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By *ulk.9 OP Man 37 weeks ago
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Before I've never experienced any interest in BBW or ssbbw but since few months ago, I hooked up with a gorgeous BBW while I was on holiday and now I feel so that I am so into them..yet I still find it difficult to even get reply of them here.. maybe cuz they're hammered with msgs or they don't like medium built guys ?  |
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You haven’t asked for profile advice so I won’t give it.
But generally guys have to stand out on here, so need a decent detailed profile. Also guys who just have cock pics or action shots aren’t going to be looked at favourably. A good range of pics helps.
Also note you’ve been here 5 weeks, which isn’t long at all.
When messaging people, they’ll look at your profile first before reading your message and if they don’t like what they see they’ll delete without reply.
Down to you to try and stop that happening by making yourself presentable, respectful and interesting.
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"The first mistake most men make when messaging the Mrs is banging on about how much they love BBW in the messages."
This. I’m not here to complete his wish list or fulfill his fetish. I want to be seen as a regular, attractive woman. A whole person with a body, personality, and my own sexual wants. |
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"The first mistake most men make when messaging the Mrs is banging on about how much they love BBW in the messages.
This. I’m not here to complete his wish list or fulfill his fetish. I want to be seen as a regular, attractive woman. A whole person with a body, personality, and my own sexual wants. "
One of the things that struck me when I got messages was how often I was made to feel like a convenient set of holes, wet and pulse optional. |
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By *sWyldWoman 37 weeks ago
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"The first mistake most men make when messaging the Mrs is banging on about how much they love BBW in the messages.
This. I’m not here to complete his wish list or fulfill his fetish. I want to be seen as a regular, attractive woman. A whole person with a body, personality, and my own sexual wants. "
This |
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If you search the forum for BBW you’ll see there’s a whole load of events that go on around the country. 
If you go to one of those instead of messaging people who may or may not like the term. It’s a minefield out there OP, better to be safe than sorry.  |
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"The first mistake most men make when messaging the Mrs is banging on about how much they love BBW in the messages.
This. I’m not here to complete his wish list or fulfill his fetish. I want to be seen as a regular, attractive woman. A whole person with a body, personality, and my own sexual wants. "
Exactly this. |
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I’m someone that has really like BBW/SSBBW for so many different reasons . I love their bodies but also they tend to have such good personalities, confidence in themselves and appreciate a man that feels that way towards them . There are a lot of fabulous women on here and it does just take the right approach towards them , I get plenty of replies from them but also a few that don’t , but that’s just standard really and you just expect that anyway . |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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I like to be found attractive irrespective of the fact that I am indeed a bbw rather than it being fetishised… we all have our preferences but I don’t wanna be made to feel like a box ticking exercise!
Maybe just approach women you find attractive without bringing their size into it..  |
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"Thanks for the tips "
I think also that you will find that there are many women who are proud to be known as a BBW/SSBBW . They are happy to show themselves as that . In a way is it any different to women that say they only want , VWE or BBC only ? We all like different things at the end of the day . Welcome to the BBW club |
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