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I have a fleshlight which was bought for me. Not something I would have bought myself but feels awesome and love it now.
Find chatting with various people that it’s split. Some women think it’s very hot to watch a guy use a toy and are turned on by it while just this morning I was told I was weird for having one.
Obviously that preference of course but Is it still seen as stranger for a guy to have a sex toy than a woman and if so why? |
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By *eliWoman 37 weeks ago
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I don't know. I think part of it is down to the dreaded p word - it's hot when a woman fucks herself silly but a man isn't... as sexy. I think that's utter tosh.
Love watching a man use a fleshlight/sex toys. One of my favourite videos is of a friend using a fleshlight. You can see the veins in his arms, the fluidity of his hands as he's using it, the way his beautiful Adonis belt and thighs are taut and tense with every thrust. Those little catches of breath...
anyway I'm waffling. Big fan and I don't think it should be seen as weird or strange.  |
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"I don't know. I think part of it is down to the dreaded p word - it's hot when a woman fucks herself silly but a man isn't... as sexy. I think that's utter tosh.
Love watching a man use a fleshlight/sex toys. One of my favourite videos is of a friend using a fleshlight. You can see the veins in his arms, the fluidity of his hands as he's using it, the way his beautiful Adonis belt and thighs are taut and tense with every thrust. Those little catches of breath...
anyway I'm waffling. Big fan and I don't think it should be seen as weird or strange. "
That’s what those who like it have said to me as to why they like it. Just thought it was a strange comment to suggest it was weird for a guy to have one. Each to their own of course and perhaps a woman masturbating with a toy is naturally more sexy?
I like it anyway  |
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By *aizyWoman 37 weeks ago
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"I don't know. I think part of it is down to the dreaded p word - it's hot when a woman fucks herself silly but a man isn't... as sexy. I think that's utter tosh.
Love watching a man use a fleshlight/sex toys. One of my favourite videos is of a friend using a fleshlight. You can see the veins in his arms, the fluidity of his hands as he's using it, the way his beautiful Adonis belt and thighs are taut and tense with every thrust. Those little catches of breath...
anyway I'm waffling. Big fan and I don't think it should be seen as weird or strange. "
Please, never stop waffling Meli 
You're not weird OP for having one, you like it thats all that matters, why should women have all the fun with toys!! |
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I think toys are seen as more acceptable for men now. Once you start, you will be experimenting with others. So many to choose from these days. Yes it’s not the same as the real thing but they do work  |
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"I don't know. I think part of it is down to the dreaded p word - it's hot when a woman fucks herself silly but a man isn't... as sexy. I think that's utter tosh.
Love watching a man use a fleshlight/sex toys. One of my favourite videos is of a friend using a fleshlight. You can see the veins in his arms, the fluidity of his hands as he's using it, the way his beautiful Adonis belt and thighs are taut and tense with every thrust. Those little catches of breath...
anyway I'm waffling. Big fan and I don't think it should be seen as weird or strange.
Please, never stop waffling Meli
You're not weird OP for having one, you like it thats all that matters, why should women have all the fun with toys!! "
Indeed, and those that have spectated seemed to enjoy it |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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You should provide some material for those who haven’t witnessed it before OP 
But seriously, I don’t have an issue with it, it’s not weird and I agree with what Meli said above. It can be really hot to watch. |
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"You should provide some material for those who haven’t witnessed it before OP
But seriously, I don’t have an issue with it, it’s not weird and I agree with what Meli said above. It can be really hot to watch. "
Ha ha that’s the private collection |
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If a person can use a toy on a lady. Why not change the roles!!!
Hand jobs are good, but some toys work far better and a easier than RSI strain injuries getting someone off.
Some men just can't get of when another person touches them. But give them a toy which feels like a love tunnel.... oooft.
Toys are there to enhance the sexual experience and everyone should embrace them in their own way.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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I have found some people really don't like men using toys. being a bi guy as well i tend to find the people who don't like toys are the ones who don't like playing bi guys. |
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I've not explored being present when a man uses toys on himself. The fact he has toys - good for him. Do I like it? No idea
I thought this was going to be about men who have a collection of toys they like to use on their meets. That, no. I don't share toys. No thank you. Hard pass. |
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By *eliWoman 37 weeks ago
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"I don't know. I think part of it is down to the dreaded p word - it's hot when a woman fucks herself silly but a man isn't... as sexy. I think that's utter tosh.
Love watching a man use a fleshlight/sex toys. One of my favourite videos is of a friend using a fleshlight. You can see the veins in his arms, the fluidity of his hands as he's using it, the way his beautiful Adonis belt and thighs are taut and tense with every thrust. Those little catches of breath...
anyway I'm waffling. Big fan and I don't think it should be seen as weird or strange.
Please, never stop waffling Meli
You're not weird OP for having one, you like it thats all that matters, why should women have all the fun with toys!! "
Oh Daizy! I think it appeals to a slight voyeuristic streak I have - love watching others enjoying themselves. And part of me does admittedly find myself thinking 'I'd really like to be that toy'. |
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"I got an original 1994 red power ranger but other than that I don’t really have toys lol
Curtis"
Having a 1994 Red Power Ranger toy is one thing, but where you put it could be a whole different ball game... if you pardon the unintentional pun!  |
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"I don't know. I think part of it is down to the dreaded p word - it's hot when a woman fucks herself silly but a man isn't... as sexy. I think that's utter tosh.
Love watching a man use a fleshlight/sex toys. One of my favourite videos is of a friend using a fleshlight. You can see the veins in his arms, the fluidity of his hands as he's using it, the way his beautiful Adonis belt and thighs are taut and tense with every thrust. Those little catches of breath...
anyway I'm waffling. Big fan and I don't think it should be seen as weird or strange.
Please, never stop waffling Meli
You're not weird OP for having one, you like it thats all that matters, why should women have all the fun with toys!!
Oh Daizy! I think it appeals to a slight voyeuristic streak I have - love watching others enjoying themselves. And part of me does admittedly find myself thinking 'I'd really like to be that toy'. "
Ha ha now that sounds fun! |
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"I have no strong feelings either way. If you enjoy it then it's your choice surely."
Yes of course, it was more the suggestion that a guy was weird for having one that’s all. Got me wondering. Certainly wouldn’t stop me using it or anything. Was just intrigued |
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"I got an original 1994 red power ranger but other than that I don’t really have toys lol
Curtis
Having a 1994 Red Power Ranger toy is one thing, but where you put it could be a whole different ball game... if you pardon the unintentional pun! "
Haha go go pervy power
That’s got a ring to it haha |
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"I have no strong feelings either way. If you enjoy it then it's your choice surely.
Yes of course, it was more the suggestion that a guy was weird for having one that’s all. Got me wondering. Certainly wouldn’t stop me using it or anything. Was just intrigued "
I think people who judge you for having toys are weird. Very weird. |
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"Why should women have all the toys. If it makes my partner happy and he enjoys it then fantastic. Really great as a present to buy. "
Id never thought to buy one but she (a former fwb who was moving away) has stumbled across some fleshlight porn and was intrigued so bought me one so she could watch I’ll be honest I was very pleasantly suprised when I first slid it on |
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"I have a fleshlight which was bought for me. Not something I would have bought myself but feels awesome and love it now.
Find chatting with various people that it’s split. Some women think it’s very hot to watch a guy use a toy and are turned on by it while just this morning I was told I was weird for having one.
Obviously that preference of course but Is it still seen as stranger for a guy to have a sex toy than a woman and if so why?"
Are they awkward to clean? I just imagine it curdles |
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"Why should women have all the toys. If it makes my partner happy and he enjoys it then fantastic. Really great as a present to buy.
Id never thought to buy one but she (a former fwb who was moving away) has stumbled across some fleshlight porn and was intrigued so bought me one so she could watch I’ll be honest I was very pleasantly suprised when I first slid it on"
Apparently Tesco's do a " watered down version " |
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"I have a fleshlight which was bought for me. Not something I would have bought myself but feels awesome and love it now.
Find chatting with various people that it’s split. Some women think it’s very hot to watch a guy use a toy and are turned on by it while just this morning I was told I was weird for having one.
Obviously that preference of course but Is it still seen as stranger for a guy to have a sex toy than a woman and if so why?
Are they awkward to clean? I just imagine it curdles"
They’re ok |
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"Why should women have all the toys. If it makes my partner happy and he enjoys it then fantastic. Really great as a present to buy.
Id never thought to buy one but she (a former fwb who was moving away) has stumbled across some fleshlight porn and was intrigued so bought me one so she could watch I’ll be honest I was very pleasantly suprised when I first slid it on
Apparently Tesco's do a " watered down version " "
ha scan that in along with your weekly shop |
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"Why should women have all the toys. If it makes my partner happy and he enjoys it then fantastic. Really great as a present to buy.
Id never thought to buy one but she (a former fwb who was moving away) has stumbled across some fleshlight porn and was intrigued so bought me one so she could watch I’ll be honest I was very pleasantly suprised when I first slid it on
Apparently Tesco's do a " watered down version " ha scan that in along with your weekly shop "
Yeah, and make sure you collect your Clubcard points too |
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I have a handful of various ones, The problem with male sex toys is the market is pretty limited, and also very expensive. I’ve found it’s a case of you get what you pay for - buy cheap, buy twice  |
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"I have a fleshlight which was bought for me. Not something I would have bought myself but feels awesome and love it now.
Find chatting with various people that it’s split. Some women think it’s very hot to watch a guy use a toy and are turned on by it while just this morning I was told I was weird for having one.
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Double standards eh???
Because I couldn’t find a single bloke who has ever said that it wasn’t sexy knowing that a woman plays with herself with either a dildo or vibrator. |
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By *ornycougaWoman 37 weeks ago
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I adore my toy collection and I think it's about time guys had more fun with their own gadgets. That said, whilst I love watching a guy wank the thought of watching him with a fleshlight does nothing for me at all. |
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I have a lifelike pussy that you put on the bed or a desk or whatever and fuck. I also have a prostate massager too.
You're not in the slightest word OP. Nothing at all wrong with trying new things and without trying you'll never realise that your missing out. |
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By *melfCouple 37 weeks ago
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Always used to get our toys from Lovehoney and Melf has quite an impressive selection. Recently discovered that Shien do toys and now I have a small but growing collection.
I figure no point in spending a fortune if you're just going to stick it up your arse.
If you've not looked I highly recommend them. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 37 weeks ago
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I have a ton of toys, the benefit of testing them for a certain company for over a decade.
They're for me to use, either alone or with company. Not sure I'd ever be interested in using one for someone to watch virtually, but then I've never really been into the whole cam thing. In person, with company though? It's fun and very erotic.  |
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"I've not explored being present when a man uses toys on himself. The fact he has toys - good for him. Do I like it? No idea
I thought this was going to be about men who have a collection of toys they like to use on their meets. That, no. I don't share toys. No thank you. Hard pass."
That's exactly what I thought when I saw the title, definite no from me on that too |
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"I've not explored being present when a man uses toys on himself. The fact he has toys - good for him. Do I like it? No idea
I thought this was going to be about men who have a collection of toys they like to use on their meets. That, no. I don't share toys. No thank you. Hard pass.
That's exactly what I thought when I saw the title, definite no from me on that too"
Ha nope not that. It just came from an interaction this morning where someone suggested to me it was weird for a guy to have a sex toy, in this case a fleshlight. I’d had different opinions from people I’ve chatted to on here about guys with toys in general and was interested to see the fan perspective! |
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"I have a fleshlight which was bought for me. Not something I would have bought myself but feels awesome and love it now.
Find chatting with various people that it’s split. Some women think it’s very hot to watch a guy use a toy and are turned on by it while just this morning I was told I was weird for having one.
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Double standards eh???
Because I couldn’t find a single bloke who has ever said that it wasn’t sexy knowing that a woman plays with herself with either a dildo or vibrator. "
Is it though. I’m not on board with some of the double standards thing. Not a fan of the old preference excuse either but fact is a woman with a toy would turn me on. I don’t think a man with a toy would. I Can’t help it, that’s the way I feel. |
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"That’s fair enough. People are turned on my different things!
Was only intrigued on the view of sexy toys and to be honest was just passing the time "
I like discussions on things people like and don’t like . I often do threads like that myself. It’s nice to have different views |
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I've never had/used one. For one, I was never sure they would make a wank *that* much better, but I'm basing that on nothing at all.
But also, in my clearly old fashioned brain, I suppose I did always think it was a bit odd. I'm stuck in the past when guys that bought 'masturbatory aids' were also the kind of guys who spent their weekends at battlefield re-enactments (only joshing, role players ).
But the world changed and I didn't keep up. I would happily watch a woman use a toy on herself so can absolutely see why the same might be something others enjoyed in return, and I think that could be fun. I'll place my Love Honey order now. |
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"I've never had/used one. For one, I was never sure they would make a wank *that* much better, but I'm basing that on nothing at all.
But also, in my clearly old fashioned brain, I suppose I did always think it was a bit odd. I'm stuck in the past when guys that bought 'masturbatory aids' were also the kind of guys who spent their weekends at battlefield re-enactments (only joshing, role players ).
But the world changed and I didn't keep up. I would happily watch a woman use a toy on herself so can absolutely see why the same might be something others enjoyed in return, and I think that could be fun. I'll place my Love Honey order now."
I was probably the same as you to be honest and had it not been bought for me would probably not have got one for myself. However it feels great and for some I’ve engaged with in here the seem really into it so it’s been a lot of fun |
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"I have a fleshlight which was bought for me. Not something I would have bought myself but feels awesome and love it now.
Find chatting with various people that it’s split. Some women think it’s very hot to watch a guy use a toy and are turned on by it while just this morning I was told I was weird for having one.
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Double standards eh???
Because I couldn’t find a single bloke who has ever said that it wasn’t sexy knowing that a woman plays with herself with either a dildo or vibrator.
Is it though. I’m not on board with some of the double standards thing. Not a fan of the old preference excuse either but fact is a woman with a toy would turn me on. I don’t think a man with a toy would. I Can’t help it, that’s the way I feel. "
So even women find other women a turn on when they use toys. Interesting. |
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"I have a fleshlight which was bought for me. Not something I would have bought myself but feels awesome and love it now.
Find chatting with various people that it’s split. Some women think it’s very hot to watch a guy use a toy and are turned on by it while just this morning I was told I was weird for having one.
…..
Double standards eh???
Because I couldn’t find a single bloke who has ever said that it wasn’t sexy knowing that a woman plays with herself with either a dildo or vibrator.
Is it though. I’m not on board with some of the double standards thing. Not a fan of the old preference excuse either but fact is a woman with a toy would turn me on. I don’t think a man with a toy would. I Can’t help it, that’s the way I feel.
So even women find other women a turn on when they use toys. Interesting. "
Well I can’t speak for all women  |
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"I have a fleshlight which was bought for me. Not something I would have bought myself but feels awesome and love it now.
Find chatting with various people that it’s split. Some women think it’s very hot to watch a guy use a toy and are turned on by it while just this morning I was told I was weird for having one.
…..
Double standards eh???
Because I couldn’t find a single bloke who has ever said that it wasn’t sexy knowing that a woman plays with herself with either a dildo or vibrator.
Is it though. I’m not on board with some of the double standards thing. Not a fan of the old preference excuse either but fact is a woman with a toy would turn me on. I don’t think a man with a toy would. I Can’t help it, that’s the way I feel.
So even women find other women a turn on when they use toys. Interesting.
Well I can’t speak for all women "
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My first massager was bought for me by a former sub as part of a 'clone a pussy' kit.
I have a small stock of toys (still sealed) for the ladies, cheap ones though which I'll either give you her after, or bin if she doesn't want them.
Only exception is the doxycycline which has a removable cover. |
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"My first massager was bought for me by a former sub as part of a 'clone a pussy' kit.
I have a small stock of toys (still sealed) for the ladies, cheap ones though which I'll either give you her after, or bin if she doesn't want them.
Only exception is the doxycycline which has a removable cover."
No idea why auto carrot did that...
The doxy, the wand, not the antibiotic... duh. |
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