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By *ickD80Man 37 weeks ago
Wolverhampton |
Little heads up….if a man says that the first thing he noticed about you was your eyes then he’s most likely lying as he know if he tells you the truth and says your boobs then you’ll be annoyed…..or he can’t remember what the first thing he noticed was…..saying your eyes is the go-to answer. |
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"Little heads up….if a man says that the first thing he noticed about you was your eyes then he’s most likely lying as he know if he tells you the truth and says your boobs then you’ll be annoyed…..or he can’t remember what the first thing he noticed was…..saying your eyes is the go-to answer. "
I always notice a woman’s eyes and smile before anything else. Tells me what they are like as a person. |
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By *ickD80Man 37 weeks ago
Wolverhampton |
"Little heads up….if a man says that the first thing he noticed about you was your eyes then he’s most likely lying as he know if he tells you the truth and says your boobs then you’ll be annoyed…..or he can’t remember what the first thing he noticed was…..saying your eyes is the go-to answer.
I always notice a woman’s eyes and smile before anything else. Tells me what they are like as a person."
Yeah, that’s what men say because they don’t want to say that the first thing they noticed were her boobs….
Someone’s eyes and smile do not tell you what they’re like as a person, how their eyes and smile look is pre determined by genetics, what they’re like as a person is heavily influenced by their life experiences, there’s absolutely no connection between the 2. |
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"....notice first or most often about you? For me, it's the wheelie chair I scoot about in, and my eyes, apparently.
You?"
Depends which mask I am projecting that day and why.
Complete strangers get the ambivalent, blend-in, try not be seen mask.
The mask changes depending on longevity of association.
I was at an event a few weeks ago with several groups of people, some of who have known me for over 10 years, some for less than a year. So the constant need for mask-changing going from group to group was mentally challenging. It's a defence strategy. I am aware some people are the same across the board, but I don't understand how they can do that. |
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"Little heads up….if a man says that the first thing he noticed about you was your eyes then he’s most likely lying as he know if he tells you the truth and says your boobs then you’ll be annoyed…..or he can’t remember what the first thing he noticed was…..saying your eyes is the go-to answer.
I always notice a woman’s eyes and smile before anything else. Tells me what they are like as a person.
Yeah, that’s what men say because they don’t want to say that the first thing they noticed were her boobs….
Someone’s eyes and smile do not tell you what they’re like as a person, how their eyes and smile look is pre determined by genetics, what they’re like as a person is heavily influenced by their life experiences, there’s absolutely no connection between the 2. "
It works for me, and other people I know. We can instantly see if someone is loyal, kind , reliable etc or the opposite
I’ve done it on here and been proven correct time and time and time again
I look at peoples faces first do you want to choose to believe something else I’m not really interested in your opinion |
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"Little heads up….if a man says that the first thing he noticed about you was your eyes then he’s most likely lying as he know if he tells you the truth and says your boobs then you’ll be annoyed…..or he can’t remember what the first thing he noticed was…..saying your eyes is the go-to answer.
I always notice a woman’s eyes and smile before anything else. Tells me what they are like as a person.
Yeah, that’s what men say because they don’t want to say that the first thing they noticed were her boobs….
Someone’s eyes and smile do not tell you what they’re like as a person, how their eyes and smile look is pre determined by genetics, what they’re like as a person is heavily influenced by their life experiences, there’s absolutely no connection between the 2. "
Just because you might go around staring at strangers tits don’t assume that everybody else does! Men are not all the same.
A persons face tells you a huge amount about their personality and character, which is of course shaped by their life experiences, but it’s impossible to hide this. Experiences of hurt & pain manifest in one of two ways, Forgiveness or bitterness and that is one of the first things I see in a persons eyes. |
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By *ickD80Man 37 weeks ago
Wolverhampton |
"Little heads up….if a man says that the first thing he noticed about you was your eyes then he’s most likely lying as he know if he tells you the truth and says your boobs then you’ll be annoyed…..or he can’t remember what the first thing he noticed was…..saying your eyes is the go-to answer.
I always notice a woman’s eyes and smile before anything else. Tells me what they are like as a person.
Yeah, that’s what men say because they don’t want to say that the first thing they noticed were her boobs….
Someone’s eyes and smile do not tell you what they’re like as a person, how their eyes and smile look is pre determined by genetics, what they’re like as a person is heavily influenced by their life experiences, there’s absolutely no connection between the 2.
Just because you might go around staring at strangers tits don’t assume that everybody else does! Men are not all the same.
A persons face tells you a huge amount about their personality and character, which is of course shaped by their life experiences, but it’s impossible to hide this. Experiences of hurt & pain manifest in one of two ways, Forgiveness or bitterness and that is one of the first things I see in a persons eyes."
So you’re saying that when someone experiences hurt or pain of some kind it affects the way they look? And you’re able to tell how they’ve coped with those experiences from the way they look? A painful experience for me was when my Nan died, she died of old age at the age of 92, I was very close to her so it was painful to lose her. But i haven’t been left with a feeling of bitterness or forgiveness because there’s no one or nothing to be bitter about or to forgive because it was just her time to go…so how would that have affected the way I look? What feelings will you see in my eyes from that? Maybe you think that you can tell what sort of a person someone is from their eyes but you’re just guessing, you can’t tell for sure. You either don’t understand genetics and biology or you’re just ignoring it and making up your own theories for what determines the way someone looks.
Also to say that experiences of pain and hurt manifest themselves in just 2 ways is completely oversimplifying a very complicated and sometimes traumatic experience for people. People can be left with feelings of anxiety which is neither bitterness or forgiving, people can be both bitter and forgiving if you’re angry at someone who hurt you but you understand why they did it, people can feel empowered to move on and help others who have experienced similar pain without forgiving the person who hurt them…. |
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"My eyes, my boobs, my arse. In that order 
My eyes, my face, my smile, my cock. In that order 
Such a terrible burden when ye simply don't comprehend that to others,
this maybe true...
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...And only a prick would say that of course |
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By *eliWoman 37 weeks ago
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The vast majority of people from here notice my boobs first. Yep, including the ones who (would) say they notice eyes/smile first - in person they've stood flustered for a minute and just stared at them without forming coherent sentences. Them being my boobs, not my eyes.
Don't believe everything you read on here.
Generally though, I'd say my eyes. Or my hair.
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"....notice first or most often about you? For me, it's the wheelie chair I scoot about in, and my eyes, apparently.
You?"
You do have nice eyes.
But whenever I’ve seen you, I’ve always noticed how nice you look before a notice your eyes. You always really dress up, and you always look on point.  |
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By *sWyldWoman 37 weeks ago
Edinburgh |
At work it's my way with people. I get told that a lot.
In other situations, I've no idds.no one has ever told me.
Physically I'd guess it's probably by boobs which is a bit sad but I guess you can't miss them |
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"The vast majority of people from here notice my boobs first. Yep, including the ones who (would) say they notice eyes/smile first - in person they've stood flustered for a minute and just stared at them without forming coherent sentences. Them being my boobs, not my eyes.
Don't believe everything you read on here.
Generally though, I'd say my eyes. Or my hair.
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There’s a big difference between what you notice first and what you can’t take your eyes off later |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"At work it's my way with people. I get told that a lot.
In other situations, I've no idds.no one has ever told me.
Physically I'd guess it's probably by boobs which is a bit sad but I guess you can't miss them "
A man will always notice your figure. Fact , and then he looks for what’s important to him, and it’s that what he finds, which holds his gaze.  |
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I fell asleep after posting this!
Lots of people's eyes seem to be noticed, and I know many do subscribe to the saying that "eyes are the windows to the soul".
And thanks Woody for your lovely words about my dress sense
I should have added what is noticed about Mr KC - usually his high height, slimness and sharp dressing. |
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I think I might be one of those people without one single remarkable feature so they tend to notice a small person first. Unless I have my excellent new boots with chains on them, then they notice them |
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By *a LunaWoman 37 weeks ago
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My height.
It’s quite rude really. I’d never comment on how short I think someone is, how slim or fat a person is, but apparently it’s fair game to comment (sometimes unkindly) about being tall.
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"My height.
It’s quite rude really. I’d never comment on how short I think someone is, how slim or fat a person is, but apparently it’s fair game to comment (sometimes unkindly) about being tall.
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Yes, it's something Mr KC has had to learn to tolerate. Lots of jokes about the "air up there" etc  |
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"My height.
It’s quite rude really. I’d never comment on how short I think someone is, how slim or fat a person is, but apparently it’s fair game to comment (sometimes unkindly) about being tall.
Must be me then.
I actually enjoy making a snarky comment if someone is clinically obese/really fucking ugly - or both xx...
And before the pile on, yes, I AM a prick...thank you...
Just a quick question to OP though:
Is it not hoeever worse...to be a fucking moron...regardless of how good looking He/She/They/Cat Spirit Animal is... etcetera...?
Yes, it's something Mr KC has had to learn to tolerate. Lots of jokes about the "air up there" etc "
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"My height.
It’s quite rude really. I’d never comment on how short I think someone is, how slim or fat a person is, but apparently it’s fair game to comment (sometimes unkindly) about being tall.
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Nope. Definitely those eyes and that smile.
Actually it may have been the anorak |
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By *aizyWoman 37 weeks ago
west midlands |
"No word of a lie; a fair amount of people comment on my balls
As they show through some trousers I wear 
Socially probably my eyes  "
How tight are your keks?? Don't answer that just put a pic up! |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"No word of a lie; a fair amount of people comment on my balls
As they show through some trousers I wear
Socially probably my eyes
How tight are your keks?? Don't answer that just put a pic up! "
I’ll get right on it |
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