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By *agnar73 OP Man 38 weeks ago
glasgow-ish |
"It really depends as i have had amazing kinky meets where no sex has happened so in that sense the vanilla knowledge wouldnt matter anyway "
As one offs or as a lead up to something with more sex? |
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It shouldn’t matter. Enjoy what you like and meet people who also enjoy what you like. If you click, you click and it will be good. If you don’t, consider moving on.
Goodness is in the eye of the beholder. |
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By *agnar73 OP Man 38 weeks ago
glasgow-ish |
"Ah, but what is vanilla?
We will all have very different interpretations! "
Also what is kink? As someone alluded to above.
I think expectations of what are ‘the basics’ would vary heavily too. |
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"It really depends as i have had amazing kinky meets where no sex has happened so in that sense the vanilla knowledge wouldnt matter anyway
As one offs or as a lead up to something with more sex?"
For lifestyle kinky people (not bedroom only kink), kink does not have to include sex. We do plenty of kink that doesn't lead to sex, for example, rules not been followed will lead to a punishment, this is kink, it has no sexual element to it and will not lead to any sex. |
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By *sWyldWoman 38 weeks ago
Edinburgh |
Personally I think everyone is too hung up on labels and terminology.
I just want to meet people I have some chemistry with, the attraction and that thrill of first kisses that leave us wanting more.
Whatever happens next could be somewhere and anywhere on the whole spectrum of fuckery.
So long as there's mutual respect, we are reading each other well and both equally enjoying whatever happens then I'm happy. |
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