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By (user no longer on site) OP 34 weeks ago
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Are these a real thing or just some made up idea?
Would you class it as cheating?
Anyone like to share their experiences?
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"If you have to conceal from your partner then yes, it's cheating"
This.. it doesn't matter if its not physical. I actually would find naughty chat and photo exchange worse in many ways.
And if they had feelings... nope a million times worse than just getting horny and having sex
Luckily not something I have to worry about.
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By *ornycougaWoman 34 weeks ago
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Yes I consider it to be cheating. I fell in love with a work colleague whilst still with my ex. Quite apart from the fact he worked for me, the flirting and intimacy of our conversations as well as the emotional connection we had definitely cross a line even tho we never so much as kissed. I felt that I had cheated on my ex whenever I went home after a night out with my colleague. |
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Was actually talking about this with a friend today. She's found out her partner has been talking to old play mates and that included in a sexual nature. She had assumed it was just as friends... I told her that I would find emotional cheating probably worse.
Neither Mr or myself chat sexually with former partners.. although maybe a little playful banter but difference is we both know. I'd not send photos to anyone off fab though unless in a group thing. And definitely would get upset If it was happening but we are open and honest about our chats.
And anything flirty will be somewhere we both can see like a group chat or on fab only x |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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This is where it starts. Investing in someone on an emotional level is also investing in them as a person and a relationship deeper than sex. It's always the person you 'didn't have to worry about' or 'making things up in your head' that is the end game. The person they lean on is usually the person they end up in a relationship with next. |
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Cheating yes for sure.
No personal experience but have seen a Youtuber the Mr follows have his life kinda get messesed up as his partner had an emotional affair with somone hundreds of miles away (that she hadn't met in realmlife) and leave him at the drop of a hat. |
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I met this girl a couple of years ago at the gym, she used to come back to mine for coffees and food with a few of us and offered to pick me up on the way to the gym.
I liked her so found her out Facebook through mutual friends, it said she was single , no photos of any guy on her posts, we started messaging , it went way to far before my friend told she was married and I confronted her.
She said we didn’t do anything wrong even though we’d talked many times about sex, sexual fantasies and me squeezing her into my case and taking her to Dubai. She’s also come round alone and let me massage her once stripping down to her underwear
She still insists she wasn’t unfaithful |
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By *a LunaWoman 33 weeks ago
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If I was with a fella and I discovered he’d been chatting or texting another woman intimately, sexually, without my knowledge then yeah, best believe I’d react as though I was cheated on.
No need for it.  |
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"If I was with a fella and I discovered he’d been chatting or texting another woman intimately, sexually, without my knowledge then yeah, best believe I’d react as though I was cheated on.
No need for it. "
this for me too... to be fair I'd not be happy with intimate or sex talk even if I knew. X |
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By *a LunaWoman 33 weeks ago
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"If I was with a fella and I discovered he’d been chatting or texting another woman intimately, sexually, without my knowledge then yeah, best believe I’d react as though I was cheated on.
No need for it. this for me too... to be fair I'd not be happy with intimate or sex talk even if I knew. X "
Yeah, I’d not be happy with that either x |
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As weird as this may seem I find emotional affairs worse, I would probably be able to forgive my husband if he just had no strings sex behind my back.
An emotional attachment to someone will be a lot harder to get over..
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"As weird as this may seem I find emotional affairs worse, I would probably be able to forgive my husband if he just had no strings sex behind my back.
An emotional attachment to someone will be a lot harder to get over..
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I get that totally....
Cali |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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They are real. Ex husband had emotional affairs with a few women .... last one he had a full blown affair with once I threw him out and her husband kicked her out when he found out. They now live together.
He used to tell me they were just best friends ..... and that justified putting her first over me.
It's wasn't the only reason I threw him out ... being a thunderous lying c**t generally was what did it  |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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Cheating..not telling your partner you are fuccing someone else.
Never needed to cheat.
Ex husband did
Fab,has many cheaters. Each to their own but not my own |
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