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Could you give this all up?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've often joked that I could only give swinging up if Nicky Hayden (if you know your bikes you'll know who he is) swept me off my feet and asked me to marry him.
But all jokes aside, I'm not sure I could give swinging up. The thought of monogamy is quite frankly what ever the opposite of horny is!
Swinging has allowed me to become confident in my body and I'm getting there with my insecurities too. My shoe collection is now mainly based upon whether I'll look sexy in the shoes and I finally own a couple of corsets! I feel sexy and I also know that my BDSM side isn't "weird" like I used to think it was.
Could you give swinging up? I know I couldn't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes and yes and yes
although I would keep in touch with some friends ive made..especially ones ive known nearly 10years or so
got a good few on facebook...so its not all about sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Could drop it in a flash, we have an agreement that the second either wants to leave swinging we both walk no arguments.
Its all about fun and meeting like minded people but it is certainly not the be all and end etc.
That said we do have a lot of fun lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes for the right person x
I wish u would just come out and say it....I'm getting tired of the vague comments! x  "
If your after a marriage proposal just say  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unlikely,
I introduced my ex husband to swinging, Im happily divorced over 7 years.
I have breaks from the scene, and have stayed 'faithfull' in the beginning of a relationship but I love the clubs, and the added extra within sex and outside of the sex, from swinging 
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We don't really swing that much at the moment but that's because we are working 'us' out. If one of us decided it wasn't For us I would hope we would both walk away together.
I'm not sure I could give up the forums though. I've made a lot of friends here and feel that I can be myself on here. |
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Wow what a question. I would say yes but it would be very hard to do so really. It a nice part of my life and i do really love it, but if i found a woman that liked dressing sexy for fun and had a high sex drive i would leave it alone and enjoy my life away from all this, but i have not found anyone who likes sex as much as me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've only really just started and so much I want to do!!
I've always been highly sexed and relationships I've had have never really fulfilled my sexual needs, being here I can get sex when I want and on my terms and I love meeting new people and chatting!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. I am not monogamous. I never will be monogamous, so why should I give it up. I spent many years trying to be who I wasn't. Trying to fit into a nice little family.
I ended up cheating over and over. So from now on I will never ever give up being me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If the right person came along I could give it up. Don't meet that often due to work commitments so wouldn't be that hard to do it I don't think. It would be easier for the likes of me rather than someone who has been swinging for years. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Monogamy is quite frankly what ever the opposite of horny is. Really Well is that a misguided fact like you are stating or just your own opinion ? No disrespect meant.
M |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Monogamy is quite frankly what ever the opposite of horny is. Really Well is that a misguided fact like you are stating or just your own opinion ? No disrespect meant.
M"
Its my opinion. I have been in a monogamous relationship (I was monogamous, he wasn't!) and I couldn't imagine being in another one. No disrespect taken. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Easy , if we found a live in Bi fem
Would she be your maid? X "
No , but she's have to clean the pool and jacuzzi and make sure the Bentley and Veron had a full tank on fuel at all times |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Easy , if we found a live in Bi fem
Would she be your maid? X
No , but she's have to clean the pool and jacuzzi and make sure the Bentley and Veron had a full tank on fuel at all times"
Counts me out. I hate cleaning  |
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dont think i will ever give it up, i think i would slowly have less and less meets and wake up one mornig and find im not swinging anymore. As for giving it up for a man pfffffffft. This is part of my life and no man would be worth it. Wellthe one man that is worth it wouldnt want me to give it up |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you mean FAB ....yes easily.
If you mean enter into a monogamous existence NO never.
If you mean give up for one individual cos they want me to. No.
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I mean it all. I (foolishly) did for the latter in August, it went tits up and I was back on here and back in Cupids. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Easy , if we found a live in Bi fem
Would she be your maid? X
No , but she's have to clean the pool and jacuzzi and make sure the Bentley and Veron had a full tank on fuel at all times
Counts me out. I hate cleaning "
Go on then we'll let you off the cleaning then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think its quite sad that some people have stated they COULDN'T give this up!! Seriously???
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Im nearly 40, no kids..I want more from life..and yeah i want love and a committed relationship...my ideal partner could be here or not
but when I find what I'm after(or finds me), I can only look back and say wOw
I have no problems leaving a site/scene that really isnt designed for finding what I'm essentially missing from my life |
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"If you mean FAB ....yes easily.
If you mean enter into a monogamous existence NO never.
If you mean give up for one individual cos they want me to. No.
I mean it all. I (foolishly) did for the latter in August, it went tits up and I was back on here and back in Cupids. "
Tis better to have gone tits up then never to have titted at all xxx
Im off oot tutpub ...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our meets are getting longer and longer apart these day's so the answer to your question is a very big yes , we could walk away heads held high with no regrets, have met some fantastic ppl during our time which spans over 10 years give or take, and can still remember everything from our 1st ever meet, and the stopping every few miles on our way to chat and say is this what we want, and the next day when on our way home we were like a cpl of school kids giggling all the way home and the sex when we got home was so good we just had to do it again, but now it se the Buzz has gone and that's prob why we have not met anyone since last year. But who knows when we will finally hang up our boots and call it a day for Good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The answer is a big yes.... We don't do meets that often anyway... And we could walk away from it right now!!
Although I would probably stay for the forums  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Monogamy is quite frankly what ever the opposite of horny is. Really Well is that a misguided fact like you are stating or just your own opinion ? No disrespect meant.
M
Its my opinion. I have been in a monogamous relationship (I was monogamous, he wasn't!) and I couldn't imagine being in another one. No disrespect taken."
I have been with my husband since I was 17 have had four kids and even after 26 yrs he gives me butterflies when he walks in the room and vice versa.
I have only been with another person in his presence and him in mine and that is only over the last three yrs!
We could walk away from swinging and not bat a eye lid. Some relationships work really well and the sex can be just as fantastic with just one partner, I do know that for a fact.
M |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Monogamy is quite frankly what ever the opposite of horny is. Really Well is that a misguided fact like you are stating or just your own opinion ? No disrespect meant.
M
Its my opinion. I have been in a monogamous relationship (I was monogamous, he wasn't!) and I couldn't imagine being in another one. No disrespect taken.
I have been with my husband since I was 17 have had four kids and even after 26 yrs he gives me butterflies when he walks in the room and vice versa.
I have only been with another person in his presence and him in mine and that is only over the last three yrs!
We could walk away from swinging and not bat a eye lid. Some relationships work really well and the sex can be just as fantastic with just one partner, I do know that for a fact.
M "
i can well believe it somehow. |
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