FabSwingers.com > Forums > The Lounge > Sir boss daddy….
Sir boss daddy….
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By *rHotNotts OP Man 37 weeks ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
I was having a conversation earlier that outside of the UK it’s so common and very normal to be called sir or boss in every day life, that it’s not at all special in the bedroom. Many people also dislike using the term Daddy.
What other common names are there for a girl to call her man ? Especially in D/s type relationships
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
|
I don’t use the term daddy. But she should….. 
I call my boss, boss to wind him up. A bit like ‘yes chef!’ When someone is cooking with me. It’s a laugh, but we know I’m right. 
It’s very official, and using Sir, I don’t think I ever have. … again, she should…
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I don’t use the term daddy. But she should…..
I call my boss, boss to wind him up. A bit like ‘yes chef!’ When someone is cooking with me. It’s a laugh, but we know I’m right.
It’s very official, and using Sir, I don’t think I ever have. … again, she should…
"
Yes sir   |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *rHotNotts OP Man 37 weeks ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"I don’t use the term daddy. But she should…..
I call my boss, boss to wind him up. A bit like ‘yes chef!’ When someone is cooking with me. It’s a laugh, but we know I’m right.
It’s very official, and using Sir, I don’t think I ever have. … again, she should…
"
Agreed- if I call my boss boss I’m taking the piss. And I would never call anyone sir. Both are very normal in Africa and Asia |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I don’t use the term daddy. But she should…..
I call my boss, boss to wind him up. A bit like ‘yes chef!’ When someone is cooking with me. It’s a laugh, but we know I’m right.
It’s very official, and using Sir, I don’t think I ever have. … again, she should…
Agreed- if I call my boss boss I’m taking the piss. And I would never call anyone sir. Both are very normal in Africa and Asia"
Throwback from colonialisation ? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *rHotNotts OP Man 37 weeks ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"I don’t use the term daddy. But she should…..
I call my boss, boss to wind him up. A bit like ‘yes chef!’ When someone is cooking with me. It’s a laugh, but we know I’m right.
It’s very official, and using Sir, I don’t think I ever have. … again, she should…
Agreed- if I call my boss boss I’m taking the piss. And I would never call anyone sir. Both are very normal in Africa and Asia
Throwback from colonialisation ?"
I guess partly it has to be - but not just British colonialism. It’s become very normalised customer service. Personally I do not like it in or out of the bedroom. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *rHotNotts OP Man 37 weeks ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"
Throwback from colonialisation ?
Yes. I am uncomfortable when a Gambian calls me bosslady. "
Ma’am is very popular And lots of female bosses requite it out of respect, I dint like that
Boss Lady is a horrible term And refers to a woman who owns female sex workers |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *sWyldWoman 37 weeks ago
Edinburgh |
Personally sone of those terms give me the 'ick'
If I'm being particularly flirty I sometimes like to use their surname. Mr....
I guess because I'm not really in to the D/S dynamic, I'd find sir or Master a bit off putting.
That being said, one person used to call me goddess and I liked it.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"If the term "daddy" was ever used in a sexual situation I was in then everything would come to a complete halt, it's an instant turn off for me....
Sir however....well that's a whole other story x"
I was probably never completely comfortable with the term but thought it went the territory in my previous kinky life and was meant to be wornlike a badge of honour. The more someone uses it the more uncomfortable I became. To me it became synomous with someone being completely dependant and unable to function independently without constant instruction, which can be a nice thing, but 24/7 was just not something I enjoyed.
Easy
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Personally sone of those terms give me the 'ick'
If I'm being particularly flirty I sometimes like to use their surname. Mr....
I guess because I'm not really in to the D/S dynamic, I'd find sir or Master a bit off putting.
That being said, one person used to call me goddess and I liked it.
"
That sounds pretty awesome "well, hello Mr ______, do come in and make yourself comfortable" *Flutters eyelids*, would be remarkably sexy
Easy |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *eladeCouple 37 weeks ago
hull |
I always call my bf daddy, But when around friends/family I call him by his name.
But find myself craving to call him daddy.
In public when it’s just use I still call him daddy and am his babygirl. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
|
"I was having a conversation earlier that outside of the UK it’s so common and very normal to be called sir or boss in every day life, that it’s not at all special in the bedroom. Many people also dislike using the term Daddy.
What other common names are there for a girl to call her man ? Especially in D/s type relationships
"
Someone mentioned Master and Mister... Mr Hotnotts (ie, their surname). The only others I can think of would be my Lord / Liege?
Personally I use Daddy or Mr xx for my DD... Other people would be Sir - but never Master, as i already have a DD
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
|
I call the corner shop or chicken shop man - boss/ bossman. If anyone ever called me that in a sexy way I’d instantly go flaccid. Maybe I’d vomit too but I can’t be sure and don’t want to be dramatic. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
|
"I was having a conversation earlier that outside of the UK it’s so common and very normal to be called sir or boss in every day life, that it’s not at all special in the bedroom. Many people also dislike using the term Daddy.
What other common names are there for a girl to call her man ? Especially in D/s type relationships
Someone mentioned Master and Mister... Mr Hotnotts (ie, their surname). The only others I can think of would be my Lord / Liege?
Personally I use Daddy or Mr xx for my DD... Other people would be Sir - but never Master, as i already have a DD
"
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
|
"I call the corner shop or chicken shop man - boss/ bossman. If anyone ever called me that in a sexy way I’d instantly go flaccid. Maybe I’d vomit too but I can’t be sure and don’t want to be dramatic. "
That's the thing with kinks - you either have them, or you don't  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
" If anyone ever called me that in a sexy way I’d instantly go flaccid.
That's the thing with kinks - you either have them, or you don't "
That's the thing with erections - you either have them, or you don't |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *rHotNotts OP Man 37 weeks ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"I always call my bf daddy, But when around friends/family I call him by his name.
But find myself craving to call him daddy.
In public when it’s just use I still call him daddy and am his babygirl."
That’s so sweet  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
|
" If anyone ever called me that in a sexy way I’d instantly go flaccid.
That's the thing with kinks - you either have them, or you don't
That's the thing with erections - you either have them, or you don't "
That’s the thing with a woman, you either have one or you don’t |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Would depend entirely on the dynamic, if DDlg then Daddy would be most appropriate. If Ms then Master. Maybe because I'm in the UK I've always been either Sir, Master or Daddy. Occasionally God but not sure that was actually aimed at me lmao. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
|
"I call the corner shop or chicken shop man - boss/ bossman. If anyone ever called me that in a sexy way I’d instantly go flaccid. Maybe I’d vomit too but I can’t be sure and don’t want to be dramatic.
That's the thing with kinks - you either have them, or you don't "
I don’t think it’s a thing about kink in this case. Yes admittedly I don’t like being called daddy by anyone other than my daughter or my partner in the context of talking to my daughter but I would not vomit if someone called me that. And this (clearly bad) joke I made is actually more about the meaning of the word to me than it is about kink. If someone called me bossman or boss in any circumstance other than, an interaction in a corner shop I’m fairly certain that I’d vomit. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
|
"I call the corner shop or chicken shop man - boss/ bossman. If anyone ever called me that in a sexy way I’d instantly go flaccid. Maybe I’d vomit too but I can’t be sure and don’t want to be dramatic.
That's the thing with kinks - you either have them, or you don't I don’t think it’s a thing about kink in this case. Yes admittedly I don’t like being called daddy by anyone other than my daughter or my partner in the context of talking to my daughter but I would not vomit if someone called me that. And this (clearly bad) joke I made is actually more about the meaning of the word to me than it is about kink. If someone called me bossman or boss in any circumstance other than, an interaction in a corner shop I’m fairly certain that I’d vomit. "
I find it funny when people call me boss |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *rHotNotts OP Man 37 weeks ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Would depend entirely on the dynamic, if DDlg then Daddy would be most appropriate. If Ms then Master. Maybe because I'm in the UK I've always been either Sir, Master or Daddy. Occasionally God but not sure that was actually aimed at me lmao. "
Lol reminds of my first MMF, my mate got a ‘Jesus Christ’ as he fucked my partner , I pointed out I’d only ever gotten a Sir. Gutted  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *rHotNotts OP Man 37 weeks ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"I call the corner shop or chicken shop man - boss/ bossman. If anyone ever called me that in a sexy way I’d instantly go flaccid. Maybe I’d vomit too but I can’t be sure and don’t want to be dramatic.
That's the thing with kinks - you either have them, or you don't I don’t think it’s a thing about kink in this case. Yes admittedly I don’t like being called daddy by anyone other than my daughter or my partner in the context of talking to my daughter but I would not vomit if someone called me that. And this (clearly bad) joke I made is actually more about the meaning of the word to me than it is about kink. If someone called me bossman or boss in any circumstance other than, an interaction in a corner shop I’m fairly certain that I’d vomit. "
That’s how I felt the very first time I went to Nigeria , I hated it. I still don’t like it now, boss, Sir , boss man , Even though from a lot of people its said in genuine respect/friendship , It’s just plain wrong. Well it took me a while to understand is the dynamic between a boss and staff in Africa you are literally responsible for their financial well-being I’m expect you to all of this way beyond and way after the terms of an employment contract |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
|
"I call the corner shop or chicken shop man - boss/ bossman. If anyone ever called me that in a sexy way I’d instantly go flaccid. Maybe I’d vomit too but I can’t be sure and don’t want to be dramatic.
That's the thing with kinks - you either have them, or you don't I don’t think it’s a thing about kink in this case. Yes admittedly I don’t like being called daddy by anyone other than my daughter or my partner in the context of talking to my daughter but I would not vomit if someone called me that. And this (clearly bad) joke I made is actually more about the meaning of the word to me than it is about kink. If someone called me bossman or boss in any circumstance other than, an interaction in a corner shop I’m fairly certain that I’d vomit.
I find it funny when people call me boss "
Noted |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
|
"I call the corner shop or chicken shop man - boss/ bossman. If anyone ever called me that in a sexy way I’d instantly go flaccid. Maybe I’d vomit too but I can’t be sure and don’t want to be dramatic.
That's the thing with kinks - you either have them, or you don't I don’t think it’s a thing about kink in this case. Yes admittedly I don’t like being called daddy by anyone other than my daughter or my partner in the context of talking to my daughter but I would not vomit if someone called me that. And this (clearly bad) joke I made is actually more about the meaning of the word to me than it is about kink. If someone called me bossman or boss in any circumstance other than, an interaction in a corner shop I’m fairly certain that I’d vomit.
That’s how I felt the very first time I went to Nigeria , I hated it. I still don’t like it now, boss, Sir , boss man , Even though from a lot of people it’s said in genuine respect/friendship , It’s just plain wrong. Well it took me a while to understand is the dynamic between a boss and staff in Africa you are literally responsible for their financial well-being I’m expect you to all of this way beyond and way after the terms of an employment contract"
I can imagine. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I call the corner shop or chicken shop man - boss/ bossman. If anyone ever called me that in a sexy way I’d instantly go flaccid. Maybe I’d vomit too but I can’t be sure and don’t want to be dramatic.
That's the thing with kinks - you either have them, or you don't "
You really got me there |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"
Throwback from colonialisation ?
Yes. I am uncomfortable when a Gambian calls me bosslady.
Ma’am is very popular And lots of female bosses requite it out of respect, I dint like that
Boss Lady is a horrible term And refers to a woman who owns female sex workers "
I get called Ma'am a lot in work. It's to the point I've had to request that they don't, but it's really ingrained  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
