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Most people are very poor communicators. Not many people say what they mean and I find that very hard to negotiate sometimes. I have learned over the years that when people say "let's keep in touch" as they exit their leaving do they don't really mean it though |
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I know lots of people on fab who have lots to say while actually saying nothing at all.
An ability to tell us so much about themselves while not giving a fuck about what anyone else has to say so that isn't communication.
To communicate properly you have to listen twice as much as you speak because giving answers to questions that aren't asked is just a waste of everyone's time. |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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I think many are but unfortunately some definitely are not. I hate the use of text language in messages as this can be off putting to me as it demonstrates a level of immaturity but to be fair maybe I am just old fashioned in this way.
Maybe it's also because messages are one dimensional and sentiment or emotion cannot be clearly explained thus potentially misinterpreted or a combination of all the above. |
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"On fab? Not all the time. Away from fab though, yes. The people I’ve built friendships with are very good communicators that’s why friendships have been built. "
All the friends I have are good communicators. I think I would struggle to connect if we couldn’t communicate well. |
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By *r_reusMan 35 weeks ago
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It's not so much about being poor communicators, as the limits of the internet, which since it's inception has increasingly taken the place of active, face to face socialising.
I've seen numerous articles and podcasts saying that this has only increased dramatically since the lockdowns. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 35 weeks ago
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"Most topics of chat instigated by men are sex related and that got old 12 years ago.
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I like asking women about their dentist appointments and shit. Real life shit |
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"Most topics of chat instigated by men are sex related and that got old 12 years ago.
I like asking women about their dentist appointments and shit. Real life shit"
Most of my Fab adjacent conversations at the moment are about DIY
And no, not the electricals near genitals type of DIY, the electricals nowhere near genitals or else hospital type of DIY |
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Some are. Genuinely depends what you're looking for. In our experience we've had some lovely chats with lovely people who aren't pushy or desperate, and then others who simply just want to get their cock wet asap and don't want to at least attempt to "use the charm" per se. |
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