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By *amierebel OP Man 49 weeks ago
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So how young is to young to you all ? Like what sort of age gap.
I only ask as someone recently I'm connected with really wants to meet and have a wee night together just I'm 11 years older than her wich I have stressed to her however says age isn't important I'm still on the fence myself.
So go on fabbers how much of a gap could you do ? |
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I won't go below my lower age filter which is 42 but even that is a stretch as I've never been with anyone more than 10 years below my own age and never with anyone older than me so it's actually a very narrow gap. |
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By *eliWoman 49 weeks ago
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Women? Probably no more than (quickly works it out) six years. Men? Gosh. Erm... I'd say anyone younger than me would be too young but now it really depends on their emotional intelligence and attitude. Let's say six as well, fuck it. |
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"We set the minimum at 25. There was probably a science behind it but there we are. "
That’s also my absolutely hard limit.
The science says that young peoples brains don’t finish developing until their mid twenties - crucially the parts responsible for long-term decision making, understanding consequences, and critical thinking and reasoning.
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"We set the minimum at 25. There was probably a science behind it but there we are.
That’s also my absolutely hard limit.
The science says that young peoples brains don’t finish developing until their mid twenties - crucially the parts responsible for long-term decision making, understanding consequences, and critical thinking and reasoning.
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This is so valid!
I feel this way too, mid 20's absolute minimum because of the same reason.
Personality and emotional intelligence are more important than age though, I'd go higher than I would lower. |
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"I all ways thought half your age plus 7
Ie 60 year no one under 37
50 year no one under 32
Hopefully keep you away from anyone same age as your own kids . "
That rule was actually developed as the MAXIMUM age of woman that an aristocratic man should marry. |
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My friendly couple are ten years younger than me, which at our age is neither here nor there. I'm also sharing virtual meetings with a view to a physical meet with a couple who are twenty years younger than me which is a bit of a surprise to me, but if they're happy, it's fine. |
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By *amierebel OP Man 49 weeks ago
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Cheers everyone for their thoughts
We both discussed before hand that we ain't after a relationship or anything along them lines and the lady in question is super attractive like out my league attractive wich possibly is another reason I'm debating it. Just don't want be seen as creepy for getting into someone so young i guess. |
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but only if he's mature, has the right personality and fit 
