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just a tip for single guys...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Don't ask a couple/single to keep you in mind if you won't send a picture!
We certainly won't meet if we don't know what you look like... You don't have to put it on your profile, as long as you're willing to send one on request, that's cool! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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See this really does bust my baws!! I will never again send a face pic to anyone until I know 100% who they are. Too many weirdo guys posing as couples, the use of pics on other sites and press interest.. yes press interest!.. for me to take a chance. I will cam face to face with people I trust but suppose even that is silly.
Anyway my point is just cos I haven't got face pics doesn't mean i ain't genuine. So at least two sides to every argument, don't judge a book by its cover etc etc |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"See this really does bust my baws!! I will never again send a face pic to anyone until I know 100% who they are. Too many weirdo guys posing as couples, the use of pics on other sites and press interest.. yes press interest!.. for me to take a chance. I will cam face to face with people I trust but suppose even that is silly.
Anyway my point is just cos I haven't got face pics doesn't mean i ain't genuine. So at least two sides to every argument, don't judge a book by its cover etc etc"
That's fine though, you're not expecting people to agree to meet you blindly. You're happy to cam. We have a lot of photos on our profile so you can see my face and my husbands on our friends only pics. But to tell me you'll only send a picture if I agree to meet is ridiculous! How do I know I want to meet you if I can't see you?! And to do things like this and then moan you don't get meets is just absurd. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"thanks for the tip
now i know what i've been doing wrong all these years  "
Thanks for the sarcasm. Just what the thread needed. Believe it or not, this may be common sense to you, but clearly it isn't to others. |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"See this really does bust my baws!! I will never again send a face pic to anyone until I know 100% who they are. Too many weirdo guys posing as couples, the use of pics on other sites and press interest.. yes press interest!.. for me to take a chance. I will cam face to face with people I trust but suppose even that is silly.
Anyway my point is just cos I haven't got face pics doesn't mean i ain't genuine. So at least two sides to every argument, don't judge a book by its cover etc etc
That's fine though, you're not expecting people to agree to meet you blindly. You're happy to cam. We have a lot of photos on our profile so you can see my face and my husbands on our friends only pics. But to tell me you'll only send a picture if I agree to meet is ridiculous! How do I know I want to meet you if I can't see you?! And to do things like this and then moan you don't get meets is just absurd."
Can i ask the OP how many single guys have said they will only send a pic if you agree to meet? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not just single guys, but the same goes for ladies and couples alike   I would agree with that. "
I could agree with that too I suppose but I've only found it with single men tbh. I totally understand protecting yourself if you're a professional but unless you keep a paper bag over your head you're going to have to reveal yourself at some point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I too only add people or send them pics when I'm sure they don't know me as it would have a dire impact on my profession. It's usually safe for those that live many miles away but I understand why some don't do it. However, I would then understand if a couple or female wouldn't meet me for that reason...so just move on as there are plenty others |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"See this really does bust my baws!! I will never again send a face pic to anyone until I know 100% who they are. Too many weirdo guys posing as couples, the use of pics on other sites and press interest.. yes press interest!.. for me to take a chance. I will cam face to face with people I trust but suppose even that is silly.
Anyway my point is just cos I haven't got face pics doesn't mean i ain't genuine. So at least two sides to every argument, don't judge a book by its cover etc etc
That's fine though, you're not expecting people to agree to meet you blindly. You're happy to cam. We have a lot of photos on our profile so you can see my face and my husbands on our friends only pics. But to tell me you'll only send a picture if I agree to meet is ridiculous! How do I know I want to meet you if I can't see you?! And to do things like this and then moan you don't get meets is just absurd.Can i ask the OP how many single guys have said they will only send a pic if you agree to meet?"
I've probably had 3 this month. And at least one who has complained on the forums about not getting meets.
We don't set out to have so many meets a week/month/year but we meet if people take our fancy. |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"See this really does bust my baws!! I will never again send a face pic to anyone until I know 100% who they are. Too many weirdo guys posing as couples, the use of pics on other sites and press interest.. yes press interest!.. for me to take a chance. I will cam face to face with people I trust but suppose even that is silly.
Anyway my point is just cos I haven't got face pics doesn't mean i ain't genuine. So at least two sides to every argument, don't judge a book by its cover etc etc
That's fine though, you're not expecting people to agree to meet you blindly. You're happy to cam. We have a lot of photos on our profile so you can see my face and my husbands on our friends only pics. But to tell me you'll only send a picture if I agree to meet is ridiculous! How do I know I want to meet you if I can't see you?! And to do things like this and then moan you don't get meets is just absurd.Can i ask the OP how many single guys have said they will only send a pic if you agree to meet?
I've probably had 3 this month. And at least one who has complained on the forums about not getting meets.
We don't set out to have so many meets a week/month/year but we meet if people take our fancy."
I dont think that its just single guys that do it, i have had arsey couples who have demanded all sorts, i just laugh it off as its them that message me! Concentrate on the ones that you do wanna meet and are happy to swap pics etc.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I believe if u haven't got a face pic on show ur profile there is a reason ??but if asked to show so u know if ur attracted ridiculous its like buying a car with a blindfold on |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No pic no meet, end of, I won't get wound up about it. "
I don't get wound up either, but thought it might be worth mentioning to those saying they don't get meets that this could be why. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"thanks for the tip
now i know what i've been doing wrong all these years
Thanks for the sarcasm. Just what the thread needed. Believe it or not, this may be common sense to you, but clearly it isn't to others."
and of these 'others' how many do you suppose read the forums ?
if someone is not grasping the 'basics' of meeting online, do you seriously think they are going to take time out to read posts like this ?
i am aware that your post is of good intent but i think that it will either go unnoticed by (or fall on the deaf ears of) those you seek to educate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not just saying for singles Wat grips me are wen profiles demand pics wen they have none mainly women due to there being mass numbers of men on this site lol  |
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"See this really does bust my baws!! I will never again send a face pic to anyone until I know 100% who they are. Too many weirdo guys posing as couples, the use of pics on other sites and press interest.. yes press interest!.. for me to take a chance. I will cam face to face with people I trust but suppose even that is silly.
Anyway my point is just cos I haven't got face pics doesn't mean i ain't genuine. So at least two sides to every argument, don't judge a book by its cover etc etc"
Sooooo you aren't happy to send a pic until you know someone is genuine..so how do you know that before you meet? How do any of us know it is a couples/single fems profile and not a single mans until we are actually stood in front of them. Or would you rather turn up in a paper bag......
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See this really does bust my baws!! I will never again send a face pic to anyone until I know 100% who they are. Too many weirdo guys posing as couples, the use of pics on other sites and press interest.. yes press interest!.. for me to take a chance. I will cam face to face with people I trust but suppose even that is silly.
Anyway my point is just cos I haven't got face pics doesn't mean i ain't genuine. So at least two sides to every argument, don't judge a book by its cover etc etc"
So you've actually got people to agree to meet you without seeing your face? I'm in no way being sarcastic, just interested as like the OP I don't agree to meet without seeing a face pic and I do prefer it to be sent via the site, I just assumed everyone did the same, it's interesting to find they don't.
I have a couples profile and we're getting next to no interest I assumed it was the lack of pics, but if they aren't that important maybe it's not xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"show us ur mug in return and its a deal  "
no its not . Just nice to know whats on offer . Whats nice about a dick and on the end is shrek , lol green teeth too .  |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"show us ur mug in return and its a deal no its not . Just nice to know whats on offer . Whats nice about a dick and on the end is shrek , lol green teeth too . "
Thought it was all about the "personality" Jo.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"show us ur mug in return and its a deal no its not . Just nice to know whats on offer . Whats nice about a dick and on the end is shrek , lol green teeth too . "
lol i meant a deal as in show me urs and ill show u mines! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"show us ur mug in return and its a deal no its not . Just nice to know whats on offer . Whats nice about a dick and on the end is shrek , lol green teeth too .
lol i meant a deal as in show me urs and ill show u mines!"
Deal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"show us ur mug in return and its a deal no its not . Just nice to know whats on offer . Whats nice about a dick and on the end is shrek , lol green teeth too . Thought it was all about the "personality" Jo. "
she misspelled she meant penisality |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i cant realy understand this whole face pic thing ? why hide them on here ? the only people going to see them is fellow fabsters, so there shudnt be anything to worry about in my eyes !!!!! |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"i cant realy understand this whole face pic thing ? why hide them on here ? the only people going to see them is fellow fabsters, so there shudnt be anything to worry about in my eyes !!!!! "
Some prefer not to display publicly, which i can understand, as not everyone would choose to tell the world they are swingers.Also its not beyond the realms of possibility that pics are taken and posted onto other websites as has happened in the past. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i cant realy understand this whole face pic thing ? why hide them on here ? the only people going to see them is fellow fabsters, so there shudnt be anything to worry about in my eyes !!!!! Some prefer not to display publicly, which i can understand, as not everyone would choose to tell the world they are swingers.Also its not beyond the realms of possibility that pics are taken and posted onto other websites as has happened in the past."
ok, i understand now, but what wankers would do such a thing and whats to be gained from it ??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is not exclusive to single guys so I'm not sure why the Op has highlighted it that way.
My view is that if you're requesting a face picture you should have the common decency to send your face picture with the request.
If you don't, you shouldn't expect one back. |
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We have face pics available to friends, and if we are organising a meet then we'll send the pics. No pic in return, no meet. Why waste people's time by turning up then having no attraction? Do they think we're going to shag them anyway because they've made the effort to turn up? No. Doesn't work like that.
I've never understood the 'professional' thing either - we all have jobs, we all have people we would rather not find out what we do. We're all here for the same reason (to have fun), no one's going to say anything. So no pic, no meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tip for couples treat single guys how you treat other couples with respect this game is all about respect from all sides I hate the brush us single guys get but as you see from my verifications I do well why? Cos I'm good looking partly? Main reason is I'm genuine and respect and read profiles follow those rules you will be fine many couples hate single males why cos some couples would sooner meet us than them and it hurts |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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If i ask for a face pic and get one, I always send mine.....even if im not interested!!!
If people have a problem sending them via a message, then sorry.....they shouldnt be here!!
We are adults FFS!!!
IF you are worried about your job/careers why take the chance of being on a site like this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If i ask for a face pic and get one, I always send mine.....even if im not interested!!!
If people have a problem sending them via a message, then sorry.....they shouldnt be here!!
We are adults FFS!!!
IF you are worried about your job/careers why take the chance of being on a site like this?"
there was a debate a while ago about sending facepics..
I honestly think its horrible not sending a facepic back, even if u arent interested..it just reeks of unfriendliness in my eyes..and acheives a negative aspect to the site IMO |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So you've actually got people to agree to meet you without seeing your face? I'm in no way being sarcastic, just interested as like the OP I don't agree to meet without seeing a face pic and I do prefer it to be sent via the site, I just assumed everyone did the same, it's interesting to find they don't.
I have a couples profile and we're getting next to no interest I assumed it was the lack of pics, but if they aren't that important maybe it's not xx"
that ain't what I said....but hey its just my opinion on it |
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