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How often do you "need" sex?
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Not want it cause let's face it most of us want it 24/7.
But actually need it?
Used to be daily but as I've got older I can survive on once a week now two weeks at a push after that I turn into a mentalist. |
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"actually need?
never. THE LIES
I mean, I'm sitting at zero for 2024 and I'm not dead  not having sex won’t kill up but it can fuck you up. True story"
Well, I'm quite happy to take the amount of fucked up I already am and set it up in a boxing match with the fucked up from no sex.
My bet is that the "no sex" level of fucked up will have its corpse strewn all over the arena in pretty short order. |
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It depends on my pain and other shite. We've gone weeks without it sometimes and that's fine. Other times we do it once a day or more. I don't remember feeling like I'm lacking sex at any time really. Any "dry" spells have been due to health and so then I don't need or want it anyway. |
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It’s hard to say when you are single. You become very aware you never ‘need’ sex.
Like you said, I want it. I’m a sexy guy, with a high sex drive. So it would be daily when I would want it.… so at least 14 times a week.  |
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I've never needed sex at any time in my life.
I went through the entirety of my 40s without having sex or any sexual contact at all so a matter of weeks, months or even a few years now is nothing really.
I don't think about or want sex all the time. I would actually find that really sad if my life revolved around sex.
I enjoy sex in the moment but I don't go looking for my next fix as soon as it's over.
If it happens well and good. If not then c'est la vie and I'm good with that too.
My outlook has nothing to do with my age either because I've always had the same approach to sex. |
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Hmm. I definitely get edgy if I go long periods without physical intimacy, which in the past have done for periods of more than a couple of years. I can get by without for shorter periods of celibacy if I have to but I don't want to have to go that long again. |
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I'm surprised at myself lately, as I've been feeling very tired from a virus that didn't make me ill, just tired with ulcers in my mouth now coldsores.
Maybe it's because I've spent most of the last week in bed resting that I've been physically needing to be touched intimately.
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"If I go without human touch for a couple of weeks my mental health takes a nose dive. Sex is a different thing, though."
totally get that, human skin on skin touch is a huge thing - i call myself a touch whore |
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'Need' sex with a man... rarely. 'Need' to have sex with myself often.
Having time to enjoy my body, release stress, relive past encounters and fantasise over new ones is a necessary action. Frequent and multiple orgasms keeps my body, mind and hormones in balance, it makes me happy and I love the energy and power within me it generates. So yes, I need my me time often.
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but when I’m in a relationship, a few times a week is about right.
