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By *antastic_Mr_Fox_76 OP   Man 35 weeks ago

District 13

I find myself seeing some rather sexy women on FAB, understandably, but am I being daft not messaging because I feel they’re out of my league or should I just take the risk?

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By *he HandiemanMan 35 weeks ago

north west

They’re only humans bro , have some confidence in yourself and go for it. Nothing is ever gained by not trying;)

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By *antastic_Mr_Fox_76 OP   Man 35 weeks ago

District 13


"They’re only humans bro , have some confidence in yourself and go for it. Nothing is ever gained by not trying;)"

Fair one and thanks Que Sera, Sera eh

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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago

What's the worst that can happen OP?

send your appreciation but then delete from your sent box and then its not gonna drive you mad IF you don't get a reply

Shouty capitals on if as you never know

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By *antastic_Mr_Fox_76 OP   Man 35 weeks ago

District 13


"What's the worst that can happen OP?

send your appreciation but then delete from your sent box and then its not gonna drive you mad IF you don't get a reply

Shouty capitals on if as you never know "

Another great idea thanks xx

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By *icecouple561Couple 35 weeks ago
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East Sussex

Don't think of humans in terms of leagues. Nobody is better than anyone else because of perceived attractiveness.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman 35 weeks ago

ashford

Go for it! Be confident! X

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By *ustforfun1759Couple 35 weeks ago

IRVINE

Be confident in yourself mrs

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By *onk3yb0yMan 35 weeks ago

south west

You always miss 100% of the shots you don’t take……

. Oh dear. I must have spent way to long in company meetings.

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By *antastic_Mr_Fox_76 OP   Man 35 weeks ago

District 13


"Don't think of humans in terms of leagues. Nobody is better than anyone else because of perceived attractiveness. "

I get what your saying but I’m the same in real life but although confident, not cocky, I fail to make the first move often but I know I offer good things in and out the boudoir x

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By *antastic_Mr_Fox_76 OP   Man 35 weeks ago

District 13


"Go for it! Be confident! X"

Thanks I will

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By *antastic_Mr_Fox_76 OP   Man 35 weeks ago

District 13


"Be confident in yourself mrs"

Thanks Mrs x

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By *agnar73Man 35 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"I find myself seeing some rather sexy women on FAB, understandably, but am I being daft not messaging because I feel they’re out of my league or should I just take the risk?

"

Depends how you are about ‘unread and deleted’

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By *antastic_Mr_Fox_76 OP   Man 35 weeks ago

District 13


"You always miss 100% of the shots you don’t take……

. Oh dear. I must have spent way to long in company meetings. "

Haha true though

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By *atnip make me purrWoman 35 weeks ago

Reading

As long as you fit what they are looking for go for it. Eg age location body type.

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By *antastic_Mr_Fox_76 OP   Man 35 weeks ago

District 13


"I find myself seeing some rather sexy women on FAB, understandably, but am I being daft not messaging because I feel they’re out of my league or should I just take the risk?

Depends how you are about ‘unread and deleted’ "

It doesn’t bother me and I get the message if deleted or unread but I’m gonna make an effort and take the risk

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By *antastic_Mr_Fox_76 OP   Man 35 weeks ago

District 13


"As long as you fit what they are looking for go for it. Eg age location body type."

I do read profiles to check I fit the needs of those I look at but I’ll keep looking thank you x

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By *icecouple561Couple 35 weeks ago
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East Sussex


"Don't think of humans in terms of leagues. Nobody is better than anyone else because of perceived attractiveness.

I get what your saying but I’m the same in real life but although confident, not cocky, I fail to make the first move often but I know I offer good things in and out the boudoir x"

I think it pays to be realistic but that's different.

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By *rcoupleCouple 35 weeks ago

Mid Glam

If they are match the sure send a decent message.

More than one line but less than 10 and a general pic of you.

Don't be too cocky and not to beggy/pleading.

Don't attach a cock pic unless they ask.

If you dont ask you dont get and certainly dont sell yourself short.

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By *eyond PurityCouple 35 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

If I was sending a message I’d make sure of 3 things to give you a better opportunity of reply:-

A good message, showing you’ve at least read their profile and why you think you are a good fit.

A few pics of you for them to have a look at - preferably not cock related.

A decent profile, listing what you like and can offer.

Any of them 3 don’t have red flags then the chances of a response are good.

The chances diminish if only 2 of the 3

1 of the 3 - don’t waste your time.

K

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By *agnar73Man 35 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"I find myself seeing some rather sexy women on FAB, understandably, but am I being daft not messaging because I feel they’re out of my league or should I just take the risk?

Depends how you are about ‘unread and deleted’

It doesn’t bother me and I get the message if deleted or unread but I’m gonna make an effort and take the risk "

Aim for the moon.

Good luck

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By *antastic_Mr_Fox_76 OP   Man 35 weeks ago

District 13


"I find myself seeing some rather sexy women on FAB, understandably, but am I being daft not messaging because I feel they’re out of my league or should I just take the risk?

Depends how you are about ‘unread and deleted’

It doesn’t bother me and I get the message if deleted or unread but I’m gonna make an effort and take the risk

Aim for the moon.

Good luck "

Thanks all

I do compose non cocky/pesty/pleading/desperate messages based on what I’ve read and always attach a face picture

I won’t send cock pics unless requested or friend requested so I guess as others have said I just have to go for it

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By *ophieslutTV/TS 35 weeks ago

Central

They don't know of your interest, possibly even your existence, until you make contact.

Why risk them losing out on the pleasure you could give them, by not making some brief contact?

Be generous with your talents

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By *agnar73Man 35 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"I find myself seeing some rather sexy women on FAB, understandably, but am I being daft not messaging because I feel they’re out of my league or should I just take the risk?

Depends how you are about ‘unread and deleted’

It doesn’t bother me and I get the message if deleted or unread but I’m gonna make an effort and take the risk

Aim for the moon.

Good luck

Thanks all

I do compose non cocky/pesty/pleading/desperate messages based on what I’ve read and always attach a face picture

I won’t send cock pics unless requested or friend requested so I guess as others have said I just have to go for it "

Keep us updated.

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By *antastic_Mr_Fox_76 OP   Man 35 weeks ago

District 13


"They don't know of your interest, possibly even your existence, until you make contact.

Why risk them losing out on the pleasure you could give them, by not making some brief contact?

Be generous with your talents "

Thanks

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By *antastic_Mr_Fox_76 OP   Man 35 weeks ago

District 13


"I find myself seeing some rather sexy women on FAB, understandably, but am I being daft not messaging because I feel they’re out of my league or should I just take the risk?

Depends how you are about ‘unread and deleted’

It doesn’t bother me and I get the message if deleted or unread but I’m gonna make an effort and take the risk

Aim for the moon.

Good luck

Thanks all

I do compose non cocky/pesty/pleading/desperate messages based on what I’ve read and always attach a face picture

I won’t send cock pics unless requested or friend requested so I guess as others have said I just have to go for it

Keep us updated."

I shall but please don’t hold your breath

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By *empest2KMan 35 weeks ago

Derby


"I find myself seeing some rather sexy women on FAB, understandably, but am I being daft not messaging because I feel they’re out of my league or should I just take the risk?

"

I think it's worth the risk, as long as you're polite and respectful.

As Wayne Gretzky, the former Canadian Ice hockey player, is meant to have said, “You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.”

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By *parkle1974Woman 35 weeks ago

Leeds

You have nothing to lose and maybe some fun to gain

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By *antastic_Mr_Fox_76 OP   Man 35 weeks ago

District 13


"You have nothing to lose and maybe some fun to gain "

Thank you x here’s hoping

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By *antastic_Mr_Fox_76 OP   Man 34 weeks ago

District 13

Well I’ve taken most peoples responses to this enquiry and have taken more pictures, I now delete sent messages so I don’t see if they’re deleted or read and not responded to and I’m messaging those I think are “out of my league”.

The results are positive in the sense of I have had some nice replies and conversations that may led to a social meet and that I look forward too

So thanks all I’m feeling a lot more positive and I feel optimistic about a meet someday

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