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No. Because I don’t think there can be a metric for good sex.
Good means too many different things for too many different people. I may click with someone and have what we consider great sex, but I may have a bad experience with others.
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By (user no longer on site) OP 37 weeks ago
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"No. Because I don’t think there can be a metric for good sex.
Good means too many different things for too many different people. I may click with someone and have what we consider great sex, but I may have a bad experience with others.
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There is a metric. I know it. Trust me bro |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 37 weeks ago
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"Or are we here because we are shit shags and we cant score in the real world "
That’s also a thought I have but if I had said that someone would’ve said I’m mean |
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By *irthandgirthMan 37 weeks ago
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"No. Because I don’t think there can be a metric for good sex.
Good means too many different things for too many different people. I may click with someone and have what we consider great sex, but I may have a bad experience with others.
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As much as the act of sex is very individual (even with the same partner), I would posit that a (non-quantifiable) metric of how good someone is at sex would be how quickly they can attune to a partners body. |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"No. Because I don’t think there can be a metric for good sex.
Good means too many different things for too many different people. I may click with someone and have what we consider great sex, but I may have a bad experience with others.
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I literally came here to say this! And now I don’t need to  x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 37 weeks ago
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"I'm rubbish at sex, always have been. Thought being on here would help me improve but so far it hasn't.
Oh well.
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Who is your personal tutor? Sometimes they’re not as good as we hope |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"No. Because I don’t think there can be a metric for good sex.
Good means too many different things for too many different people. I may click with someone and have what we consider great sex, but I may have a bad experience with others.
I literally came here to say this! And now I don’t need to x "
Mind you - all the people I’ve had amazing sex with apart from one - were people active on fab… I have however also had woefully poor sex with people who are on fab and talk themselves up amazingly well, have fantastic verifications and left me utterly exasperated… so  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 37 weeks ago
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"Or are we here because we are shit shags and we cant score in the real world
Fab edition of The Undateables would make good viewing I reckon"
It would be just those fuckers that do the ‘why am I having no luck on here?’ Threads  but like longer |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 37 weeks ago
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"No. We like to think we are and I think part of good sex is confidence in ourselves. Even if it stems from delusion."
And ain’t a single confident soul on this here site |
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"No. We like to think we are and I think part of good sex is confidence in ourselves. Even if it stems from delusion.
And ain’t a single confident soul on this here site"
Pickle, yes, I think I'm good at the sex. And what I lack in ability I make up for in enthusiasm.
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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Off course i think am good at sex wether I am or not is a different matter
We are all inherently preceve or self to be good due to others spareing peoples feeling
Ie I am always been told I am amazing so off course I am going to think I am
Not I don’t know if I was maybe they were just spareing feelings
But if someone gets told all the time they amazing they going to think they are
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Theirs no such thing as a great lover!
Every woman is different, every woman likes it different. I’ve been with women who...
*Thought my penis was a gift from God & begged for more.
*I’ve had women who thought I was...”Meh”
*I’ve had women who thought I was bad at sex & should stop forever
But they all had my same cheap moves LOL |
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Absolutely not, from my rather limited experience. Or maybe my way of doing things is weird and I'm the problem lol. I think that 60% of the men on here are in the top 10% of penis size and if that's what a particular woman needs then maybe to them they are. Maybe I'm just jealous lmao |
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"No. Because I don’t think there can be a metric for good sex.
Good means too many different things for too many different people. I may click with someone and have what we consider great sex, but I may have a bad experience with others.
There is a metric. I know it. Trust me bro"
I'm still fairly comfortable with 'Imperial'! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 37 weeks ago
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"No. Because I don’t think there can be a metric for good sex.
Good means too many different things for too many different people. I may click with someone and have what we consider great sex, but I may have a bad experience with others.
There is a metric. I know it. Trust me bro
I'm still fairly comfortable with 'Imperial'!"
I tell you what I’m not comfortable with! IMPERIALISM! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 37 weeks ago
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"I wonder if anyone has ever actually had bad sex from fab? I doubt it because we’re all top shaggers
Yes I have
I expect he thought it bad too
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Hmmm. This is a spanner in the works |
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By *irthandgirthMan 37 weeks ago
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"I wonder if anyone has ever actually had bad sex from fab? I doubt it because we’re all top shaggers"
Yes. I met a lady many years ago from here.. she talked herself up well, really chatty. All good.
When it got down to it, I have never been weirded out more. She did *nothing*. As in didn't move, or make any noise. Tried some different positions but she just lay where I moved her, then she calmly said 'I've cum'. I would never have guessed. She made no noise and gave no physical indication at all. It was like a warm mannequin.
I made my excuses and left, and didn't get in contact again. |
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By *irthandgirthMan 37 weeks ago
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"Good at sex...but what makes someone 'good'. One persons good might be another persons not so good. Sex is different with different people. "
I think being 'good' is being able to adapt to a partner and get in sync quickly and responsively. |
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I believe that everyone can be either exceptional or appalling but it depends on your sexual partner at the Time, to me it's all about the chemistry and compatibility therefore one person may believe I'm amazing and the best they've had yet another could leave massively disappointed. I don't believe there's a one size fits all (pun intended) scale of sexual prowess it all depends on the other party/ies involved.
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I don’t think I am very good at it - all the ladies clearly get frustrated because they keep shouting “Oh my god, oh my god” and make me do it again and again - they are obviously making me practice until I get it right…. |
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"I don’t think I am very good at it - all the ladies clearly get frustrated because they keep shouting “Oh my god, oh my god” and make me do it again and again - they are obviously making me practice until I get it right…."
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"No. Because I don’t think there can be a metric for good sex.
Good means too many different things for too many different people. I may click with someone and have what we consider great sex, but I may have a bad experience with others.
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I get what your are saying as everyone's different, but if you enjoy making your partner feel good and are happy to read over their excel spreadsheets, pie charts and PowerPoint presentations then you can cater to most needs. |
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"I wonder if anyone has ever actually had bad sex from fab? I doubt it because we’re all top shaggers
Yes. I met a lady many years ago from here.. she talked herself up well, really chatty. All good.
When it got down to it, I have never been weirded out more. She did *nothing*. As in didn't move, or make any noise. Tried some different positions but she just lay where I moved her, then she calmly said 'I've cum'. I would never have guessed. She made no noise and gave no physical indication at all. It was like a warm mannequin.
I made my excuses and left, and didn't get in contact again."
Oh... I thought that was what normally happened? |
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"No. Because I don’t think there can be a metric for good sex.
Good means too many different things for too many different people. I may click with someone and have what we consider great sex, but I may have a bad experience with others.
I literally came here to say this! And now I don’t need to x "
Me too! |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"Are actually good at sex? Like are we the top shaggers of society? Top 0.5%"
What about those that are on here to spice up a vanilla sex life?
To find people that have greater ability than what we get at home?  xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 37 weeks ago
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"Are actually good at sex? Like are we the top shaggers of society? Top 0.5%
What about those that are on here to spice up a vanilla sex life?
To find people that have greater ability than what we get at home? xx"
Oh yeah so you wouldn’t be in the top 0.5% is what you’re saying |
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Well Pickle, I think it depends.
I would say that I'm pretty good at the sex.
I've had some shit shags in my life though. Truly awful. Was that partly my fault? Did I lose my enthusiasm and desire, thus making them perform even worse? Did the look of "wtf are you doing?" Put them off their game?
Probably just incompatibility really
MrsAbz
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By (user no longer on site) OP 37 weeks ago
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"Well Pickle, I think it depends.
I would say that I'm pretty good at the sex.
I've had some shit shags in my life though. Truly awful. Was that partly my fault? Did I lose my enthusiasm and desire, thus making them perform even worse? Did the look of "wtf are you doing?" Put them off their game?
Probably just incompatibility really
MrsAbz
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Yeah incompatibility. Or that they just weren’t good. Because you’re top tier shaggers |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 37 weeks ago
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"I was last rated as C- at The Sex.
Pickle that’s a 3/4 in your language 
I'm probably more at the '3' end of the spectrum tbf
3 out of 3
You'll have to try to find out  "
I’ll be finding out.  |
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"I was last rated as C- at The Sex.
Pickle that’s a 3/4 in your language
I'm probably more at the '3' end of the spectrum tbf
3 out of 3
You'll have to try to find out
I’ll be finding out. "
Call me
*makes old fashioned telephone gesture with her hand* |
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"I was last rated as C- at The Sex.
Pickle that’s a 3/4 in your language
I'm probably more at the '3' end of the spectrum tbf
3 out of 3
You'll have to try to find out
I’ll be finding out.
Call me
*makes old fashioned telephone gesture with her hand*"
*sniggers in millennial* |
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"I was last rated as C- at The Sex.
Pickle that’s a 3/4 in your language
I'm probably more at the '3' end of the spectrum tbf
3 out of 3
You'll have to try to find out
I’ll be finding out.
Call me
*makes old fashioned telephone gesture with her hand*
*sniggers in millennial*"
*Middle finger like all the generations since forever* |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 37 weeks ago
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"I was last rated as C- at The Sex.
Pickle that’s a 3/4 in your language
I'm probably more at the '3' end of the spectrum tbf
3 out of 3
You'll have to try to find out
I’ll be finding out.
Call me
*makes old fashioned telephone gesture with her hand*
*sniggers in millennial*"
WHAT in millennial?  gatekeeper?!
By the way as a Zillennial I also do the same gesture as you, Mrs KC  |
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"I was last rated as C- at The Sex.
Pickle that’s a 3/4 in your language
I'm probably more at the '3' end of the spectrum tbf
3 out of 3
You'll have to try to find out
I’ll be finding out.
Call me
*makes old fashioned telephone gesture with her hand*
*sniggers in millennial*
WHAT in millennial? gatekeeper?!
By the way as a Zillennial I also do the same gesture as you, Mrs KC "
I wasn’t sure if I’d even be able to post that tbf. Says something about something |
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Not sure about better at it, tho I reckon we're more adventurous on here, more open to trying things.
Compared to the normal vanilla sex, Tory voting, uptight public, I reckon we would be a better shag overall. |
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"I wonder if anyone has ever actually had bad sex from fab? I doubt it because we’re all top shaggers
Yes. I met a lady many years ago from here.. she talked herself up well, really chatty. All good.
When it got down to it, I have never been weirded out more. She did *nothing*. As in didn't move, or make any noise. Tried some different positions but she just lay where I moved her, then she calmly said 'I've cum'. I would never have guessed. She made no noise and gave no physical indication at all. It was like a warm mannequin.
I made my excuses and left, and didn't get in contact again."
Oh hiya, nice to see you again!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 37 weeks ago
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"I was last rated as C- at The Sex.
Pickle that’s a 3/4 in your language
I'm probably more at the '3' end of the spectrum tbf
3 out of 3
You'll have to try to find out
I’ll be finding out.
Call me
*makes old fashioned telephone gesture with her hand*
*sniggers in millennial*
WHAT in millennial? gatekeeper?!
By the way as a Zillennial I also do the same gesture as you, Mrs KC
I wasn’t sure if I’d even be able to post that tbf. Says something about something "
check your messages! |
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"I wonder if anyone has ever actually had bad sex from fab? I doubt it because we’re all top shaggers
Yes. I met a lady many years ago from here.. she talked herself up well, really chatty. All good.
When it got down to it, I have never been weirded out more. She did *nothing*. As in didn't move, or make any noise. Tried some different positions but she just lay where I moved her, then she calmly said 'I've cum'. I would never have guessed. She made no noise and gave no physical indication at all. It was like a warm mannequin.
I made my excuses and left, and didn't get in contact again.
Oh hiya, nice to see you again! "
That encapsulates exactly why I use Fab.
Fun on the forum groups and keeping in touch with people I've already met! |
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"I was last rated as C- at The Sex.
Pickle that’s a 3/4 in your language
I'm probably more at the '3' end of the spectrum tbf
3 out of 3
You'll have to try to find out
I’ll be finding out.
Call me
*makes old fashioned telephone gesture with her hand*
*sniggers in millennial*
WHAT in millennial? gatekeeper?!
By the way as a Zillennial I also do the same gesture as you, Mrs KC
I wasn’t sure if I’d even be able to post that tbf. Says something about something
check your messages!"
I’ll reply in ‘a couple of hours’ |
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"I wonder if anyone has ever actually had bad sex from fab? I doubt it because we’re all top shaggers
Yes. I met a lady many years ago from here.. she talked herself up well, really chatty. All good.
When it got down to it, I have never been weirded out more. She did *nothing*. As in didn't move, or make any noise. Tried some different positions but she just lay where I moved her, then she calmly said 'I've cum'. I would never have guessed. She made no noise and gave no physical indication at all. It was like a warm mannequin.
I made my excuses and left, and didn't get in contact again.
Oh hiya, nice to see you again!
That encapsulates exactly why I use Fab.
Fun on the forum groups and keeping in touch with people I've already met! "
I think I need to make it clear, I’m not actually that woman, I replied for the lolz  |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"I’ve had the worst and the best sex of my life both from this site lol
Please elaborate on the worst."
I wouldn’t want to upset anyone that may potentially see this  but yeah just saying there are defo polar opposites of the spectrum |
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"Some are some aren't.... I have no particular opinion about whether I am or not... it's like when I get asked if I'm good at sucking cock... that's really not for me to say... "
There’s only one way to find out |
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"Some are some aren't.... I have no particular opinion about whether I am or not... it's like when I get asked if I'm good at sucking cock... that's really not for me to say...
There’s only one way to find out "
That's very true |
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By *an1978Woman 37 weeks ago
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It is funny when you get to know fabbers well, and your best shags meet your best friends lol.
Everybody is different.
Jane thinks bob was AMAZING!
Jill thinks bob lasting 2 hours is boring.
Susan just didn't have that spark with bob.
I'm sure some people think I'm fun and enthusiastic, others think I'm a prude, because they use their own metrics. |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"Good at sex...but what makes someone 'good'. One persons good might be another persons not so good. Sex is different with different people.
I think being 'good' is being able to adapt to a partner and get in sync quickly and responsively."
I agree that definitely plays a large part in it but there are a few other factors. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 37 weeks ago
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"Some are some aren't.... I have no particular opinion about whether I am or not... it's like when I get asked if I'm good at sucking cock... that's really not for me to say... "
I bet you are  |
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I've often wondered why so many on here believe there is a direct link between an ability to take great pics and being good in bed or that looking like a supermodel is a guarantee of a decent shag.
There have been lots of status updates and forum comments over the years from people bemoaning the fact they struggle to get repeat meets and it's all someone else's fault.
Have they considered that maybe they were a shit shag and the people who don't want to meet them a second time have good reason not to?
It's not just men who talk a good game.
I've never been disappointed with any fab meet but then again I don't have a rating system and don't take it too seriously or get my knickers in a twist if someone chooses not to meet me again for whatever reason. |
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