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By (user no longer on site) OP    47 weeks ago

I'm absolutely naff at reading signs.

I woke on Tuesday morning to find a number of messages and calls from a Female Facebook friend in the middle of the night.

1st message - Hey

2nd -sorry x

3rd - can I ring you please

Then a weirder one saying - we are never on the same page.

Then a little later a missed video call then a voice call.

I sent a message asking if she was OK, I was working from that day if needed to chat.

We have known each other for years and flirted in the past.

She is married (oops I know).

I'm guessing she was just had a few drinks and messed up sending the messages haha

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By *a LunaWoman 47 weeks ago

South Wales

She either wanted a lift and no taxi’s available or it was a booty call or she had a row with her fella and wanted to feel better.

Maybe.

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By *icecouple561Couple 47 weeks ago
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East Sussex

The signs are that there's a whole heap of trouble in store if she's calling in the middle of the night with cryptic messages.

Find out if she's ok, offer advice if asked for, otherwise keep a sensible distance

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By (user no longer on site) OP    47 weeks ago

Thank you. I thought as much , just wanted some other options

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By *iss LovelyWoman 47 weeks ago

Here and There


"The signs are that there's a whole heap of trouble in store if she's calling in the middle of the night with cryptic messages.

Find out if she's ok, offer advice if asked for, otherwise keep a sensible distance "

I this covers it

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By *icecouple561Couple 47 weeks ago
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East Sussex

I always wonder in cases like this if the person reaching out is in some sort of trouble or danger. But once I've made sure they're not I tend to avoid the kind of drama this kind of thing attracts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP    47 weeks ago


"The signs are that there's a whole heap of trouble in store if she's calling in the middle of the night with cryptic messages.

Find out if she's ok, offer advice if asked for, otherwise keep a sensible distance

I this covers it "

Perfect Advice and will be keeping my distance.

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By *viatrixWoman 47 weeks ago

Redhill

That many messages too gives me the creeps.

Stay away!

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By *issmorganWoman 47 weeks ago

Calderdale innit


"The signs are that there's a whole heap of trouble in store if she's calling in the middle of the night with cryptic messages.

Find out if she's ok, offer advice if asked for, otherwise keep a sensible distance "

Sensible advice as ever from Mrs N

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