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By (user no longer on site) OP 33 weeks ago
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Are you texting back? |
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By *mmaleiaWoman 33 weeks ago
East Northamptonshire |
Ummm, probably, I only have a few exes & I’m friends with them all, I’m moving 1 this week/end as I have a van |
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Only have the one, and yep because it'll be regarding one of the kids. |
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I've had this today funnily enough on here. I did. |
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By *edeWoman 33 weeks ago
the abyss |
Yeah he's probably coming round for Easter day so seems fair  |
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Yeah - She did yesterday although I’ve not replied to her today |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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I speak to most of my ex's. So yes ! |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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Oh no
I’d block that number so fast! |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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Depends which one. |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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Depends what they wanted to say |
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I am always happy to speak to an ex, I generally don't have toxic relationships with any of them. In fact one has become a good friend over the years.
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By *alcon77Man 33 weeks ago
under the sun & the moon |
"Depends which one."
2 I can say I'm still friends/civil with.
1 I can say it would be like Kathy bates from misery getting in touch. |
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By *ros40Man 33 weeks ago
Bedford |
Not possible
I'm unreachable |
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By *bxanfCouple 33 weeks ago
Shadow Moses, Stourbridge |
Yes.
"How the fuck did you get my number?"
To be exact. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 33 weeks ago
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"Yes.
"How the fuck did you get my number?"
To be exact."
Long story |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 33 weeks ago
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"I don't have one.
J"
#Brag |
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"I don't have one.
J
#Brag"
Is it though? I think it's weird.
J |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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Yes, it'd be nice to hear she's doing well. |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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EX-! For a reason |
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Depends which one. Some I am friendly with. One, not. |
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x's are blocked so they cant text.  |
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Yes, though this is generally against my judgement on what's right to do. I got a letter from them, after they moved home and got it wet, Having been unable to contact them, I would do so, if they texted |
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By *929Man 33 weeks ago
newcastle |
Yes only to tell her to fuck off if it’s my kids’ mother |
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If the ex is your fiancée OP, then no. I don't need the drama. I'm thespian enough as it is.
If the ex is Brucey's mum then probably yes; one last bonk won't hurt. |
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Ys are sometimes more difficult to deal with. |
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The one I have a restraining order for? I'll just call the police and add thr number to the list.
Any of the others, almost certainly  |
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I'd be very suspicious, as - as far as I know given I have no contact with any of them - they're all loved up (or at the very least coupled up). So no, I very much doubt I'd be acknowledging the message. |
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No I'd phone her, we get on better now than in the previous 10 years before divorce, but I'd never go back. Being married for over 30yrs,kids etc means something, being a nice guy I try to help when I can. |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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I'd burn the phone |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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Yes we both would. |
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Only if it’s him asking me to collect my stuff from the garage that’s been there 10 years. |
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I’ve only ever had long term relationships so there’s only 3. 1 I don’t need to talk to so no, 2nd one is blocked and has a lifetime restraining order just in case, the last one yeah I would because we still get on on a plutonic basis |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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Exes stay exes for me. |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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Most sure & I have, not to go back but to be friendly/ polite.
A couple don't deserve an iota of space in my life. |
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I don't have many exes. But I could call each and every one of them right now, very easily. I'd text them back because I KNOW it wouldn't be about the Sex |
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I’d be shitting bricks and booking the first flight out of the UK wondering how the hell she climbed out of that 20ft hole and sewed her head back on, as well as came back to life!!! Let alone how she found all her fingers.
I’d make a quick pit stop at my mates hardware store to let him know the acid we used also hadn’t done its job as intended just to give him the heads up! |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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Yes. "Are the PE kits at your house?" warrants a response. |
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By *aseylee324Couple 33 weeks ago
Valley of Squinting Windows |
Yes, because it would be about our children. We don't communicate beyond that |
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Depends which one it is, if they still have the option to text, then probably yes. Most of them are blocked. |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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Definitely not my X WIFE
However any other women I new YES |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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No |
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By *ornycougaWoman 33 weeks ago
Wherever I lay my hat |
Last text I got from him remains unopened. I saw enough in the message alert  |
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Define ex? Somebody I've dated or parted ways on Fab with then I'd chat. My child (adult) dad? No, we've not needed a conversation since she turned 17. |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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Depends what the text said. |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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I have grown as a person and forgave a long time ago
So probably have a lovely chat and ask how life is and all
As I get older I realise that life to short to be bitter and angry for the past
See maybe this time we part ways as some what freinds as I mean at one point in life they were my best friend |
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I've got one that sends me messages now and then and I don't reply because she screwed me over |
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Nope! I'd be worried if he did - he's rather deceased. |
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"Are you texting back?"
Yeah.
I’m stupid like that.  |
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"I have grown as a person and forgave a long time ago
So probably have a lovely chat and ask how life is and all
As I get older I realise that life to short to be bitter and angry for the past
See maybe this time we part ways as some what freinds as I mean at one point in life they were my best friend"
That's lovely! My child's dad I have literally nothing to say, she has very literally nothing to say. That's their story now |
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"I have grown as a person and forgave a long time ago
So probably have a lovely chat and ask how life is and all
As I get older I realise that life to short to be bitter and angry for the past
See maybe this time we part ways as some what freinds as I mean at one point in life they were my best friend
That's lovely! My child's dad I have literally nothing to say, she has very literally nothing to say. That's their story now "
His family have given her a world of history, provided holidays, paid for car driving lessons, abs been awesome. She has been to 10 countries, and spoilt genuinely... Nothing to do with her father being an arsehole |
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No, there's nothing more to say. |
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"No, there's nothing more to say."
if I was your ex I must have been crazy to lose you you look sexy as hell x
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"No, there's nothing more to say."
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That's shit. My ex was an arse, but his family stepped in for his child, and at 25 they still favour her today |
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"Are you texting back?"
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You seem broken Steve? But it's ENM so shouldn't hurt that much, no? |
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Probably not, despite it being a short relationship I trusted her in my entirety and when all was said and done she left me almost unable to trust people at all.
Took me a long time to start trusting people again and I'm not about to undo it now. |
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"Are you texting back?"
Would you? |
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Definitely not and thats for both of us. Number would be blocked if either 1 texted us. |
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Neither of us would reply to an ex  |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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Yes, she's the mum of my kids. Plus we have a good relationship still. |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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Yes I would |
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Nah  once someone is cast aside they stay there for the rest of my breathing years |
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Not a chance. Sometimes, when it's broken, the pieces don't fit together again. |
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Putting aside the father of my kids, which never texted me anyway, it makes me wonder why others would suddenly text me for?
It doesn’t take much to guess so all they got is polite fuck off. |
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Depends which one, to be honest... |
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Depending which one …. Friendly with most of my exs …. Ex husband not a chance in hell … and last ex I would call the gardai after chasing him away with the baseball bat …  |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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"I have grown as a person and forgave a long time ago
So probably have a lovely chat and ask how life is and all
As I get older I realise that life to short to be bitter and angry for the past
See maybe this time we part ways as some what freinds as I mean at one point in life they were my best friend
That's lovely! My child's dad I have literally nothing to say, she has very literally nothing to say. That's their story now
His family have given her a world of history, provided holidays, paid for car driving lessons, abs been awesome. She has been to 10 countries, and spoilt genuinely... Nothing to do with her father being an arsehole "
That’s good to here that |
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Yeah. But just to be nice.
Evie |
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"No, there's nothing more to say....
That's shit. My ex was an arse, but his family stepped in for his child, and at 25 they still favour her today"
I wish I could say the same. I'm glad your ex's family stepped up for your daughter though |
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Depends on the reasons, a hook up, nope. Help yes. A general check in, yes |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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100%
She’s crazy but would fuck or suck any time anywhere.
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"No, there's nothing more to say. if I was your ex I must have been crazy to lose you you look sexy as hell x"
Thanks, but there is much more to relationships than attraction one of many reasons I'm staying out of them from here on in  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 33 weeks ago
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"Are you texting back?....
You seem broken Steve? But it's ENM so shouldn't hurt that much, no? "
I’m not broken I’m good. This thread was inspired by a funny tik tok.
But- breakups still hurt ENM people |
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Yes, it's been a while since we heard from her but we always reply. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 33 weeks ago
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"Are you texting back?....
You seem broken Steve? But it's ENM so shouldn't hurt that much, no?
I’m not broken I’m good. This thread was inspired by a funny tik tok.
But- breakups still hurt ENM people "
Any my status is from a great Frank Ocean Song |
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Ex wife, probably just for the sake of the Kids.
1 I’d ask what the fuck do you want
1 I’d ignore
The rest yes and ask how they are. |
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By *irthandgirthMan 33 weeks ago
Camberley occasionally doncaster |
I'm only in contact with my daughters mum. The rest are blocked/deleted. I don't believe in holding onto the past. |
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"Are you texting back?....
You seem broken Steve? But it's ENM so shouldn't hurt that much, no?
I’m not broken I’m good. This thread was inspired by a funny tik tok.
But- breakups still hurt ENM people "
I love the inspiration behind some the fab threads
I was reading a random newspaper article in the Guardian yesterday about ‘should I got on a date with the girl from fab that messed me around last year’…..  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 33 weeks ago
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"Are you texting back?....
You seem broken Steve? But it's ENM so shouldn't hurt that much, no?
I’m not broken I’m good. This thread was inspired by a funny tik tok.
But- breakups still hurt ENM people
I love the inspiration behind some the fab threads
I was reading a random newspaper article in the Guardian yesterday about ‘should I got on a date with the girl from fab that messed me around last year’….. "
The guardian is not what it used to be   |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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Depends on ex |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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Yep always.
We get on much better we are now divorced |
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You seem broken Steve? But it's ENM so shouldn't hurt that much, no? "
Why would you think that?
Non-monogamous relationships are every bit as meaningful and loving as monogamous relationships. |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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"Depends on ex"
Too many to mention ? |
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By *l TrenMan 33 weeks ago
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No. She’d be breaking her injunction |
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Some yes and some I've blocked, it depends how they treat me. |
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Yes I’d still let them fuck me |
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Unfortunately, mine (four) have all passed away. Although I talk with them daily (at least I can now get a word in edgeways), the OuiJa board just doesn't cut it. |
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Wife's ex tries to sex txt her regularly  |
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Im friends with a couple of my ex so yes especially if it is my kids dad. I am in regular contact with him.
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I'm sending for an exorcist, since she died 6 years ago. |
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I am friends with my ex got a daughter with her she still sexy lol |
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By *jekimMan 32 weeks ago
Wigan |
Unfortunately yes although she broke my heart |
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"Wife's ex tries to sex txt her regularly "
Does she ever entertain the texts? |
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Yeahhh if she did right now, I likely would |
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By *ucka39Man 32 weeks ago
Newcastle |
Sure, she has enough guilt to live with. Texting back is just licking old wounds |
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By *ackooMan 32 weeks ago
Dublin |
"Are you texting back?"
Absolutely, then I’ll regret it tomorrow |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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I'd be totally freaked out... he died in 2009  |
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If it was from one specific ex, I would text back. One or two wouldn't be weird because I'm still friends with them anyway. There are certain ex's though who I would block immediately |
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My Ex husband text me this morning to wish me a Happy birthday, he was the first to send greetings.
I texted him back and talked about our children after a bit of light hearted banter about ages. |
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By *aven.Woman 12 weeks ago
Not the North West... |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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Not with urgency |
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"Are you texting back?"
Only via a seance. |
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My ex husband yes immediately. Other exes probably not. |
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I still text with quite a few ex's. Afterall they did nothing wrong, just the wrong time for me. |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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People are blocked for a reason |
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Yeah, it's either going to be looking for gossip or telling me something about the boys, when I say boys I mean our adult children lol |
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By *929Man 12 weeks ago
newcastle |
If it was something important regarding our daughter then yes, otherwise no |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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It depends on the contents of their text and the context |
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It would depend on which ex... there's a few I would talk to, there's also a few I wouldn't piss on if they were on fire |
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By *wlmanMan 12 weeks ago
Rugby |
"EX-! For a reason "
Well said |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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Depends if she'd let me fuck her in the arse |
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Unless they’re a horrific person, I don’t understand why there’s a stigma attached with being a friend of an ex. It ends for a reason, when time does its thing. I fully believe people can have a platonic relationship and it should be perfectly fine. |
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By *ean counterMan 12 weeks ago
Market Harborough / Kettering |
No because she would after even more money ! |
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Nope, the past is behind me 👍🏽😁 |
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"It depends on the contents of their text and the context "
Or, if the text was a con. |
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By *mizhereMan 12 weeks ago
ireland 10th to 14th |
It did happen and we did meet |
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Still good friends with my ex. We were together for 25yrs so he will always remain a big part of my life. We often text each other. |
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Yes cos it wouldn’t be an issue as so long ago that we were together |
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Depends on the ex and the text, I haven't had a bad break up bar 1 most I'd reply.
Mrs |
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we still talk for the kids usually involves money she is a bit of a radge pot and she is usually on block when ive had enough of her shit |
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Probably, if only with a ‘what the f@ck do you want’ |
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By *m272Woman 12 weeks ago
London |
I am terrible at replying to any texts I get, friends and family don't usually get a response lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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Depends on which one lol |
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I didn't reply to her texts when we were together lol. Different story if she turned up at my door |
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I probably would just to find out what they want.
No desire to reconcile or "go there" with either of them though. |
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I had the best sex still to this day with my ex so I would definitely text her back And tell her I’ve got a fresh deck of cards in my hand haha |
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Depends which one but definitely still fuck some of them |
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Yes to two of them and recently have and old feelings are returning |
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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"Are you texting back?"
Instant block. |
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Two or three will get a text back rest can bugger off |
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Only one would get a reply and she would unfortunately never text me |
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The more recent asshole would probably get an earful then blocked. The one that needed a restraining order would get reported to the police. Any of the others I'd be happy to have a chat with 💜 |
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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Given she is living in my house, I'll have to probably reply to arrange some repairs of some sort |
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No chance, ex is an ex is an ex. |
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Only one has, and it was a pleasure when she sent me a message. She’s married so nothing will happen but I’m glad she thinks about me occasionally.
A few of the others I have no issues and would have a drink with, but nothing more.
My ex Wife no chance, good riddance. |
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By *otsossieMan 8 weeks ago
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Depends which one, but they all ended for a reason. |
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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Yeah, she's an amazing person. We split on fairly good terms and would reconnect randomly for some naughty fun and laughs, until one of us started seeing someone.
Could get a message at any point in the future, but obviously I hope I don't. She deserves a fucking break. 😆 |
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Yes as we see each other at work but he hasn’t got my number 🤣 |
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