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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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I find it quite easy to find someone I like. It’s a difficult to read whether I think we would get along. It’s an even worse figuring out whether they like me enough the same way, I think of them to work at the nerve to ask them.
It’s a minefield, O P.  |
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By *CLM87Woman 35 weeks ago
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It's half of one half a dozen of the other on here.
I think being a woman it's alot easier for obvious reasons... but I've been stood up quite a few times which is always really annoying .
However it's also working out which ones are trying to talk the talk but can't walk the walk when it comes to swinging... especially the clingy ones who think they own you  |
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"On Fab, do you find it easy to find those you're attracted to?
How difficult is for you to move things from Fab in to the real world - meeting them etc?"
No, not at all.
Well, it’s easy to see pretty pictures but taking it from that, gauging if there is mutual interest, getting to know each other, taking the leap to meeting… it’s a minefield |
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Easy to move things along. Finding someone to live things along with… very difficult. My inbox is gathering dust. I just seem to be attracting people I’m not attracted to. I’m also thinking I’ll have to look past the 5 mile radius I currently search as there’s not really anyone near me who I want to reach out to. Woe is me |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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I've always looked at Fab in the 90% of the time... It's shit. A lack of replies, organising a meet around schedules, finding people you genuinely vibe with. But it's the 10% that keeps me here and gives me hope and makes it feel genuinely worth it when you do find someone you're attracted to, and the sparks fly when you meet and you can't wait to do it all again  |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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There's a knack to getting me to open up & be comfortable in a friendship. It can happen easily/ quickly, if the other person possesses it, or be nigh on impossible, if they don't. |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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It’s easy to find someone attractive.
I need a lot more than just initial attraction to actually be into them enough to want to take it further, that’s the difficult part.
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By *mmaleiaWoman 35 weeks ago
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"On Fab, do you find it easy to find those you're attracted to?
How difficult is for you to move things from Fab in to the real world - meeting them etc?"
. I’ve found 2, met about 4, not had sex with any of them |
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By *eli OP Woman 35 weeks ago
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"I find it quite easy to find someone I like. It’s a difficult to read whether I think we would get along. It’s an even worse figuring out whether they like me enough the same way, I think of them to work at the nerve to ask them.
It’s a minefield, O P. "
It sounds like it from your description. Gosh.
Do you find it easier once you've met a person? |
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I don't think I've ever actively sought to find people. So I don't know the struggle.
People that appeal to me appeal to me regardless of circumstance I think.
Whether it was viable or not I don't think there's ever been a time when there wasn't at least someone in my life I was drawn to that way. |
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No, I find it very difficult, there's a few people I do find attractive because I've met them in person & 1 or 2 because I've seen enough on the forums to guage their personality.
I need more than a few naked photos, I need a face, a conversation & a personality basically I need to be attracted to the person not their body, a body alone is nothing to me.
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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"I find it quite easy to find someone I like. It’s a difficult to read whether I think we would get along. It’s an even worse figuring out whether they like me enough the same way, I think of them to work at the nerve to ask them.
It’s a minefield, O P.
It sounds like it from your description. Gosh.
Do you find it easier once you've met a person?"
Yes. Text only tells one side to someone’s character. Imagine the stuff you can be missing that’s even more attractive if you already fancy them. |
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By *eli OP Woman 35 weeks ago
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"Easy to move things along. Finding someone to live things along with… very difficult. My inbox is gathering dust. I just seem to be attracting people I’m not attracted to. I’m also thinking I’ll have to look past the 5 mile radius I currently search as there’s not really anyone near me who I want to reach out to. Woe is me "
5 mile radius. 5. Yes, I think that's a very good idea. Even 15 isn't too far, is it? Woe is you.  |
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"Easy to move things along. Finding someone to live things along with… very difficult. My inbox is gathering dust. I just seem to be attracting people I’m not attracted to. I’m also thinking I’ll have to look past the 5 mile radius I currently search as there’s not really anyone near me who I want to reach out to. Woe is me
5 mile radius. 5. Yes, I think that's a very good idea. Even 15 isn't too far, is it? Woe is you. "
Wow IS me! So many beautiful people but I’m just not attracted to them. I need a certain level of nonsense and I’m just not getting it.
I have to jump to 10 I was hoping to look around 7 miles. Eurgh.
God really does send her toughest battles to her strongest soldiers |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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"Easy to move things along. Finding someone to live things along with… very difficult. My inbox is gathering dust. I just seem to be attracting people I’m not attracted to. I’m also thinking I’ll have to look past the 5 mile radius I currently search as there’s not really anyone near me who I want to reach out to. Woe is me
5 mile radius. 5. Yes, I think that's a very good idea. Even 15 isn't too far, is it? Woe is you.
Wow IS me! So many beautiful people but I’m just not attracted to them. I need a certain level of nonsense and I’m just not getting it.
I have to jump to 10 I was hoping to look around 7 miles. Eurgh.
God really does send her toughest battles to her strongest soldiers "
That last sentence absolutely sent me  |
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