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Abso-flickin-lutely!! I always used to say no because otherwise I wouldn’t be where I am now. And I’m fairly happy now. But I’ve lived through some shit and made some mistakes (call it life) which I’d gladly swap out.
Thing is, if I’m someone who regularly makes such mistakes, what’s to say I won’t make a whole load more anyway. |
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By *irthandgirthMan 36 weeks ago
Camberley occasionally doncaster |
Yes. There are some people I would not have met, and some I would have walked away from sooner.
Professionally, I wish I had learned tact a little sooner, but I never shied away from telling anyone to go fuck themselves.. even to the detriment of my career. |
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By *a LunaWoman 36 weeks ago
South Wales |
The last year of my gramps life I spent a lot of time moping about after a fella I’d had a dalliance with but it was very on/off drama, drama, drama.
If I could, I’d not get involved with him so I could be really present emotionally to enjoy my last year with my gramp. I was there in body, but sometimes I spent a lot of time in my head worrying over the bozo I was dating. And he really wasn’t worth it.
So that.
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By *astpoetMan 36 weeks ago
where the world takes me |
I’d have had more confidence in who I was earlier in life and given less of a shit what people and society thought about things.
Oh and I’d have put money aside for a deposit on a house way earlier |
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In my head, sure I’d have not got involved with some people or I’d have handled things differently or ended them sooner but…
…ultimately in reality, no.
No matter how hard things might’ve been at times, it shaped me into who I am now and allowed me to meet the incredible people I now have have in my life because of the choices I made at the times I made them. |
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"...what you know now, would it have changed anything?
Either hindsight, or maturity, but would you really change something from your past?
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No life is what we make it
We all mistakes
But it’s part of who we are and what we are
If I could change one thing wish I didn’t start smoking at very young age
Making steps to rectify this
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By *929Man 36 weeks ago
newcastle |
I’d change a lot of things made loads of mistakes lots of regrets
My main change is like is impossible as would be without my kids, if it was possible to keep my kids exactly the same but change who they with I’d do it in a heartbeat
Other things I wish I’d spent more time with my dad after his cancer diagnosis he was the strongest person I’ll ever know and I convinced myself he would fight it for years but he died within 5 eeeks of diagnosis
Other less serious changes but a house before they shot up, give 18 year old me my mindset I have now towards acquiring wealth and setting self up for easier later life |
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"I’d have had more confidence in who I was earlier in life and given less of a shit what people and society thought about things.
Oh and I’d have put money aside for a deposit on a house way earlier "
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Change soo many things.
Prevent myself from getting a lifelong injury,
Enjoying dressing up as Rachel, back when I had the figure to pull off some nice outfits.
Not sure about this one, but prevent myself from getting testicular cancer, I am sure if was due to blunt force trauma caused by my hitting a car whilst riding a motorbike. |
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"...what you know now, would it have changed anything?
Either hindsight, or maturity, but would you really change something from your past?
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Absolutely! I’d have learnt sooner not to give a shit about what people think. Opinions are like arseholes and all that…. |
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