyone else smoking.
I do however enjoy endangering myself in risky, reckless and thoughtless behaviors - so I could just be imagining the whole thing.
So I was curious what other people thought if anything. |
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I vape. I enjoy the menthol/mint fluids that have no tobacco smell. I don't count myself as a smoker.
I wont meet actual smokers.
I used to smoke, and now the smell makes me want to be physically ill.
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" I have found those who smoke tend to have different personalities and life beliefs to some degree than none smokers interestingly enough.
Thoughts?
Please can you elaborate on this ?
Yeah sure, and take this with a pinch of salt as it’s only from my experience and personal biases etc
But I’ve found smokers generally less uptight, more easy going and even slightly more reckless and impulsive than non smokers. Whether it be in tiny doses or entire values/beliefs I have found it noticeable (unless I’m projecting my own thoughts and perceptions here even I don’t know).
Whereas non smokers and those who actively object to others smoking, whether it be tobacco or vaping, I’ve found to be less tolerant, more uptight, slightly more rigid and hold more guilty/self-criticism and engage less in impulsive or reckless activities.
Personally I don’t smoke, although I have absolutely no issues with anyone else smoking.
I do however enjoy endangering myself in risky, reckless and thoughtless behaviors - so I could just be imagining the whole thing.
So I was curious what other people thought if anything."
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By *na64Woman 35 weeks ago
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Smoking triggers my asthma, as does the fumes from vaping so I put them in the same category.
Can I add I hate it when profiles says non smoker then shows up to a meet smoking. I sound like such a wuss saying, “can you not please” |
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"Or in Fab, or actually in real life…
Since it’s categorised on the site and in profiles/preferences.
Would one class a person who ‘vapes’ as a smoker given the residual smell of tobacco is not the same and doesn’t linger.
Or the person who is addicted to chewing nicotine gum, or applies nicotine patches for fun and thrills, as a smoker.
Is it the fact said person indulges in substance abuse that is of curiosity or a turn on/turn off…
Or is it the lingering smell and physical effects burning tobacco has on a person that is a determining factor of whether ‘smoking’ influences your decision to engage in conversation with a person.
Just asking, as I don’t smoke personally (anything), but I’m not attracted to/nor find smokers unattractive…. Though I have found those who smoke tend to have different personalities and life beliefs to some degree than none smokers interestingly enough.
Thoughts? "
Both a turn off for us. Hate it. |
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Vaping tends to piss me off more than smoking, there seems to be a habit of vapours to exhale massive plumes of vape that even in an outside environment can quickly fill the surrounding air, and the smells seem excessively pungent.
Cigarette smoke, strangely, doesn’t bother me that much.
In the distant past I was a smoker. |
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This crops up quite a lot of the forums and is always a divisive subject
From my point of view, I out both in the same category.
Fan should really introduce another profile option for vaping though. |
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Regardless of whether you smoke or vape, it’s going to change the taste of your mouth and also want you to go outside on occasions.
This detracts from the experience of building up the heat, if one is then disappearing and then the desire to kiss them lessens.
I know vapers will say they aren’t smoking and technically they aren’t but due to the above it’s not pleasant.
We’ve turned up for socials looking forward to meeting people and they spend half their time outside vaping - had we known they vaped we wouldn’t have bothered.
It’s a FAB loophole.
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I come from a household where each of my parents smoked at least 40 a day.
They both died of cancer.
I find smoking utterly repulsive and I will never meet and/or be involved sexually with smokers. And yes, that includes vapers. |
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If people choose to smoke that's entirely up to them, I have friends who smoke. The personality of smokers is as varied as that of non-smokers.
However, I hate the smell of cigarette smoke and 420, it's a big turn off. So, we don't meet smokers.
Vaping is different to me. If they smell nice and I'm attracted to them, all is good.
Nita
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