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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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"Here’s a question for ladies or couples, what gets you interested in a message and what’s an instant put off "
In all honesty, hornyness, the right time, the right location. People have a 0.05% chance of landing it right. |
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"Here’s a question for ladies or couples, what gets you interested in a message and what’s an instant put off "
What puts us off is the many one-word messages we get. What's also weird is when people send us face pics without asking first and then expect us to reciprocate. (And then get offended when we don't.)
What gets us interested is people who are courteous and take the time to be friendly. |
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Distance. I wouldn’t expect people to travel too far, so can’t see the point.
It’s also a game of chance, when we’re actively looking, a message could land and bingo. The same message could land when we aren’t and it might not even get read. |
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Interest - if they've read my profile and shown that with a well thought out message. If they have a good profile, even if their message isn't great.
Turn off - Wuu2, u free now, hi babe/hun. Also attaching cock shots into the message or sending cringe graphic descriptions of what they'd do to me. |
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"Here’s a question for ladies or couples, what gets you interested in a message and what’s an instant put off
In all honesty, hornyness, the right time, the right location. People have a 0.05% chance of landing it right."
That’s a very good point |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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Effort is appreciated. Especially showing us they have read the profile. Any attempt at banter is also a good start.
We dont like much the same most others dont like. Low effort, sending pictures of their dick, assuming the lady of the couple ia doing the messages and wants to sext. |
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"Effort is appreciated. Especially showing us they have read the profile. Any attempt at banter is also a good start.
We dont like much the same most others dont like. Low effort, sending pictures of their dick, assuming the lady of the couple ia doing the messages and wants to sext."
If I’m messaging a couple, I’ll always start with saying hello to both, I think that’s a minimum |
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Interested - more than 'Hey' but less than a copy pasted essay. An interesting profile, ideally with meet veri's and pics of their whole self not just one part!
Put Off - Something clearly copy pasted, making assumptions on how we like to play, requesting accom meets when our profile says clubs only
Like others have said, just has to land right
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