FabSwingers.com > Forums > The Lounge > What do you do when you know someone has an STD
What do you do when you know someone has an STD
Jump to: Newest in thread
"If you know someone has an STD and they are not telling anyone do you tell the verifications on their profile?"
So many questions
-do they know?
- did they tell you?
If they know, and dont do anything about it..
Very much a dick move
Remember, they might not display veri
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
|
"If you know someone has an STD and they are not telling anyone do you tell the verifications on their profile?"
How do you know? , did it come from the horses mouth? , if not could be a case of malicious gossip or a vendetta . |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
|
So many questions
How do you know they have a STD ?
Why would you sleep with anyone knowing they have a STD?
At what point do you even consider someone who has a STD?
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"If you know someone has an STD and they are not telling anyone do you tell the verifications on their profile?"
---------------------------
I'd think a random stranger messaging to tell me someone I'd met had an STD was pretty unhinged or being malicious to be honest.
We're all responsible for our own sexual health and managing those risks. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"If you know someone has an STD and they are not telling anyone do you tell the verifications on their profile?
---------------------------
I'd think a random stranger messaging to tell me someone I'd met had an STD was pretty unhinged or being malicious to be honest.
We're all responsible for our own sexual health and managing those risks."
Yes, this would be a lot of peoples response.
I would concentrate my efforts on persuading the person in question to seek the appropriate medical attention and abstain from sexual activity until it is resolved.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP 46 weeks ago
|
"If you know someone has an STD and they are not telling anyone do you tell the verifications on their profile?
How do you know? , did it come from the horses mouth? , if not could be a case of malicious gossip or a vendetta . "
The person saw someone I know and that person received a call from a clinic - a day after the call the carrier met a woman, then another woman.
When the carrier was confronted by my friend it said
"Some tablets will sort it" |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"If you know someone has an STD and they are not telling anyone do you tell the verifications on their profile?"
No! It would be too late to tell them anyway, but also not your place.
Potentially you could report to the police, but you would need to provide some form of compelling evidence. There is an offence of "Intentional or Reckless Sexual Transmission of Infection", however this would only be relevant if they were not using anything to mitigate the risk.
Cal |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"If you know someone has an STD and they are not telling anyone do you tell the verifications on their profile?
How do you know? , did it come from the horses mouth? , if not could be a case of malicious gossip or a vendetta .
The person saw someone I know and that person received a call from a clinic - a day after the call the carrier met a woman, then another woman.
When the carrier was confronted by my friend it said
"Some tablets will sort it""
If its treatable then antibiotics probably would sort if out, and they may have now done this. They may also have decided to inform the others they met. Or maybe they didn't. Up to people to really do their own homework regarding testing, safer sex though. You can't go around stating someone definitely still has an sti. When they may well have sought treatment. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
|
"If you know someone has an STD and they are not telling anyone do you tell the verifications on their profile?
How do you know? , did it come from the horses mouth? , if not could be a case of malicious gossip or a vendetta .
The person saw someone I know and that person received a call from a clinic - a day after the call the carrier met a woman, then another woman.
When the carrier was confronted by my friend it said
"Some tablets will sort it""
But was you there when this happened , unless you were involved directly then how would you know this is the truth , why in earth would you take 2nd hand information that might not even be true and put yourself in the middle of it , I really don't get it , funny how this was said after the person in question met with 2 other people now according the someone you know they have a disease , being totally honest it reads malicious. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"If you know someone has an STD and they are not telling anyone do you tell the verifications on their profile?
How do you know? , did it come from the horses mouth? , if not could be a case of malicious gossip or a vendetta .
The person saw someone I know and that person received a call from a clinic - a day after the call the carrier met a woman, then another woman.
When the carrier was confronted by my friend it said
"Some tablets will sort it""
--------------------------
The fact the person you know was contacted by the clinic means the 'carrier' had been responsible (post diagnosis) in disclosing their recent sexual partners.
You also don't know what the nature of the contact was with the women they met afterwards that your friend appears well informed about.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"
The person saw someone I know and that person received a call from a clinic - a day after the call the carrier met a woman, then another woman.
"
The 'carrier' seems to be the post popular single man on Fab. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"If you know someone has an STD and they are not telling anyone do you tell the verifications on their profile?
How do you know? , did it come from the horses mouth? , if not could be a case of malicious gossip or a vendetta .
The person saw someone I know and that person received a call from a clinic - a day after the call the carrier met a woman, then another woman.
When the carrier was confronted by my friend it said
"Some tablets will sort it""
My knowledge of std's is slim, but unless your friend doesn't meet, or very rarely meets, (one meet, one test type of thing), I'd think std's take weeks to show symptoms. If they rarely meet, then the carrier is acting like a fool without doubt. If they meet fairly often they need to be certain it's 'the carrier' before jumping into contacting anyone
I am only going by what I think would be general time lines and general meet timelines... but if the carrier has met others, they are either very active or very lucky in getting meets so quickly as they must have had this a long time and I'd think it'd too painful to do nothing about?
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"If you know someone has an STD and they are not telling anyone do you tell the verifications on their profile?"
It seems from what you've said that he let the clinic know who he'd been in contact with. Given that you don't really know any details beyond that for sure I'd leave well alone. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
