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By (user no longer on site) OP 42 weeks ago
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Is it right for your best friend to tell you qbout the kinky stuff she does with her man she was telling me last Thursday I was like I don't really wanna know thqt it'd yours qnd yours man's business
But she said your my best firend I can tell you anything it mad me feel little uncomfortable. But is it right for your best friend to tell you kinky stuff.
Me and her love care qnd respect each other bestest friends ever |
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Mate, I think we’ve said this before but you gotta set some boundaries with her and stick to them or you’ll end up getting hurt in some way. Sit down with her and tell her what things you aren’t happy talking about and what things you are. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 42 weeks ago
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"Mate, I think we’ve said this before but you gotta set some boundaries with her and stick to them or you’ll end up getting hurt in some way. Sit down with her and tell her what things you aren’t happy talking about and what things you are. "
we sorted thwt out I wasn't expecting her to come out with kinky stuff is it right tho I meq if she had a sexuqk problem with him and yes I hear
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"Is this the same best friend you have posted other threads about ? it is I just wondering is it right to mention kinky stuff or not"
Well if she is your better friend who you both care and respect each other, why shouldn't she ? |
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"Mate, I think we’ve said this before but you gotta set some boundaries with her and stick to them or you’ll end up getting hurt in some way. Sit down with her and tell her what things you aren’t happy talking about and what things you are. we sorted thwt out I wasn't expecting her to come out with kinky stuff is it right tho I meq if she had a sexuqk problem with him and yes I hear "
Boundaries don’t just stop at one thing that happens between you, they cover all sorts of things. Yes you can be close to her but you DONT have to listen to everything she wants to tell you. If you don’t like it, tell her not to talk to you about it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 42 weeks ago
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"Is this the same best friend you have posted other threads about ? it is I just wondering is it right to mention kinky stuff or not
Well if she is your better friend who you both care and respect each other, why shouldn't she ?"
thanks I wasn't to sure if it was right or not were going on holiday soon |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 42 weeks ago
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"Mate, I think we’ve said this before but you gotta set some boundaries with her and stick to them or you’ll end up getting hurt in some way. Sit down with her and tell her what things you aren’t happy talking about and what things you are. we sorted thwt out I wasn't expecting her to come out with kinky stuff is it right tho I meq if she had a sexuqk problem with him and yes I hear
Boundaries don’t just stop at one thing that happens between you, they cover all sorts of things. Yes you can be close to her but you DONT have to listen to everything she wants to tell you. If you don’t like it, tell her not to talk to you about it. "
I aloud have don't thqt thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 42 weeks ago
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"How did you meet your friend Derek?"
we met on coyrse 10 yeqrs ago then 5 months after thqt we lost touch then we bumped into each other in a bar over 2 and half years ago
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"How did you meet your friend Derek? we met on coyrse 10 yeqrs ago then 5 months after thqt we lost touch then we bumped into each other in a bar over 2 and half years ago "
What does her boyfriend feel about you going on holiday together, or is he going too? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 42 weeks ago
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"How did you meet your friend Derek? we met on coyrse 10 yeqrs ago then 5 months after thqt we lost touch then we bumped into each other in a bar over 2 and half years ago
What does her boyfriend feel about you going on holiday together, or is he going too?"
he isint going she wants to find right time to tell him he's going to york racers and hqve weekend in York drinking she said he's not stopping her from going on holiday with me |
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"How did you meet your friend Derek? we met on coyrse 10 yeqrs ago then 5 months after thqt we lost touch then we bumped into each other in a bar over 2 and half years ago
What does her boyfriend feel about you going on holiday together, or is he going too? he isint going she wants to find right time to tell him he's going to york racers and hqve weekend in York drinking she said he's not stopping her from going on holiday with me"
That's quite a development considering where the two of you were not long ago.
Good luck to you all |
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"How did you meet your friend Derek? we met on coyrse 10 yeqrs ago then 5 months after thqt we lost touch then we bumped into each other in a bar over 2 and half years ago
What does her boyfriend feel about you going on holiday together, or is he going too? he isint going she wants to find right time to tell him he's going to york racers and hqve weekend in York drinking she said he's not stopping her from going on holiday with me"
Words fail me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 42 weeks ago
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"How did you meet your friend Derek? we met on coyrse 10 yeqrs ago then 5 months after thqt we lost touch then we bumped into each other in a bar over 2 and half years ago
What does her boyfriend feel about you going on holiday together, or is he going too? he isint going she wants to find right time to tell him he's going to york racers and hqve weekend in York drinking she said he's not stopping her from going on holiday with me
Words fail me."
not sure whqt you meqn |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 42 weeks ago
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"How did you meet your friend Derek? we met on coyrse 10 yeqrs ago then 5 months after thqt we lost touch then we bumped into each other in a bar over 2 and half years ago
What does her boyfriend feel about you going on holiday together, or is he going too? he isint going she wants to find right time to tell him he's going to york racers and hqve weekend in York drinking she said he's not stopping her from going on holiday with me
That's quite a development considering where the two of you were not long ago.
Good luck to you all"
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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Derek
If she tells you things about sex and you don't want to know then you have to TELL her that you don't want to know. If she continues, it's clear to me, she isn't listening.
It seems it's all about her and not respecting you and I think from your previous threads that she isn't a good friend.
Do you understand the phrase 'wants her cake and eat it'?
As for her saying you are best friends and that she can tell you, does her boyfriend know she tells you of their private intimate time? Put yourself in his shoes, would you like to be talked about?
Does she know your here talking about her? Does she listen to you when you tell her things?
I am assuming a worst case situation that I've said before, it's a one sided friendship. She does what she wants.... and you'll always be there
Sorry to be harsh
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By *AYENCouple 41 weeks ago
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If my best friend gave me a much drama as your best friend, my best friend would be my ex best friend - thankfully, my best friend hasn't caused me to make not even one forum post in 30 years! K. |
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Going by your other threads Derekp, it sounds like she's a dick tease. If what you say is true, she wants a relationship on her terms, feeding you sex stories knowing you're single.
If she's got a bf, you knowing whatever about their sex life is damn seedy. If he's warned you off in the past, then you knowing anything private means potential arguments in the future are being set up now.
It is likely there will be some row at some time where you will say something too personal, overstepping the mark, resulting in radio silence from things you're being told.
That is if what you are saying is true.
Keep your distance. Try getting some new friends, new hobbies, join some clubs, take your time up with other things than them and her. People have said this in the past - listen to it. |
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Derek you say it makes you uncomfortable. Once that is said , she should stop.
I don't know her reasons but if she won't stop then you must be the one to take action
e.g. You have to say.... I have to go now as you don't seem to be able to stop. See you next week when you must NOT talk about sex with others again.
Her reaction is her business you are not guilty of anything |
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By *irthandgirthMan 41 weeks ago
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Derek,
Relationships are about respect. She isn't respecting the privacy of her relationship by sharing those kink aspects. She is not respecting the boundaries you had previously set.
It sounds like she has a narcissistic type personality.
I think many on here would see her as a walking red flag.
If I were in your position, and she didn't respect those boundaries I would walk away.
If I am reading this correctly she is already lying to one partner. Don't be shocked if she is lying to you also. "Friends" aren't worth your integrity or emotional well being. |
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