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By *rHotNotts OP Man 46 weeks ago
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This honestly isn’t a dig at women but find it funny when women dislike sex toys used on others , even if bleached etc, but are perfectly happy with a cock that’s been around the block a few times , even up their mates bum.
It’s not rational is it ? And yet it’s a very common view……
Guys with dildo collections are scowled at, unless they are bi. I personally think glass ones make lovely ornaments and are easy to clean.
Obviously given a good old scrub and a spray of spring breeze air freshener it’s fine right ?
So why does the same rule not apply to a sex toy  |
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"This honestly isn’t a dig at women but find it funny when women dislike sex toys used on others , even if bleached etc, but are perfectly happy with a cock that’s been around the block a few times , even up their mates bum.
It’s not rational is it ? And yet it’s a very common view……
Guys with dildo collections are scowled at, unless they are bi. I personally think glass ones make lovely ornaments and are easy to clean.
Obviously given a good old scrub and a spray of spring breeze air freshener it’s fine right ?
So why does the same rule not apply to a sex toy "
For me, the problem is that I don’t know how well he has cleaned the sex toys. Sex toys that aren’t clean can cause infections and imbalances for women which is really, really unpleasant (I don’t think most men would like an itchy cock with smelly discharge coming out of it).
For that reason I don’t generally play with a man’s sex toys if he owns them, unless it can be completely covered with a condom.
Penises are a bit different - one hopes the penis-haver washes it regularly and gets checked for STIs regularly. |
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By *eliWoman 46 weeks ago
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I'm the one who inspired the thread, flattered.
I'm not one for a cock that's been up a friend's arse.
I'm also not one for sex toys that have been used on others. I don't care if it's seen as irrational - my body, my choice.
I can't trust their cleanliness. Let's be honest, people lie about fucking others and think nothing of it. Will they really give more thought to cleaning their toys and being honest about those?
The good thing is, I can buy toys. Clean them myself. I don't need a person to supply them. |
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By *rHotNotts OP Man 46 weeks ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"This honestly isn’t a dig at women but find it funny when women dislike sex toys used on others , even if bleached etc, but are perfectly happy with a cock that’s been around the block a few times , even up their mates bum.
It’s not rational is it ? And yet it’s a very common view……
Guys with dildo collections are scowled at, unless they are bi. I personally think glass ones make lovely ornaments and are easy to clean.
Obviously given a good old scrub and a spray of spring breeze air freshener it’s fine right ?
So why does the same rule not apply to a sex toy
For me, the problem is that I don’t know how well he has cleaned the sex toys. Sex toys that aren’t clean can cause infections and imbalances for women which is really, really unpleasant (I don’t think most men would like an itchy cock with smelly discharge coming out of it).
For that reason I don’t generally play with a man’s sex toys if he owns them, unless it can be completely covered with a condom.
Penises are a bit different - one hopes the penis-haver washes it regularly and gets checked for STIs regularly."
I get what you are saying but it doesn’t make rational sense.
You would hope that he cleans his cock , and you don’t know how well he cleans his dildo.
My man brain is confused by this |
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"This honestly isn’t a dig at women but find it funny when women dislike sex toys used on others , even if bleached etc, but are perfectly happy with a cock that’s been around the block a few times , even up their mates bum.
It’s not rational is it ? And yet it’s a very common view……
Guys with dildo collections are scowled at, unless they are bi. I personally think glass ones make lovely ornaments and are easy to clean.
Obviously given a good old scrub and a spray of spring breeze air freshener it’s fine right ?
So why does the same rule not apply to a sex toy
For me, the problem is that I don’t know how well he has cleaned the sex toys. Sex toys that aren’t clean can cause infections and imbalances for women which is really, really unpleasant (I don’t think most men would like an itchy cock with smelly discharge coming out of it).
For that reason I don’t generally play with a man’s sex toys if he owns them, unless it can be completely covered with a condom.
Penises are a bit different - one hopes the penis-haver washes it regularly and gets checked for STIs regularly.
I get what you are saying but it doesn’t make rational sense.
You would hope that he cleans his cock , and you don’t know how well he cleans his dildo.
My man brain is confused by this "
I don’t understand how confusing this is.
I know that the men I meet get in a shower once a day.
I don’t know if they understand how delicate vaginal ph and bacterial balance is, nor where they sourced their toys from, or if they can even be cleaned properly (some cheaper ones can’t but look very similar to good quality ones).
Frankly I’m an adult and can buy my own toys. I don’t need to use toys owned by someone else inside my body. |
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By *rHotNotts OP Man 46 weeks ago
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I can't trust their cleanliness. Let's be honest, people lie about fucking others and think nothing of it."
I get it.
Fab can be a dangerous place.
From a personal perspective though, if I didn’t trust a woman’s hygiene I’d be nervous being intimate with her , but slightly less so shoving her plastic up my ass, I can inspect that properly and even whip out a Brillo pad if in doubt. |
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By *rHotNotts OP Man 46 weeks ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"This honestly isn’t a dig at women but find it funny when women dislike sex toys used on others , even if bleached etc, but are perfectly happy with a cock that’s been around the block a few times , even up their mates bum.
It’s not rational is it ? And yet it’s a very common view……
Guys with dildo collections are scowled at, unless they are bi. I personally think glass ones make lovely ornaments and are easy to clean.
Obviously given a good old scrub and a spray of spring breeze air freshener it’s fine right ?
So why does the same rule not apply to a sex toy
For me, the problem is that I don’t know how well he has cleaned the sex toys. Sex toys that aren’t clean can cause infections and imbalances for women which is really, really unpleasant (I don’t think most men would like an itchy cock with smelly discharge coming out of it).
For that reason I don’t generally play with a man’s sex toys if he owns them, unless it can be completely covered with a condom.
Penises are a bit different - one hopes the penis-haver washes it regularly and gets checked for STIs regularly.
I get what you are saying but it doesn’t make rational sense.
You would hope that he cleans his cock , and you don’t know how well he cleans his dildo.
My man brain is confused by this
I don’t understand how confusing this is.
I know that the men I meet get in a shower once a day.
I don’t know if they understand how delicate vaginal ph and bacterial balance is, nor where they sourced their toys from, or if they can even be cleaned properly (some cheaper ones can’t but look very similar to good quality ones).
Frankly I’m an adult and can buy my own toys. I don’t need to use toys owned by someone else inside my body."
I think I get it a little more now 
Toys are extremely intimate & personal , in some ways even more so than others bodies. You choose and own them not someone else. |
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"I think it depends on what it is? A flogger, paddle, restraints, or anything external is one thing. I prefer my own butt plug though. "
See, I wouldn’t share floggers. They’re generally porous and therefore can’t be cleaned of body fluids.
I bought a set of synthetic canes that can be steralised for exactly that reason. |
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"Every day is a school day...I didn't even know men had their own collection to bring in a 'bag of tricks'
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Yeah lots of guys have slightly odd collections of dildos and vibrators, which usually look extremely unfun to me and like they wouldn’t get me off in a million years. ?? |
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"Every day is a school day...I didn't even know men had their own collection to bring in a 'bag of tricks'
Yeah lots of guys have slightly odd collections of dildos and vibrators, which usually look extremely unfun to me and like they wouldn’t get me off in a million years. ?? "
I didn't even know a chin dildo existed until the other day ffs |
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By *rHotNotts OP Man 46 weeks ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Every day is a school day...I didn't even know men had their own collection to bring in a 'bag of tricks'
Yeah lots of guys have slightly odd collections of dildos and vibrators, which usually look extremely unfun to me and like they wouldn’t get me off in a million years. ??
I didn't even know a chin dildo existed until the other day ffs"
Bristly or smooth ? |
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By *rHotNotts OP Man 46 weeks ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"I think it depends on what it is? A flogger, paddle, restraints, or anything external is one thing. I prefer my own butt plug though.
See, I wouldn’t share floggers. They’re generally porous and therefore can’t be cleaned of body fluids.
I bought a set of synthetic canes that can be steralised for exactly that reason. "
The most dangerous type of sharing along with vampire gloves, pin wheels, sounding rods etc |
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By *rHotNotts OP Man 46 weeks ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Let’s be honest men will spend hours soaping their cocks but don’t tend to be the most meticulous cleaner’s generally,
Ok boys kick my ass "
Kick
My apartment is spotless and I wash my cock after a pee. |
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If I am meeting anyone and they want to use toys I ask them to bring what they like to have used on them
1 everyone like different things
2 the owner is then responsibly for their cleaning
3 I don’t own any toys |
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"I'm the one who inspired the thread, flattered.
I'm not one for a cock that's been up a friend's arse.
I'm also not one for sex toys that have been used on others. I don't care if it's seen as irrational - my body, my choice.
I can't trust their cleanliness. Let's be honest, people lie about fucking others and think nothing of it. Will they really give more thought to cleaning their toys and being honest about those?
The good thing is, I can buy toys. Clean them myself. I don't need a person to supply them."
Its a good job we aren't friends then!  |
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"I think it depends on what it is? A flogger, paddle, restraints, or anything external is one thing. I prefer my own butt plug though.
See, I wouldn’t share floggers. They’re generally porous and therefore can’t be cleaned of body fluids.
I bought a set of synthetic canes that can be steralised for exactly that reason.
The most dangerous type of sharing along with vampire gloves, pin wheels, sounding rods etc "
Sounding rods/toys are fine as long as you sterilize them properly. |
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I don't want or need any of those things to get me off. If we are meeting I am interested in You and Your dick! Nothing artificial makes me feel as good as getting hot and heavy with a man who knows what he is doing with his own appendage. |
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"Every day is a school day...I didn't even know men had their own collection to bring in a 'bag of tricks'
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Maybe not even their own, ive had guys ask to use their wifes vibrators on me then take it home to use on her, like no just no |
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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"I don't want or need any of those things to get me off. If we are meeting I am interested in You and Your dick! Nothing artificial makes me feel as good as getting hot and heavy with a man who knows what he is doing with his own appendage."
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"Every day is a school day...I didn't even know men had their own collection to bring in a 'bag of tricks'
Maybe not even their own, ive had guys ask to use their wifes vibrators on me then take it home to use on her, like no just no "
Nooooooooooooooo
*That was in slow motion too |
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"Every day is a school day...I didn't even know men had their own collection to bring in a 'bag of tricks'
Maybe not even their own, ive had guys ask to use their wifes vibrators on me then take it home to use on her, like no just no "
What a random thread but also this comment has made me go  that’s so weird!! |
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"Every day is a school day...I didn't even know men had their own collection to bring in a 'bag of tricks'
Maybe not even their own, ive had guys ask to use their wifes vibrators on me then take it home to use on her, like no just no
What a random thread but also this comment has made me go that’s so weird!! "
C'mon Booty who are you kidding? You were asking to take a peek in my bag last week! |
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By *eliWoman 46 weeks ago
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"I'm the one who inspired the thread, flattered.
I'm not one for a cock that's been up a friend's arse.
I'm also not one for sex toys that have been used on others. I don't care if it's seen as irrational - my body, my choice.
I can't trust their cleanliness. Let's be honest, people lie about fucking others and think nothing of it. Will they really give more thought to cleaning their toys and being honest about those?
The good thing is, I can buy toys. Clean them myself. I don't need a person to supply them.
Its a good job we aren't friends then! "
Haha! I've only made the one mistake.  |
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By *rHotNotts OP Man 46 weeks ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Every day is a school day...I didn't even know men had their own collection to bring in a 'bag of tricks'
Maybe not even their own, ive had guys ask to use their wifes vibrators on me then take it home to use on her, like no just no
What a random thread but also this comment has made me go that’s so weird!! "
I know, some proper weirdos on here today hey
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By *rHotNotts OP Man 46 weeks ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Every day is a school day...I didn't even know men had their own collection to bring in a 'bag of tricks'
Maybe not even their own, ive had guys ask to use their wifes vibrators on me then take it home to use on her, like no just no
Nooooooooooooooo
*That was in slow motion too"
I never eat the crusts |
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For me it's not the same, yes there's the cleaning issue. But also a lot of toys are that plasticy material which can small cuts you can't see in them which will harbour bugs etc.
And there is no chance I'd use someone else's glass things, again after use I check there is no damage before I put them away.
It's easier to see if a cock is not right, there will be inflammation, soreness etc etc. Inanimate objects don't have those warnings.
Plus if I'm going bare with someone they will have washed their cock more than once before we do. |
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"Every day is a school day...I didn't even know men had their own collection to bring in a 'bag of tricks'
Maybe not even their own, ive had guys ask to use their wifes vibrators on me then take it home to use on her, like no just no
What a random thread but also this comment has made me go that’s so weird!!
C'mon Booty who are you kidding? You were asking to take a peek in my bag last week!"
Shhhhh I’m trying to keep that a secret….. |
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I think most ladies would be a bit weird about this if the other person isn't present.
I have toys for my FBs, but each toy is only for them and them alone, gets cleaned properly after use in their presence. Tbh I don't know why I have keep them but it's their idea and they trust me so I'd never betray that trust. |
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"I’d rather steer clear from anyone who carries their own “bag of tricks”.
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I always steer clear of these guys. I'm uncomfortable whenever they introduce the idea.
I also connect them with the guys that promise oral for hours, etc and aren't particularly good at satisfying others, or are a little ineffective with their cocks.
But, I don't want some randoms toys inside of me |
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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"Every day is a school day...I didn't even know men had their own collection to bring in a 'bag of tricks'
Maybe not even their own, ive had guys ask to use their wifes vibrators on me then take it home to use on her, like no just no
Nooooooooooooooo
*That was in slow motion too
I never eat the crusts "
 that's going a bit too far |
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