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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2 OP   Couple 34 weeks ago

Cumbria

From the BBC website:

“ A council has apologised after parents were offered a choice of class photos with or without children with complex needs in them.

Parents at Aboyne Primary complained after being sent a link from a photography company offering them alternative pictures.”

The school were not involved in the decision to offer pictures without disabled children in them, it was the photography company.

What say you, good people of the fora, is it acceptable to do this, do you get frustrated with disabled people being in photos, or do you think it’s unacceptable to delete the disabled?

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By *wist my nipplesCouple 34 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Tom?

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By *allySlinkyWoman 34 weeks ago

Leeds

Obviously it was an abhorrent suggestion and I think all schools should stop using Tempest Photography in protest.

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By *alandNitaCouple 34 weeks ago

Scunthorpe


"From the BBC website:

“ A council has apologised after parents were offered a choice of class photos with or without children with complex needs in them.

Parents at Aboyne Primary complained after being sent a link from a photography company offering them alternative pictures.”

The school were not involved in the decision to offer pictures without disabled children in them, it was the photography company.

What say you, good people of the fora, is it acceptable to do this, do you get frustrated with disabled people being in photos, or do you think it’s unacceptable to delete the disabled?"

Personally I think it is incredibly inappropriate for the photographers to make this type of decision, but also rather bizarre that it would cross their mind.

I do wonder if a parent had asked for the children in question to be removed for their pictures, and the company just offered the same option to others.

Either way, I think it's sick

Cal

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By *rcoupleCouple 34 weeks ago

Mid Glam

Pretty disgusting.

I'm sure it was done with - all ther best intentions -

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By *bi HaiveMan 34 weeks ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

I'd be shoving a large zoom lens up the togs arse tbh.

Or a Sigma 105mm 1.4.

Those things have a very wide front element.........

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By *allySlinkyWoman 34 weeks ago

Leeds

One mother says she now wonders how many parents ordered the version with her daughter removed.

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By *imply DeeWoman 34 weeks ago

Wherever

What about hidden disabilities? Seems like we as a society have a lot to learn and this honestly this makes me sick to my stomach.

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By *ookie46Woman 34 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

It’s just all wrong on so many levels

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By *allySlinkyWoman 34 weeks ago

Leeds

A mother with twins in different classes says the photo offered of her able bodied daughter's class only had one picture available to purchase, yet the class photo of her wheelchair user daughter had two versions, one with her daughter deleted.

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By *agnar73Man 34 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"One mother says she now wonders how many parents ordered the version with her daughter removed. "

I think that’s the point. A lot of talk about inclusion and maybe the kids understand it at school but don’t hear it at home.

Far as I understand all orders cancelled.

Tempest have did my kids schools and presumably they organise, do the online and payments and a local

Photographer does the work as and when, but their reputation will take an absolute battering and deservedly

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By *rcoupleCouple 34 weeks ago

Mid Glam


"What about hidden disabilities? Seems like we as a society have a lot to learn and this honestly this makes me sick to my stomach."

Ahh it's ok as long as you look normal, or close enough.

The level of "you dont look disabled" ignorance is large.

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By *iking_WitchWoman 34 weeks ago

Hinckley

We all know what the answer is. But we live in a world where the eradication and exclusion of people is normal, accepted and practiced.

It's true we see more disabled and differently abled people on TV, screen and stage but there is still the beauty bias that applies.

When faced with real people I think people still try to hide away people with disabilities.

It's like the workplace. They think they are being inclusive by accepting someone with a walking aid but don't realise the whole of IT and systems has been run by Neuro spicies for decades and the women in credit control are battling Fibro and CFS and are very direct and assertive because they have to fight to survive daily through their disabilities.

We have a culture of ignoring or hiding us away.

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By *imply DeeWoman 34 weeks ago

Wherever


"What about hidden disabilities? Seems like we as a society have a lot to learn and this honestly this makes me sick to my stomach.

Ahh it's ok as long as you look normal, or close enough.

The level of "you dont look disabled" ignorance is large.

"

This unfortunately has been a common occurrence since my my daughter was born. It needs to be added, the largest part of it was by so called “professionals”.

(It needs to be also added there are some absolutely amazing professionals out there for the counterbalance.)

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By *allySlinkyWoman 34 weeks ago

Leeds

Another photograph is in the news today. A prestigious Press Photo of the Year has been won by a photo of 5 Hamas terrorists with the naked and brutalised body of a woman in their truck.

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By *agnar73Man 34 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"What about hidden disabilities? Seems like we as a society have a lot to learn and this honestly this makes me sick to my stomach.

Ahh it's ok as long as you look normal, or close enough.

The level of "you dont look disabled" ignorance is large.

"

That’s another whole issue with public knowledge and whether it’s meant as a kindness or not, it’s very much out there.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman 34 weeks ago

Reading

I hope the publicity closes the photography place. Abhorrent suggestion.

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By *rcoupleCouple 34 weeks ago

Mid Glam


"

This unfortunately has been a common occurrence since my my daughter was born. It needs to be added, the largest part of it was by so called “professionals”.

(It needs to be also added there are some absolutely amazing professionals out there for the counterbalance.)"

I can empthise with you there from thr same experince. You have to fight so hard to get the help and acceptance they qualify for and deserve.

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By *icecouple561Couple 34 weeks ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

What's the story behind this I wonder

I don't hope the photography company gets closed down because people will lose livelihoods but 'on the face of it' some retraining needs to happen at the very least accompanied by a very public apology.

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By *agnar73Man 34 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"What's the story behind this I wonder

I don't hope the photography company gets closed down because people will lose livelihoods but 'on the face of it' some retraining needs to happen at the very least accompanied by a very public apology."

Depends on what went out on order sheets and to what stage school stepped in to stop it

I think tempest use their resource on web for orders and the photographer is a local freelancer so maybe as company name known and photographers isn’t, it’s slightly unfair.

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By *allySlinkyWoman 34 weeks ago

Leeds


" some retraining needs to happen at the very least accompanied by a very public apology."

The photographer's explanation to the school was "some children take time to get focussed"

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By *imply DeeWoman 34 weeks ago

Wherever


" some retraining needs to happen at the very least accompanied by a very public apology.

The photographer's explanation to the school was "some children take time to get focussed""

For real though

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By *icecouple561Couple 34 weeks ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


" some retraining needs to happen at the very least accompanied by a very public apology.

The photographer's explanation to the school was "some children take time to get focussed""

Well that's quite true if any group of young kids. I don't think it's a reason to Photoshop them out of photos

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By *emorefridaCouple 34 weeks ago

La la land


" some retraining needs to happen at the very least accompanied by a very public apology.

The photographer's explanation to the school was "some children take time to get focussed""

That may well be, but surely that means they can add a child to a photo if they were blurry not remove them.

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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago

That is absolute bullshit from whoever came up with the idea.

The people that could be removed out of that photo are somebody’s actual friend.

Nice. Ffs.

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By *ools and the brainCouple 34 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Well I personally don't want a picture of other people's children so just a picture of my daughter or son alone thanks.

I'm sure that in this era of fakery and vanity someone somewhere is offering to Photoshop their children's appearances and guaranteed some parents will accept

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 34 weeks ago

North West

Today I've also read about a wheelchair user who was refused service and asked to leave KFC in Lagos airport, just because he was a wheelchair user (the restaurant was accessible, he had eaten there before).

On Insta, I've read about disabled children excluded from school trips and these overnight "PGL" things.

Lots of exclusion.

This is a particularly egregious example of discrimination though. It's a really active, deliberate form of discrimination and it's abhorrent. It wouldn't surprise me if other parents in the class had requested it, rather than the photography company suggesting it. Do we remember the outcry from some parents when Cbeebies had a presenter who had one arm?? Some parents complained it would "frighten their children" and that Cerrie Burnell shouldn't be on the TV.

It's a lovely place, this earth

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 34 weeks ago

North West


"Well I personally don't want a picture of other people's children so just a picture of my daughter or son alone thanks.

I'm sure that in this era of fakery and vanity someone somewhere is offering to Photoshop their children's appearances and guaranteed some parents will accept "

It was the "whole class" photo. Schools usually do individual ones plus a class one. Parents have the choice of what, if anything, to buy.

We rarely buy photos from school because it costs £40 just to do a digital download!!

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By *jorkishMan 34 weeks ago

Seaforth

Disgraceful

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple 34 weeks ago

in Lancashire

Shitty and inappropriate behaviour..

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By *ools and the brainCouple 34 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.


"Well I personally don't want a picture of other people's children so just a picture of my daughter or son alone thanks.

I'm sure that in this era of fakery and vanity someone somewhere is offering to Photoshop their children's appearances and guaranteed some parents will accept

It was the "whole class" photo. Schools usually do individual ones plus a class one. Parents have the choice of what, if anything, to buy.

We rarely buy photos from school because it costs £40 just to do a digital download!! "

Yeah I realise that, we never wanted a whole class photo and yes I agree with what you said it was probably parents asking for the service and the company offered it to everyone as a result.

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By *ellhungvweMan 34 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"Well I personally don't want a picture of other people's children so just a picture of my daughter or son alone thanks.

I'm sure that in this era of fakery and vanity someone somewhere is offering to Photoshop their children's appearances and guaranteed some parents will accept

It was the "whole class" photo. Schools usually do individual ones plus a class one. Parents have the choice of what, if anything, to buy.

We rarely buy photos from school because it costs £40 just to do a digital download!!

Yeah I realise that, we never wanted a whole class photo and yes I agree with what you said it was probably parents asking for the service and the company offered it to everyone as a result."

I would have thought the correct answer to the parents who asked was: “Sorry, we don’t discriminate.”

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By *ools and the brainCouple 34 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.


"Well I personally don't want a picture of other people's children so just a picture of my daughter or son alone thanks.

I'm sure that in this era of fakery and vanity someone somewhere is offering to Photoshop their children's appearances and guaranteed some parents will accept

It was the "whole class" photo. Schools usually do individual ones plus a class one. Parents have the choice of what, if anything, to buy.

We rarely buy photos from school because it costs £40 just to do a digital download!!

Yeah I realise that, we never wanted a whole class photo and yes I agree with what you said it was probably parents asking for the service and the company offered it to everyone as a result.

I would have thought the correct answer to the parents who asked was: “Sorry, we don’t discriminate.”"

You would have hoped but clearly not

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By *uddy laneMan 34 weeks ago

dudley


"From the BBC website:

“ A council has apologised after parents were offered a choice of class photos with or without children with complex needs in them.

Parents at Aboyne Primary complained after being sent a link from a photography company offering them alternative pictures.”

The school were not involved in the decision to offer pictures without disabled children in them, it was the photography company.

What say you, good people of the fora, is it acceptable to do this, do you get frustrated with disabled people being in photos, or do you think it’s unacceptable to delete the disabled?"

That shows the character of those people and the hatred they have for fellow humans.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2 OP   Couple 34 weeks ago

Cumbria


"Well I personally don't want a picture of other people's children so just a picture of my daughter or son alone thanks.

I'm sure that in this era of fakery and vanity someone somewhere is offering to Photoshop their children's appearances and guaranteed some parents will accept

It was the "whole class" photo. Schools usually do individual ones plus a class one. Parents have the choice of what, if anything, to buy.

We rarely buy photos from school because it costs £40 just to do a digital download!!

Yeah I realise that, we never wanted a whole class photo and yes I agree with what you said it was probably parents asking for the service and the company offered it to everyone as a result.

I would have thought the correct answer to the parents who asked was: “Sorry, we don’t discriminate.”

You would have hoped but clearly not "

Yep, just because there is a market for it, doesn’t mean it should be catered to.

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By *naswingdressWoman 34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


" some retraining needs to happen at the very least accompanied by a very public apology.

The photographer's explanation to the school was "some children take time to get focussed""

My first school picture, there were several children poking their tongues out at other children.

We weren't disabled though, so that's the picture we fucking got. Fuck me what is this world coming to.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS 34 weeks ago

Central

I feel sick just contemplating that anyone would even think of this. How sad that some are viewed as disposable

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By *agneto.Man 34 weeks ago

Bham

Wow. Shocking.

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By *allySlinkyWoman 34 weeks ago

Leeds


" it was probably parents asking for the service and the company offered it to everyone as a result."

Including the parents of the three deleted children.

The company should have obviously declined.

Where do you draw the line ? E.G. Could you remove the tall kid because he makes my son look small ?

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2 OP   Couple 34 weeks ago

Cumbria


"I feel sick just contemplating that anyone would even think of this. How sad that some are viewed as disposable "

I think we saw during COVID how many people saw disabled people as disposable.

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By *r Cheeky cheekyMan 34 weeks ago

essex


"What about hidden disabilities? Seems like we as a society have a lot to learn and this honestly this makes me sick to my stomach."

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By *r Cheeky cheekyMan 34 weeks ago

essex


"What about hidden disabilities? Seems like we as a society have a lot to learn and this honestly this makes me sick to my stomach."

Your 100% right

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By *r Cheeky cheekyMan 34 weeks ago

essex


"It’s just all wrong on so many levels "

True

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By *r Cheeky cheekyMan 34 weeks ago

essex


"It’s just all wrong on so many levels "

True

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By *rcoupleCouple 34 weeks ago

Mid Glam

Happens all the time sadly.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-68692977

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By *inochioMan 34 weeks ago

Derbyshire


"From the BBC website:

“ A council has apologised after parents were offered a choice of class photos with or without children with complex needs in them.

Parents at Aboyne Primary complained after being sent a link from a photography company offering them alternative pictures.”

The school were not involved in the decision to offer pictures without disabled children in them, it was the photography company.

What say you, good people of the fora, is it acceptable to do this, do you get frustrated with disabled people being in photos, or do you think it’s unacceptable to delete the disabled?"

As a parent of a neuro diverse child i find that notion abhorent. If any parents took up that offer they need to take a long hard look at tbemselves. The school and council need to distance themselves from that company.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 34 weeks ago

North West


"Happens all the time sadly.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-68692977"

Access to leisure activities for disabled people is woeful. As a wheelchair using parent, I've been unable to get into all sorts of leisure venues where kids parties are being held. On some occasions, I've had to send my daughter in with her classmates and just sit in the car outside while everyone else has a coffee inside. Any disabled child would be equally unable to participate. It's not a nice feeling.

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By *imi_RougeWoman 34 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Wtaf...

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