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over a year ago
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1st of march lost my mum , then day of her funeral dad passed away,weve had lots and lots of kind messages and prayers and im doing great thanks to everyone , but ive just picked up the phone ,rang mum's house to see if she wants anything from asda then turned to mark and said she must be out,very wierd,mark just gave me a look that made me think oh yeah i forgot lol,feel silly now  |
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I talk to my mum most days/weeks and she been dead for over 20 years - i miss her more now than ever.... but at least we have fond memories... my thoughts are with you  |
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"1st of march lost my mum , then day of her funeral dad passed away,weve had lots and lots of kind messages and prayers and im doing great thanks to everyone , but ive just picked up the phone ,rang mum's house to see if she wants anything from asda then turned to mark and said she must be out,very wierd,mark just gave me a look that made me think oh yeah i forgot lol,feel silly now "
Don't feel silly I lost my mum 10 yrs ago, the amount of times I rang her mobile was unbelievable. |
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My deepest sympathies to you. This post helps to rebalance the attitude of some on this site who show scant concern for the feelings of others.
I hope you will feel better soon, but you will never stop wishing you could pick up a phone and call them. Mine died over 20 years ago and there are often times I need to speak to them. |
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what a terrible shame that you lost both your parents so close together, time is a great healer and it is understandable what you did.
you will learn to live with your loss but also you will never forget, which you will not want to.
be strong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Oh Ali, its very early days, youve nothing to feel silly about. Youve had so much to deal with lately. Take one day at a time.
Your comments brought a tear to my eye, big hugs, xxxxx |
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If it makes you feel any less silly I still do it twenty years on. Just remember a life is not over until every life it has touched is gone, live your life and remember them. Big hugs and kisses for your lose. |
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I rang my Mum's landline number a few years after she died, to tell her something and BT had re-issued the number. A lady answered and I realised what I had done and burst into tears. She was so sweet and understanding.
It really is early days, a saying is true, no one ever really dies whilst they are still in your thoughts  |
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A couple of my friends who are maternal in a similar way to my mum recognise that lost look i have on days when i feel the gap badly and just quietly give me a mummy hug. I even once managed to sit on the lap of my size 8 friend on one particularly bad day (important a size 14! ) |
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My Mum passed away 2006 I still find myself thinking Oh must ring and say there is a program on telly she should watch. silly things really.
