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By *TK421-Man 50 weeks ago
Cheltenham |
I'm a massive winker myself. Steady....
I think though the vast majority get ignored and that's fine. I think it's better to break the ice with and let them wink back before first messaging. Kida let's you know if they are interested. |
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By (user no longer on site) 50 weeks ago
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"You know that feeling when you’d open the living room door as a kid to see all your Xmas presents. That’s the feeling I get when I see ‘1 new wink’. " aye men
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By *iasubTV/TS 50 weeks ago
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It really depends on who sends. For me i like them its a easy way to show interest without having the akward no thank you
But i hate the one that send a wink friends request and message at the same time. That kind of defeats the purpose |
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By (user no longer on site) 50 weeks ago
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I never send a wink as I imagine it would just drown in a sea of winks and messages but I like receiving them and profile says that I'm happy for them to wink because it means I can send a first message knowing that there's interest already there ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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"I never send a wink as I imagine it would just drown in a sea of winks and messages but I like receiving them and profile says that I'm happy for them to wink because it means I can send a first message knowing that there's interest already there "
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By (user no longer on site) 50 weeks ago
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"I rarely check them and never respond."
Yeah I tend to ignore them. Once in a blue moon someone’s profile pic might grab my attention and I’ll click on them but rarely engage with winks |
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I like them . And use them. I see so many men troubled with the pressure of writing innovative messages, the majority of which will get no replies . Yet a wink takes a couple of minutes.
I encourage anyone who's open to getting them, to state this |
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