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"Don't you have a girlfriend?
Why don't you have a girlfriend
Don't you want a girlfriend?
Any other guys get asked this a lot?"
I don’t ask this. I’d probably ask if you are in a relationship depending on context of our conversation but why would I ask anything else? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 35 weeks ago
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"Don't you have a girlfriend?
Why don't you have a girlfriend
Don't you want a girlfriend?
Any other guys get asked this a lot?yes.
Also, why no kids. "
Yeah that's another one. Do you have kids? Do you want kids? Why not? Don't you like kids...? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 35 weeks ago
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"Never been asked those questions but then I’m not lucky enough to have women messaging me regularly without me them messaging first "
I always get asked this in person. |
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It's often less about seeing if they're available for more, and more about seeing how much self awareness they have about why they're single, and how comfortable they are with that. And also to check there's no current emotional baggage that's s going to result in post nut clarity crying, or self pity, or a psycho ex sending me abuse. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 35 weeks ago
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"I've found that these sort of questions can mean that they are possibly interested in being your girlfriend. Though it's not an absolute."
Most of those who asked are always older than me so probably not |
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"Don't you have a girlfriend?
Why don't you have a girlfriend
Don't you want a girlfriend?
Any other guys get asked this a lot?"
I am curious OP to be honest…
Don't you have a girlfriend?
Why don't you have a girlfriend
Don't you want a girlfriend?
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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"I've never asked this question and I'm 38 years old 
Same.
Except I'm a tad older than 38...
"tad"  
You should respect your elders Joe "
I've seen your photos and respected all over them  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 35 weeks ago
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"Don't you have a girlfriend?
Why don't you have a girlfriend
Don't you want a girlfriend?
Any other guys get asked this a lot?
I am curious OP to be honest…
Don't you have a girlfriend?
Why don't you have a girlfriend
Don't you want a girlfriend?
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Not the right time I guess. |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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"I've found that these sort of questions can mean that they are possibly interested in being your girlfriend. Though it's not an absolute."
I agree. Sounds like they’re doing a little digging to see if you’re available and if so are you a player. |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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"I've found that these sort of questions can mean that they are possibly interested in being your girlfriend. Though it's not an absolute.
I agree. Sounds like they’re doing a little digging to see if you’re available and if so are you a player."
Or they are just inflating the old ego.
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potential reasons
1. indirect compliment - oh my god you're so amazing I can't believe no one has snatched you up
2. they suspect you're in a relationship and lying about it
3. they're one of those weirdos (usually older) who try to pressure everyone around them to have kids. (you have kids, great, you do you, but that's as personal a decision for you as it is for everyone around you!) |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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"Don't you have a girlfriend?
Why don't you have a girlfriend
Don't you want a girlfriend?
Any other guys get asked this a lot?yes.
Also, why no kids. "
Only once and about a month ago. I can’t believe your not with anyone…
Ffs. Neither can I. *cries. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 35 weeks ago
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"potential reasons
1. indirect compliment - oh my god you're so amazing I can't believe no one has snatched you up
2. they suspect you're in a relationship and lying about it
3. they're one of those weirdos (usually older) who try to pressure everyone around them to have kids. (you have kids, great, you do you, but that's as personal a decision for you as it is for everyone around you!)"
I think it's number 3... |
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Never on here over text, but I do get asked those things by people I meet IRL (both from here and otherwise).
Social events with work colleagues springs to mind as the place it'll most commonly occur. |
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I normally get told 'I'm surprised you are single' every now and again, although there can be various reasons behind it. Haha although I just typically respond saying I haven't found anyone desperate enough yet :L |
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