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When you look at yourself in the mirror, do you like your body 'badges' from the years of use/misuse, or do you want to eradicate them?
Personally, I'm not vain, so my blemishes are me, and I live with them, and hope people accept them. How about you?  |
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"I can't change them, and I wouldn't want to. They are part of me for a reason. Especially my c-section scar, that allowed my wonderful, talented, neurodivergent child to be brought into my world. "
This is great. Love what your body has brought to the world  |
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I’ve been body shamed since I was a child and I have big issue with body image. It’s interesting I’ve come to understand this is my body and I need to work with what I got and I’m kinda okay with that but the only thing I can’t accept is my face. I think it’s pretty self explanatory why I don’t have any issues with my headless body shots on here  |
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"I’ve been body shamed since I was a child and I have big issue with body image. It’s interesting I’ve come to understand this is my body and I need to work with what I got and I’m kinda okay with that but the only thing I can’t accept is my face. I think it’s pretty self explanatory why I don’t have any issues with my headless body shots on here "
I've seen your head. It's great. Pleasure and proud to have you as a friend |
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By *avexxMan 35 weeks ago
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lots of scars from footballing days.. i wouldnt say i was wrinkley for my age little bit lucky that way but if i was its all part of who we are,,, just pop here comes the mirror man human league |
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"I’ve been body shamed since I was a child and I have big issue with body image. It’s interesting I’ve come to understand this is my body and I need to work with what I got and I’m kinda okay with that but the only thing I can’t accept is my face. I think it’s pretty self explanatory why I don’t have any issues with my headless body shots on here
I've seen your head. It's great. Pleasure and proud to have you as a friend "
Likewise. You’re too kind. I think my biggest problem is as I get older I start to look exactly like my mother and it’s something I don’t really want to look into but I know I have to at some point. |
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"I’ve been body shamed since I was a child and I have big issue with body image. It’s interesting I’ve come to understand this is my body and I need to work with what I got and I’m kinda okay with that but the only thing I can’t accept is my face. I think it’s pretty self explanatory why I don’t have any issues with my headless body shots on here
I've seen your head. It's great. Pleasure and proud to have you as a friend
Likewise. You’re too kind. I think my biggest problem is as I get older I start to look exactly like my mother and it’s something I don’t really want to look into but I know I have to at some point."
I'm starting to look like my dad. He looked like Sid James!  |
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By *avexxMan 35 weeks ago
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"I’ve been body shamed since I was a child and I have big issue with body image. It’s interesting I’ve come to understand this is my body and I need to work with what I got and I’m kinda okay with that but the only thing I can’t accept is my face. I think it’s pretty self explanatory why I don’t have any issues with my headless body shots on here
I've seen your head. It's great. Pleasure and proud to have you as a friend
Likewise. You’re too kind. I think my biggest problem is as I get older I start to look exactly like my mother and it’s something I don’t really want to look into but I know I have to at some point.
I'm starting to look like my dad. He looked like Sid James! "
,,, im waiting for my dads belly fighting it off the best i can |
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I avoid looking in the mirror, I hate the reflection staring back at me.
The only time I do it is first thing in the morning, when getting out of bed naked. I look in the long mirror on our wardrobes, turning this way and that, throwing my shoulders back and my boots up.
I hope the clock has gone back 20 years. No amount of posing can stop everything flopping back into place when I relax and breathe again.
I hate that Issac Newton and his fucking apple.... 
Mrs x |
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"I avoid looking in the mirror, I hate the reflection staring back at me.
The only time I do it is first thing in the morning, when getting out of bed naked. I look in the long mirror on our wardrobes, turning this way and that, throwing my shoulders back and my boots up.
I hope the clock has gone back 20 years. No amount of posing can stop everything flopping back into place when I relax and breathe again.
I hate that Issac Newton and his fucking apple....
Mrs x"
Get a different mirror, you look great  |
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I'm not a fan of looking at my body in a mirror.
Since menopause, my skin has changed drastically - texture/tone - and I keep getting weird acne-like eruptions on my body (still waiting on Dermatology appointment).
It took a good few years for me to accept that I'm now fat (used to be pretty slim til i hit my 30's) and now I have this to deal with. Some days I'm pretty disgusted when I look at it.
But I'm working on it |
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"I'm not a fan of looking at my body in a mirror.
Since menopause, my skin has changed drastically - texture/tone - and I keep getting weird acne-like eruptions on my body (still waiting on Dermatology appointment).
It took a good few years for me to accept that I'm now fat (used to be pretty slim til i hit my 30's) and now I have this to deal with. Some days I'm pretty disgusted when I look at it.
But I'm working on it "
you look great lovely |
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"I avoid looking in the mirror, I hate the reflection staring back at me.
The only time I do it is first thing in the morning, when getting out of bed naked. I look in the long mirror on our wardrobes, turning this way and that, throwing my shoulders back and my boots up.
I hope the clock has gone back 20 years. No amount of posing can stop everything flopping back into place when I relax and breathe again.
I hate that Issac Newton and his fucking apple....
Mrs x"
Oh I just had to reply to you!
This age is shit, isn't it? I have aged about 5 yrs in 6 months.
But I must say, you look fantastic. I'd kill to look half as good as you  xx |
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"I'm not a fan of looking at my body in a mirror.
Since menopause, my skin has changed drastically - texture/tone - and I keep getting weird acne-like eruptions on my body (still waiting on Dermatology appointment).
It took a good few years for me to accept that I'm now fat (used to be pretty slim til i hit my 30's) and now I have this to deal with. Some days I'm pretty disgusted when I look at it.
But I'm working on it
you look great lovely "
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Recently had major surgery and i must say im finding it hard to look at such a big scar on my leg plus gained some weight while being immobile so at the moment i dont like what i see but slowly losing it so hopefully in time will regain my confidence |
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"I avoid looking in the mirror, I hate the reflection staring back at me.
The only time I do it is first thing in the morning, when getting out of bed naked. I look in the long mirror on our wardrobes, turning this way and that, throwing my shoulders back and my boots up.
I hope the clock has gone back 20 years. No amount of posing can stop everything flopping back into place when I relax and breathe again.
I hate that Issac Newton and his fucking apple....
Mrs x
Oh I just had to reply to you!
This age is shit, isn't it? I have aged about 5 yrs in 6 months.
But I must say, you look fantastic. I'd kill to look half as good as you xx"
You look lovely baby, killer curves, fantastic boobs and love the colour of your hair.
Think it's definitely a female thing, criticising ourselves like thid.
Guys seem to have it easier. They just age better, wrinkles to them just make them look rugged, grey hair is distinguished and who doesn't love a 'dad bod". It's not fucking fair,
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By *929Man 35 weeks ago
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I have a full abdominal incision scar plus a round scar beside it from wear I had to wear a shit bag for 3 months while everything healed, the incision scar doesent bother me the shit bag scar does as it’s ugly as fuck it’s herniated slightly too which is visible my incision scar has 2 but they smaller and not as bothered by them. Hernias are own fault though When they tell you to rest up you should actually listen to them haha |
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I’m a woman who has lived and so my body has lumps, bumps, stretch marks and scars. I even love my freckles just as well.
Only thing I’m not keen on is my wobbly belly but I still posted a full frontal pic last week for everyone to see and to my surprise other folk liked it.
So whatever we might not be keen on there might be someone out there that loves it . |
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"I’m a woman who has lived and so my body has lumps, bumps, stretch marks and scars. I even love my freckles just as well.
Only thing I’m not keen on is my wobbly belly but I still posted a full frontal pic last week for everyone to see and to my surprise other folk liked it.
So whatever we might not be keen on there might be someone out there that loves it ."
In the sun too |
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"You have been formed of three parts—body, breath, and mind. Of these, the first two are yours insofar as they are only in your care. The third alone is truly yours."
Marcus Aurelius
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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"We all have our imperfect bits makes us who we are xx "
So true. The beautiful and wise culture of the Japanese people have always understood this.
Wabi-Sabi |
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"When you look at yourself in the mirror, do you like your body 'badges' from the years of use/misuse, or do you want to eradicate them?
Personally, I'm not vain, so my blemishes are me, and I live with them, and hope people accept them. How about you? "
There are some I’d like erased but most remind me of life’s struggles and spur me on |
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I am beginning to like my body finally, it's a work in progress for sure
Not bothered by my scars, stretchmarks, wrinkles and grey hair... scars and stretch marks are testimony to my life. Grey and wrinkles are unavoidable.
Got to love what you have because if you don't nobody else will |
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"I am beginning to like my body finally, it's a work in progress for sure
Not bothered by my scars, stretchmarks, wrinkles and grey hair... scars and stretch marks are testimony to my life. Grey and wrinkles are unavoidable.
Got to love what you have because if you don't nobody else will "
Another great post. It took me a long time, and I regress often, to accept and love myself |
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I kinda made a thread in a similar vein. Didn't see this one first!
I struggle with how my body looks now. It's not scars per-se, I don't mind the scars from operations etc. I do mind the weird discolouration of my bad leg and foot. I do mind how my stretch marks look, especially when seated. I do mind how saggy my boobs are.
I'm working on it (liking it more - those features aren't going to change). |
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I don't love or hate my cellulite, bumps, dimples or scars - they are just there- don't like them don't play with me - you're not the type of person I'd want to allow to have the pleasure of me anyway 
What I do love is how my arse cheeks clap as I run- it's like having my own little fan club
What I do love is how my belly doubles up as a comfy pillow for when you get worn out fucking me
What I do love is how my thighs rub together and keep me warm on a cold day
Fuck it! We're all beautifully unique, all wonderfully special- let no one dull your sparkle
S xxx |
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"I kinda made a thread in a similar vein. Didn't see this one first!
I struggle with how my body looks now. It's not scars per-se, I don't mind the scars from operations etc. I do mind the weird discolouration of my bad leg and foot. I do mind how my stretch marks look, especially when seated. I do mind how saggy my boobs are.
I'm working on it (liking it more - those features aren't going to change). "
Confidence is sexy |
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"I don't love or hate my cellulite, bumps, dimples or scars - they are just there- don't like them don't play with me - you're not the type of person I'd want to allow to have the pleasure of me anyway
What I do love is how my arse cheeks clap as I run- it's like having my own little fan club
What I do love is how my belly doubles up as a comfy pillow for when you get worn out fucking me
What I do love is how my thighs rub together and keep me warm on a cold day
Fuck it! We're all beautifully unique, all wonderfully special- let no one dull your sparkle
S xxx"
The arse cheeks line made me giggle. Love it |
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"I don't love or hate my cellulite, bumps, dimples or scars - they are just there- don't like them don't play with me - you're not the type of person I'd want to allow to have the pleasure of me anyway
What I do love is how my arse cheeks clap as I run- it's like having my own little fan club
What I do love is how my belly doubles up as a comfy pillow for when you get worn out fucking me
What I do love is how my thighs rub together and keep me warm on a cold day
Fuck it! We're all beautifully unique, all wonderfully special- let no one dull your sparkle
S xxx
The arse cheeks line made me giggle. Love it "
Glad I made you smile OP |
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"I don't love or hate my cellulite, bumps, dimples or scars - they are just there- don't like them don't play with me - you're not the type of person I'd want to allow to have the pleasure of me anyway
What I do love is how my arse cheeks clap as I run- it's like having my own little fan club
What I do love is how my belly doubles up as a comfy pillow for when you get worn out fucking me
What I do love is how my thighs rub together and keep me warm on a cold day
Fuck it! We're all beautifully unique, all wonderfully special- let no one dull your sparkle
S xxx
The arse cheeks line made me giggle. Love it
Glad I made you smile OP "
It's not the only thing.....your profile is a work of art |
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"I don't love or hate my cellulite, bumps, dimples or scars - they are just there- don't like them don't play with me - you're not the type of person I'd want to allow to have the pleasure of me anyway
What I do love is how my arse cheeks clap as I run- it's like having my own little fan club
What I do love is how my belly doubles up as a comfy pillow for when you get worn out fucking me
What I do love is how my thighs rub together and keep me warm on a cold day
Fuck it! We're all beautifully unique, all wonderfully special- let no one dull your sparkle
S xxx
The arse cheeks line made me giggle. Love it
Glad I made you smile OP
It's not the only thing.....your profile is a work of art "
Now I'm blushing |
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"I’m a woman who has lived and so my body has lumps, bumps, stretch marks and scars. I even love my freckles just as well.
Only thing I’m not keen on is my wobbly belly but I still posted a full frontal pic last week for everyone to see and to my surprise other folk liked it.
So whatever we might not be keen on there might be someone out there that loves it .
In the sun too "
Yea I’m now a naked sunbathing convert |
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"I’m a woman who has lived and so my body has lumps, bumps, stretch marks and scars. I even love my freckles just as well.
Only thing I’m not keen on is my wobbly belly but I still posted a full frontal pic last week for everyone to see and to my surprise other folk liked it.
So whatever we might not be keen on there might be someone out there that loves it .
In the sun too
Yea I’m now a naked sunbathing convert "
Spray in the lotion and rub gently |
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"I'm not a fan of looking at my body in a mirror.
Since menopause, my skin has changed drastically - texture/tone - and I keep getting weird acne-like eruptions on my body (still waiting on Dermatology appointment).
It took a good few years for me to accept that I'm now fat (used to be pretty slim til i hit my 30's) and now I have this to deal with. Some days I'm pretty disgusted when I look at it.
But I'm working on it "
I get you, Red |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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For me it depends.
When I reach the age where I'll start getting stretch marks or blemishes I think I'll really dislike them because they just don't look good.
However, actual scars that one would get from surgeries or catestrophic injuries...YES FUCKING PLEASE JUST GIMME, I wish I could have scars like that! My body confidence would fly through the roof if I had scars on my face, arms and torso. |
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"For me it depends.
When I reach the age where I'll start getting stretch marks or blemishes I think I'll really dislike them because they just don't look good.
However, actual scars that one would get from surgeries or catestrophic injuries...YES FUCKING PLEASE JUST GIMME, I wish I could have scars like that! My body confidence would fly through the roof if I had scars on my face, arms and torso. "
Stretch marks are not age dependent. Many people develop them in their teens when they start puberty. |
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I have spent too many years being told I am unattractive to find anything remotely good about my body.
I appreciate it for the things it can do for me. Then it doesn't matter so much what it looks like or how it changes.
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"I have spent too many years being told I am unattractive to find anything remotely good about my body.
I appreciate it for the things it can do for me. Then it doesn't matter so much what it looks like or how it changes.
MrsAbz"
OK, I'm blocked, but I'm sure people making comments like that maybe have a hint of jealousy about them |
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"I have spent too many years being told I am unattractive to find anything remotely good about my body.
I appreciate it for the things it can do for me. Then it doesn't matter so much what it looks like or how it changes.
MrsAbz
OK, I'm blocked, but I'm sure people making comments like that maybe have a hint of jealousy about them "
Not always. A lot of my issues around my weight stem from childhood and comments made by older people about my size and my body and comments about how I should or shouldn't eat XYZ because I'd get fat etc. Everything I ate was linked to getting fat or getting clear skin or my hair would be shiny etc. It was all connected to appearance. |
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"For me it depends.
When I reach the age where I'll start getting stretch marks or blemishes I think I'll really dislike them because they just don't look good.
However, actual scars that one would get from surgeries or catestrophic injuries...YES FUCKING PLEASE JUST GIMME, I wish I could have scars like that! My body confidence would fly through the roof if I had scars on my face, arms and torso.
Stretch marks are not age dependent. Many people develop them in their teens when they start puberty. "
Oh damn, I learn something new everyday! I thought that was just an old person thing that happens when someone reaches 30 or something. Thanks for the info! |
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"I have spent too many years being told I am unattractive to find anything remotely good about my body.
I appreciate it for the things it can do for me. Then it doesn't matter so much what it looks like or how it changes.
MrsAbz
OK, I'm blocked, but I'm sure people making comments like that maybe have a hint of jealousy about them
Not always. A lot of my issues around my weight stem from childhood and comments made by older people about my size and my body and comments about how I should or shouldn't eat XYZ because I'd get fat etc. Everything I ate was linked to getting fat or getting clear skin or my hair would be shiny etc. It was all connected to appearance. "
And it's all bullshit to make you buy stuff. You're doing just fine lovely |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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My body has changed a lot after having my second child and I’m still coming to terms with how I look now.
A very kind family member told me my face is aging recently. That was nice of them
If I could wave a magic wand and fix all the parts I don’t like, I would. I don’t think that makes me vain in saying that though. |
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"I have spent too many years being told I am unattractive to find anything remotely good about my body.
I appreciate it for the things it can do for me. Then it doesn't matter so much what it looks like or how it changes.
MrsAbz
OK, I'm blocked, but I'm sure people making comments like that maybe have a hint of jealousy about them
Not always. A lot of my issues around my weight stem from childhood and comments made by older people about my size and my body and comments about how I should or shouldn't eat XYZ because I'd get fat etc. Everything I ate was linked to getting fat or getting clear skin or my hair would be shiny etc. It was all connected to appearance.
And it's all bullshit to make you buy stuff. You're doing just fine lovely "
I don't think my mother and other relatives were trying to get me to buy things. |
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"I have spent too many years being told I am unattractive to find anything remotely good about my body.
I appreciate it for the things it can do for me. Then it doesn't matter so much what it looks like or how it changes.
MrsAbz
OK, I'm blocked, but I'm sure people making comments like that maybe have a hint of jealousy about them
Not always. A lot of my issues around my weight stem from childhood and comments made by older people about my size and my body and comments about how I should or shouldn't eat XYZ because I'd get fat etc. Everything I ate was linked to getting fat or getting clear skin or my hair would be shiny etc. It was all connected to appearance.
And it's all bullshit to make you buy stuff. You're doing just fine lovely
I don't think my mother and other relatives were trying to get me to buy things. "
Oh....families.....a whole different set of issues for a forum piece, right there  |
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Oh yes, I have the usual lumps, bumps and scars of life's experiences. I have physical scars from when "he" had a knife and was faster as well as from intense BDSM session. I find scars incredibly erotic. |
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I have a lot of stretch marks and cellulite, not so many scars and wrinkles as others perhaps but I notice them as they’re on my body.
I think it’s easy for us to be critical of ourselves, but this lifestyle is helping me learn to love myself a little more and be kinder to myself.
After all, as a person, I am kind, generous, caring, and everything you could want in a friend, and that has NOTHING to do with the body I’ve been given, that’s all on the inside.
Mrs x |
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"I have a lot of stretch marks and cellulite, not so many scars and wrinkles as others perhaps but I notice them as they’re on my body.
I think it’s easy for us to be critical of ourselves, but this lifestyle is helping me learn to love myself a little more and be kinder to myself.
After all, as a person, I am kind, generous, caring, and everything you could want in a friend, and that has NOTHING to do with the body I’ve been given, that’s all on the inside.
Mrs x"
That's the ticket. Having looked at your profile, I now wish to play pool |
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"If I could wave a magic wand and fix all the parts I don’t like, I would. I don’t think that makes me vain in saying that though."
I don't think you are vain at all. It is good to like yourself, the external you as well as the internal you.
As you become "more senior" it suddenly clicks and you realise that you don't give a damn what others think. You are living your life for you and not for others no matter who they are. |
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"I have a lot of stretch marks and cellulite, not so many scars and wrinkles as others perhaps but I notice them as they’re on my body.
I think it’s easy for us to be critical of ourselves, but this lifestyle is helping me learn to love myself a little more and be kinder to myself.
After all, as a person, I am kind, generous, caring, and everything you could want in a friend, and that has NOTHING to do with the body I’ve been given, that’s all on the inside.
Mrs x
That's the ticket. Having looked at your profile, I now wish to play pool "
If you’re ever in the area I’m sure hubby would give you a game, I’m a spectator… and distractor… |
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"I have a lot of stretch marks and cellulite, not so many scars and wrinkles as others perhaps but I notice them as they’re on my body.
I think it’s easy for us to be critical of ourselves, but this lifestyle is helping me learn to love myself a little more and be kinder to myself.
After all, as a person, I am kind, generous, caring, and everything you could want in a friend, and that has NOTHING to do with the body I’ve been given, that’s all on the inside.
Mrs x
That's the ticket. Having looked at your profile, I now wish to play pool
If you’re ever in the area I’m sure hubby would give you a game, I’m a spectator… and distractor…"
Strip pool. Take an item off for every point |
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"After all, as a person, I am kind, generous, caring, and everything you could want in a friend, and that has NOTHING to do with the body I’ve been given, that’s all on the inside.".
You are a Fifer. Of course you are all of those things and more. |
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""After all, as a person, I am kind, generous, caring, and everything you could want in a friend, and that has NOTHING to do with the body I’ve been given, that’s all on the inside.".
You are a Fifer. Of course you are all of those things and more. "
I have no idea what that means |
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""After all, as a person, I am kind, generous, caring, and everything you could want in a friend, and that has NOTHING to do with the body I’ve been given, that’s all on the inside.".
You are a Fifer. Of course you are all of those things and more.
I have no idea what that means "
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"I'm not a fan of looking at my body in a mirror.
Since menopause, my skin has changed drastically - texture/tone - and I keep getting weird acne-like eruptions on my body (still waiting on Dermatology appointment).
It took a good few years for me to accept that I'm now fat (used to be pretty slim til i hit my 30's) and now I have this to deal with. Some days I'm pretty disgusted when I look at it.
But I'm working on it "
There's absolutely nothing wrong with you. You look fantastic |
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By *aseylee324Couple 35 weeks ago
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Most of them I don't care about, but the result of a botched episiotomy not only bothers me psychologically, but has caused a lot of issues over the years. Ditto for the lumps that are arthritis. I also dislike my stomach after 3 pregnancies but hey, overall I don't think I'm in that bad a shape for 57.
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"Most of them I don't care about, but the result of a botched episiotomy not only bothers me psychologically, but has caused a lot of issues over the years. Ditto for the lumps that are arthritis. I also dislike my stomach after 3 pregnancies but hey, overall I don't think I'm in that bad a shape for 57.
Casey"
You're doing mighty fine |
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By *avexxMan 35 weeks ago
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"Most of them I don't care about, but the result of a botched episiotomy not only bothers me psychologically, but has caused a lot of issues over the years. Ditto for the lumps that are arthritis. I also dislike my stomach after 3 pregnancies but hey, overall I don't think I'm in that bad a shape for 57.
Casey"
,, you look in great shape truth |
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"I'm not a fan of looking at my body in a mirror.
Since menopause, my skin has changed drastically - texture/tone - and I keep getting weird acne-like eruptions on my body (still waiting on Dermatology appointment).
It took a good few years for me to accept that I'm now fat (used to be pretty slim til i hit my 30's) and now I have this to deal with. Some days I'm pretty disgusted when I look at it.
But I'm working on it
I get you, Red "
Yeah you do
And you are bloody awesome- a true role model. Love you & your speedy wheels xx |
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"I’m a woman who has lived and so my body has lumps, bumps, stretch marks and scars. I even love my freckles just as well.
Only thing I’m not keen on is my wobbly belly but I still posted a full frontal pic last week for everyone to see and to my surprise other folk liked it.
So whatever we might not be keen on there might be someone out there that loves it .
In the sun too
Yea I’m now a naked sunbathing convert
Spray in the lotion and rub gently "
Or find a willing volunteer |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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"My body has changed a lot after having my second child and I’m still coming to terms with how I look now.
A very kind family member told me my face is aging recently. That was nice of them
If I could wave a magic wand and fix all the parts I don’t like, I would. I don’t think that makes me vain in saying that though. "
You look perfect in every way.
I have a relative like yours : ) I told them recently of a saying I had just read.
"The mouth should have three gatekeepers:
is it true?
is it kind?
is it necessary?" |
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"I’m a woman who has lived and so my body has lumps, bumps, stretch marks and scars. I even love my freckles just as well.
Only thing I’m not keen on is my wobbly belly but I still posted a full frontal pic last week for everyone to see and to my surprise other folk liked it.
So whatever we might not be keen on there might be someone out there that loves it .
In the sun too
Yea I’m now a naked sunbathing convert
Spray in the lotion and rub gently
Or find a willing volunteer "
I'll warm my hands |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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Having had all 3 kids via C-section, years of weight fluctuations = lots id stretch marks snd wobbly belly and big bum (always seemed to have big boobs), I don't necessarily like what I see in mirror but have accepted that my body can and is appreciated by others |
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"Having had all 3 kids via C-section, years of weight fluctuations = lots id stretch marks snd wobbly belly and big bum (always seemed to have big boobs), I don't necessarily like what I see in mirror but have accepted that my body can and is appreciated by others "
I can see many things to like |
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"I’m a woman who has lived and so my body has lumps, bumps, stretch marks and scars. I even love my freckles just as well.
Only thing I’m not keen on is my wobbly belly but I still posted a full frontal pic last week for everyone to see and to my surprise other folk liked it.
So whatever we might not be keen on there might be someone out there that loves it .
In the sun too
Yea I’m now a naked sunbathing convert
Spray in the lotion and rub gently
Or find a willing volunteer
I'll warm my hands "
More like mop my fevered brow |
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"I’m a woman who has lived and so my body has lumps, bumps, stretch marks and scars. I even love my freckles just as well.
Only thing I’m not keen on is my wobbly belly but I still posted a full frontal pic last week for everyone to see and to my surprise other folk liked it.
So whatever we might not be keen on there might be someone out there that loves it .
In the sun too
Yea I’m now a naked sunbathing convert
Spray in the lotion and rub gently
Or find a willing volunteer
I'll warm my hands
More like mop my fevered brow"
All can be arranged |
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By *aseylee324Couple 35 weeks ago
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"Most of them I don't care about, but the result of a botched episiotomy not only bothers me psychologically, but has caused a lot of issues over the years. Ditto for the lumps that are arthritis. I also dislike my stomach after 3 pregnancies but hey, overall I don't think I'm in that bad a shape for 57.
Casey,, you look in great shape truth"
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"Most of them I don't care about, but the result of a botched episiotomy not only bothers me psychologically, but has caused a lot of issues over the years. Ditto for the lumps that are arthritis. I also dislike my stomach after 3 pregnancies but hey, overall I don't think I'm in that bad a shape for 57.
Casey"
Anyone who knows what an episiotomy is, would totally get why a botched one would totally fuck things up. My perineal repair wasn't due to episiotomy but it wasn't nice, nonetheless. |
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I've got a scar and although I'm not proud of it, I wouldn't be here if I didn't have it. I had a double transplant 17 years ago and I've a half moon shaped scar. I'm always glad when I'm with someone for the first time, when they've seen it and its out the way |
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"When you look at yourself in the mirror, do you like your body 'badges' from the years of use/misuse, or do you want to eradicate them?
Personally, I'm not vain, so my blemishes are me, and I live with them, and hope people accept them. How about you? "
100%
We are who we are because of the things we have been through… |
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"I've got a scar and although I'm not proud of it, I wouldn't be here if I didn't have it. I had a double transplant 17 years ago and I've a half moon shaped scar. I'm always glad when I'm with someone for the first time, when they've seen it and its out the way "
A scar shouldn't matter one bit |
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"I've got a scar and although I'm not proud of it, I wouldn't be here if I didn't have it. I had a double transplant 17 years ago and I've a half moon shaped scar. I'm always glad when I'm with someone for the first time, when they've seen it and its out the way
A scar shouldn't matter one bit "
It hasn't on here but I fund myself explaining it before I meet anyone |
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"I've got a scar and although I'm not proud of it, I wouldn't be here if I didn't have it. I had a double transplant 17 years ago and I've a half moon shaped scar. I'm always glad when I'm with someone for the first time, when they've seen it and its out the way
A scar shouldn't matter one bit
It hasn't on here but I fund myself explaining it before I meet anyone "
Least of my worries |
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"I've got a scar and although I'm not proud of it, I wouldn't be here if I didn't have it. I had a double transplant 17 years ago and I've a half moon shaped scar. I'm always glad when I'm with someone for the first time, when they've seen it and its out the way
A scar shouldn't matter one bit
It hasn't on here but I fund myself explaining it before I meet anyone "
It’s for a very good reason but I guess the explaining is the thing. |
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"I've got a scar and although I'm not proud of it, I wouldn't be here if I didn't have it. I had a double transplant 17 years ago and I've a half moon shaped scar. I'm always glad when I'm with someone for the first time, when they've seen it and its out the way
A scar shouldn't matter one bit
It hasn't on here but I fund myself explaining it before I meet anyone
Least of my worries "
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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"I've got a scar and although I'm not proud of it, I wouldn't be here if I didn't have it. I had a double transplant 17 years ago and I've a half moon shaped scar. I'm always glad when I'm with someone for the first time, when they've seen it and its out the way
A scar shouldn't matter one bit
It hasn't on here but I fund myself explaining it before I meet anyone
It’s for a very good reason but I guess the explaining is the thing."
Yes, it's the awkwardness of explaining it beforehand |
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"Most of them I don't care about, but the result of a botched episiotomy not only bothers me psychologically, but has caused a lot of issues over the years. Ditto for the lumps that are arthritis. I also dislike my stomach after 3 pregnancies but hey, overall I don't think I'm in that bad a shape for 57.
Casey
Anyone who knows what an episiotomy is, would totally get why a botched one would totally fuck things up. My perineal repair wasn't due to episiotomy but it wasn't nice, nonetheless. "
Episiotomies cause a lot of problems at menopause too. Nobody tells you about it and medical professionals have no real solution. |
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"I've got a scar and although I'm not proud of it, I wouldn't be here if I didn't have it. I had a double transplant 17 years ago and I've a half moon shaped scar. I'm always glad when I'm with someone for the first time, when they've seen it and its out the way
A scar shouldn't matter one bit
It hasn't on here but I fund myself explaining it before I meet anyone
It’s for a very good reason but I guess the explaining is the thing.
Yes, it's the awkwardness of explaining it beforehand "
Yeah and I’d hope people in the main are okay with that.
Personally wouldn’t see that as a problem but I guess some guys are weird. |
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I'm very self conscious most days my body repulses me. Ageing sucks and due to health issues the weight has piled on the last few years which has really rocked my confidence. I even say to people before we meet now are you sure you want to meet as I'm a big girl. I've also been subjected to a lot of body shaming on here receiving messages like you're too fat to fuck and who would be attracted to someone with all your wobbly bits. It's hard sometimes not to let it affect you |
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"I'm very self conscious most days my body repulses me. Ageing sucks and due to health issues the weight has piled on the last few years which has really rocked my confidence. I even say to people before we meet now are you sure you want to meet as I'm a big girl. I've also been subjected to a lot of body shaming on here receiving messages like you're too fat to fuck and who would be attracted to someone with all your wobbly bits. It's hard sometimes not to let it affect you"
All I see is a gorgeous lady with great confidence. Let em have it |
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Scars, I am actually haply with. I see them as a sign, that I was bloody lucky to get away with a few scratches. Even happy with the operation scar, on my lower abdomen.
The lumps and bumps, I need to work on. |
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By *aseylee324Couple 34 weeks ago
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"Most of them I don't care about, but the result of a botched episiotomy not only bothers me psychologically, but has caused a lot of issues over the years. Ditto for the lumps that are arthritis. I also dislike my stomach after 3 pregnancies but hey, overall I don't think I'm in that bad a shape for 57.
Casey
Anyone who knows what an episiotomy is, would totally get why a botched one would totally fuck things up. My perineal repair wasn't due to episiotomy but it wasn't nice, nonetheless.
Episiotomies cause a lot of problems at menopause too. Nobody tells you about it and medical professionals have no real solution."
Ain't it the truth  |
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"I'm very self conscious most days my body repulses me. Ageing sucks and due to health issues the weight has piled on the last few years which has really rocked my confidence. I even say to people before we meet now are you sure you want to meet as I'm a big girl. I've also been subjected to a lot of body shaming on here receiving messages like you're too fat to fuck and who would be attracted to someone with all your wobbly bits. It's hard sometimes not to let it affect you"
You are an emerald. Remember that 'those that mind don't matter, and those that matter, don't mind'
“no matter what anyone says or does, my task is to be good. like gold or emerald or purple repeating to itself, "no matter what anyone says or does, my task is to be emerald, my color undiminished.”
? Marcus Aurelius, Meditations |
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"I'm very self conscious most days my body repulses me. Ageing sucks and due to health issues the weight has piled on the last few years which has really rocked my confidence. I even say to people before we meet now are you sure you want to meet as I'm a big girl. I've also been subjected to a lot of body shaming on here receiving messages like you're too fat to fuck and who would be attracted to someone with all your wobbly bits. It's hard sometimes not to let it affect you"
Iv just looked at your profile, you look stunning, beautiful skin and gorgeous curves.
Fuck the haters and be who you are , I'm not Chippendale but I don't care because I'm nice inside xx |
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