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"I hate sending mine, I wait till they send theirs, I never ask for a face pic from someone coz it means I have to send mine back! "
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"For me it's very Important, this isn't blind date. Personally if I've read someone's profile and it gets my attention my intro message has a face pic attached. It does annoy me however when profiles say that first messages must contain a face pic, yet their profile has no profile pic or public pics. " I don’t mind if they don’t have it in the profile but I’d expect one in return if they wanted to continue chatting | |||
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"If I’m messaging first I’ll send one in the opening message. No point chatting if there’s no attraction " This. I want one in the first message. If I don't get one I'll ask. On the rare occasions I message first, I send. So many prawns on here unfortunately! | |||
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"It's got to happen at some stage. A face is very important to me. It's when it occurs in the conversation that is the hardest part. You don't want to overly invest, then the picture comes and you have to either apply the brakes gently (some whack the handbrake on) or touch the throttle and hope they like yours. In general I send first but to be honest I'm really fussy in the first place." The when is the hardest bit when it’s someone from say the forums. If it’s an approach from search then first message is the way to go | |||
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"I hate sending mine, I wait till they send theirs, I never ask for a face pic from someone coz it means I have to send mine back!
But what if you delay and delay… do you just decide you never want to meet that person "It always happens at some point, I'm just in no rush! | |||
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"If I’m messaging first I’ll send one in the opening message. No point chatting if there’s no attraction This. I want one in the first message. If I don't get one I'll ask. On the rare occasions I message first, I send. So many prawns on here unfortunately! " What are prawns? Ugly people? | |||
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"I hate sending mine, I wait till they send theirs, I never ask for a face pic from someone coz it means I have to send mine back!
But what if you delay and delay… do you just decide you never want to meet that person
It always happens at some point, I'm just in no rush! "Daizy, your face is lovely. I want to kiss it. | |||
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"Important. I like to get a sense of a person first - I know it's a privacy issue and no face will make up for my view of a personality." Do you ever send first? | |||
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"Important. I like to get a sense of a person first - I know it's a privacy issue and no face will make up for my view of a personality. Do you ever send first?" Yes | |||
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"I normally will exchange face pics within the first 4 or 5 messages over and back. I won’t send it blind in a first message and if they are insisting on it in the first message then I just won’t message at all. Everyone has their preferences. " Yeah I get you | |||
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"If I’m messaging first I’ll send one in the opening message. No point chatting if there’s no attraction This. I want one in the first message. If I don't get one I'll ask. On the rare occasions I message first, I send. So many prawns on here unfortunately! What are prawns? Ugly people?" A prawn is a person with a delicious body that you want to devour, but when you just want to chuck the head away | |||
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"If I’m messaging first I’ll send one in the opening message. No point chatting if there’s no attraction This. I want one in the first message. If I don't get one I'll ask. On the rare occasions I message first, I send. So many prawns on here unfortunately! What are prawns? Ugly people? A prawn is a person with a delicious body that you want to devour, but when you just want to chuck the head away "I agree with you then. I like faces but … yeah. You know. | |||
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"If I’m messaging first I’ll send one in the opening message. No point chatting if there’s no attraction This. I want one in the first message. If I don't get one I'll ask. On the rare occasions I message first, I send. So many prawns on here unfortunately! What are prawns? Ugly people? A prawn is a person with a delicious body that you want to devour, but when you just want to chuck the head away
I agree with you then. I like faces but … yeah. You know. "Sorry | |||
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"If I’m messaging first I’ll send one in the opening message. No point chatting if there’s no attraction This. I want one in the first message. If I don't get one I'll ask. On the rare occasions I message first, I send. So many prawns on here unfortunately! What are prawns? Ugly people? A prawn is a person with a delicious body that you want to devour, but when you just want to chuck the head away
I agree with you then. I like faces but … yeah. You know.
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"I have to be attracted to the face, but I can become more attracted after talking to them. It's important to me to show how fat I am, so people who don't like obese women don't accidentally message me." Obese? Be fucking for real Nanna | |||
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"Super important. If I get a message I like, I’ll send it straight away and hope they return one. " Rude that you’ve never sent me one. Just deeped that | |||
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"Important. I like a face that makes me want to kiss/sit on it. I don't mind sending mine first, it's okay. Not too shabby." Meli please sit on my face. I’m not even capping I’m into it | |||
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"If I’m messaging first I’ll send one in the opening message. No point chatting if there’s no attraction This. I want one in the first message. If I don't get one I'll ask. On the rare occasions I message first, I send. So many prawns on here unfortunately! What are prawns? Ugly people? A prawn is a person with a delicious body that you want to devour, but when you just want to chuck the head away "I’m keeping this one!! | |||
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"I send one in a first message. I feel I'm doing my bit for home safety. They can pin it to the door to keep the bailiffs away "
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"Super important. If I get a message I like, I’ll send it straight away and hope they return one. Rude that you’ve never sent me one. Just deeped that " Send better messages then | |||
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"I don't send first in case I get another weirdo following me home after I decided I didn't want to meet him. I know I'm not a stalker or trouble maker, I don't know if they are, or not." How do they know you’re not?  | |||
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"For me it's very Important, this isn't blind date. Personally if I've read someone's profile and it gets my attention my intro message has a face pic attached. It does annoy me however when profiles say that first messages must contain a face pic, yet their profile has no profile pic or public pics. " Absolutely this. Staggering how many people demand that you do, yet don’t have even so much as a photo on their profile. Often wondered how successful that is  | |||
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"Super important. If I get a message I like, I’ll send it straight away and hope they return one. Rude that you’ve never sent me one. Just deeped that Send better messages then " I literally set you up for a ‘charge it to the game’ message. Fgs | |||
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"I have to be attracted to the face, but I can become more attracted after talking to them. It's important to me to show how fat I am, so people who don't like obese women don't accidentally message me. Obese? Be fucking for real Nanna "According to someone I said no thank you to today I am. My GP would agree | |||
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"For me it's very Important, this isn't blind date. Personally if I've read someone's profile and it gets my attention my intro message has a face pic attached. It does annoy me however when profiles say that first messages must contain a face pic, yet their profile has no profile pic or public pics. Absolutely this. Staggering how many people demand that you do, yet don’t have even so much as a photo on their profile. Often wondered how successful that is "They’re usually women so I’d imagine they get lots of face pictures sent to them | |||
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"I have to be attracted to the face, but I can become more attracted after talking to them. It's important to me to show how fat I am, so people who don't like obese women don't accidentally message me. Obese? Be fucking for real Nanna
According to someone I said no thank you to today I am.
My GP would agree "Guess I’m going to have to ride out | |||
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"For me it's very Important, this isn't blind date. Personally if I've read someone's profile and it gets my attention my intro message has a face pic attached. It does annoy me however when profiles say that first messages must contain a face pic, yet their profile has no profile pic or public pics. Absolutely this. Staggering how many people demand that you do, yet don’t have even so much as a photo on their profile. Often wondered how successful that is "Absolutely this x | |||
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"Super important. If I get a message I like, I’ll send it straight away and hope they return one. Rude that you’ve never sent me one. Just deeped that Charge it to the game. I literally set you up for a ‘charge it to the game’ message. Fgs " Thank you for making me cooler. Please see revised Damnit! | |||
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"Important. I like a face that makes me want to kiss/sit on it. I don't mind sending mine first, it's okay. Not too shabby. Meli please sit on my face. I’m not even capping I’m into it" I do like your face Pickle. There's potential. | |||
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"Important. Not for perving reasons but I like to see how someone looks as it makes messages easier to read as more personal. Plus you can see if they have a mischievous twinkle in their eye, so know if they are tongue in cheek or just a twerp. I send ,one. I don’t like sending spontaneous pics as 9/10 times I look like shit and require a bit of hair brushing." I've seen your luscious, bewitching Welsh loveliness  | |||
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"Super important. If I get a message I like, I’ll send it straight away and hope they return one. Rude that you’ve never sent me one. Just deeped that Charge it to the game. Fgs " I’m doing all the hard work here I swear. | |||
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"Important. I like a face that makes me want to kiss/sit on it. I don't mind sending mine first, it's okay. Not too shabby. Meli please sit on my face. I’m not even capping I’m into it I do like your face Pickle. There's potential." Ngl, when I’m looking my best, my face is decent. Would recommend kissing it | |||
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"I have to be attracted to the face, but I can become more attracted after talking to them. It's important to me to show how fat I am, so people who don't like obese women don't accidentally message me. Obese? Be fucking for real Nanna
According to someone I said no thank you to today I am.
My GP would agree
Guess I’m going to have to ride out"Good job I have a pretty face, eh  | |||
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"I do like to see who I’m meeting really happy to share mine and any pics of me think others should do the same " I would consider a blind date. Just not from fab. Too many prawns said one lady above | |||
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"I have to be attracted to the face, but I can become more attracted after talking to them. It's important to me to show how fat I am, so people who don't like obese women don't accidentally message me. Obese? Be fucking for real Nanna
According to someone I said no thank you to today I am.
My GP would agree
Guess I’m going to have to ride out
Good job I have a pretty face, eh "It's a nice face. You bought me a drink too | |||
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"I have to be attracted to the face, but I can become more attracted after talking to them. It's important to me to show how fat I am, so people who don't like obese women don't accidentally message me. Obese? Be fucking for real Nanna
According to someone I said no thank you to today I am.
My GP would agree
Guess I’m going to have to ride out
Good job I have a pretty face, eh "You do have a pretty face. | |||
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"I have to be attracted to the face, but I can become more attracted after talking to them. It's important to me to show how fat I am, so people who don't like obese women don't accidentally message me. Obese? Be fucking for real Nanna
According to someone I said no thank you to today I am.
My GP would agree
Guess I’m going to have to ride out
Good job I have a pretty face, eh
It's a nice face. You bought me a drink too "I'm nice like that | |||
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"I send a be real pic if asked, and serve them right "
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"I have to be attracted to the face, but I can become more attracted after talking to them. It's important to me to show how fat I am, so people who don't like obese women don't accidentally message me. Obese? Be fucking for real Nanna
According to someone I said no thank you to today I am.
My GP would agree
Guess I’m going to have to ride out
Good job I have a pretty face, eh
It's a nice face. You bought me a drink too
I'm nice like that "Yep. A right good laugh | |||
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"If the chats going well then we want to see face pics sooner rather than later. Nothing worse than building a connection and then the face pics come in and you don’t fancy them or they don’t fancy you, so prefer to get them done early. We had a couple who wanted us to meet them without pics …no thanks.
K"This, get it out of the way ASAP. | |||
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"There are face pics on our friends only and I will send to the odd few people I likes if they wish to see. Don't mind sending if asked for really MrsAbz" They’re in there. Ready to be whipped out on message. Nice | |||
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"If I’m thinking I might meet them then I want to see and show in the first few messages. If it’s just general chat or forum stuff then I don’t show my face. There’s no need. " I’ll send you mine if you send me yours | |||
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"For me it's very Important, this isn't blind date. Personally if I've read someone's profile and it gets my attention my intro message has a face pic attached. It does annoy me however when profiles say that first messages must contain a face pic, yet their profile has no profile pic or public pics. Absolutely this. Staggering how many people demand that you do, yet don’t have even so much as a photo on their profile. Often wondered how successful that is
Absolutely this x"Does anyone actually engage with profiles with zero visible pics though? None at all? Ever? *inserts Ryan Reynolds 'But Why?' meme.... | |||
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"If I’m thinking I might meet them then I want to see and show in the first few messages. If it’s just general chat or forum stuff then I don’t show my face. There’s no need. I’ll send you mine if you send me yours" Haha have you not seen mine. I’m Sure you have. Shall we be friends Steve!! What a turn up that would be! | |||
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"If I’m thinking I might meet them then I want to see and show in the first few messages. If it’s just general chat or forum stuff then I don’t show my face. There’s no need. I’ll send you mine if you send me yours Haha have you not seen mine. I’m Sure you have. Shall we be friends Steve!! What a turn up that would be!" I have seen it! But yes. We’re going to become friends! Remontada | |||
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"And when do you send it? Are you hesitant to send it? " It’s essential ….. ! I send when asked and do not hesitate. I also expect the same in return. | |||
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"And when do you send it? Are you hesitant to send it? It’s essential ….. ! I send when asked and do not hesitate. I also expect the same in return." Except if they don’t find you attractive b because they won’t send one back in that case | |||
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"Imagine if the shoe was on the other foot on this website, and it was Women who outnumbered men and so the onus was on them to send messages out into the ether first with their face attached to it. Without assurance they'd get a face pic in return, or a message at all for that matter. I bet they'd have something to say about it." True. That is one good thing about being a woman on here. The man usually sends first. I wouldn’t like to to be fair. | |||
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"Imagine if the shoe was on the other foot on this website, and it was Women who outnumbered men and so the onus was on them to send messages out into the ether first with their face attached to it. Without assurance they'd get a face pic in return, or a message at all for that matter. I bet they'd have something to say about it." However, all that said, it is still women who are at far more risk of harm by sharing their face pic. Even if women outnumbered men here… even if it was harder for women to meet men than the other way around… I still wouldn’t send a face pic first because in wider society women are literally at higher risk of being a victim of crimes such as stalking and sexual assault. | |||
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"Imagine if the shoe was on the other foot on this website, and it was Women who outnumbered men and so the onus was on them to send messages out into the ether first with their face attached to it. Without assurance they'd get a face pic in return, or a message at all for that matter. I bet they'd have something to say about it. However, all that said, it is still women who are at far more risk of harm by sharing their face pic. Even if women outnumbered men here… even if it was harder for women to meet men than the other way around… I still wouldn’t send a face pic first because in wider society women are literally at higher risk of being a victim of crimes such as stalking and sexual assault." Yeh, all that being said. I've come to the conclusion I'm just not doing it any more. It's really a harmful thing I believe, psychologically, to send a face pic out and not receive one back, or a reply. There can only be so many times you do it, before you believe hurtful things about yourself. | |||
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"Imagine if the shoe was on the other foot on this website, and it was Women who outnumbered men and so the onus was on them to send messages out into the ether first with their face attached to it. Without assurance they'd get a face pic in return, or a message at all for that matter. I bet they'd have something to say about it. However, all that said, it is still women who are at far more risk of harm by sharing their face pic. Even if women outnumbered men here… even if it was harder for women to meet men than the other way around… I still wouldn’t send a face pic first because in wider society women are literally at higher risk of being a victim of crimes such as stalking and sexual assault." You can send a face pic and set it to be removed once they’ve seen it. I must say I’ve never once thought oh I won’t send my face pic in case he hunts me down and assaults or stalks me when he has no idea where I actually live. | |||
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"Imagine if the shoe was on the other foot on this website, and it was Women who outnumbered men and so the onus was on them to send messages out into the ether first with their face attached to it. Without assurance they'd get a face pic in return, or a message at all for that matter. I bet they'd have something to say about it. However, all that said, it is still women who are at far more risk of harm by sharing their face pic. Even if women outnumbered men here… even if it was harder for women to meet men than the other way around… I still wouldn’t send a face pic first because in wider society women are literally at higher risk of being a victim of crimes such as stalking and sexual assault. You can send a face pic and set it to be removed once they’ve seen it. I must say I’ve never once thought oh I won’t send my face pic in case he hunts me down and assaults or stalks me when he has no idea where I actually live. " I only meet guys who are local to where I live or work so it’s a significant risk. | |||
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"Imagine if the shoe was on the other foot on this website, and it was Women who outnumbered men and so the onus was on them to send messages out into the ether first with their face attached to it. Without assurance they'd get a face pic in return, or a message at all for that matter. I bet they'd have something to say about it. However, all that said, it is still women who are at far more risk of harm by sharing their face pic. Even if women outnumbered men here… even if it was harder for women to meet men than the other way around… I still wouldn’t send a face pic first because in wider society women are literally at higher risk of being a victim of crimes such as stalking and sexual assault. You can send a face pic and set it to be removed once they’ve seen it. I must say I’ve never once thought oh I won’t send my face pic in case he hunts me down and assaults or stalks me when he has no idea where I actually live. I only meet guys who are local to where I live or work so it’s a significant risk." Ah fair enough. I see where you’re coming from | |||
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"Imagine if the shoe was on the other foot on this website, and it was Women who outnumbered men and so the onus was on them to send messages out into the ether first with their face attached to it. Without assurance they'd get a face pic in return, or a message at all for that matter. I bet they'd have something to say about it. However, all that said, it is still women who are at far more risk of harm by sharing their face pic. Even if women outnumbered men here… even if it was harder for women to meet men than the other way around… I still wouldn’t send a face pic first because in wider society women are literally at higher risk of being a victim of crimes such as stalking and sexual assault. Yeh, all that being said. I've come to the conclusion I'm just not doing it any more. It's really a harmful thing I believe, psychologically, to send a face pic out and not receive one back, or a reply. There can only be so many times you do it, before you believe hurtful things about yourself."
I have mine set to delete once they’ve viewed the message.
It would be great if FAB had a feature where you couldn’t take screenshots with your smartphone like the Pure app. They also had private picture messages that could only be viewed for 5 seconds. | |||
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"Imagine if the shoe was on the other foot on this website, and it was Women who outnumbered men and so the onus was on them to send messages out into the ether first with their face attached to it. Without assurance they'd get a face pic in return, or a message at all for that matter. I bet they'd have something to say about it. However, all that said, it is still women who are at far more risk of harm by sharing their face pic. Even if women outnumbered men here… even if it was harder for women to meet men than the other way around… I still wouldn’t send a face pic first because in wider society women are literally at higher risk of being a victim of crimes such as stalking and sexual assault. Yeh, all that being said. I've come to the conclusion I'm just not doing it any more. It's really a harmful thing I believe, psychologically, to send a face pic out and not receive one back, or a reply. There can only be so many times you do it, before you believe hurtful things about yourself." Sending a pic after a request and then absolutely nothing thereafter is a really brutal experience. It’s mortifying but no response is a response and all that. Agree with what’s said above about it taking a toll. | |||
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"Pretty important, we like to see who we're talking to. Also the last thing we would want is to get to being on the cusp of meeting for either party to then find there was no attraction there. Tinder " Had to edit my grammar was awful | |||
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"It is important but we never rush as a personality is important also "With facial recognition roll-out, posting facial pics online is inadvisable. | |||
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"Unimportant. I’m going to make you wear a paper bag over your face anyway "Swoon. | |||
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"Unimportant. I’m going to make you wear a paper bag over your face anyway "It’s a niche kink. | |||
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"Unimportant. I’m going to make you wear a paper bag over your face anyway
It’s a niche kink."As long as both as bags on. Paper bag speed dating look amazing too. | |||
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"Unimportant. I’m going to make you wear a paper bag over your face anyway "Wow. I haven’t been called ugly in a while | |||
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"Face pics are essential if it comes to meeting. Not so important just for chatting off the forum, though it's always nice to have a face to the name and be able to picture who you're talking to, and I do like to see the pics of my 'fanciables', even if meeting is a long shot. I'm not generally nervous to send mine (Siri, define misplaced confidence), but have very carefully curated my face pic gallery! "I know I'm just shit at face pictures and tell people that | |||
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"Unimportant. I’m going to make you wear a paper bag over your face anyway
Wow. I haven’t been called ugly in a while "Pffft.  | |||
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"Unimportant. I’m going to make you wear a paper bag over your face anyway
Wow. I haven’t been called ugly in a while
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"Unimportant. I’m going to make you wear a paper bag over your face anyway
Wow. I haven’t been called ugly in a while
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It’s ok. I’m into it"There will be a hole. For…things | |||
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If I get sent a pic I always return them
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"If I’m messaging first I’ll send one in the opening message. No point chatting if there’s no attraction This. I want one in the first message. If I don't get one I'll ask. On the rare occasions I message first, I send. So many prawns on here unfortunately! What are prawns? Ugly people? A prawn is a person with a delicious body that you want to devour, but when you just want to chuck the head away " | |||
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"I find the dynamics around it quite weird, like I get it but we openly share our bodies but OMG you can’t see my face
If I get sent a pic I always return them
I find that with a lot of people I just feel a sense of intrigue about what they look like "Some of us fear breaking your phone screen, should our faces pop up | |||
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"Unimportant. I’m going to make you wear a paper bag over your face anyway
Wow. I haven’t been called ugly in a while
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It’s ok. I’m into it
There will be a hole. For…things "Fucking in | |||
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"I don't send face pictures on fab. It’s just too risky with my profession. Im a professional. Hope you understand." Totally get this if you're a professional. It's hard enough being a professional | |||
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"I find the dynamics around it quite weird, like I get it but we openly share our bodies but OMG you can’t see my face
If I get sent a pic I always return them
I find that with a lot of people I just feel a sense of intrigue about what they look like
Some of us fear breaking your phone screen, should our faces pop up "But I’ve met you and I’ve seen your little face *pinches your cheeks*  | |||
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"If I’m messaging first I’ll send one in the opening message. No point chatting if there’s no attraction This. I want one in the first message. If I don't get one I'll ask. On the rare occasions I message first, I send. So many prawns on here unfortunately! What are prawns? Ugly people? A prawn is a person with a delicious body that you want to devour, but when you just want to chuck the head away " this is so true | |||
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"That’s exactly what a professional would say." I'm only semi professional. Hence why I only show half a face | |||
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"It is important but we never rush as a personality is important also
With facial recognition roll-out, posting facial pics online is inadvisable."We won’t post them here for sure! It’s not something we want to do | |||
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"I don't send face pictures on fab. It’s just too risky with my profession. Im a professional. Hope you understand." totally. TOTALLY! | |||
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"I find the dynamics around it quite weird, like I get it but we openly share our bodies but OMG you can’t see my face
If I get sent a pic I always return them
I find that with a lot of people I just feel a sense of intrigue about what they look like
Some of us fear breaking your phone screen, should our faces pop up
But I’ve met you and I’ve seen your little face
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"I find the dynamics around it quite weird, like I get it but we openly share our bodies but OMG you can’t see my face
If I get sent a pic I always return them
I find that with a lot of people I just feel a sense of intrigue about what they look like
Some of us fear breaking your phone screen, should our faces pop up
But I’ve met you and I’ve seen your little face
*pinches your cheeks*
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"That’s exactly what a professional would say." Can I ask you a question? | |||
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"That’s exactly what a professional would say. Can I ask you a question?" North west. | |||
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"I generally send one when asked. Part of me hopes they like the convo enough to find me attractive when I send it, but part of me is a bit scared in case they go radio silent after "*Tumbleweeeeeed" | |||
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"And when do you send it? Are you hesitant to send it? " And to answer that yes there's always a bit of fear when sending Tinder | |||
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"I generally send one when asked. Part of me hopes they like the convo enough to find me attractive when I send it, but part of me is a bit scared in case they go radio silent after
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"Obese? Be fucking for real Nanna
According to someone I said no thank you to today I am."Ahhhh... the joys!! I found you interesting/attractive enough to message you in the first place (unless really just chancing my arm), however now you've turned me down, you fell from the very top of the exceedingly tall ugly tree and hit every branch on your way down... (I am in no way a spoilt child throwing every toy out of my pram...)
Personally, I do ask for a face pic, as I don't see the point in wasting either person's time, if one of us isn't interested in the other person's face. You might have the body of an Adonis, but a face like Barry from Eastenders (apologies, Shaun, I'm sure you're a lovely gent); likewise, you may like my body, but think I'm an absolute munter, facially... | |||
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"I hate sending mine, I wait till they send theirs, I never ask for a face pic from someone coz it means I have to send mine back! "You’re beautiful - silly x | |||
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"I don't send face pictures on fab. It’s just too risky with my profession. Im a professional. Hope you understand." Professional suggests elite. Not particularly inclusive if the remaining audience identify as something else!? | |||
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"And when do you send it? Are you hesitant to send it? It’s essential ….. ! I send when asked and do not hesitate. I also expect the same in return. Except if they don’t find you attractive b because they won’t send one back in that case " That’s a risk of using any internet based meeting/dating app and doesn’t alter my opinion. | |||
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"And when do you send it? Are you hesitant to send it? " depends what we are doing. Private meet then very important... meeting at a club to see how the night pans out .. less so. As the situation and the click can be more than just the face | |||
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"I know I'm a minority " So am I. #BAME | |||
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"I've got no issue in sending mine. I want to know there's an attraction on both sides. Sometimes there isn't and I would rather not waste anyone's time " This | |||
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"For me it's very Important, this isn't blind date. Personally if I've read someone's profile and it gets my attention my intro message has a face pic attached. It does annoy me however when profiles say that first messages must contain a face pic, yet their profile has no profile pic or public pics. " I completely agree, it’s often that when I see a profile stating first message must contain a face pic’ and they have NOTHING themselves nor do they send one back in return (rather a picture of their body) it’s annoying. The exchange of vulnerability is important especially when attempting to develop a relationship with someone | |||
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"What I've always wondered with those who refuse to send a face pic... are you going to turn up to a meet naked so you can be recognised? Or risk showing up to a meet and be told at that point "no thanks, you don't have a pretty face" MrsAbz" Hi. Can I see your face before I travel to see you | |||
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"What I've always wondered with those who refuse to send a face pic... are you going to turn up to a meet naked so you can be recognised? Or risk showing up to a meet and be told at that point "no thanks, you don't have a pretty face" MrsAbz Hi. Can I see your face before I travel to see you" Of course, why did you never ask before
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"What I've always wondered with those who refuse to send a face pic... are you going to turn up to a meet naked so you can be recognised? Or risk showing up to a meet and be told at that point "no thanks, you don't have a pretty face" MrsAbz Hi. Can I see your face before I travel to see you Of course, why did you never ask before
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"For a meet from here 100% as I won’t meet anyone without a video call first. In a club environment not so much as it maybe dark / weird lighting and well just the body / outfits / group play leading the front "I knew I’d like your response | |||
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"For a meet from here 100% as I won’t meet anyone without a video call first. In a club environment not so much as it maybe dark / weird lighting and well just the body / outfits / group play leading the front
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Here if a profile piques my attention and the photos are attractive I would generally send a face pic with an opening message.
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It's important for me I want to kiss that face so I get it x | |||
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Luckily neither of us recoiled in horror when we met. (And I didn’t walk off with a total stranger) | |||
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"I hate sending mine, I wait till they send theirs, I never ask for a face pic from someone coz it means I have to send mine back!
But what if you delay and delay… do you just decide you never want to meet that person "I chat to lots i never seen a face, but if they want to meet, yes definitely | |||
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