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What's your biggest ick whilst chatting et al on here? Not so much sexually, just what grinds your gears that others do while you're logged in?
Ours have to be those who do not read your profile - especially if they message asking a question where the answer is clearly stated if they'd have bothered to read.
Oh, and random friend requests out the blue from people you've never chatted to/looked at before. They're annoying.
The admin side of this really can be vexing at times. Deep breath.
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Couples looking for other couples, who have no pics of the man, or just a cock shot.
Also when someone sends you a message, you read it and before you respond either way, they send another. I block anyone who does this. |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"Couples looking for other couples, who have no pics of the man, or just a cock shot.
Also when someone sends you a message, you read it and before you respond either way, they send another. I block anyone who does this. "
That's 80% of couples accounts tho.
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"Gay guys who do not take accept that straight men don't want to chat to them"
Yup. The ones that constantly fab every photo/video you upload in a desperate attempt to get your attention in hope that you’ll somehow change your mind for him.
Block. Block. Ohhh another one…block. |
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"Couples looking for other couples, who have no pics of the man, or just a cock shot.
Also when someone sends you a message, you read it and before you respond either way, they send another. I block anyone who does this.
That's 80% of couples accounts tho.
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I know, its part of why my partner and I have kept our single profiles.
As a straight woman, seeing the man is pretty important to me. Past experience has shown its usually really difficult to get a pic of him and then often there's been no attraction. So we don't engage at all with them now, but they make up such a big percentage as you say. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 34 weeks ago
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Generally I don't have many icks. People do what people do and you'll never change them. And everyone has their way of presenting themselves and managing profiles.
Certain things make me cringe a little though.
Thinking certain styles of photos are a good choice as a profile pic.
Asking for advice/feedback, getting good positive suggestions and then not acting on it and wondering why things don't change.
The whole 'Fab for.....' thing on photos.
The only real ick I have is people offering up photos of partners for wank material from single profiles.
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"Generally I don't have many icks. People do what people do and you'll never change them. And everyone has their way of presenting themselves and managing profiles.
Certain things make me cringe a little though.
Thinking certain styles of photos are a good choice as a profile pic.
Asking for advice/feedback, getting good positive suggestions and then not acting on it and wondering why things don't change.
The whole 'Fab for.....' thing on photos.
The only real ick I have is people offering up photos of partners for wank material from single profiles.
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Oh yeah and trying to set their partners up with other men or women behind their backs too. |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"Men claiming that they can make Every woman orgasm.... They can dream on
Or they can make Ebry woman squirt. "
Yup that too
They must think they have sexual super powers or something |
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"Update pictures of a seriously graphic nature. I have no interest in seeing the inside of your gopping minge, not least because it looks like roadkill in a hedge."
2 seriously good words put together in one sentence.
Gopping minge. I salute you.
Honking Clunge. |
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"Nobody says my name on those who do you like threads.
I makes me so sad that I piss my pants in Morrisons just for the attention.
The mr "
My toes curled up when I read it I must admit. Mainly because I am a lowly Tier 4 Bronzer |
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By *ACOLCouple 34 weeks ago
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"Nobody says my name on those who do you like threads.
I makes me so sad that I piss my pants in Morrisons just for the attention.
The mr "
Amazing photos, personally I would die - I don't want to know if we on someone hoyle list I doubt we are but still
Lina. |
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By *ACOLCouple 34 weeks ago
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"Update pictures of a seriously graphic nature. I have no interest in seeing the inside of your gopping minge, not least because it looks like roadkill in a hedge."
Yeap! Too invasive I agree.
Lina. |
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By *uvery30Woman 34 weeks ago
Gloucestershire |
When a guy just wants to constantly talk about sex,fucking, about how honey they are all the time.
Ya I know we are here for all if that bit some actually conversation to get to know someone would be nice as well. |
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Men who only message when they are horny, looking for wank-fodder...
Cum shots pictures...
Overly graphic...
Asking for discretion when their profile is plastered with womens faces and pictures of them having unprotected sex..
Loads of the ones mentioned above in this thread too. |
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The only eye rolling moments I have are forum or verification related.
Acting like fab besties in public while sharing each others details in private messages to other fabbers.
Verifying people as genuine and lovely while warning others in private that they are dangerous and should be avoided.
Attacking people in forum threads for the very things they themselves are guilty of once again in PM's. |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"People reposting the same picture or video over and over again, petty I know but why ?
To me it just means its a Man on a couples profile or they're fakes "
Lol. There’s a couple of guys who I’ve seen do this several times a day and have done for years. One describes himself as “girthy” |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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Poorly taken photos.
The kind with extension cables, piles of washing, toilets and dirty plates in the background.
.omg I just can't even....
Stop please haha |
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By *CLM87Woman 34 weeks ago
Derbyshire |
Unsolicited friend requests.
The amount of guys that get possessive and/or abusive(generally the ones who just want a leg over) when they find out that you had a social or meet and how I'm apparently now theirs
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"Undiscussed expectations, like when someone 400 miles away thinks they’ll get a meet from me only having fabbed their photo
.... *checks distance to North Angus +500 miles phew not me "
2 for the price of one. I'm a little further up. |
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"Undiscussed expectations, like when someone 400 miles away thinks they’ll get a meet from me only having fabbed their photo
.... *checks distance to North Angus +500 miles phew not me
2 for the price of one. I'm a little further up."
Well I do fancy another trip north of the border sometime! |
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"Undiscussed expectations, like when someone 400 miles away thinks they’ll get a meet from me only having fabbed their photo
.... *checks distance to North Angus +500 miles phew not me
2 for the price of one. I'm a little further up.
Well I do fancy another trip north of the border sometime! "
Look at it as a BOGOF lol |
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"Undiscussed expectations, like when someone 400 miles away thinks they’ll get a meet from me only having fabbed their photo
.... *checks distance to North Angus +500 miles phew not me
2 for the price of one. I'm a little further up.
Well I do fancy another trip north of the border sometime!
Look at it as a BOGOF lol"
I prefer the term twofer.. bogof sounds like you're telling me to go away |
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"Undiscussed expectations, like when someone 400 miles away thinks they’ll get a meet from me only having fabbed their photo
.... *checks distance to North Angus +500 miles phew not me
2 for the price of one. I'm a little further up.
Well I do fancy another trip north of the border sometime!
Look at it as a BOGOF lol
I prefer the term twofer.. bogof sounds like you're telling me to go away "
Plus I keep picturing that Terry Nutkins type bloke selling windows in a Wigan esque accent. |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"What's your biggest ick whilst chatting et al on here? Not so much sexually, just what grinds your gears that others do while you're logged in?
Ours have to be those who do not read your profile - especially if they message asking a question where the answer is clearly stated if they'd have bothered to read.
Oh, and random friend requests out the blue from people you've never chatted to/looked at before. They're annoying.
The admin side of this really can be vexing at times. Deep breath.
C xoxo"
Absolute zoomers, timewasting, attention seeking zoomers. GGGRRRR
Hopefully my venom comes over in that. Gggr again, just incase it didnt. |
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"Undiscussed expectations, like when someone 400 miles away thinks they’ll get a meet from me only having fabbed their photo
.... *checks distance to North Angus +500 miles phew not me
2 for the price of one. I'm a little further up.
Well I do fancy another trip north of the border sometime!
Look at it as a BOGOF lol
I prefer the term twofer.. bogof sounds like you're telling me to go away
Plus I keep picturing that Terry Nutkins type bloke selling windows in a Wigan esque accent."
Oh bloody hell I know the ad...
Safestyle or something ... |
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Awful photos. Semi erect or flaccid penises flopped against a hairy thigh. Spotty shaving rashes on close ups of spunk splattered genitals. Spunk dribbling down a chin. A hairy taint and balls with a large anal toy protruding. These all might be titillating to the photo takers but while there are some faces only a mother could love, there are some explicit images that only your partner could get off on. Some pictures hurt my eyes. |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"Awful photos. Semi erect or flaccid penises flopped against a hairy thigh. Spotty shaving rashes on close ups of spunk splattered genitals. Spunk dribbling down a chin. A hairy taint and balls with a large anal toy protruding. These all might be titillating to the photo takers but while there are some faces only a mother could love, there are some explicit images that only your partner could get off on. Some pictures hurt my eyes. "
I genuinely lol’d at this |
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"Undiscussed expectations, like when someone 400 miles away thinks they’ll get a meet from me only having fabbed their photo
.... *checks distance to North Angus +500 miles phew not me
2 for the price of one. I'm a little further up.
Well I do fancy another trip north of the border sometime!
Look at it as a BOGOF lol
I prefer the term twofer.. bogof sounds like you're telling me to go away
Plus I keep picturing that Terry Nutkins type bloke selling windows in a Wigan esque accent.
Oh bloody hell I know the ad...
Safestyle or something ... "
Bob on
https://youtu.be/i3A1TT3kwIY?si=pyWOeAmKyah3KVQw |
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Bi guys who masquerade as straight guys. They'll start chatting about their wives, everything is going along nicely then suddenly it's "have you ever thought about being with another guy?" Nope, read my profile. Slowly. Cheerio.... |
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1. Fab for friend requests
2. Spunk dripping out of pussy pic
3. Couples profile just all pics of women but lots cropped out leads me to think fake
4. Demanding face pics but don't have one
5. Any drug references
6. Lots still ask for ££
Probably lots more |
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"Update pictures of a seriously graphic nature. I have no interest in seeing the inside of your gopping minge, not least because it looks like roadkill in a hedge."
I thought you'd like my dead panty badger |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"Guys who's opening message is an explicit description of what they would like to do to me, and assume its what I want.
Instant block!"
^^^^^^^
That creeps me out & some are essay type 1st msgs that go into extreme graphic detail & some are disturbing of what they want to do to me |
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Loving this post. So many things I’m agreeing with. Reassuring me I’m not just a moody b*tch about this stuff.
My main gripe is not reading the profile. Recently we’ve been asked if I’ll meet alone to cuck the husband whilst having girl on girl play. No where does our profile mention cuck.
It clearly states we play together so no, my partner won’t meet you on his own because you fancy trying a bit of black. There’s single guys for that.
Oohhh shouldn’t get me started…. My grumbles would be endless.
And breathe… |
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"Guys who don’t listen and persistently send me message after message when I’ve already said no …. No means no simple as "
I very politely (as I always do) told someone for the 3rd time that I wasn’t interested . The absolute dogs abuse I received? Four massive paragraphs long, apparently because I said no to him ? I am everything that is wrong with the site . |
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"What's your biggest ick whilst chatting et al on here? Not so much sexually, just what grinds your gears that others do while you're logged in?
Ours have to be those who do not read your profile - especially if they message asking a question where the answer is clearly stated if they'd have bothered to read.
Oh, and random friend requests out the blue from people you've never chatted to/looked at before. They're annoying.
The admin side of this really can be vexing at times. Deep breath.
C xoxo"
The word ick |
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So many people write, ‘intrigued’ when they mean curious. It gives me massive ick as it feels like they’re trying to be impressive and intelligent. The same with people who say they are sapiosexual. |
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"Guys who don’t listen and persistently send me message after message when I’ve already said no …. No means no simple as
I very politely (as I always do) told someone for the 3rd time that I wasn’t interested . The absolute dogs abuse I received? Four massive paragraphs long, apparently because I said no to him ? I am everything that is wrong with the site . "
Unfortunately guys think it’s appropriate to speak to women like that when they can’t get what they want ….. if they just listened to the first no and moved on there would be no issues |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"Claims to be a bull or a dom or a daddy or vwe.. just why???"
To be fair, some might be. And they are targeting those who look for such skills/experience, or length/girth.
Speaking of VWE, not an ice, but a hilarious attempt to attract attention--photoshopped sixpacks, biceps, and cocks. |
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The 'me and my mate' or me and my mrs' - No thanks. "Why not" *block*
'You look fun' - I'm not a bouncy castle you know
Yesterday I got called a "Typical stuck up English girl' because his offer of a cat fight did not appeal to me. - I'm actually Welsh and stuck up not English and stuck up so shove that up your poo pipe. |
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"The 'me and my mate' or me and my mrs' - No thanks. "Why not" *block*
'You look fun' - I'm not a bouncy castle you know
Yesterday I got called a "Typical stuck up English girl' because his offer of a cat fight did not appeal to me. - I'm actually Welsh and stuck up not English and stuck up so shove that up your poo pipe. "
Shove that up your poo pipe made me laugh so much |
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Entitlement. People with their knickers in a twist because you won't meet them, who think it makes all men/nationality/age/whatever hard done by.
No, it's just you're not as appealing as a novel and an early night. |
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"Guys who don’t listen and persistently send me message after message when I’ve already said no …. No means no simple as
I very politely (as I always do) told someone for the 3rd time that I wasn’t interested . The absolute dogs abuse I received? Four massive paragraphs long, apparently because I said no to him ? I am everything that is wrong with the site . "
I didn’t get a long paragraph after I politely declined his offer, but I was called a whore! |
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"Guys who don’t listen and persistently send me message after message when I’ve already said no …. No means no simple as
I very politely (as I always do) told someone for the 3rd time that I wasn’t interested . The absolute dogs abuse I received? Four massive paragraphs long, apparently because I said no to him ? I am everything that is wrong with the site .
I didn’t get a long paragraph after I politely declined his offer, but I was called a whore!"
If only people were as creative in their first messages as they are when they lose their shit, hey |
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By *odevilWoman 34 weeks ago
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"So many people write, ‘intrigued’ when they mean curious. It gives me massive ick as it feels like they’re trying to be impressive and intelligent. The same with people who say they are sapiosexual. "
I think its hilarious when people claim to be sapiosexual and immediately ask for face/body pics.
I personally detest the words "hubby"
"Naughty" (or god forbid "nawty")
And hate to be addressed as babe/hun/sweet etc etc |
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The word ick "
Whoever thought it up did language a massive disservice.
There must, surely be better ways of expressing displeasure..
..and, no, I am not thinking of 'Grrrr', 'Grinds my gears' or 'Boils my piss' which rank alongside 'ick' as trendy phrases or words which I will never be needing to use. |
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As previously said, not reading your profile at all & asking questions that are clearly answered in your profile.
Copy & pasted messages, that it's clear they've sent to every other girl cause it's so generic. Receiving the same copy & pasted message multiple times with no effort at all.
Invasive genitalia pics. Leave something to the imagination.
Yeah
Friend requests when you haven't even met.
I'll stop now, there are too many to mention lol |
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I wouldn't call it an "ick" but those who don't read profiles. Fully.
A long profile serves several useful purposes.
1. Folks "screen" themselves, because when some message me and it's obvious they haven't read the profile, they've effectively sifted themselves out for me, saving me the bother.
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2. It's designed to attract the "right" people for me, and if that helps them sift me in or out, it's helped everyone all round. Not being contacted by people you would not have been interested in anyway is a positive. |
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The word ick
Whoever thought it up did language a massive disservice.
There must, surely be better ways of expressing displeasure..
..and, no, I am not thinking of 'Grrrr', 'Grinds my gears' or 'Boils my piss' which rank alongside 'ick' as trendy phrases or words which I will never be needing to use."
Never heard the phrase ‘boils my piss’ before.
I wonder what the boiling point for piss actually is and how much you lose to evaporation etc under the right circumstances.
Sounds pretty icky though. |
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"What's your biggest ick whilst chatting et al on here? Not so much sexually, just what grinds your gears that others do while you're logged in?
Ours have to be those who do not read your profile - especially if they message asking a question where the answer is clearly stated if they'd have bothered to read.
Oh, and random friend requests out the blue from people you've never chatted to/looked at before. They're annoying.
The admin side of this really can be vexing at times. Deep breath.
C xoxo"
Ours is the same - if they can’t be arsed reading the profile we put effort into, then what’s a meet going to be like? |
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"Messages from profiles saying "No Asians". Do they think this is a deep and permanent tan? "
That's pretty shitty... I'm friends with a guy on here who told me recently he was told to " stick with your own kind "....I really hate people sometimes |
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By *olo180Man 34 weeks ago
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"Update pictures of a seriously graphic nature. I have no interest in seeing the inside of your gopping minge, not least because it looks like roadkill in a hedge."
Haha and I thought it was as just me that yukked at a close up vadge with the lips pulled apart! Eww not sexy! |
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"Anyone begging for money.
Anyone who expects to meet instantly when they're halfway across the country.
When people constantly question your sexuality.
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Begging for money is a bit off. At least I'd expect something worthwhile in return! |
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By *egan_CDTV/TS 34 weeks ago
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"Gay guys who do not take accept that straight men don't want to chat to them
Yup. The ones that constantly fab every photo/video you upload in a desperate attempt to get your attention in hope that you’ll somehow change your mind for him.
Block. Block. Ohhh another one…block. "
I usually fab photos because I like them for whatever reason, not because I’m angling. I had no idea that some people took it so personally. |
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"Awful photos. Semi erect or flaccid penises flopped against a hairy thigh. Spotty shaving rashes on close ups of spunk splattered genitals. Spunk dribbling down a chin. A hairy taint and balls with a large anal toy protruding. […]. "
Sings…. These are some of my favourite things. |
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"Awful photos. Semi erect or flaccid penises flopped against a hairy thigh. Spotty shaving rashes on close ups of spunk splattered genitals. Spunk dribbling down a chin. A hairy taint and balls with a large anal toy protruding. […].
Sings…. These are some of my favourite things. " |
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