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1st meet tonight need a little help
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As title;
Does everyone get nervous? This is with someone not on the site.
Last time a met someone was 17 yrs ago, we got married 
That's not what I'm looking for obviously, but need a few pointers please?
How do you greet? don't straight in for the bj lol.
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Just my advice....look your best..feel your best, that will come across..
Go with no expectations and you should be surprised.
Have fun, that is after all what this is all about
He will probably be as nervous as you are... |
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"Just my advice....look your best..feel your best, that will come across..
Go with no expectations and you should be surprised.
Have fun, that is after all what this is all about
He will probably be as nervous as you are..."
Oh and Good luck... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I usually take Mum with me that breaks the ice..."
My mum would prob have heart failure if she knew!
I was brought up catholic, I consider this rebelling 
Really am excited. |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Just my advice....look your best..feel your best, that will come across..
Go with no expectations and you should be surprised.
Have fun, that is after all what this is all about
He will probably be as nervous as you are...
Oh and Good luck..."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How exciting.
Just act confident, even if you don't feel it. Don't drink to much to settle your nerves and most of all enjoy it and have a good time.
Good luck xx |
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By *oddamnCouple
over a year ago
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"Thank you guys n girls
I will do my best
Off to look at the undie draw
Shag a hoy! "
Deciding what underwear rather than what outfit bodes well! Try and relax and say hello before the blowjob  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Best of luck and just relax and enjoy and it will come naturally. 
Hopefully not prematurely 
How does a woman come prematurely Ryan? 
Has it never happened to you?"
No  |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"Best of luck and just relax and enjoy and it will come naturally.
Hopefully not prematurely
How does a woman come prematurely Ryan?
Has it never happened to you?
No "
Look into my eyes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Best of luck and just relax and enjoy and it will come naturally.
Hopefully not prematurely
How does a woman come prematurely Ryan?
Has it never happened to you?
No
Look into my eyes "
Scared now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Best of luck and just relax and enjoy and it will come naturally.
Hopefully not prematurely
How does a woman come prematurely Ryan?
Has it never happened to you?
No
Look into my eyes "
I am never eating a Mc D's!!! So don't try to hypnotise me in to |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"Best of luck and just relax and enjoy and it will come naturally.
Hopefully not prematurely
How does a woman come prematurely Ryan?
Has it never happened to you?
No
Look into my eyes
Scared now "
Oops I looked in the mirror. Back in a jiffy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Once those butterflies have taken wing, and flown away, you'll be fine
There's nothing worse than that wait, you're at the venue, twiddling your fingers, but sitting down together, overcoming any initial awkwardness and relaxing will lead to an enjoyable evening
Just don't have one too many Duth Courage |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Best of luck and just relax and enjoy and it will come naturally.
Hopefully not prematurely
How does a woman come prematurely Ryan?
Has it never happened to you?
No
Look into my eyes
Scared now
Oops I looked in the mirror. Back in a jiffy "
Have you scared yourself again Best put the paper bag back on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nerves and worrying are like a rocking chair, it gives you something to do but doesn't really get you anywhere. Just go in there with the confidence of George Bush on cocaine.
He's probably more nervous than you and just have a good time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it a meet or a date?
A meet and see what happens. Going for a drink first!
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So a drink is a date , I suggest a place that is really loud so you can't speak (or mess it up by saying something stupid) my first dates were always at the gay bar on cabaret night, or a live band. Absolute guaranteed shag if cabaret was on ,
I would say very little and always eye up other girls , and say hello to them makes the date jealous
One word of advice never ask where you think this is going , if you are worried choose a pub with a back door and A taxi rank nearby so you can make a quick exit
And most importantly my sex life with random women' was much better before I got attached and started swinging
I am not lying here I used to have a day to page diary then when I met Paula it went to week to _iew, now i have a month per _iew
Anyway good luck and remember guys like girls that play hard to get unless the guy your after is hard to get then that doesn't work
Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"One of the things I love about this site - the support from each other.
I really hope you have fun and enjoy.
Will you come back tomorrow and tell us how it went? "
Yes I will!
Totally thanks for the support |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The way i look at it is that its more exictment than nerves but its natural and to be expected once you get talking there will be only one thing on your mind!!......what the weathers like outside |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My reply is short!
Last minute cancellation 
But another meet being arranged same guy. Feel a bit happier now, as think it wasn't planned properly was meeting him quite late and somewhere I wasn't too comfortable - so meeting next week in the day for a coffee and see how we get on.
Again thanks for your support.
My night was not wasted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I usually take Mum with me that breaks the ice...
My mum would prob have heart failure if she knew!
I was brought up catholic, I consider this rebelling
Really am excited. "
Haha u go girl! We've also got our first meet in about a year tonight I'm also nervous yet excited! Lol xx |
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