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so who is on your HOT list!
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*checks hotlist*
Okay. There are two or three people on my hotlist I’ll probably never message. Mostly because they’re walking red flags and I only want to look at their gorgeous photos, not talk to them or ever get anywhere near them.
Everyone else, I’ve chatted with. Two of them I’ve slept with. One of them more than once.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"*checks hotlist*
Okay. There are two or three people on my hotlist I’ll probably never message. Mostly because they’re walking red flags and I only want to look at their gorgeous photos, not talk to them or ever get anywhere near them.
Everyone else, I’ve chatted with. Two of them I’ve slept with. One of them more than once. "
What is a walking red flag  |
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By *sWyldWoman 36 weeks ago
Edinburgh |
My hot list contains a mix of people.
Those I've met at organised socials and would love to see at other ones, people who I have met one on one, people who I've slept with, people who have great profiles or updates, people who I fancy and would like to get to know better, and it also has a few people I'd like to meet socially as they seem lovely from interactions on here.
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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If you would like to message someone on your hotlist but haven’t why not throw caution to the wind and just go for it?
You never know what could blossom.
Nothing ventured, nothing gained |
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We don't really message anyone (I say we but its usually me pontificating rubbish on here).
So highly unlikely I'd send a message just randomly to someone even if I do want to on occasion.
I shall perv in secret
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By *ookie46Woman 36 weeks ago
Deepest darkest Peru |
Six men, three who’ve I spent time with and the other three are friends who I’m yet to meet for a social
I also have four social profiles in my hotlist so I can keep up to speed with numerous socials |
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"  so who is on your hot list that you haven't messaged or had the nerve to speak to? why haven't you? 
You are on my hot list for no other reason than your sense of humour, sharp wit, imaginative selfies and sexy body.  "
 aw what do i say to that!
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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I’m not naming names but there’s only 1 on ours that I haven’t messaged before. I don’t feel like I need to either. I just like admiring them from afar, like a peeping Tom  |
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By *ddie1966Man 36 weeks ago
Paper Town Central, Essex. |
About the same as fingers on one hand (does not include thumbs)
Simply interesting profiles and images just doesn't cut it for me though.
To make it on the list they must have shared some banter and show a sense of humour.
Only the whole package will make it to the list. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"Has anyone else managed to hotlist themselves 
I did by accident, then realised it was handy to see how pics posted look on a feed."
Same! Now I like to keep tabs on myself, see what I’m up to, occasionally send myself the odd affirming DM  |
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"Has anyone else managed to hotlist themselves
I did by accident, then realised it was handy to see how pics posted look on a feed.
Same! Now I like to keep tabs on myself, see what I’m up to, occasionally send myself the odd affirming DM "
So I’ll need to do the self affirming DM later
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"Has anyone else managed to hotlist themselves
I did by accident, then realised it was handy to see how pics posted look on a feed.
Same! Now I like to keep tabs on myself, see what I’m up to, occasionally send myself the odd affirming DM
So I’ll need to do the self affirming DM later
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I confess, I only learned about the DMing yourself thing very recently… but I like it! Did you know you can WhatsApp yourself!? |
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"Has anyone else managed to hotlist themselves
I did by accident, then realised it was handy to see how pics posted look on a feed.
Same! Now I like to keep tabs on myself, see what I’m up to, occasionally send myself the odd affirming DM
So I’ll need to do the self affirming DM later
I confess, I only learned about the DMing yourself thing very recently… but I like it! Did you know you can WhatsApp yourself!?"
No! Surely not. Really? |
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"I confess, I only learned about the DMing yourself thing very recently… but I like it! Did you know you can WhatsApp yourself!?
Brings a whole new meaning to masturbatory messaging. "
Onism I guess |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"Has anyone else managed to hotlist themselves
I did by accident, then realised it was handy to see how pics posted look on a feed.
Same! Now I like to keep tabs on myself, see what I’m up to, occasionally send myself the odd affirming DM
So I’ll need to do the self affirming DM later
I confess, I only learned about the DMing yourself thing very recently… but I like it! Did you know you can WhatsApp yourself!?
No! Surely not. Really?"
Haha you sure can! |
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"Has anyone else managed to hotlist themselves
I did by accident, then realised it was handy to see how pics posted look on a feed.
Same! Now I like to keep tabs on myself, see what I’m up to, occasionally send myself the odd affirming DM
So I’ll need to do the self affirming DM later
I confess, I only learned about the DMing yourself thing very recently… but I like it! Did you know you can WhatsApp yourself!?
No! Surely not. Really?
Haha you sure can! "
Everyday a school day thanks x |
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Single figures. 5 live too far (England), of which 2 the comms are up and running and, well you never know.
2 because there photos are just so fucking hot, but they would destroy me if we were to meet.
2 in Scotland, 1 which I am more than happy with. |
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"Single figures. 5 live too far (England), of which 2 the comms are up and running and, well you never know.
2 because there photos are just so fucking hot, but they would destroy me if we were to meet.
2 in Scotland, 1 which I am more than happy with."
Sorry missed the beauty from her Boudoir in Wales! |
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"Has anyone else managed to hotlist themselves
I did by accident, then realised it was handy to see how pics posted look on a feed.
Same! Now I like to keep tabs on myself, see what I’m up to, occasionally send myself the odd affirming DM
So I’ll need to do the self affirming DM later
I confess, I only learned about the DMing yourself thing very recently… but I like it! Did you know you can WhatsApp yourself!?
No! Surely not. Really?
Haha you sure can!
Everyday a school day thanks x"
Omg! Im so hoing to start sending myself reaffirming messages..... bring a whole new flirting level  mmmmmmm even tell myself how hot i am!! |
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"I’m sure you’re not short of affirming messages sexy x
Aw thanks ... been a few shall we just say unpleasant ones recently ... i was reminding myself "
Wow, imagine being on here to say mean things. I’m on here to be utterly horny x |
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"I’m sure you’re not short of affirming messages sexy x
Aw thanks ... been a few shall we just say unpleasant ones recently ... i was reminding myself
Wow, imagine being on here to say mean things. I’m on here to be utterly horny x "
Yea sadly |
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"Cede, Nicecouple and Alder.
This lovely couple are in my hotlist too but am all the way down in London lol"
Wow need to check this couple out! They have made a few hot lists!
I put a 'am i on your hot list' status up a few weeks back .. it was great fun and got a fair few surprises |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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I’ve now only got a very small handful on the hot list because I had a clear out of a lot of people I am never going to message.
Mostly distance, also, when you see their statuses and verifications, it looks like they’ve already got an active life and don’t need me in it it. They don’t log on that often, so I can’t see their personality as the text on my profile is short.
There’s loads of different reasons why I won’t message somebody, on the flipside there’s loads of reasons why I do |
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"Has anyone else managed to hotlist themselves
I did by accident, then realised it was handy to see how pics posted look on a feed.
Same! Now I like to keep tabs on myself, see what I’m up to, occasionally send myself the odd affirming DM
So I’ll need to do the self affirming DM later
I confess, I only learned about the DMing yourself thing very recently… but I like it! Did you know you can WhatsApp yourself!?"
I find that really useful for shopping lists and anything I need to remember. Along with a things to do list x |
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"Has anyone else managed to hotlist themselves
I did by accident, then realised it was handy to see how pics posted look on a feed.
Same! Now I like to keep tabs on myself, see what I’m up to, occasionally send myself the odd affirming DM
So I’ll need to do the self affirming DM later
I confess, I only learned about the DMing yourself thing very recently… but I like it! Did you know you can WhatsApp yourself!?
I find that really useful for shopping lists and anything I need to remember. Along with a things to do list x"
I use notes on my phone and tick emoji sort of thing but that’s a good idea. |
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