Then no.
My experience of the community is that the best place to meet people is at the events and munches you can find on websites aimed at the fetish lifestyle.
People who hide behind screens and will only meet one on one are a touch more risky in those sort of scenarios. Small Amber flag in normal dating, whole red one for that scene.
Much better to meet people in an open public space and get some idea of how they interact in person anyway  |
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"Thank you, basically ive found what I like and am not having alot of luck on here ??"
This is a swinging site. You're unlikely to find a large quantity of kink people here.
Not to say there's zero overlap between kink and swing, obviously. But if that's what you're after this isn't the ideal place to seek it. |
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The well-known fetish lifestyle site isn't very good for meeting people - it's more for people who already know each other to connect, at least in my experience. I don't think you necessarily need to get involved in the local scene, mind - it's for some people, it's not for others, and that's fine.
There is an "app" that's free, I'd feel. The usual suspects, however, work well too (including this place). Just get into the mindset that it's more like a lottery - you're not really expecting to win, but you have to take part to be in for a chance. |
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By *J2009Couple 37 weeks ago
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"Try looking on the well know FET ish LIFEstyle sight you might have more luck on there .tho as advised above best bet is to find your nearest munch(social) or event and network at them ."
This one!!!
But I agree with the above. Best to use it to look for munches or events and attend those to meet people - they aren’t usually used for dating but it you click with people then win win  |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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There used to be, but they shut down. Google for London Fetish Calendar to see if anything catches your eye, attend munches, events. Make sure you stick to the dress code and other rules. Be patient. |
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By *eavenNhellCouple 37 weeks ago
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"We arrived here from the other fetish site because we found it really hard work. We’ve played with more people into the BDSM scene here than we did on the other site. "
treat it as a kinky FB and you will be fine its not a meeting site more a networking
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The alluded to FETish site I like and while I agree it is less for actually meeting people than on here it was where I originally met my kink buddy and then followed quite a few years of often extremely adventurous kinky fun with her. |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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For datimg, the usual apps work. You have to learn to read signals but also finding dating connection on get sites is hard.
I'd never recommend antwhere for BDSM hookups. Too much risk. |
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